What happened to RObert MAyer?
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1293 Jun 28, 2014
Or Lisa , maybe he went home after the scrap yard and put his stuff down just like any other day, and maybe she had someone waiting in there while she who was always home at that time , stayed away and maybe he was either taken ( like maybe HE was in the back seat) or was subdued and taken in another vehicle while someone smaller drove his car and they left it locked at the station and put him somewhere he will never be found. Maybe that's what went on. We may never know. But I do know that a wife that's distraught over a missing spouse wouldn't go to a Justin bieber concert how distraught was she ?? And an 11. Yr old. S surely old enough to understand why you wouldn't go
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#1294 Jun 29, 2014
Sam bee--and to jump from that----an 11 year old whose father is truly "missing" would not want to go to a concert---JMO
SusieSam Afungus

Huntington Beach, CA

#1295 Jun 29, 2014
Carolyn wrote:
Sam bee--and to jump from that----an 11 year old whose father is truly "missing" would not want to go to a concert---JMO
Now you're attacking her daughter?? You people are sick.
Lisa

Bayonne, NJ

#1296 Jun 29, 2014
SusieSam Afungus wrote:
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Now you're attacking her daughter?? You people are sick.
How is pointing out actions that she shared publicly attacking her daughter!
You are all so defensive of her especially behind fake names!
SusieSam Afungus

Huntington Beach, CA

#1297 Jun 29, 2014
Lisa wrote:
<quoted text>
How is pointing out actions that she shared publicly attacking her daughter!
You are all so defensive of her especially behind fake names!

Fake names? And who might you be?
How is it not attacking her daughter? The implication is there that she knows her father is wait her ok or that Her mother killed him.
See You Next Tuesday

United States

#1298 Jun 29, 2014
Dan wrote:
...Long Islanders don't use the term "train depot". To us, it is a ""train station".
Hence, lingo and mannerisms do matter.
He sounds like any other guy from Long Island...
SusieSam Afungus

Huntington Beach, CA

#1299 Jun 29, 2014
SusieSam Afungus wrote:
<quoted text>
Fake names? And who might you be?
How is it not attacking her daughter? The implication is there that she knows her father is wait her ok or that Her mother killed him.
*either ok
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#1300 Jun 29, 2014
See You Next Tuesday wrote:
<quoted text>
He sounds like any other guy from Long Island...
Lol if you all only put as much effort into describing him and some habits and actually locating the man as you do telling off people with difference of opinions and name calling maybe there would be some leads or better yet he would be found
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1301 Jun 29, 2014
Lisa I agree with you Any kid I know wouldn't have the least interest in going to a concert if their dad was missing. But I think that's the moms doing. You know. Oh. Let's go anyway. Not the kids fault. And you calling people sick. Another one from California. Are you all related in your adamant defense of a woman you all porportedly ont know.
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#1302 Jun 30, 2014
Talking to a friend of mine who happens to be a teacher in the school and hubby is a NYC detective ..was telling her about this site actually. They were saying how they find it so crAzy that Ida hasn't said a word about dateline. Not a single word !
We were saying, sadly the only way we will ever know anything is through tom ... She will prob never give info again... Which has already been the case for months .
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#1303 Jun 30, 2014
Carolyn wrote:
Sam bee--and to jump from that----an 11 year old whose father is truly "missing" would not want to go to a concert---JMO
Wow. Judge an 11 year old girl. Classy.
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#1304 Jun 30, 2014
Lisa --- has Ida been contacted by Dateline???

And no one is attcking children--its been my opinion that the kids know alot more than we are led to believe. What is "sick" is that a parent would put so much responsibility and potential guilt on their childrens' shoulders.
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1305 Jun 30, 2014
I am not talking about a child. , genius, I am talking about a mom who says yes let's go to the concert , 2 weeks after the father mysteriously goes missing. Kids that age do what their parent tells them to do. And apparently this mom was so distraught that she thought that was a good idea. This was a couple of weeks in , remember , not. Months or a year later. Or maybe he had done it before, contrary to the never away one nite in 18 hrs story. Like a drug binge in the past and stayed away a couple of days or weeks. Just guessing of course, but I think the behavior in the immediate aftermath was quite strange
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1306 Jun 30, 2014
Not hrs. Years. Sry
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1307 Jun 30, 2014
Exactly. If your mom says we go to concert 11 year olds do what mom says.
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#1308 Jun 30, 2014
Lee Jay--not judging a child---this is about the child's mother and what the mother has and is doing to her child/children.
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#1309 Jun 30, 2014
Carolyn wrote:
Lee Jay--not judging a child---this is about the child's mother and what the mother has and is doing to her child/children.
What the mother is doing is trying to keep life as normal as possible for her children.
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1310 Jun 30, 2014
That would be understandable by many ,now more than a year later. But a couple of weeks after June 14th?? Understandable by few. Sorry , when your husband disappeared 2 weeks aga. Life is anything but normal for anyone in a family. Very strange behavior in my opinion
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1311 Jun 30, 2014
It reminds me of the husband going out partying a few weeks after the wife is missing. Drew Peterson. Ing shy bells anyone???
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1312 Jun 30, 2014
Ring any bells? Sorry typo

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