What happened to RObert MAyer?
Lee Jay

Huntington, NY

#1072 Jun 16, 2014
xheraldina wrote:
No one throws party for 1 year anniversary with ids swimming in a pool. while parents were at the tiki bar when the husband (father) is missing or when you assume he left on his own volition.
One throws party only to celebrate the freedom gained.
Was Ida's basement searched?
You were there?
xheraldina

Linz, Austria

#1073 Jun 16, 2014
Lee Jay wrote:
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You were there?
obviously Ida din't celebrate alone
what kind of celebration would that be
she needs to show others how relieved she feels
:)
Lee Jay

Huntington, NY

#1074 Jun 16, 2014
xheraldina wrote:
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obviously Ida din't celebrate alone
what kind of celebration would that be
she needs to show others how relieved she feels
:)
I'll say it again. It was not a celebration in the context that Tom made it sound like. It was an invite only gathering, releasing balloons, then back to the house. It was a tribute to Rob, the husband, the father, the friend.

Believe what you want to believe, twist what you want to twist, rub your hands together and gossip.
xheraldina

Linz, Austria

#1075 Jun 16, 2014
Lee Jay wrote:
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I'll say it again. It was not a celebration in the context that Tom made it sound like. It was an invite only gathering, releasing balloons, then back to the house. It was a tribute to Rob, the husband, the father, the friend.
Believe what you want to believe, twist what you want to twist, rub your hands together and gossip.
are you trying to say that you were there?
Lisa

New York, NY

#1076 Jun 16, 2014
Lee Jay wrote:
<quoted text>
I'll say it again. It was not a celebration in the context that Tom made it sound like. It was an invite only gathering, releasing balloons, then back to the house. It was a tribute to Rob, the husband, the father, the friend.
Believe what you want to believe, twist what you want to twist, rub your hands together and gossip.
Clearly if people were sending tom pics of the event, they too felt it was inappropriate !!! Maybe fliers should of been out up instead of letting balloons go!
Lee Jay

Huntington, NY

#1077 Jun 16, 2014
xheraldina wrote:
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are you trying to say that you were there?
Yes, I was there.
Lee Jay

Huntington, NY

#1078 Jun 16, 2014
Lisa wrote:
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Clearly if people were sending tom pics of the event, they too felt it was inappropriate !!! Maybe fliers should of been out up instead of letting balloons go!
Fliers were given out, taped up, put on cars at the train station, Home Depot, Tanger.
Tom

Sound Beach, NY

#1079 Jun 16, 2014
Don't waste your time arguing with Jason Parmelee. He did not know my family before this tragic event and truly thinks he is helping in a sad way. We don't have time to waste on him. He does not have the facts that we have. He has what he has been told.
Dan

Huntington Station, NY

#1080 Jun 16, 2014
Tom wrote:
Don't waste your time arguing with Jason Parmelee. He did not know my family before this tragic event and truly thinks he is helping in a sad way. We don't have time to waste on him. He does not have the facts that we have. He has what he has been told.
What can we do to help?
Tom

Sound Beach, NY

#1081 Jun 16, 2014
Dan, I have been working on a true FB search page. With all the real info on it. The facts are being reviewed by my family first and than on to the police to be checked. Once all the ok's are in we will open to the public and ask everyone to share it all around world. We will have muliti-language Fliers that people can print and hand out. It is taking time. So I have no release date.
Dan

Huntington Station, NY

#1082 Jun 16, 2014
Tom wrote:
Dan, I have been working on a true FB search page. With all the real info on it. The facts are being reviewed by my family first and than on to the police to be checked. Once all the ok's are in we will open to the public and ask everyone to share it all around world. We will have muliti-language Fliers that people can print and hand out. It is taking time. So I have no release date.
That is great news.
Glad to hear your family is taking charge.
I believe I speak for all of the secret FB page refugees when I say that you can
Count on us to help spread the word.
Lisa

Elmont, NY

#1083 Jun 16, 2014
Dan wrote:
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That is great news.
Glad to hear your family is taking charge.
I believe I speak for all of the secret FB page refugees when I say that you can
Count on us to help spread the word.
Well said Dan! Like I've said before I am local and can def hang new fliers and have a lot of fAmily down south who would def do the same.... Hopefully with a functioning page you will all get some answers here and speaking the truth will give you all ( robs family) some peace of mind!
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1084 Jun 16, 2014
Tom, maybe you can get a national tv channel NBC, CBS to air an appeal to the public and to your brother if he's out.there maybe with your mom That would be seen everywhere. Like they do on Americas most wanted
Minion 1

Murrieta, CA

#1085 Jun 16, 2014
Tom wrote:
Dan, I have been working on a true FB search page. With all the real info on it. The facts are being reviewed by my family first and than on to the police to be checked. Once all the ok's are in we will open to the public and ask everyone to share it all around world. We will have muliti-language Fliers that people can print and hand out. It is taking time. So I have no release date.
What do you think you'll achieve? What you think you'll do that hasn't already been done? If another page will help find Rob, more power to you. But by judging what your 'Followers' spout, it appears it will another hate page and bitchfest, a lot of what is already here. I'm sure you'll achieve a lot doing that. I promise you, you will hate yourself for it because all it will achieve is mudslinging and nobody looking for Rob.

Btw, it really doesn't take much to 'work' on a Page. A couple of minutes. Or are you just pacifying your Followers.
Minion 1

Murrieta, CA

#1086 Jun 16, 2014
Tom wrote:
Don't waste your time arguing with Jason Parmelee. He did not know my family before this tragic event and truly thinks he is helping in a sad way. We don't have time to waste on him. He does not have the facts that we have. He has what he has been told.
OMG really? Nice defense tactic.

I really wanted to like you but you are really making that difficult. You know, you think you're helping, that is what's really sad. I know a lot about you, you know nothing about me. I probably know more about Rob than his own brother.

Since you're casting stones, where were you on June 14, 2013. Can you confirm your whereabouts? Can Christine? Do you see what I am getting at? All you have is speculation. And more speculation. And mud. You can make your 'suggestions' that Ida knows more but fail to present any real tangible evidence. You're only butt hurt because she removed from the page. She removed people that didn't support her. Another name for that it 'Spies'. I guess like the spies you had at her (and your brother's) home. But really?

You say you have 'info' and "It's coming soon". Maybe you should be giving that to the detective? Not on some forum or FB. I don't know, just some advice. Or...did the detective already rebuke it?

In the end, a brother and his brother's wife and their children are missing thier Dad. Isn't it time to start focusing on him? Instead we focus on who's got the dirt, who's got the past, who did and didn't do what, who said this or that.

But you'd rather play Detective. Honestly Tom, you should probably put away your sand toys first.

Maybe if you actually tried to work together, Rob may have been found by now.
Lisa

Elmont, NY

#1087 Jun 16, 2014
Minion 1 wrote:
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What do you think you'll achieve? What you think you'll do that hasn't already been done? If another page will help find Rob, more power to you. But by judging what your 'Followers' spout, it appears it will another hate page and bitchfest, a lot of what is already here. I'm sure you'll achieve a lot doing that. I promise you, you will hate yourself for it because all it will achieve is mudslinging and nobody looking for Rob.
Btw, it really doesn't take much to 'work' on a Page. A couple of minutes. Or are you just pacifying your Followers.
I'm sure this is foreign to you so you can't understand it to well, but I believe Tom said it will be the TRUTH! Ahhh imagine that , a page with real facts where people ( aka the missing mans own family ) will not be thrown off or shutdown for speaking the TRUTH! A page that actually isn't "secret" and can be circulated far and wide with the TRUTH!!
And followers? Ummm we were discussjng already here when Tom said his peace , how is that following ?!?!
You leach onto cases minion and not very well , I've googled your name, seems you are not all that useful!
Sue

Commack, NY

#1088 Jun 16, 2014
Wow Minion, so you THINK you know a lot about Tom? Whatever you Think You Know comes from Ida so don't even GO there. What we All do know about YOU is you're one gullible fool,because you are the one buying into all the lies that Ida has told. Don't even try & ask "What Lies"? That would just be laughable. When did You find out that Rob had a drug problem? When did you find out he & Ida weren't living the perfect life? Like she claimed to be. Bet you knew nothing of that until his family spoke out with the Truth! As for Tom focusing on HIS brother, it seems to me that is exactly what He is doing.....Also, Tom did say "the info is getting reviewed by his family & THEN the Police".(DID YOU NOT READ & UNDERSTAND THAT)? Once he gets all the OK's the facts will be published. What's the matter Minion? Is Ida getting nervous about the TRUTH being told? I'm sure that Rob's family tried working together with Ida until it became apparent that she was NOT being honest.....As for removing HIS family from her support page....NO BIG DEAL....They are Actually trying to find their Brother and probably care less at this point about belonging to Ida's Fan Club. One more thing, It is YOU & one or two more of Ida's followers that are Spouting Hate, Bitching & Spying on Here! But, I'm sure that Rob's family having their OWN page should take care of that problem and will just KICK You Off when you try joining Their Group with your multiple aliases.....Your easy to spot Minion & so are your Cohorts.....Oh and if I were Ida and you were my "friends" I would tell you to "Shut the Hell Up" when it comes to Robs Family!!!
Lee Jay

Huntington, NY

#1089 Jun 17, 2014
Tom wrote:
Dan, I have been working on a true FB search page. With all the real info on it. The facts are being reviewed by my family first and than on to the police to be checked. Once all the ok's are in we will open to the public and ask everyone to share it all around world. We will have muliti-language Fliers that people can print and hand out. It is taking time. So I have no release date.
Will this page be under your nom de plume, Bill Pecker/Decker?
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1090 Jun 17, 2014
Lee jay. Are you ida's boyfriend???
Dan

Huntington Station, NY

#1091 Jun 17, 2014
"She removed people that didn't support her."

That, says it all!

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