What happened to RObert MAyer?
Carolyn

Bayonne, NJ

#1031 Jun 12, 2014
Good questions Sam bee---I think some of this was convered in the infamous final long convo between Rob and Ida.

I would think it would fall on Ida for spreading fall info. She is a lawyer albeit a disbarred one. She would know how much and what she could say.
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1032 Jun 12, 2014
I think you are right Carolyn. Tom posted that the story of final evening changed. Isn't it a crime to make a false report to the police? Some people feel they are so smart they can get away with anything ,it seems
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#1033 Jun 12, 2014
Sam bee wrote:
I think you are right Carolyn. Tom posted that the story of final evening changed. Isn't it a crime to make a false report to the police? Some people feel they are so smart they can get away with anything ,it seems
I feel like it all goes back to reputation with her! God forbid anybody knows her husband suffers from addiction, or that they had a fight... In her eyes people would then assume he left her and she can't have that. Sadly her lies and false reality probably are a very real part f his disappearance . Why hasn't she been forthcoming with this info on her fb page?!?!
It's a shame , im sure if she was a little more honest she may have found more support from people in similar situations.
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1034 Jun 12, 2014
I lived with someone who had a drug addiction when you argue about the drug use and ATM withdrawals to finance drugs etc the addict perceives you to be Controlling and gets angry. My case I made him leave but if she was truthful about why he left people would be sympathetic and not judge her It's not a reflection of her being a bad spouse when he has an addiction. All the lies were unnecessary in my opinion. If that is what truly went on
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#1035 Jun 12, 2014
Same here Sam Bee! And living it first hand I can tell you, it's scary how fast people change on drugs. Nothing is as important to them as that drug. Not even family, which is why it's not far fetched that he left in my opinion and why this info changes everything !
I've since worked in rehabs and can tell you if he was in fact there, he would be encouraged to face his family while in a safe place . I highly doubt he is there!
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1036 Jun 13, 2014
Lisa I agree , if he is out there, unharmed by someone in the garage, I think he is now free to do whatever he wants, drugs, whenever he wants , and whatever cash he does earn can go for that addiction with out. Family obligations. Also I had my jewelry taken, checks written and cashed all to buy drugs. And that causes strife in the household, as you know and if he found a companion who shares his addiction it's even easier to leave
xheraldina

Linz, Austria

#1037 Jun 15, 2014
Yesterday was one year since he vanished!
Does anyone know, has it been marked in anyway?
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1038 Jun 15, 2014
Not one word in post , daily news, news day or channel 12 at all. It seems as if it's an accepted fact that he just left and that there's no story to comment on. And apparently , she has finally stopped with the bs theories. Hope he let's his mom know where he is
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#1039 Jun 15, 2014
xheraldina--hi hon!!!!!!!!! smoochers from WS

Happy Fathers Day---Godfathers Day, Brothers Day, Uncles Day, Cousins Day--and in any way it may apply.

And Sam bee---sadly-yes----Rob's disappearance has not been marked on LI at all. Even the Sarah Good murder case is receiving light media treatment at present.
Tom

Bronx, NY

#1040 Jun 16, 2014
I have been kicked out of the search group for my brother. Most likely for posting the truth. That speaks volumes. If any one would like to forward any REAL updates feel free.
Tom

Bronx, NY

#1041 Jun 16, 2014
Also.... There was a memorial ballon lunch at the DPRR station on Saturday.. And a party back at his wife's house afterwards... We were not invited. as a family we mark the said event with a day in church.

We did not feel a celebration was appropriate.
Dan

Newark, NJ

#1042 Jun 16, 2014
@Tom

I am very sorry that you and your family are being treated this way at a most difficult time. It is quite clear, someone has something to hide. If there is anything any of us can do, please, do not hesitate. We are all HERE for the same reason. To find Robert.
SassiLee

Yonkers, NY

#1043 Jun 16, 2014
Tom wrote:
Also.... There was a memorial ballon lunch at the DPRR station on Saturday.. And a party back at his wife's house afterwards... We were not invited. as a family we mark the said event with a day in church.
We did not feel a celebration was appropriate.
There was a PARTY?!!
Christine

Brooklyn, NY

#1044 Jun 16, 2014
My husband and I were kicked off the search page last summer when we questioned her criminal background…court documents don't lie! What she was involved with says volumes about her character…whichever way she wants to spin it she is a convicted FELON!!!!!!
Dawn

Ardsley, NY

#1045 Jun 16, 2014
Tom wrote:
Also.... There was a memorial ballon lunch at the DPRR station on Saturday.. And a party back at his wife's house afterwards... We were not invited. as a family we mark the said event with a day in church.
We did not feel a celebration was appropriate.
Tom I am also sorry for what you and your family is going through. The fact that you have been removed from the group does in fact speak loud volumes. A celebration is definitely not appropriate under the circumstances. What happen to marking the "anniversary" as she put it privately? I truly hope you get some answers soon. I will be keeping my eyes opened as I travel south this summer as I have for the past year. Please let us know if we can do anything else. I am sure you have many people here that will help you.
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#1046 Jun 16, 2014
It was not a "party". There was a balloon launch in tribute to Rob. It was not a "celebration". It was a gathering of those near and dear, who loved and was loved by Rob.
Sam bee

Levittown, NY

#1047 Jun 16, 2014
A party??? Tom , I feel so bad for you and your family especially your mom. Ida sounds like she needs mental help. Nice example for her kids. A party ??? Maybe she knows exactly where he is And exactly what happened a year ago
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#1048 Jun 16, 2014
Sam bee wrote:
A party??? Tom , I feel so bad for you and your family especially your mom. Ida sounds like she needs mental help. Nice example for her kids. A party ??? Maybe she knows exactly where he is And exactly what happened a year ago
Hello, it was not a party. You people hang on Tom's words like they're sacred. Like he knows. Like he was there on Saturday.
Tom

Parlin, NJ

#1049 Jun 16, 2014
Kids swimming in a pool. while parents were at the tiki bar.. Hmmm. Not sure what you call that if its not a party. i was not there... But I had several people send me pictures of the event.
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#1050 Jun 16, 2014
Tom wrote:
Kids swimming in a pool. while parents were at the tiki bar.. Hmmm. Not sure what you call that if its not a party. i was not there... But I had several people send me pictures of the event.
Not a party in the context you are trying to make it out to be. You are trying to twist it into something it was not.

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