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Lisa Watson

Mattituck, NY

#82 Dec 31, 2013
Just assuming considering nothing is going on and the son had pictures of his family and father and took them off, that's all....Just assumed that people put money in the safe with that story of million dollar real estate thing that went on, assume the money was put there. Again, if I had a loved one missing I would be all over the place looking for him and would want help from all over the world, and I have family who post there family pictures all over the place, I guess if it was a happy family...or if my dad was missing I would at least keep that poster printed, I would not delete it, just my opinion only...Do not know other than he left the scrap yard and only the top of his card was seen pulling in the driveway exactly 10 minutes before wife pulls up and leaves the cash, phone and everything else behind, just seems like Ida had to have known something, you don't just run home quick drop off everything and leave...
Lee Jay

Huntington, NY

#83 Jan 2, 2014
Lots of assumptions...but most teenagers, especially boys, don't have family pictures on facebook. What do you mean by Ida had to have known something, do you mean because she wasn't home at the time he came home and left?
Lisa Watson

Sag Harbor, NY

#84 Jan 9, 2014
Lee Jay, I was mentioning the son had pictures of the family and than took them off, he deleted them or someone did......
Yes on the 2nd question, she apparently is always home except for that day and the timing seems odd....
Also all of her questions and answers on FaceBook were all answered in lies in the beginning and than admitted in the end the truth, once a lier and a story teller you will always be one, she did not know about the phone but she did....
Wondering if she can afford that home all by herself....
Does anyone know if she got her or Rob's car back?
Someone I saw on the internet mentioned she purchased the Italy trip the day he went missing, is that true or false?
Wish there was updates, a close friend of mine mentioned this was only going to be in the news for the 2 months til end of summer and than watch it will disappear, why was my friend right?
Lee Jay, you sound like a close friend of Ida or you are Ida, what do you think or is there anyone out there posting is missing flyers? I looked on Missing Persons and does not look like Ida is posting anything, wondering WHY???
Dan

Huntington Station, NY

#85 Jan 9, 2014
Lisa, there are no flyers. No updates. No searches.
Also, why has rob mayer's family NEVER spoken publicly?
Not a word from his mother, sister, brother. Nothing?
If that was my family member you would have to restrain me.
I am curious how your friend knew this would happen.
Lisa Watson

Sag Harbor, NY

#86 Jan 10, 2014
Hi Dan, there are so many people that were on that Facebook Fan Page agree to what you say above also, my friend is actually my boyfriend and he not computer savy but I had talked about this story over and over again all summer, and the first thing he said he is a electrician from New York, Mob first thing he said and mentioned Ida being from Agrentina or her family was and first thing he said he is probably there and when she gets her insurance money after a period of time he is missing she will probably take a trip there and live happily ever after. I also saw on Facebook if Rob need to call his mom, why would the mom change her phone number right away after he went missing, I saw a question someone said since it's mother's birthday maybe he would call his mom and Ida replied that she changed her phone number and that he would not be able to call his own mother, nothing from the family, Ida is all private on Facebook, and the other thing is Ida must have known what was going on because why would some risk to takes Rob's car in a matter of 10 minutes to drop off his phone, money and ID at the house....
Lisa Watson

Sag Harbor, NY

#87 Jan 10, 2014
Did you see on Nancy Grace, a father whom disappeared over 2 years ago , he was a Bank Director and now after thinking Daddy was dead, he was found in Florida as a Pot Farmer, sick people, poor kids, so embarrassing...
Linda

Hopewell Junction, NY

#88 Jan 10, 2014
Carolyn wrote:
Its interesting to say the least Lisa----check WebSleuth---lots of great info there.
Ida is a lawyer and therefore careful on what she reported. She was unprepared I think for the amount of questions that were thrown at her and decided to shut her mouth and not incriminate herself. She had alot of good resources available and did not use them which tell me that she knew he was going and probably helped him leave. He could be in jail, rehab or just left her.
That thread was closed down. I suspect IM had a hand in that
Linda

Hopewell Junction, NY

#89 Jan 10, 2014
Lisa Watson wrote:
Hi Dan, there are so many people that were on that Facebook Fan Page agree to what you say above also, my friend is actually my boyfriend and he not computer savy but I had talked about this story over and over again all summer, and the first thing he said he is a electrician from New York, Mob first thing he said and mentioned Ida being from Agrentina or her family was and first thing he said he is probably there and when she gets her insurance money after a period of time he is missing she will probably take a trip there and live happily ever after. I also saw on Facebook if Rob need to call his mom, why would the mom change her phone number right away after he went missing, I saw a question someone said since it's mother's birthday maybe he would call his mom and Ida replied that she changed her phone number and that he would not be able to call his own mother, nothing from the family, Ida is all private on Facebook, and the other thing is Ida must have known what was going on because why would some risk to takes Rob's car in a matter of 10 minutes to drop off his phone, money and ID at the house....
From Argentina?????? Really?
Lisa Watson

Mattituck, NY

#90 Jan 11, 2014
Ida when she was not private on Fabeook had a picture of her grandmother and her saying her little prayer and wishing she was there in Argentina, maybe not her but her grandmother....Maybe he did just leave, but that was the question we all had why not still searching at least on the Web for missing persons. The jail thing came up but Ida said he is not in jail and I think if there were any John Do's in jail they would go the missing persons, but if he is in another country that could be missed.I also though he maybe in the witness program, no one will know not even Ida for a long time. Just seems odd that now that Rob's paycheck is not there how does she afford to live in that house, I don't see it listed on the internet. Where is all that money she took, she did not have to pay back?
Dan

Huntington Station, NY

#92 Jan 13, 2014
The only explanation for this story quieting down and the family allowing it to die down is if they know where he is or that he is alive.
Maybe he had to disappear for a while.
Lisa Watson

Sag Harbor, NY

#93 Jan 15, 2014
I agree Dan, it seemed he had such a busy lifestyle with working in the city and travelling and the wife living such a high standard of travelling and the kids and bills etc, maybe he just need to go on vacation by himself and breathe for a while, maybe in the islands with a nice cocktail on the beach, some people do go through a lot in life and say boy I need a break, I have been there when I had a marriage that went sower after 18 years, so much built up and I just had to go and in the beginning it was all good but after so many years just needed to change my lifestyle and make it better, it's not like the old days, there is so much more pressure in life, some people are very needy and greedy like his wife, she maybe a nice warm hearted person and a good wife but maybe over the top with the lifestyle, as you can see with all those family photos, it was almost to good to be true. His car that was is pride and joy was left unharmed with the doors locked as if that was planned that he would be back. It's a shame though if he did not tell his family and just left them hanging....
Observer

Murrieta, CA

#94 Jan 16, 2014
Lisa Watson wrote:
I agree Dan, it seemed he had such a busy lifestyle with working in the city and travelling and the wife living such a high standard of travelling and the kids and bills etc, maybe he just need to go on vacation by himself and breathe for a while, maybe in the islands with a nice cocktail on the beach, some people do go through a lot in life and say boy I need a break, I have been there when I had a marriage that went sower after 18 years, so much built up and I just had to go and in the beginning it was all good but after so many years just needed to change my lifestyle and make it better, it's not like the old days, there is so much more pressure in life, some people are very needy and greedy like his wife, she maybe a nice warm hearted person and a good wife but maybe over the top with the lifestyle, as you can see with all those family photos, it was almost to good to be true. His car that was is pride and joy was left unharmed with the doors locked as if that was planned that he would be back. It's a shame though if he did not tell his family and just left them hanging....
Yeah that's it!! you've got the whole thing pegged. He's on a beach somewhere lol.
Linda

Hopewell Junction, NY

#95 Jan 17, 2014
Lisa Watson wrote:
I agree Dan, it seemed he had such a busy lifestyle with working in the city and travelling and the wife living such a high standard of travelling and the kids and bills etc, maybe he just need to go on vacation by himself and breathe for a while, maybe in the islands with a nice cocktail on the beach, some people do go through a lot in life and say boy I need a break, I have been there when I had a marriage that went sower after 18 years, so much built up and I just had to go and in the beginning it was all good but after so many years just needed to change my lifestyle and make it better, it's not like the old days, there is so much more pressure in life, some people are very needy and greedy like his wife, she maybe a nice warm hearted person and a good wife but maybe over the top with the lifestyle, as you can see with all those family photos, it was almost to good to be true. His car that was is pride and joy was left unharmed with the doors locked as if that was planned that he would be back. It's a shame though if he did not tell his family and just left them hanging....
That's a bit far fetched. He maybe alive somewhere, but for other reasons.
Lisa Watson

Sag Harbor, NY

#96 Jan 17, 2014
I am allowed to have my opinions, I am not saying it's true but if someone is in a lot of trouble why would they take the time to go home with there car and drop off there cell phone, money and id and wallet and say okay that errand is done I must go now and be in trouble? If he was in trouble why would that have happened at 2:50 pm that afternoon and nicely have the car parked and locked up so it will be noticed so someone can nicely tow it away but not steal it?? Linda, Why would it be far fetched getting away from a stressfull lifestyle, did you see on Nancy Grace that banker, father of 2 took off and found 2 years later as a pot dealer in a farm in Florida? So many people go missing everyday, they have not found Rob's body or blood or guns and if it was criminal why would Rob or the criminal drop off his id, money, phone etc, HELLO, also the other thing was witness protection program, that was my second opinion. FREEDOM OF SPEECH and such a crazy case, WHERE IS ROB??????
Lisa Watson

Sag Harbor, NY

#97 Jan 17, 2014
What happened to that other case Richardson, it was about 10 months before Robert Mayer, Dix Hills dissappeared, Richardson dissapeared in August of 2012, summertime, a father and husband from Dix Hills takes a nice trip to Montauk, New York and had a great job and all and gets up in the morning to take a walk and just vanishes???? Looks like a similar story or maybe a copy cat. Google that story, George Richardson is name was, from Dix Hills, NY, Sad story. Poor kids and family again

If Robert Mayer was hiding from someone who was after him, he seemed like a smart guy and if he looked like he was in trouble, I am sure he could have called the police, not just go home and drop off personal items in broad daylight in his bright red sport car, wish the neighbors camera was lower to see if it was Rob driving, it saw Ida's pulling in 10 minutes after he left, I guess neither one passed each other on the way, no one saw nothing???/
Dan

Huntington Station, NY

#98 Jan 17, 2014
Sometimes when you are associated with certain "people" and get in trouble or danger calling the police is not an option.
I really do hope rob mayer is somewhere, alive and can someday be with his kids. Whatever he was involved in must have been extremely bad for him to be away from the kids.
Lisa Watson

Mattituck, NY

#99 Jan 22, 2014
Agree with you Dann 100% on all, we all hope he is okay and gets home safe, and maybe everything is quiet for Robert sake, hope he is hiding out with a family member and if someone was after him, Carma to them...Hope the family gets piece of mind soon, a missing father and husband must be the worst thing having to go through, there is no closure and always wondering and praying.
vera

Jersey City, NJ

#100 Jan 30, 2014
I have a hunch that he has been taken into the Federal Witness Protection Program.
Lisa Watson

Mattituck, NY

#101 Feb 1, 2014
Hi Vera, you have a great point on your hunch, because nothing makes sense, but that makes sense considering the job he had and also he does not always go to the scrap yard and that day he did and left the money and everything he had at home, very good point, but for how long would that happen..forvever? Or is there a case going on that he maybe a witness of or his wifes wrong doing and he maybe a part of something....
Dan

Huntington Station, NY

#102 Feb 2, 2014
Witness protection would not take him and leave his wife and kds in danger. They take families.

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