What happened to RObert MAyer?
Curious Cathy

Valley Cottage, NY

#931 May 18, 2014
Dan wrote:
@joan...have no fear, Debbie Erp is there! She will save the day!
Hahahahaha i made a funny!
I hope Debbie Erp gets charged as an accomplice when the sh*t goes down on this one. The wife had him murdered. Two more years and the Insurance Money flows in.
Lisa Watson

Elmont, NY

#932 May 18, 2014
MINIONS: or IDA who you are!! I doubt Rob was abducted by Aliens or the Mob, if he was abducted he would not go home and drop off all evidence of his life and just take off in the middle of the day at that time and especially when Ida is usually home and just happened to be home 10 minutes later after he left and did not see him, funny how she was not home that day. And to Tom, out of everything i believe you and hope you find him and you right about South and with a new identity and no answers why but I hope someday the entire family will have that answers for closure.....
Jeanne

Morristown, NJ

#933 May 18, 2014
Genuinely trying to help find Rob and search for answers is one thing. Sometimes things are said that may be hard to hear. But, some of these posts, full of hate and outright strong accusations are written with such disdain and ugliness. Why do some think that is okay? It isn't. And, it isn't necessary.
mjak

Old Bridge, NJ

#934 May 18, 2014
Constructive conversation, offers of help and support are all great. What purpose other than being hurtful can posting some of the vial things I have read on this thread. This man has children who can read, and other family. What must they feel when reading these terrible accusations. No matter what the truth is, there is no need to use the internet as a place to pour salt in to the wounds of innocent children, and family members who are suffering by the disappearance of Rob Mayer. If you have actual information about Ida Mayer or anyone that is relevant in the disapearance of Mr. Mayer notify Law enforcement, thats where it belongs. It should not be used as fuel for using the internet as a weapon.
Fancy Nancy

Little Falls, NJ

#935 May 18, 2014
Curious Cathy wrote:
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I hope Debbie Erp gets charged as an accomplice when the sh*t goes down on this one. The wife had him murdered. Two more years and the Insurance Money flows in.
Have you contacted SCPD with your tip?
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#936 May 18, 2014
mjak wrote:
Constructive conversation, offers of help and support are all great. What purpose other than being hurtful can posting some of the vial things I have read on this thread. This man has children who can read, and other family. What must they feel when reading these terrible accusations. No matter what the truth is, there is no need to use the internet as a place to pour salt in to the wounds of innocent children, and family members who are suffering by the disappearance of Rob Mayer. If you have actual information about Ida Mayer or anyone that is relevant in the disapearance of Mr. Mayer notify Law enforcement, thats where it belongs. It should not be used as fuel for using the internet as a weapon.

Not for nothing, but she had children when she robbed innocent people !!( not saying it has anything to do with disappearance) and i doubt his drug addiction was hidden from them to well, the son is old enough. Having an addiction isn't vial it's a disease!
Kathy

Ossining, NY

#937 May 19, 2014
Is it possible his addiction moved from pill use to heroin? From recent news stories I've seen/read, this has become an epidemic in our country - that could explain a lot. It's been almost a year that he's missing.:(
iBeach

Norwalk, CT

#938 May 19, 2014
Interesting how everyone on FB page is trying to find Rob but Ida. I asked her why she doesn't make it public page, since more people could see it, more could give their input and such. She said, it is too painful to deal with peoples harsh comments.

I saw a lot of pages of missing people...this one is the only one private, and even if you are approved to join, every one of your posts has to be approved before posted.

SOMETHING WRONG???

I cant believe 1 year later and nobody looks for him...I mean, I take it back...his mother, sister etc do..but Ida doesn't at all. She doesn't even share his poster.

I hope his family and children get answers one day....
Mary Jane marina del Rey

Levittown, NY

#939 May 19, 2014
What does that explain? Rehab programs are usually 90 days or so and aren't free if not covered by insurance. And drugs cost a lot of money as well. Nothing explains all the misleading info. From the wife. Isn't it interesting that when George Richardson also from Dix hills went missing. His wife asked for privacy and posted him on missing person websites and let law enforcement do what they had to. And there was no Facebook page or drama or accusations. Too much b s involved here. And too much. B s about how they were so happy and everything so perfect. When somebody has a drug addiction. Nothing is so perfect and why book strip to Italy if he is using drugs. Seriously
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#940 May 19, 2014
Maybe the trip to Italy ( if true) was to help him get away from the drugs. I don't know about anyone else but if my hubs went missing I would do anything to get him back ! Harsh words from strangers is nothin in light of the situation. I'd be more concerned about what would help him and def more concerned about what my in-laws thought of me as opposed to strangers.
Instead of posting her sayings everyday about how much strangers mean to her, she needs to deal with the people in her real life.
Who gives a sh#t what everyone else says, this is her HUSBAND missing, I wouldn't stop at anything!
Mary Jane Marin del rey

Levittown, NY

#941 May 20, 2014
You wouldn't stop because you would really want to find your husband. But if you already knew what happened would you be doing much? There appears to be money and many followers on fb. If they wanted answers why not hire a really good private detective to find where he wen??? Does anyone else remember the Solomon case wife went missing Xmas eve he participated in some searches end cried on tv and whole time he knew what happened since he did it and his dad helped him hide it. Until he was caught.
Minion 1

Colton, CA

#942 May 20, 2014
Mary Jane Marin del rey wrote:
You wouldn't stop because you would really want to find your husband. But if you already knew what happened would you be doing much? There appears to be money and many followers on fb. If they wanted answers why not hire a really good private detective to find where he wen??? Does anyone else remember the Solomon case wife went missing Xmas eve he participated in some searches end cried on tv and whole time he knew what happened since he did it and his dad helped him hide it. Until he was caught.
You're comparing Ida to a man who killed and dismembered his wife. Her body was found a week later, Rob is still missing. Brilliant.

In many missing persons cases, after a year media doesn't care, there is only so many times they can run the same story. What makes you think she has stopped looking?
Mary Jane marina del rey

Levittown, NY

#943 May 20, 2014
Hope she finds him if he's really just missing. They never found Jimmy Hoffa or the guy who accidentally ran over John gottis son. Time will tell.
Mary Jane marina del rey

Levittown, NY

#944 May 20, 2014
All other ideas aside. If Ida and his family think he left on his own and is alive somewhere living his life letting them especially his kids suffer for almost a year now. Except for child support why would she care where he is if he is capable of doing that to them. But when you go back and read from the beginning all the misleading statements and the untruthful ones. It sure doesn't seem like that's the case and on a last note. If he is somewhere and having a new life alone or with some one else and has made contact with anyone. Or they have reason to believe this why not shut the fb account ask for privacy like George richardsons wife and deal with your family issues privately
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#945 May 20, 2014
Mary Jane Marin del rey wrote:
You wouldn't stop because you would really want to find your husband. But if you already knew what happened would you be doing much? There appears to be money and many followers on fb. If they wanted answers why not hire a really good private detective to find where he wen??? Does anyone else remember the Solomon case wife went missing Xmas eve he participated in some searches end cried on tv and whole time he knew what happened since he did it and his dad helped him hide it. Until he was caught.
I sincerely hope that she hired a PI. I'd sell off everything I owned If it had to be done. If she didn't hire one...that's a whole other story!
It's already clear her reputation is more important , I hope behind closed doors it isn't getting in the way of her search !
xheraldina

Linz, Austria

#946 May 20, 2014
Is the garage or the basement of Rob's house been searched?
I am positive they had security cameras all over the place. Why has it never been released what did those cameras capture.
What are you hiding Ida?
Body or just a "secret"?
Mary Jane marina del rey

Levittown, NY

#947 May 20, 2014
That's what I mean. If she thinks or knows he actually left her. Ask for privacy get off face book and deal with your marital and family issues out of the spotlight. And stop putting out ideas like the Russian mob. Or a random abduction in his own car and own garage when conveniently no one was home. All the insinuations of involvement are seeded by the misinformation and untruths that have been made public by one source. The wife. And it makes her a target for forums like this because of her statements I do not recall one thi g being said about George richardsons wife. And she didn't have a fb page or followers or give any theory at all except that he went missing no insinuations or accusations in that case
Sue

Commack, NY

#948 May 20, 2014
I am definitely Not an Ida fan BUT, I seriously doubt she harmed him.
In my opinion she panicked when she realized he left her, I think she knew that right from the start and the reason why.

She created all that drama so she could get help tracking him down (How Dare He Leave Her and blow up her whole pretense of the Perfect Family)

I still think there was some type of contact where she was informed that he would Not be returning. Much easier to shut down the FB page to the people who were not believing her and were asking questions, than to admit Rob left her.....Her ego is way too big to admit the truth!
xheraldina

Linz, Austria

#949 May 20, 2014
I think she "silenced" him, for a good reason!
Don't you???!!!
Dan

Newark, NJ

#950 May 20, 2014
I think it is pathetic that Ida's fan club ^ complains that the media will not cover the story because Robert has been missing for a year. Yet, when reporters did contact Ida (early on) she "LOL'd" because she could not remember the reporter's name.

There have been too many inconsistancies and covering up of misinformation. The public is not entitled to much of the investigation. But if you turn to the public for assistance in spreading the word, don't LIE to them.

I feel terrible for the children and the family.

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