What happened to RObert MAyer?
Minion 1

Colton, CA

#911 May 17, 2014
Lisa wrote:
The people who live blocks away didn't even join the group once it was private , I believe his exact words were " this is shady, she is clearly not looking to hard" ...
Seems to be the opinion of everyone except for the groupies who leach on to all cases they can..
I wonder what will happen when ( and if) rob does make contact and finds out the way they treated his family how that will go down...
Neighbors down the block who were probably gossiping about it to begin with. Well 'Lisa' at least we know you're in the neighborhood and spreading the gossip.

By the way, true friends are not called 'Groupies', they are called 'Real' people. Maybe you don't have them, I don't know, but she does.
Minion 1

Colton, CA

#912 May 17, 2014
Sue wrote:
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I agree with you Dan...I too think they are doing whatever they can to find and help him. They are doing it quietly and after following this for almost a year..... I can totally understand why!!!
LMAO, wait, you praise a person, a family member and claim you believe "are doing whatever they can to find and help him" "are doing it quietly for almost a year" yet....attack his wife who has a page with 2,200 members, whose same members shared multiple times Rob's poster, who's had NUMEROUS interviews. Let me get this straight....after all that you praise a guy on a message board who claims he's RM's brother, that you know absolutely nothing about and he's the guy you praise as 'Doing something'??? In the same breath, attack her for closing the page from people further attacking her. Damn you're f***ing gullible.
Sue

Commack, NY

#913 May 17, 2014
Minion 1 wrote:
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Yeah, you should probably not follow missing persons cases because clearly, you have no idea what you're talking about or doing. You really should just stop. Now.
And CLEARLY YOU should NOT be working ANY and pretending that you actually make a difference...How "many cases" have you solved Inspector Clouseau?
Sue

Commack, NY

#914 May 17, 2014
Minion 1 wrote:
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LMAO, wait, you praise a person, a family member and claim you believe "are doing whatever they can to find and help him" "are doing it quietly for almost a year" yet....attack his wife who has a page with 2,200 members, whose same members shared multiple times Rob's poster, who's had NUMEROUS interviews. Let me get this straight....after all that you praise a guy on a message board who claims he's RM's brother, that you know absolutely nothing about and he's the guy you praise as 'Doing something'??? In the same breath, attack her for closing the page from people further attacking her. Damn you're f***ing gullible.
I could care less what she did with her page full of lies. How many of the 2200 people actually believe her?.....Just You & a few other morons.... AS for his brother & family...your damn right I praise them for doing what they're doing....looking for Rob just to make sure he is OK, Not to try to drag him back to a place he obviously doesn't want to be!!! I may not know Rob's brother but he answered questions about his brother that could help in finding him...What has Ida said besides " He would never leave us" Well lady HE DID!!! Also we know plenty about Ida's Character...she is a shady piece of work & NOT to be believed.....Yeah right, it's in her past...that's a joke! SHE JUST GOT CAUGHT if not she would still be scamming innocent people....Looks like Karma caught up with her!!! And Jay you THINK I am gullible ? Damn you're just f***ing Dumb
Sue

Commack, NY

#915 May 17, 2014
Minion 1 wrote:
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Neighbors down the block who were probably gossiping about it to begin with. Well 'Lisa' at least we know you're in the neighborhood and spreading the gossip.
By the way, true friends are not called 'Groupies', they are called 'Real' people. Maybe you don't have them, I don't know, but she does.
Oh so neighbors down the block would be gossiping but You who are in Cali are doing What?
Sorry to inform you & Ida but Most people here DO NOT believe her.

Also, did you put a new meaning on the word "True Friend"? Are true friends now someone you know less then a year, who you met on FB? Clearly YOU Don't have ANY!
LisA

Hampton Bays, NY

#916 May 17, 2014
Telling friends in the area about a missing person is gossip?
A true friend is someone who posts sayings to your fb wall?
Lisa Watson

Elmont, NY

#917 May 17, 2014
How about Ida and entire family call the Dr. Phil Show, he is really good at trying to help find mysteries and solve problems, just a thouth you know.
Mary Jane marina del rey

Levittown, NY

#918 May 17, 2014
It seems to me that a person who knows exactly what happened in that garage and after would not want to have dr Phil or anyone else for that matter delving too deeply into the case. It also seems like a good cover story that a vacation was just planned on the very eve of the disappearance The misleading info and the comments from his family people who actually know the family dynamics make me think he is deceased and that she is very much involved again time will tell. Law enforcement sometimes take years to make sure they have the information to make an arrest that will stick
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#919 May 17, 2014
Dr Phil or LI Medium are good choices I think........next month Rob is missing for a year.....there is a new PI show coming out soon---I think its called "Cry Wolfe"....maybe thats another choice...also has his job site ever been searched??? There has to be some info there.
Lisa Watson

Elmont, NY

#920 May 17, 2014
If my loving husband went missing or a boyfriend I would do anything and could care less of what other people say, but it looks like that is all Ida is worried about, if you are watching this Ida or you are the Minion or sound like it, wake up and smell the coffee and call these shows for help, try something other than counting on some person called an investigator, again i am sure they are not on this case everyday......Thinking how fustrated everyone is about this case.....
And to the CLUELESS PEOPLE, have not brains or sense!!! They are like my middle finger stuck up my a..
Wake up you prayer people and Minions and stop your childless shit on this, this is meant to try and help and think where Rob could be or maybe open a support and search Group for Rob, obviously those 2,200 people have no idea and have not seen him, OPEN THE DOOR AND EYES AND DO SOMETHING....
Dan

Newark, NJ

#921 May 17, 2014
There are no searches. Don't kid yourself.
"Someone knows something" is probably the only truth this wife has spoken in a long time.
There is no doubt that Rob and Ida's relationship with Rob's family was strained before he disappeared. Why wouldn't Ida do anything and everything to bring the family together in such a desperate hour?
Isn't it tragedy that usually draws families closer together?
Tom

Bronx, NY

#922 May 17, 2014
I am the only one with a strained relationship. It had to do with his drugs, only Rob, myself and my wife were involved. It was several years ago. my mother, sister and Rob and his family spoke and saw each other regularly. There was no issues. my sister was one of Ida's first calls the night he went missing.
our focus has been south for where he may have gone. I stated it before we believe he left on his own. the reasons he left are unclear. So we are working with LE and others to locate him and make sure he is ok.
There is nothing else we can publicly share. I do thank those that support us.
Minion 1

Colton, CA

#923 May 17, 2014
Carolyn wrote:
Dr Phil or LI Medium are good choices I think........next month Rob is missing for a year.....there is a new PI show coming out soon---I think its called "Cry Wolfe"....maybe thats another choice...also has his job site ever been searched??? There has to be some info there.
Dr. Phil is a family therapist and focuses on family issues, often times sensationalizing for for the sake of the peanut gallery.
Minion 1

Colton, CA

#924 May 17, 2014
Lisa Watson wrote:
If my loving husband went missing or a boyfriend I would do anything and could care less of what other people say, but it looks like that is all Ida is worried about, if you are watching this Ida or you are the Minion or sound like it, wake up and smell the coffee and call these shows for help, try something other than counting on some person called an investigator, again i am sure they are not on this case everyday......Thinking how fustrated everyone is about this case.....
And to the CLUELESS PEOPLE, have not brains or sense!!! They are like my middle finger stuck up my a..
Wake up you prayer people and Minions and stop your childless shit on this, this is meant to try and help and think where Rob could be or maybe open a support and search Group for Rob, obviously those 2,200 people have no idea and have not seen him, OPEN THE DOOR AND EYES AND DO SOMETHING....
ALL Ida is worried about is finding her husband and taking care of her children, her first priority. She is certainly not going to listen to people giving advice about what THEY think she should do or how to do it who are criticizing her and accuse her of hiding things, or worse, having something to do with her husband's disappearance.

There really isn't much of anywhere left to search, I've already pointed that out. But i would give you the benefit of doubt if YOU could suggest a place that should be searched that hasn't been instead of being so critical.

There was a huge campaign to find him. Many tried with searches, fliers, the FB page, multiple news pieces and just word of mouth. To say that nothing was done and all this was done in vain is really a big slap in the face to those who truly did try. To say that nothing has been done on Ida's and other's part is purely false.
Minion 1

Colton, CA

#925 May 17, 2014
Tom wrote:
I am the only one with a strained relationship. It had to do with his drugs, only Rob, myself and my wife were involved. It was several years ago. my mother, sister and Rob and his family spoke and saw each other regularly. There was no issues. my sister was one of Ida's first calls the night he went missing.
our focus has been south for where he may have gone. I stated it before we believe he left on his own. the reasons he left are unclear. So we are working with LE and others to locate him and make sure he is ok.
There is nothing else we can publicly share. I do thank those that support us.
"I am the only one with a strained relationship."
Can't you please expand on this? Thanks.

How do you know if it had to do with the drugs and why is your focus on south?
How do you know he left on his own verses being abducted?
Be careful because if you don't answer questions from complete strangers and answer to their specifications, you might just be subject to their suspicions and conviction. Because silence means guilt.
That was a joke.
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#926 May 17, 2014
Minion 1 wrote:
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"I am the only one with a strained relationship."
Can't you please expand on this? Thanks.
How do you know if it had to do with the drugs and why is your focus on south?
How do you know he left on his own verses being abducted?
Be careful because if you don't answer questions from complete strangers and answer to their specifications, you might just be subject to their suspicions and conviction. Because silence means guilt.
That was a joke.
Um why aren't you asking your "true friend" these questions? Why are you asking the people the people you bashed on Mary Murphy page Mr. P?
( you know the comment you took down)... Just curious ....
And Tom thanks again for your HONESTY! It seems you feel he is still alive, which means Hope! Hold onto that...praying he has or will reach out soon!!!'
Minion 1

Colton, CA

#927 May 18, 2014
Lisa wrote:
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Um why aren't you asking your "true friend" these questions? Why are you asking the people the people you bashed on Mary Murphy page Mr. P?
( you know the comment you took down)... Just curious ....
And Tom thanks again for your HONESTY! It seems you feel he is still alive, which means Hope! Hold onto that...praying he has or will reach out soon!!!'
Took what comment down? Can't remove any comments here. I'm addressing Tom based on the things he said.
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#928 May 18, 2014
Tom....is it possible Rob is working for another Local???
Lis

Hampton Bays, NY

#929 May 18, 2014
Minion 1 wrote:
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Took what comment down? Can't remove any comments here. I'm addressing Tom based on the things he said.
You really need to be hooked on phonics! Never said you took your comment down here! After you trash his family, you shouldn't even speak to them! You need to call your " true friend" and ask her !
Minion 1

Huntington Beach, CA

#930 May 18, 2014
Lis wrote:
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You really need to be hooked on phonics! Never said you took your comment down here! After you trash his family, you shouldn't even speak to them! You need to call your " true friend" and ask her !
Then what are you referring to?

Lisa wrote:
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( you know the comment you took down)... Just curious ....
Maybe you just need to get a grip and calm down.

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