What happened to RObert MAyer?

Since: Mar 14

Yonkers, NY

#830 Apr 24, 2014
Mini thread?? Where??

Since: Mar 14

Yonkers, NY

#831 Apr 24, 2014
I found it
Jeanne

Morristown, NJ

#832 Apr 24, 2014
SassiLee, can you tell me where the mini thread is? Is it on WS? If so, can you tell me which forum? Thank you!.

Since: Apr 14

Hampton Bays, NY

#833 Apr 24, 2014
Does anybody know if Anything is planned as far as searched and what not?

Since: Mar 14

Yonkers, NY

#834 Apr 25, 2014
I'm assuming they mean a thread about the bagged body parts in Queens. Its in the Unidentified forum.
Jeanne

Morristown, NJ

#835 Apr 25, 2014
Thank you sassiLee.
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#836 Apr 25, 2014
Yes Sassi--- thats the one!!
Joe

Warren, OH

#837 Apr 26, 2014
Tom wrote:
Robs boss and the union were involved in the search. On one of the hottest days of the search his boss suffered from dehydration and heat exhaustion and had to be air lifted from the search site to the hospital.
FWIR, he was treated by the Red Cross on site. Did not need further treatment, was not air lifted to the hospital.
Carolyn

Bayonne, NJ

#838 Apr 27, 2014
Tom---what are your brother's club affiliations within the union ??
Maybe some of the club members can provide insights or info.
Dan

Newark, NJ

#839 Apr 27, 2014
Back to basics. Was any money missing?
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#840 Apr 27, 2014
Joe wrote:
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FWIR, he was treated by the Red Cross on site. Did not need further treatment, was not air lifted to the hospital.
Every account of EVERY event is different based on which side of the family you are on.... Who cares , I think toms point was that his coworker WAS there despite what the fb page leads you to believe !!
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#841 Apr 29, 2014
Good question Dan-----alot was made on WS that the 300 dollars from the scrap metal was left along with Robert's work phone.
As to any other money from the house (or banking accounts) I don't know. Also we have no dea (and would not) about his unions funds.
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#842 Apr 29, 2014
@Dan, great question , but we will probably never know ! We only JUST found out about a missing gun because if his families honesty !
Could someone explain to me also , what is the function of the fb page? Not trying to be an idiot, I'm baffled more and more each day by it!!
The more I see other missing pages the more it makes me mad! It's like a page that praise her and her thanking her fans!
Sassilee

Yonkers, NY

#843 Apr 29, 2014
^^^ that's exactly it. It's a page to support Ida.
Lis

Hampton Bays, NY

#844 Apr 29, 2014
Sassilee wrote:
^^^ that's exactly it. It's a page to support Ida.
But shouldn't it also be about Rob, finding him, supporting him , sharing info about HIM? This is what confuses/upsets me.
Nobody is perfect! That being said , maybe some of the things that don't make him perfect ( ie. drug addiction, owing money , conflict at work etc..) would help locate him or someone who knows something ?( btw I'm not judging him or his situation at all, it's a disease that makes people do things they would never do!)
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#845 May 1, 2014
Well said Lis-------alot of important info was never provided and outright lies were told by Ida. Its things like that make people shy away and lose interest in MP cases.

Keep the necessary info forth coming and people likely will help.
How long did it take for anyone to find out about a missing shotgun? And a former drug problem? We found out pretty quick about Ida taking her daughter to see Justin Bieber in late June.
Dan

Newark, NJ

#846 May 1, 2014
Carolyn wrote:
Well said Lis-------alot of important info was never provided and outright lies were told by Ida. Its things like that make people shy away and lose interest in MP cases.
Keep the necessary info forth coming and people likely will help.
How long did it take for anyone to find out about a missing shotgun? And a former drug problem? We found out pretty quick about Ida taking her daughter to see Justin Bieber in late June.
In my very humble opinion, the information provided was a distraction. Had the wife, genuinely, wanted the public's help with finding her husband, there are much more efficient ways to go about it. We have seen this with many other families searching for loved ones. Having a FB page with zero information, which, later goes secret is not a way to search for someone. Keeping the FB page running for support and prayers is a ploy for attention, not help.
Stephen Poffley

Hockessin, DE

#847 May 1, 2014
Dan wrote:
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In my very humble opinion, the information provided was a distraction. Had the wife, genuinely, wanted the public's help with finding her husband, there are much more efficient ways to go about it. We have seen this with many other families searching for loved ones. Having a FB page with zero information, which, later goes secret is not a way to search for someone. Keeping the FB page running for support and prayers is a ploy for attention, not help.
Sums it up nicely, having a private page that actually blocks people who had access and were members of the group at one time, is no way to help find somebody. My wife (Robs Cousin) has been blocked from the FB page for no apparent reason, she has been neutral throughout, just extremely worried about her cousin. She had access and remained part of the group until I came out in support of Robs Mum and Sister on this site after some trolls had decided to attack them and suddenly she was dropped. Why block people who have not posted anything derogatory none of this makes sense unless she knows more than she is saying and is just after the sympathy.
Stephen Poffley

Hockessin, DE

#848 May 1, 2014
Ohh by the way my comments above are mine and mine alone and do not in anyway reflect what my Wife may think !(Just in case :-))
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#849 May 1, 2014
Stephen Poffley wrote:
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Sums it up nicely, having a private page that actually blocks people who had access and were members of the group at one time, is no way to help find somebody. My wife (Robs Cousin) has been blocked from the FB page for no apparent reason, she has been neutral throughout, just extremely worried about her cousin. She had access and remained part of the group until I came out in support of Robs Mum and Sister on this site after some trolls had decided to attack them and suddenly she was dropped. Why block people who have not posted anything derogatory none of this makes sense unless she knows more than she is saying and is just after the sympathy.
That is the most disgusting thing I've heard yet! Blocking a missing mans family from a "search" page? Who does this woman think she is exactly??? So anyone who agrees with robs OWN mom and sister shouldn't be part of her half ass search? I'm sorry but this woman needs a lesson in humility! Who picks and chooses supporters in such a time? I'm sickened by this and very sorry for your wife, kudos to you for opening your mouth!
Since the page has become a praise , kiss idas ass, cult of sorts your wife ( as well as his immediate family) are probably better off. Focus your energy on bringing him home and not showering her with sugar coated bs ! Wish you all lots of orayers and luck!

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