What happened to RObert MAyer?
Joan

Hampton Bays, NY

#647 Mar 31, 2014
Minion 1 wrote:
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.....said the all knowing moron.
You seem to know so much more!
Wonder if you were one of the classless people who bashed his poor family on Mary Murphy page? But that's okay, right? Put your efforts into finding this man and not defending lies, Maybe if half of her ass kissers put half as much into a search for this man maybe answers would be given to her.
She has successfully made it all about herself and not the missing man. Take a look on other missing persons pages , make yourself useful instead of stirring shit on a PUBLIC forum!
People are here discussing what COULD of happened ...
And out of curiosity loyal minion, which local news still talk about this?
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#648 Mar 31, 2014
Joan wrote:
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Uh oh! Anyone notice that her little minions that try to defend her NEVER have anything useful to say!
And you have been so full of useful information.
Joan

Hampton Bays, NY

#649 Mar 31, 2014
Lee Jay wrote:
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And you have been so full of useful information.
I'm not claiming to be lol! I'm discussing a topic on a public forum called topix....
Ya see from the moment her story started changing it was annoying me, was wondering if anyone else felt the same...BUT nobody has heard of this , so I googled and came upon this, and lookie lookie it seems a lot of people feel the same!
And then all of the sudden we learn his own family feels the same ! Now I just can't turn away! You however should focus your time on finding your masters husband... I will continue to express my opinion THANKS !!!
Minion 1

Colton, CA

#650 Mar 31, 2014
Joan wrote:
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I'm not claiming to be lol! I'm discussing a topic on a public forum called topix....
Ya see from the moment her story started changing it was annoying me, was wondering if anyone else felt the same...BUT nobody has heard of this , so I googled and came upon this, and lookie lookie it seems a lot of people feel the same!
And then all of the sudden we learn his own family feels the same ! Now I just can't turn away! You however should focus your time on finding your masters husband... I will continue to express my opinion THANKS !!!
And you should have a tall glass of shut the f*** up.
Minion 1

Colton, CA

#651 Apr 1, 2014
Joan wrote:
Maybe the people on here who know his sister and mom should tell them to start a new page with correct info that is meant to be circulated and actually do more than just encourage his wife!
LMAO, yeah because they themselves have done SO MUCH already!!
Minion 1

Colton, CA

#652 Apr 1, 2014
Joan wrote:
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You seem to know so much more!
Wonder if you were one of the classless people who bashed his poor family on Mary Murphy page? But that's okay, right? Put your efforts into finding this man and not defending lies, Maybe if half of her ass kissers put half as much into a search for this man maybe answers would be given to her.
She has successfully made it all about herself and not the missing man. Take a look on other missing persons pages , make yourself useful instead of stirring shit on a PUBLIC forum!
People are here discussing what COULD of happened ...
And out of curiosity loyal minion, which local news still talk about this?
Actually I didn't go on there and post or bash anyone. But I believe those people that did had a a right to do what they did, considering Rob wouldn't want his personal demons aired out to the public (Info that LE already had and vetted). But, hmmm, they are his 'loving family'. LOL that "Poor family". Gag. That to me screams 'Bullshit'.

You have no idea what my efforts regarding finding Robert Mayer, nor Ida's. You have no idea what is being done, and it's not Ida's or anyone's responsibility to update 'You' of every step being taken to find her husband and father of his childrend. Get over yourself. This is a missing person's case, REAL WORLD stuff, not F**king high school. Tell me where - WHERE - she has made this about herself??? People here (most) are NOT discussing what could have happened. Nothing of the sort. It's a Gossip Mill.
Then you point out the Mary Murphy piece and also ask what local news have been talking Robert Mayer? You know there was an interview a week or so prior? But hell, no one is talking about this, no one knows Robert Mayer is missing. Not enough people have shared his missing persons flier. WTF is wrong you people. SMFH
Joan

Hampton Bays, NY

#653 Apr 1, 2014
Minion 1 wrote:
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And you should have a tall glass of shut the f*** up.
Oh boy! Is it any wonder nothing gets done to find this man!!! You don't even make sense.
Stop policing internet sites , plan a SEARCH, a vigil , update info on missing sites, write an apology letter to arrow, work with a PI, write to newsday! Do something else with your time that is useful for the love of god !! Go look at other missing sites, get a CLUE how functioning pages work.
Joan

Hampton Bays, NY

#654 Apr 1, 2014
Minion 1 wrote:
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LMAO, yeah because they themselves have done SO MUCH already!!
Maybe they are scared of the Russian mob (Bahahahaha)
Sadly they said more in their 4 min on TV than anybody else has!! Again, time exposes or promotes us.
Joan

Hampton Bays, NY

#655 Apr 1, 2014
Minion 1 wrote:
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Actually I didn't go on there and post or bash anyone. But I believe those people that did had a a right to do what they did, considering Rob wouldn't want his personal demons aired out to the public (Info that LE already had and vetted). But, hmmm, they are his 'loving family'. LOL that "Poor family". Gag. That to me screams 'Bullshit'.
You have no idea what my efforts regarding finding Robert Mayer, nor Ida's. You have no idea what is being done, and it's not Ida's or anyone's responsibility to update 'You' of every step being taken to find her husband and father of his childrend. Get over yourself. This is a missing person's case, REAL WORLD stuff, not F**king high school. Tell me where - WHERE - she has made this about herself??? People here (most) are NOT discussing what could have happened. Nothing of the sort. It's a Gossip Mill.
Then you point out the Mary Murphy piece and also ask what local news have been talking Robert Mayer? You know there was an interview a week or so prior? But hell, no one is talking about this, no one knows Robert Mayer is missing. Not enough people have shared his missing persons flier. WTF is wrong you people. SMFH
Really? You still have not said where the interview was , nor will you because it's a LIE!
His "poor" family... Oh no this shouldn't effect them at all. Your right it's all about IDA!!
Wonder it her 8 mil are keeping her warm at night
Joan

Hampton Bays, NY

#656 Apr 1, 2014
And for the record I feel sorry for Ida , I actually do! But instead of worrying about her reputation and holding up perfect family image, she needs to get over that to find her husband !! Saying things about his mother/ sister and allowing her admin to also is not helping people empathize with her nor is it making people want to help. And keeping a page private when lookin for a missing person is just INSANE! She comes off as caring more about her family looks then finding him
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#657 Apr 1, 2014
Joan wrote:
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Really? You still have not said where the interview was , nor will you because it's a LIE!
His "poor" family... Oh no this shouldn't effect them at all. Your right it's all about IDA!!
Wonder it her 8 mil are keeping her warm at night
Are you serious? The interview Ida did with Mary Murphy. HELLO!
Rob is not close with his mother and siblings. Yes they are his family, yes they are blood. But he is not close with them. And it's not, nor has it ever been, all about Ida. It's all about Rob. This forum has made it all about Ida.
So you don't like the Facebook page. Big deal. Do you think that's the only thing being done to find Rob? You have no idea.
The detectives knew all about Rob's problems. No need for the public to know he has had drug problems. What does that serve? Nothing.
It must be nice to sit back in your chair and judge a complete stranger while praising 2 other complete strangers. I really hope no one on here ever has to go through the disappearance of a loved one and have all your dirty laundry aired for gossips to cluck about.
Carolyn

Riverhead, NY

#658 Apr 1, 2014
IMO it isnt a stretch to say that different forums are to the benefit/support of different people---on WS its about Rob but Ida is considered a victim as well (and children are not permitted to be supposed about, investigated unless they are p.o.i or suspects)---I am not on FB but I heard (rofl) about what has happened)
and I would think the purpose and function is the same--to find a missing person.
If this person is no longer considered "missing", then say so--Ida doesnt have to say where he is/was only that the matter has been resolved and then move on. There seem to be some very insider people here--who are privy to information that the rest of us are not--fine. Either share it or be silent---
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#659 Apr 1, 2014
Robert Mayer is still missing.
Christine

Brooklyn, NY

#660 Apr 1, 2014
@Lee Jay Really? I wouldn't believe so quickly or easily what Ida tells you…did she tell you that we were with Rob and Ida and the kids the Saturday before he went missing…did she tell you that Rob, Ida the kids, and her parents came to my house for Mother's Day the month before he went missing…that Rob was the 1st person to call and wish me Happy Birthday @ 6:30 in the morning the day of my birthday a few weeks before he went missing…or that I was the 1st person Ida called when he didn't come home from work on June 14th and my husband and I rushed over no questions asked to help her…or did she tell you that I was at her house everyday for the first 3 weeks that my brother was missing…does that sound like a sister that was not close or did not care??? I took a giant step back, when stories did not make sense, and especially when we found out that she was a convicted FELON…that info was hidden from us…after 18 years of knowing someone and finding out they were not the person that we thought we knew! Obviously something else was going on!! Nobody knows what really happened but Rob…and I really hope that he is somewhere safe….
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#661 Apr 1, 2014
Christine wrote:
@Lee Jay Really? I wouldn't believe so quickly or easily what Ida tells you…did she tell you that we were with Rob and Ida and the kids the Saturday before he went missing…did she tell you that Rob, Ida the kids, and her parents came to my house for Mother's Day the month before he went missing…that Rob was the 1st person to call and wish me Happy Birthday @ 6:30 in the morning the day of my birthday a few weeks before he went missing…or that I was the 1st person Ida called when he didn't come home from work on June 14th and my husband and I rushed over no questions asked to help her…or did she tell you that I was at her house everyday for the first 3 weeks that my brother was missing…does that sound like a sister that was not close or did not care??? I took a giant step back, when stories did not make sense, and especially when we found out that she was a convicted FELON…that info was hidden from us…after 18 years of knowing someone and finding out they were not the person that we thought we knew! Obviously something else was going on!! Nobody knows what really happened but Rob…and I really hope that he is somewhere safe….
And you care about him enough to put his drug problems out to the public? Sorry but that was uncalled for. That is my opinion and I'm sticking to it. You have your story, his wife has hers. I will believe who I want to believe. I'm sure, god willing he comes home, that he will be thrilled that you went on tv about his drug issues.
pam

Jersey City, NJ

#662 Apr 1, 2014
Lee Jay wrote:
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And you care about him enough to put his drug problems out to the public? Sorry but that was uncalled for. That is my opinion and I'm sticking to it. You have your story, his wife has hers. I will believe who I want to believe. I'm sure, god willing he comes home, that he will be thrilled that you went on tv about his drug issues.
jay lee... Your a jerk.. That info is important.. Gives people more ideas where to look.
Joan

United States

#663 Apr 1, 2014
Lee Jay wrote:
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And you care about him enough to put his drug problems out to the public? Sorry but that was uncalled for. That is my opinion and I'm sticking to it. You have your story, his wife has hers. I will believe who I want to believe. I'm sure, god willing he comes home, that he will be thrilled that you went on tv about his drug issues.
You mean you are upset that she spoke the truth ? You have nerve attacking his family , when Ida herself said in the beginning how close they were!!!
His family wants him found!!!! So they put aside people opinion and spoke TRUTH! Which is what anybody would do if it meant finding their loved one!!!!! When it's more important to someone how they come across , DO NOT say they would do anything to find their missing loved one.
Clearly she wants to find her husband only if she can uphold her image. You believe who you want, but to bash people for speaking truth when possibly a man life is at stake, is DISGUSTING.....
And again it says a lot about someone character when you can steal from innocent people for your own selfish reasons, clearly her reputation wasn't an issue then when it was of benefit to her!
Joan

United States

#664 Apr 1, 2014
Christine wrote:
@Lee Jay Really? I wouldn't believe so quickly or easily what Ida tells you…did she tell you that we were with Rob and Ida and the kids the Saturday before he went missing…did she tell you that Rob, Ida the kids, and her parents came to my house for Mother's Day the month before he went missing…that Rob was the 1st person to call and wish me Happy Birthday @ 6:30 in the morning the day of my birthday a few weeks before he went missing…or that I was the 1st person Ida called when he didn't come home from work on June 14th and my husband and I rushed over no questions asked to help her…or did she tell you that I was at her house everyday for the first 3 weeks that my brother was missing…does that sound like a sister that was not close or did not care??? I took a giant step back, when stories did not make sense, and especially when we found out that she was a convicted FELON…that info was hidden from us…after 18 years of knowing someone and finding out they were not the person that we thought we knew! Obviously something else was going on!! Nobody knows what really happened but Rob…and I really hope that he is somewhere safe….
Im so sorry you have to go through this!
And I'm even more sorry you and your family are being attacked by these people! Keep your head up , truth will prevail !
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#665 Apr 1, 2014
pam wrote:
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jay lee... Your a jerk.. That info is important.. Gives people more ideas where to look.
*Lee Jay
*you're

So....you are going to look for Rob in drug areas and crack houses? I call bullshit on that reasoning. The detectives had that information.
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#666 Apr 1, 2014
Joan wrote:
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You mean you are upset that she spoke the truth ? You have nerve attacking his family , when Ida herself said in the beginning how close they were!!!
His family wants him found!!!! So they put aside people opinion and spoke TRUTH! Which is what anybody would do if it meant finding their loved one!!!!! When it's more important to someone how they come across , DO NOT say they would do anything to find their missing loved one.
Clearly she wants to find her husband only if she can uphold her image. You believe who you want, but to bash people for speaking truth when possibly a man life is at stake, is DISGUSTING.....
And again it says a lot about someone character when you can steal from innocent people for your own selfish reasons, clearly her reputation wasn't an issue then when it was of benefit to her!
Holy shit you are obsessed about her past issues. Truth is one thing. Publically outing a drug problem is NOT necessary.

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