What happened to RObert MAyer?
Sue

Commack, NY

#343 Mar 13, 2014
Robs Family are not the ones who dragged this into the public....His wife did. She knew of his problems and all she had to do was call LE and tell them that he left the house with his gun.....She did not have to give an interview a couple of days later Pleading for Help and going Public on a FB page with Lies. That is the problem and Why people are not liking her!

Do you Ida supporters NOT GET THAT???
Joan

Hampton Bays, NY

#344 Mar 13, 2014
Since observer and lee jay know so much maybe they can give his heartbroken mother , sister, and children some answers!
Sue

Commack, NY

#345 Mar 13, 2014
Observer wrote:
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Not that it's any of your business but a lot of those people are not 'Strangers' and do know enough about the woman to support her.
Trying to connect the dots from mortgage fraud to a disappearance 10 years later is what's delusional.
I personally never tried to connect the dots......and the people you claim are not strangers, I wonder how many actually believe her?
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#346 Mar 13, 2014
Observer wrote:
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Not that it's any of your business but a lot of those people are not 'Strangers' and do know enough about the woman to support her.
Trying to connect the dots from mortgage fraud to a disappearance 10 years later is what's delusional.
I'm seriously starting to think your name is sarcastic! WHO is saying it's connected to the man disappearing ? What is hard to understand is why a MOTHER would jeopardize everything for her own gain but when her husband goes missing all of the sudden she has to protect her children! why is she not relocating to get away from the Russian mob??? Why didn't her children matter when she was stealing from people !! Please change your name to ignorant !
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#347 Mar 13, 2014
Sue wrote:
Robs Family are not the ones who dragged this into the public....His wife did. She knew of his problems and all she had to do was call LE and tell them that he left the house with his gun.....She did not have to give an interview a couple of days later Pleading for Help and going Public on a FB page with Lies. That is the problem and Why people are not liking her!
Do you Ida supporters NOT GET THAT???
Her "administrators" are the same ones who attacked his family in the Mary Murphy fb page! How disgusting is that! It's okay to bash them but god forbid you question a liar! How could Ida not be embarrassed of that and let that happen ? That's her children's grandmother!!
Observer

Colton, CA

#348 Mar 13, 2014
Sue wrote:
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Yep I think you are..........Got it!!!
Yeah, good luck with that
Observer

Colton, CA

#349 Mar 13, 2014
Lisa wrote:
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Please change your name to ignorant !
LOL So clever
Linda

Carmel, NY

#350 Mar 13, 2014
Carolyn wrote:
quick thought and then I will go back and catch up----Has Ida or LE (NYPD or PI or NCPD) gone back to Rob's place of employment in Brooklyn?? Has he been replaced, are there flyers up in the neighborhood, co-workers more willing to talk??
Ask Mary Murphy. She got the tape and also to union. I'm sure knows more.....

winkwink
Observer

Colton, CA

#351 Mar 13, 2014
Sue wrote:
Robs Family are not the ones who dragged this into the public....His wife did. She knew of his problems and all she had to do was call LE and tell them that he left the house with his gun.....She did not have to give an interview a couple of days later Pleading for Help and going Public on a FB page with Lies. That is the problem and Why people are not liking her!
Do you Ida supporters NOT GET THAT???
I don't believe it was immediately known that the gun was missing. But Rob was.
Linda

Carmel, NY

#352 Mar 13, 2014
Lisa wrote:
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Yikes!
Immature much? Hope there isn't too much stock in you being the one to get answers. You evade questions , call names , defend liars and don't see a big deal in a grown man with a drug addicition leaving the house with a gun!
Perfectly said!! Bravo!!
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#354 Mar 13, 2014
Observer wrote:
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LOL So clever
Not clever... Truth! You read what you want and ignore the rest! And by the way as routine it's asked if weapons are missing by LE!
Observer

Colton, CA

#355 Mar 13, 2014
Lisa wrote:
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How is stating facts dragging her through the mud? She didn't WITHHOLD information, she LIED! There is a difference! She said absolutely not to many questions when it was LIES! How about "I don't know" instead of lying..... She LIED to his own family. How are people supposed to view her? She gave arrow a bad name full well knowing he was home after that! I'm not saying she is evil, I'm saying that instead of crying " someone knows something" maybe she should of been clearer about what she knows. Maybe the outcome would be different!
I feel sorry for her, I really do. I hope she gets the outcome she wants. But again, when your own family is saying your lying and holding things back and have to go on tv to get answers, any NORMAL person is going to "observe" the writing on the wall!
Uh no, she did not give Arrow a bad name. It was his last known whereabouts before going home and that is what was reported. She felt he may have been followed. It is NOT her own family, it's Rob's family who HE was estranged from.
informer

Bronx, NY

#356 Mar 13, 2014
I have an article I suggest several of you read.

Google "bloody toto"

$200,000,000 in mortgage fraud is not a small deal.

This does not say Ida committed a crime in the disappearance of her husband. It shows a History of serious misjudgments and character flaws. The ability to lie, cheat and steal.

She stated in an interview " I wish Rob was here so we can tell him we appreciate him, I wish he knew that"

He left her, and she knows it!
Observer

Colton, CA

#357 Mar 13, 2014
Sue wrote:
She did not have to give an interview a couple of days later Pleading for Help and going Public on a FB page with Lies. That is the problem and Why people are not liking her!
Do you Ida supporters NOT GET THAT???
Again, WHAT LIES?

She's not out there for a popularity contest.
informer

Bronx, NY

#358 Mar 13, 2014
He was on drugs, he took a gun,

her public pleas are for him to come home, who would help her if she said ":we had a fight and he left" no one. the police would close the books and say lets us know when he comes home.

Her lies keep people searching.
Observer

Colton, CA

#359 Mar 13, 2014
Lisa wrote:
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How is stating facts dragging her through the mud? She didn't WITHHOLD information, she LIED! There is a difference! She said absolutely not to many questions when it was LIES! How about "I don't know" instead of lying..... She LIED to his own family.
WHERE DID SHE LIE TO THE PUBLIC OR FAMILY?????????
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#360 Mar 13, 2014
Observer wrote:
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Uh no, she did not give Arrow a bad name. It was his last known whereabouts before going home and that is what was reported. She felt he may have been followed. It is NOT her own family, it's Rob's family who HE was estranged from.
Um no originally she said his phone pinged somewhere else on his way home from work you need to go reread from the beginning !
Not for nothing he was estranged from his family , so her first call was to the brother in law! Again please re-read ! The bil is a cop, if you think for one second these detectives working the case wouldn't stick up for Ida if they thought she was being honest you are mistaken! It's professional courtesy and I'd be willing to bet his family has a lot more inside info then her, cops are a brotherhood....
So strange he was estranged from his own family yet their life was so perfect!!!
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#361 Mar 13, 2014
Observer wrote:
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WHERE DID SHE LIE TO THE PUBLIC OR FAMILY?????????
Can't argue with stupid ! She was asked straight out several times if he did drugs!!!! She said NO! He claimed his only problem was occasional headaches ! This is just the first of many!!' CHECK your facts before you type!!!!
Observer

Colton, CA

#362 Mar 13, 2014
informer wrote:
I have an article I suggest several of you read.
Google "bloody toto"
$200,000,000 in mortgage fraud is not a small deal.
What possible relevance does this have, to anything???
Joan

Hampton Bays, NY

#363 Mar 13, 2014
informer wrote:
I have an article I suggest several of you read.
Google "bloody toto"
$200,000,000 in mortgage fraud is not a small deal.
This does not say Ida committed a crime in the disappearance of her husband. It shows a History of serious misjudgments and character flaws. The ability to lie, cheat and steal.
She stated in an interview " I wish Rob was here so we can tell him we appreciate him, I wish he knew that"
He left her, and she knows it!
And all while she had small children at home! Really protective instincts , no?

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