What happened to RObert MAyer?
Linda

Carmel, NY

#263 Mar 12, 2014
Angel wrote:
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No, we went there several times after that day, never saw him again.
I did ask a server there if she remembered him from that day, she was unsure.
I do not know if the server was ever contacted.. about Robert..either
we live in a neighboring town, and were only there for cancer treatments..
I did notice when he came in, my first thought was, a construction worker, as he looked
a bit dusty, like maybe on lunch break.. there was construction going on in the mall next door.
Thanks for replying.
I know you posted it on WS, did you contact anyone about the sighting?
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#264 Mar 12, 2014
Lisa wrote:
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No need to contact her because you can tell by the way she writes, that the mannerisms aren't the same...LOL! That is complete insanity, if my husband / family member was missing I would contact any and everybody who said they "may" have seen him! Doesn't matter who contacted who, the fact is his family FINALLY had words to say and they gave a hell of a lot more important info then his OWN WIFE. I'd say the fact a gun was missing is pretty big!
Don't you think LE already had this information? So what if we didn't know. I don't think I'd put my husband on blast about a drug problem. So hopefully he comes home, and then everybody knows about his personal issues? LE should be told everyting and the public is a need to know basis.
Dan

Newark, NJ

#265 Mar 12, 2014
Lee Jay wrote:
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Don't you think LE already had this information? So what if we didn't know. I don't think I'd put my husband on blast about a drug problem. So hopefully he comes home, and then everybody knows about his personal issues? LE should be told everyting and the public is a need to know basis.
You seem to be missing the obvious. THE COPS NEVER CONTACTED HER! The family got a good tip. A lead. Something. They never contacted her. Never checked if, MAYBE, it was rob.
It all comes out in the wash.
Lisa

Hampton Bays, NY

#266 Mar 12, 2014
Lee Jay wrote:
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Don't you think LE already had this information? So what if we didn't know. I don't think I'd put my husband on blast about a drug problem. So hopefully he comes home, and then everybody knows about his personal issues? LE should be told everyting and the public is a need to know basis.
Then don't say you would do ANYTHING to bring your husband home. If I meant having him home you can bet your ass I'd put him on "blast". Drug addiction isn't always a weakness and goes to show she is more concerned about her reputation!

It's quite a far cry from the perfect life she painted. Instead of saying, I don't know she adamantly denied it! I suppose you don't think that a gun was gone was a big deal either?

He has a lot bigger problems when he comes home then his drug addiction!
Angel

Ozark, AL

#267 Mar 12, 2014
Linda wrote:
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Thanks for replying.
I know you posted it on WS, did you contact anyone about the sighting?
Yes, but i am sure its a moot point now, this was in July 2013..
Lisa Watson

Miller Place, NY

#268 Mar 12, 2014
See how we all try to help like Angel and do not see Ida running to see if maybe it could have been her husband, but I guess she is to good to be seen in Alabama.

And Pam, you must be Ida or best friend about speech problems????? What the hell does that mean. Maybe it was Rob and had a zanac that day to make his speech not perfect, what the hell is speech have anything to do with Rob??? I never heard about a speech issue either from day 1, cannot believe no one followed up with Angel, so i guess if I see him somewheres it will be useless
Lisa Watson

Miller Place, NY

#269 Mar 12, 2014
Ida did mention she notice Rob was acting very nervous the week before but she was to occupied with the kids she did not think of anything, and yes the continued argument the next morning, sounds stupid for them to talk about the weekend plans while he was at work the next day.

He maybe went to work the next day because maybe someone who helped him dissappear a coworker or something, he had to do some rounds so nobody can clue into what happened.
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#270 Mar 12, 2014
Dan wrote:
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You seem to be missing the obvious. THE COPS NEVER CONTACTED HER! The family got a good tip. A lead. Something. They never contacted her. Never checked if, MAYBE, it was rob.
It all comes out in the wash.
I wasn't talking about the Alabama woman. I was talking about what Ida tells the public and what she doesn't.
Linda

Pleasantville, NY

#271 Mar 12, 2014
Angel wrote:
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Yes, but i am sure its a moot point now, this was in July 2013..
Do you mind if I ask to whom you reported it?
And what was the reaction/response? Thanks.
Lee Jay

Woodbury, NY

#272 Mar 12, 2014
Lisa wrote:
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Then don't say you would do ANYTHING to bring your husband home. If I meant having him home you can bet your ass I'd put him on "blast". Drug addiction isn't always a weakness and goes to show she is more concerned about her reputation!
It's quite a far cry from the perfect life she painted. Instead of saying, I don't know she adamantly denied it! I suppose you don't think that a gun was gone was a big deal either?
He has a lot bigger problems when he comes home then his drug addiction!
Did I say it wasn't a big deal? I am saying that LE had the information that wasn't disclosed to the public. She's got school-age kids. Everyone is reacting as if they were personally betrayed because they hung up a flyer and didn't know his gun was missing. FFS.

I don't feel betrayed. Why? BECAUSE IT'S NONE OF MY BUSINESS.
Joan

Hampton Bays, NY

#273 Mar 12, 2014
Lee Jay wrote:
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Did I say it wasn't a big deal? I am saying that LE had the information that wasn't disclosed to the public. She's got school-age kids. Everyone is reacting as if they were personally betrayed because they hung up a flyer and didn't know his gun was missing. FFS.
I don't feel betrayed. Why? BECAUSE IT'S NONE OF MY BUSINESS.
She made it the publics business when she went public!
Why not be honest and get the most you can out of people instead of playing the victim and painting a perfect picture. If she didn't want her dirty laundry aired she shouldn't of went on news stations , asked for donations , gotten concerned people involved and then shut them out . I'm pretty sure her school aged children know a lot more than anyone else an prob don't care about anything except their dad coming back!
Let's not forgot she spent the first few weeks basically blaming arrow scrap, a business that did not asked to be dragged into this at all!
Observer

Colton, CA

#274 Mar 12, 2014
Lisa Watson wrote:
She at the end was sitting with Rob's sister, NO TEARS from Ida and that was 2 days after he went missing.
Yes, it's a medical condition which effects many people in these situations. It's called 'Shock'.
Observer

Colton, CA

#275 Mar 12, 2014
Lisa Watson wrote:
PRIVATE SEARCH ON FACEBOOK IS RIDICULOUS, THIS IS TO YOU IDA OR YOUR SPIES, I AM IN MY OPINION ASHAMED OF YOU....TO THE MAN YOU LOVE AND LOOK FOR HIM PRIVATELY ON FACEBOOK....
We all helped this woman and than shuts people out who try to help her.
You are lucky to have Pix11 doing some work for you!!!
Why doesn't she have large posters, bigger than 8 x 10 in front of the house, Rob could be right down the road, unless it will not look good in front of the house.
I know, because loved ones of missing people always do that, put massive pictures in front of their house, right? SMH

Why does a private page bother you so much? It has 2,280 members. It's private because of people such as yourself would post absurd or hurtful things. So it's not really any of your business on how the page is set up. It's not your missing person. And he is not being looked for "On facebook".
Observer

Colton, CA

#276 Mar 12, 2014
Lisa wrote:
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AGREED!!
She is a very smart woman, it's been said time and time again she has PI in her family who were former secret service, do you think she is even using them! I wonder if she hired any private investigator at all! If this was my husband I would be all over the place on fb!!! I would sell my house and everything I owned if it meant answers and getting him back! She is too worried about her reputation! And god knows for my children sake i would be keeping his family close. They could be all they have left of their father ! It's THEIR brother and THEIR son also, she has no respect!
His sister and mother are the ones who have no respect. Ida was protecting her children from the things they said about Robert, things LE already knew about. There hasn't been any attempted contact from his family since Rob disappeared. None.
Observer

Colton, CA

#277 Mar 12, 2014
Lisa Watson wrote:
Of course we take this personable, no.1, watching this case from the beginning the wife Ida Mayer, how many different stories she had and not once did she keep her story straight, her husband has been missing and a lot of us helped donate our quality time and money and finding out we were lied to from the beginning and we would like to see this story to the end.......
You sound like you are one of the so called prayer members of FB......
Hope for the kids, Rob's mom and sister sake he is found not hurt and Ida would come out with the actual truth, for his mom's sake at least....
Ida must have a lot of money stashed away to afford that house since Rob's income is not there anymore?
She didn't have 'different stories', it's always been the same reflection of events. She has only withheld some things from the public but LE had all the info. Because you didn't have it doesn't mean squat. We've already seen what happens with info in the hands of people such as yourself.
Joan

Bayonne, NJ

#278 Mar 12, 2014
Observer wrote:
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She didn't have 'different stories', it's always been the same reflection of events. She has only withheld some things from the public but LE had all the info. Because you didn't have it doesn't mean squat. We've already seen what happens with info in the hands of people such as yourself.
You need to change your name! She didn't have different stories???
Not ONE reflection of events is the same! That is why his poor mother & sister were forced to come forward!
Defending the character of someone who stole millions from people then had the nerve to ask for donations for her missing husband says a lot about you! Keep on observing observer !
informer

Bronx, NY

#279 Mar 12, 2014
Thank you joan
informer

Bronx, NY

#280 Mar 12, 2014
Observer you are clearly not as "Informed" as you think! There are many legal court documents online surrounding this wife of the missing man. Hundreds of pages long and all is absolutely public knowledge. She is a convicted felon, convicted in a FEDERAL court by a FEDERAL judge. Caught by her OWN words on a wire tape submitted by the Organized crime unit that wire tapped her law office. Google Sandell ex parte order. Read page 35 if you don't have time to read it all. This is 1 of the many cases surrounding her.
informer

Bronx, NY

#281 Mar 12, 2014
Observer! I ask you this! Why was she not trying to protect her children while she was involved with organized crime? You're in California, How do you know what this mans Mother and sister are doing or not doing with this case? We should believe the words of a convicted felon over the mother of the man who fears going to her grave never knowing what happened to her son? When a women goes missing the man is the first suspect! when a man goes missing shouldn't the convicted felon be the first suspect?
informer

Bronx, NY

#282 Mar 12, 2014
Observer I suggest you put your purple robe back on, when they pass you he cup take a good long sip! and don't worry! the mother ship will be along soon.

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