Why do women with kids in their mid 3...

Why do women with kids in their mid 30's act like their 20 again?

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Since: Aug 12

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#1 Aug 5, 2012
This is something that really disgust me. That is seeing women in her mid to upper 30's acting like they're in her 20's again. Expecially when they have kids, and they push them away just to go out and drink, and sleep around. What kind of message is this giving to your kids? But this too will come back around to haunt them. The children will eventually see this and not have anything to do with them and will try to go live with their fathers or someone else. I've seen it and I've lived with it too. Very hard to deal with in the end.

Don't these women realise that they are making complete and utter fools of themselves? If they would stop living in their delusional little "Candy Land" fantasy world for a few moments they just MIGHT hear the voice of reason saying "GROW UP" and take some responsibility, before it's to late and you hurt everybody around you that REALLY cares for you. Because these friends you find in this state don't really give a care for you!!!!!
Bigg Nugget

Ponca City, OK

#2 Aug 5, 2012
One Observer, its good to read an honest and thought out topic as this, its the first topic I read lately that made much sense, think this can go for guys and fathers too, just sayin...

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#3 Aug 6, 2012
Thank you Bigg Nugget. I know this guy that has an ex who is giving him hell, and this is what she is doing. Mid/upper 30's and she likes to run around like she is 20 again, partying and sleeping around. She pushes their child off on who ever will keep them, and I can tell them from personal experience that this will haunt them later. What kind of message does this send to the child? What is the child going to think when they get older,"O it's ok to do this mom did.." I just wish I had someone to tell me this stuff years ago!!! Find something else to scratch that itch, and grow up it's not worth losing your family over.
Thirty six Mom

Mountain Home, AR

#4 Aug 8, 2012
I am a 36 year old Mom of 2. I would much rather go to my child's football games to cheer him on and swim in the pool with my youngest. That is, when I am not working 10 hours a day, or remodeling our home.
I'm not angry with what you said, I agree 100%. I'm just saying not all of us 30 something Moms run around and act like we are in our 20's again. In fact, I am rather glad to not be a 20 something anymore! And damn sure don't want to act as though I am!
CHERRIE

Mountain Home, AR

#5 Aug 12, 2012
YOU GUYS ARE STUPID, WOMEN ARE IN THEIR PRIME IN THEIR THIRTIES........ THEY'VE ALL HAD THEIR KIDS BEFORE THEY WERE EIGHTEEN AND NOW THEIR CHILDREN ARE OLD ENOUGH TO GRADUATE SO WHY CAN'T THEY HAVE A LITTLE FUN@@@@##### JUST WAIT TIL YOU ARE FOURTY YOU WILL STILL BE CHASING THAT A$$$ JUST LIKE YOU DID WHEN YOU WERE TWENTY.......... ROCK HARD PARTY NIPPLES
My my my

United States

#6 Aug 16, 2012
Bigg Nugget wrote:
One Observer, its good to read an honest and thought out topic as this, its the first topic I read lately that made much sense, think this can go for guys and fathers too, just sayin...
To bad one observer is really just a delusional stalker who can't let go of the past and move on with his future. Grow up and move on.

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#7 Aug 19, 2012
My my my wrote:
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To bad one observer is really just a delusional stalker who can't let go of the past and move on with his future. Grow up and move on.
WOW!!! My my my I think you are the delusional one, and this post must have struck a nerve. Sounds to me like you must have a guilty conscience? Or just sticking your nose in where it dosen't belong. Who cares? I don't know who you think I am, but I can assure you with three step kids at home, being a futureless stalker is not me. Who has time? Like I said in my post "If you read it?" I was a WOMAN in my 30's who done these things and I wished that someone would have shook me and woke me up before it was to late and my kids "BTW lives with their dad full time" resented me for it. Thats all!!!
My My My

Mountain Home, AR

#8 Aug 19, 2012
I read some other posts on other pages which brought me to the conclusion that you are either stalking a friend of mine, or you are misguided and assisting a stalker. I have no guilty conscience. Just compassion for a friend who suffers from the efforts of a delusional ex. You obviously know who I am talking about since you started a post which would qualify as "sticking your nose in where it doesn't belong". You might take a little time to find out the lengths and lies your friend will go to torture his ex.
Anonymous

Salem, AR

#9 Aug 21, 2012
My My My wrote:
I read some other posts on other pages which brought me to the conclusion that you are either stalking a friend of mine, or you are misguided and assisting a stalker. I have no guilty conscience. Just compassion for a friend who suffers from the efforts of a delusional ex. You obviously know who I am talking about since you started a post which would qualify as "sticking your nose in where it doesn't belong". You might take a little time to find out the lengths and lies your friend will go to torture his ex.
Well I see that there is some pathetic drama suckers spreading crap that they know nothing about on this post as well. And to One Observer, I don't know if this post was directed toward US or not, and I don't care, It's true, but I don't care. I'm asking that you stop posting stuff about us though. Just a little advice too, if you keep arguing with a drama sucker you just feed them what they want. These pathetic drama suckers has no excitement in their little lives, so they suck drama and excitement from their so called friend that they say they have compassion for. LMBO!! But all they really are doing is trying to keep sh** stirred up. So they spread rumors and lies to keep the drama flowing. These people are like cats, if you feed them they keep coming back. So don't feed them by arguing. Thank you and astalavista!!!
Tom Cat

Humble, TX

#10 Aug 21, 2012
Actually it would be great if people would let her live HER LIFE the way she wanted! Let her do as she pleases and date who she wants to, she is divorced! And for the so called STALKER as I have read, what is your motive in that?? To catch her with a guy..?? Or to amuse your pitiful little life??

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#11 Aug 21, 2012
Tom Cat wrote:
Actually it would be great if people would let her live HER LIFE the way she wanted! Let her do as she pleases and date who she wants to, she is divorced! And for the so called STALKER as I have read, what is your motive in that?? To catch her with a guy..?? Or to amuse your pitiful little life??
I really would like to know how this post "Why do women with kids in their mid 30's act like their 20 again?" turns into something about STALKERS and letting someone beeing divorced date who they want? Some people sure blow things way out of proportion on here. Read the posts before jumping to conclusions!!
Tom Cat

Humble, TX

#12 Aug 21, 2012
Well from the other thread you previously started, yes. YOU read the comments. YOU started the mess! Sounds to me you have a problem with her? Everything I have heard sounds like she's a very sweet person trying to make it as a single mother. I can't imagine what kind of person you are to stoop as low as to start something like this. Must be jealous?

Since: Aug 12

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#13 Aug 22, 2012
Tom Cat wrote:
Well from the other thread you previously started, yes. YOU read the comments. YOU started the mess! Sounds to me you have a problem with her? Everything I have heard sounds like she's a very sweet person trying to make it as a single mother. I can't imagine what kind of person you are to stoop as low as to start something like this. Must be jealous?
Well AGAIN Tom Cat, IF you can read? Try to understand the thread. I DID NOT say anything bad about her, I just asked a question, like it said in the thread someone ELSE where I work mentioned her and the things that was said!!!! "Everything I have heard sounds like she's a very sweet person trying to make it as a single mother." That may be true, But since I posted that thread and alot of people who say that they know of her says otherwise. But I'm not going there, I know how all yall blow thing way out of proportion. This is to Kevin Rob. I know all about the "Drama Suckers" I have had to live through it a long time ago. And yes you are SO very right about them though, and YES I'll stop with the posting. But this one wasn't about yall at all. SORRY. It's the other people on here that blew that one up!!!
Tom Cat

Hamshire, TX

#14 Aug 22, 2012
Well here's something else for you if you don't want anything "BLEW UP", then GROW UP & contact her personally if you want to know the truth or is genuinely concerned about her behavior. You probably need to focus a little more on yourself than what others are doing, and starting Something that will cause rumors about people.
haha

United States

#16 Dec 1, 2012
one observer wrote:
This is something that really disgust me. That is seeing women in her mid to upper 30's acting like they're in her 20's again. Expecially when they have kids, and they push them away just to go out and drink, and sleep around. What kind of message is this giving to your kids? But this too will come back around to haunt them. The children will eventually see this and not have anything to do with them and will try to go live with their fathers or someone else. I've seen it and I've lived with it too. Very hard to deal with in the end.
Don't these women realise that they are making complete and utter fools of themselves? If they would stop living in their delusional little "Candy Land" fantasy world for a few moments they just MIGHT hear the voice of reason saying "GROW UP" and take some responsibility, before it's to late and you hurt everybody around you that REALLY cares for you. Because these friends you find in this state don't really give a care for you!!!!!
Show me this women n ill show u a good women to be with ... ya that's right it be her when she finds the right guy for her n not the man well little boy who thinks he's a man she will stop looking for mr right

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