i need advice please! im desperste

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please help

United States

#1 Aug 6, 2012
I'm 26& I'm married! I love my husband,however over the past 6+ months I've been thinking ALOT about an ex. We have talked but not in any other way than friends. As I said I love my husband but I'm confused as to why I'm starting to care for that ex again. Please help what could this mean?????
possibly

United States

#2 Aug 6, 2012
Right love wrong time maybe?
wallybe

Jackson, TN

#3 Aug 6, 2012
well just remember about the reson you divorced from your ex then all the bad times you and him had then think of why you fell in love with your husband now... old memories can be bad.
Medina Resident

Humboldt, TN

#4 Aug 6, 2012
Maybe it's time that you let go of your past in order to save your future. Usually, an ex is an ex for a number of reasons. Focus that energy and time on your current relationship.
confused

United States

#5 Aug 6, 2012
Tnx! He's not an ex husband just ex high school fling. We've always had chemistry & always "met up" Untill I got married. Is this normal to feel or am I a horrible wife?:/ I love my husband & would never cheat but feeling this way I feel is still wrong
communication

United States

#6 Aug 6, 2012
Could u try talking to your husband about this?
lop

Jackson, TN

#7 Aug 7, 2012
he aint no kind of man if he wants to see you while your'e still married. the grass aint always greener on the other side
same thing

United States

#8 Aug 15, 2012
I had the same thing but I'm like the one your talking about. Its hard on both sides.
tried em all but kanpai

United States

#9 Aug 15, 2012
same thing wrote:
I had the same thing but I'm like the one your talking about. Its hard on both sides.
what was your resolution?
confused

United States

#10 Aug 15, 2012
See & w/him my ex it's mainly just all about sex, so yes I know I sound stupid but I can't help my feelings & I don't know y they are coming up. I am so lost & no I definitely can't talk to my spouse about it he would be very upset, do I just bury my feelings & wonder what if or tell the ex?

Since: Aug 12

Shrewsbury, UK

#11 Aug 15, 2012
Write down the reasons you left your ex and go over them. Write down why your with your husband and think is it worth sex to trade the two?
same thing

United States

#12 Aug 15, 2012
It was all about sex too. That and friendship. My solution, she's married, let go.
same thing

United States

#13 Aug 15, 2012
At least I have the good memories, but I would never break up a happy home.
Oh yeah

Houston, TX

#14 Aug 18, 2012
Just remember the chick 80%/20% rule
You're husband you married for a reason
he's your 80%
That 20%(aka your ex) looks wonderful when you're not getting whatever that 20% is
Don't leave 80% for 20%
mama hen

Chicago, IL

#15 Aug 20, 2012
please help wrote:
I'm 26& I'm married! I love my husband,however over the past 6+ months I've been thinking ALOT about an ex. We have talked but not in any other way than friends. As I said I love my husband but I'm confused as to why I'm starting to care for that ex again. Please help what could this mean?????
Simple. Stop thinking with your pvssy.
you are a little off

United States

#16 Aug 21, 2012
mama hen wrote:
<quoted text>
Simple. Stop thinking with your pvssy.
Its all about sex for him the ex not me I'm starting to rekindle old feelings but I have no clue what he would say if I told him b/c since our initial break-up its only been sex. Is that better explained
really

Jackson, TN

#17 Aug 26, 2012
You need a damn shrink! Who the hell starts a post on here like this one that is not a damn retard?
how rude

United States

#18 Aug 26, 2012
really wrote:
You need a damn shrink! Who the hell starts a post on here like this one that is not a damn retard?
You must be a very ignorant person "really". The person who started this has there own reasoning 4 posting on here: maybe embarrassed, possibly scared of the out come or truth, or did ya ever think maybe no insurance or means to go to a therapist or counseling?!? To call someone in your words retarded shows your lack of intelligence to make fun of special needs children & adults! SHAME ON YOU

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