As you read this story, you may shake your head, perhaps even comment about how awful this wreck was, just as I do when I read these. But this one is different....to me. These are two members of my family. Virginia is my Godmother, and Theodore (Teddy) was my first cousin. I haven't seen him in years, (I live in Texas), but growing up, we were close. Teddy had a special gift of making people laugh and a real zest for life. The whole family is broken by this horrible tragedy. But, as readers of the article, I just wanted you to reflect a moment on my cousin Teddy. PS If you can, please say a prayer for my Godmother, that she will find strength to carry on and to forgive herself, as our God already has. Thank you all.