Family matter
Little lady

Lexington, KY

#1 Oct 15, 2012
Time to set the record straight! Rita and I are going thru a battle on my mom's behalf! Rita and I have been taking care of our mom for the past 5 years....sleepless nights of changing diapers,feeding her,bathing her, anything that she needed done...we did by ourselves with no help from anyone! At times we would go into work with little or no sleep at all..this was one of the roughest times in our lives! Heartbroken, tired, and helpless we had no choice but to place her into a nursing facility because her cruel and heartless sisters refused to help with her care to enable her to stay at home with loved ones! Now they're seeing $$$ and want custody of her. They're telling everyone that they love her and want her closer to home....Wow! I'd like to know where was the love when she needed them to sit with her so Rita and I could work and take her to her Dr visits! They were too busy with their own selfish ways! By all means I'd love to have my mom at home or at least closer to home but that's not possible..Annville isn't equiped to meet her needs and Laurel Heights doesn't have any openings! We've been looking at a plcae in Beattyville! Sadly the facilities that can accept her doesn't have any openings at this time! However I do bring her home for visits! I always keep her for a week everytime I pick her up! During this time again her sisters refuse to help bc they are too busy! They may visit her for 1 hour during this whole week! It breaks my heart for her! They can sugar coat this all they want but the truth will stand when the world is one fire! Karma is one bad mother and I can't wait until they get theirs! This week Rita and I will walk into the courtroom with our heads held high because we are taking excellent care of our mom! The nursing home keeps a docket of people who have visited my mom sadly Rita and I are the only ones on it. My mom doesn't have much but she does have 2 loving daughters that are standing by her side willing to do anything that she may need!
other side of coin

Virgie, KY

#2 Oct 16, 2012
Little lady wrote:
Time to set the record straight! Rita and I are going thru a battle on my mom's behalf! Rita and I have been taking care of our mom for the past 5 years....sleepless nights of changing diapers,feeding her,bathing her, anything that she needed done...we did by ourselves with no help from anyone! At times we would go into work with little or no sleep at all..this was one of the roughest times in our lives! Heartbroken, tired, and helpless we had no choice but to place her into a nursing facility because her cruel and heartless sisters refused to help with her care to enable her to stay at home with loved ones! Now they're seeing $$$ and want custody of her. They're telling everyone that they love her and want her closer to home....Wow! I'd like to know where was the love when she needed them to sit with her so Rita and I could work and take her to her Dr visits! They were too busy with their own selfish ways! By all means I'd love to have my mom at home or at least closer to home but that's not possible..Annville isn't equiped to meet her needs and Laurel Heights doesn't have any openings! We've been looking at a plcae in Beattyville! Sadly the facilities that can accept her doesn't have any openings at this time! However I do bring her home for visits! I always keep her for a week everytime I pick her up! During this time again her sisters refuse to help bc they are too busy! They may visit her for 1 hour during this whole week! It breaks my heart for her! They can sugar coat this all they want but the truth will stand when the world is one fire! Karma is one bad mother and I can't wait until they get theirs! This week Rita and I will walk into the courtroom with our heads held high because we are taking excellent care of our mom! The nursing home keeps a docket of people who have visited my mom sadly Rita and I are the only ones on it. My mom doesn't have much but she does have 2 loving daughters that are standing by her side willing to do anything that she may need!
So sad! but I have seen it too many times to not know. One thinks they would never place their loved one in a home but I do know the care they need as it comes to a point in their life and at this point it takes at least 3 people working around the clock. If one should want to hire help, we're talking about $10.00 an hour x 24 =$240.00 per day for each hired. It sounds the 02 of you have went far above what most families would do,(meaning keeping her home as long as you did). One thing one should keep in mind, if your loved one has a home, it has to be out of her/his name for a period of 5 years (used to be 2 years) or if they are placed in the care of a nursing home, the government will take the home in exchange for care & housing. Also, when most all people see $$$$$ signs it will cause them to care for no one but themselves and this is the # 1 reason I have no plans to leave my 4 anything to (fall-out) over. Keep in mind too, if there is no will and the government doesn't get what one has, then the attorneys normally end up with it as a result of charges for keeping everything with-in the law. I wish you well as from what you have written, the two of you have more than earned the right to all decisions that are to be made and remember too, you are needed more now than ever before. DON'T GIVE UP THE FIGHT.
what

Virgie, KY

#3 Oct 16, 2012
all wanda dav will ever be is a trouble maker she gets off on trouble
jdohe

Friendsville, TN

#4 Oct 22, 2012
Litle Lady,
I hope you can dwell on loving your mother so animosity towards her sisters doesn't overtake you. It's typical for one family member to wind up with most of the caregiving chores. Good wishes to you.
foolishness

Chesterfield, MO

#5 Oct 22, 2012
Now I get it. Do you think your other rants on here say anything about your character? Oh, they do. And it's not good.
jdohe

Friendsville, TN

#6 Oct 22, 2012
So, my "rant" at you wanting to hit kids got to you. BTW, new names are cute.

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