Is spanking, child abuse?

Is spanking, child abuse?

Created by -Masters- on Feb 21, 2013

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-Masters-

Louisville, KY

#1 Feb 21, 2013
Toxic parents are psychopathic, violent dkholes, who can only terrorize their children. They don't love them. They will try to hurt them until the day they are dead. An oppressors love is a sadictic love, it's a love of death, not of life.

Freud said that the anal region is how 1 to 3 year olds interpret the world, and that's where you're hitting them... you're making them a glutton for punishment, you are combining violence with sexual perversion, plus it's violence... I'd spank an abusive father or mother in a heartbeat. It would justice. For two supposed adults to be able to terrorize their children, just b/c they can get away with it, just b/c you're lazy parents, and want to make slaves of them... or just make them mindlessly obedient... a person who hits a kid, or terrorizes a kid, is a scumbag, a baby batterer, they are domestic terrorists... the implications are enormous, but just for starters... if I were to smack you in the face, over 5,000 times, over a period of 17 years, tried to murder you, insulted u... just terrorism... u know how child abuse... if I did that to you, the reader, as an adult, would that be a crime? Of course it would be. So how's that any different with the child? If anything, it's worse.

Ethan Burlew likes to hit children. He got into Havin Burlews' face, a 2 year old, and demanded respect, or else... he used to say he'd protect women if they were getting beat up by their man... but an innocent girl isn't protected? Ray Simpon, Katie Burlew, and others, didn't care. They didn't care about the psychoness of the statement.... because they are psychoes themselves.
Wow

United States

#2 Feb 21, 2013
Im lost for words. Because theres a dif n beating a child and spanking them.
-Masters-

Louisville, KY

#3 Feb 21, 2013
"Spanking" is connected to sexual perversion, and it's straight up assault. Justice is an eye for an eye. For every smack, or slap, or spank, or other ATTACK, other terroristic attack, since it is just straight up terrorism, it should be responded to in kind. Actually, damaging a child is sick and depraved, and those "parents" should be in prison. The whole point of "spanking" is to break their will, but what kind of sick monster would want to break their child's will? A sick mofo'er... that's who. You know who else forces folks to their will? Rapists do. That's who. An oppressor is just one step away from being a child molester... they don't love the child, if you are striking your kid, then you don't love them. It doesn't take violent to raise children. BUT, violence should be met w/ violence in response.
-Masters-

Louisville, KY

#4 Feb 21, 2013
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lolwut

Mount Sterling, KY

#5 Feb 21, 2013
I bet Freud would diagnose you with being abused as a child also. What did you do google a bit of Freud?

You should go back and google the Oedipus Complex and read what it really means before you get on here shooting off your mouth trying to start some shit.

Is paddling a form of child abuse... that will be a never ending debate. I personnaly don't believe it is. For example; when my daughter was a toddler she would go for the electrical outlets. No matter how many times I told her no and picked her up and moved her away, she always went back. Finally, she had went for them one time and I paddled her for it. Wasn't hard, just enough to let her know that I meant business. Needless to say, she never once went for the elictrical outlet again.

Now paddling your child for every little thing they do is a little excessive and I would believe it is child abuse. Or paddling them so hard that bruises are left is child abuse also. But using it as a disiplinary method, as a last resort, isn't child abuse in the least. It's letting them know that you are in charge and when it gets to the point of paddling that you mean business.

As far as all the nonsense you spewed about spanking being connected to sexual perversion, that just a crock of bullshite that you are spewing to try and get your weak point across.
-Masters-

Louisville, KY

#6 Feb 21, 2013
lolwut wrote:
I bet Freud would diagnose you with being abused as a child also. What did you do google a bit of Freud?
You should go back and google the Oedipus Complex and read what it really means before you get on here shooting off your mouth trying to start some shit.
Is paddling a form of child abuse... that will be a never ending debate. I personnaly don't believe it is. For example; when my daughter was a toddler she would go for the electrical outlets. No matter how many times I told her no and picked her up and moved her away, she always went back. Finally, she had went for them one time and I paddled her for it. Wasn't hard, just enough to let her know that I meant business. Needless to say, she never once went for the elictrical outlet again.
Now paddling your child for every little thing they do is a little excessive and I would believe it is child abuse. Or paddling them so hard that bruises are left is child abuse also. But using it as a disiplinary method, as a last resort, isn't child abuse in the least. It's letting them know that you are in charge and when it gets to the point of paddling that you mean business.
As far as all the nonsense you spewed about spanking being connected to sexual perversion, that just a crock of bullshite that you are spewing to try and get your weak point across.


Adolf Hitler was beat as a child. Violence is never the answer. A child doesn't ever have to be hit one time. You're not a man if you feel the need to dominate and exploit your child. The reason you should be spanked, is so that you understand that I am in "charge and when it gets to the point of paddling that" I "mean business." That would be the same rationale as you, which is logical, and just.

The Oedipus Complex is a interesting theory, but what gets left behind is that Oedipus's father put Oedipus out in the world to die. He abandoned him. And to want to destroy a person who works overtime for you to die... well... that's actually quite smart.

The Menendez brothers was right.

Let's add this too. Justice is eye for an eye... some of these folks are enslaving their children, making them slaves on their farms, and working them like donkeys. That's CHILD SLAVERY, and it's barbaric. The point of child abuse, at least it's inevitable end, according to Sumner, a popular sociology, is to kill the child. Since start up murder is wrong, then the parents have to kill the child the only way they know how... by destroying their soul, by destroying their will, by destroying their dignity, so that they don't ever get the confidence to stand up for themselves, to cut their hair stupid, so they get mad fun of, to allow the world to join in on the oppression, exploitation, and abuse. It's to kill them, or to make sure they aren't ever loved... by breaking them... by ripping out their heartbeat, and yearnings for liberation... by mutilating their genitalia... or sabotaging their relationships. Adolf Hitler was abused, and really, fundamentally, since America allows violence against innocent children in their mini governments in their houses, it mimics the paternalism of the State... Hitler became the violent daddy of Germany, and punished his Jewish children oh so harshly... make sure the Jews would have to take a beating, just like he did, make sure the Jews are scared and terrified, and alone, and aren't allowed to fight back... just like Hitler felt, when he was a baby Austrian boy.
lolwut

Mount Sterling, KY

#7 Feb 22, 2013
lol I don't even know what you are talking about anymore and it has hardly anything to do with spanking a child for being bad.

You are going way out on a limb here trying to connect spanking to child abuse. By you very arguements, specifically that spanking is child abuse, there would be a million more hitlers in the world and a billion more Menendez brothers out there murdering their parents.

Oh you you're attempt at the explanation of the Oedipus Complex was way off base. What you are talking about is from one of shakespear's writings. What I was referring too was your reference of the Oedipus complex from Freud's works, since you misquoted it.

The Menendez brothers were right? Are you insane, I'm beginning to believe you are. It seems from your ramblings that you were told a bunch of half truths and the propaganda machine has you hook line and sinker. Wow.
Truth

Grayson, KY

#8 Feb 22, 2013
"Spare the rod, spoil the child."
Recommended by the creater of everything. A seat on the bottom is good for the child when they misbehave.
Wow

United States

#9 Feb 22, 2013
Child abuse is when you beat your child so bd it leaves bruises..and wat n the hell does spanking a child have to do with the sexual thang? Sorry for wat ever you went thro as a child cus it must have bn bad. Go do your hmework better on ths topic. Ppl like your are the reason parents are scared to spank their kids and kp them in control.
be a parent

Ewing, KY

#10 Feb 22, 2013
it takes control to be a parent...that is controlling your anger..!
A swat on the bottom...and no more than 3...more than this then someone is out of control and it's not the child!!!!....children have to be taught and corrected...not jerked up to do anything with no repercussion....if you don't have control over the child...then the child has control over you..you have to be a parent first..a friend second..too many are trying to be a their childs friend..you are the adult...you must show them that there is structure in the home and do it with love...you can't deny the Lord's will...spare not the rod and spoil the child..it doesn't not mean beat them..it means to have structure..amen.
-Masters-

Louisville, KY

#11 Feb 22, 2013
lolwut wrote:
lol I don't even know what you are talking about anymore and it has hardly anything to do with spanking a child for being bad.
You are going way out on a limb here trying to connect spanking to child abuse. By you very arguements, specifically that spanking is child abuse, there would be a million more hitlers in the world and a billion more Menendez brothers out there murdering their parents.
Oh you you're attempt at the explanation of the Oedipus Complex was way off base. What you are talking about is from one of shakespear's writings. What I was referring too was your reference of the Oedipus complex from Freud's works, since you misquoted it.
The Menendez brothers were right? Are you insane, I'm beginning to believe you are. It seems from your ramblings that you were told a bunch of half truths and the propaganda machine has you hook line and sinker. Wow.
U criticize to equalize... classic child abuser tactics. So... go fk yoself... beotch! U think hitting kids is the most important thing u can protect? Fk you!!!
-Masters-

Louisville, KY

#12 Feb 22, 2013
Wow wrote:
Child abuse is when you beat your child so bd it leaves bruises..and wat n the hell does spanking a child have to do with the sexual thang? Sorry for wat ever you went thro as a child cus it must have bn bad. Go do your hmework better on ths topic. Ppl like your are the reason parents are scared to spank their kids and kp them in control.
Ok... um. No, u controll'n loser. U hit your kids b/c you get turned on by it. Violence and

Also, Oedipus's father tried to murder him first. That's not explanation. That's fact. I'd believe Freud over some dum topix terrorist anyday. Again... your words... just sounds like ur a psycho... this is Maysville! Yall post over and over again about how yall dont hate the nickers... like thousands of racist posts... of course you're in favor of violence! You always have been! Why is America so violent? Why is Ky ranked #1 for child deaths in child abuse cases... and spousal abuse... and animal abuse... and elder abuse... Why? Why is it the most important thing in the world to beat your kids? You all have your priorities all wrong.
-Masters-

Louisville, KY

#13 Feb 22, 2013
Truth wrote:
"Spare the rod, spoil the child."
Recommended by the creater of everything. A seat on the bottom is good for the child when they misbehave.
You're quoting the Bible? God told Abraham to murder his own son to test his loyalty... it's not hard to figure out. Yall just like to hit your kids, and you'll take any ole justification to suit your needs.

Baptists spank their children until they are blubbering idiots, to break their WILL... you are forcing your WILL over on them, just like a rapist does...

Yall ever heard of equality, or the Golden Rule? Don't you remember when Jesus said to love? Hitting somebody is NOT love... and when I see you hit your child, you're going to get hit too.

Spare the rod, Spoil the Parent.
-Masters-

Louisville, KY

#14 Feb 22, 2013
be a parent wrote:
it takes control to be a parent...that is controlling your anger..!
A swat on the bottom...and no more than 3...more than this then someone is out of control and it's not the child!!!!....children have to be taught and corrected...not jerked up to do anything with no repercussion....if you don't have control over the child...then the child has control over you..you have to be a parent first..a friend second..too many are trying to be a their childs friend..you are the adult...you must show them that there is structure in the home and do it with love...you can't deny the Lord's will...spare not the rod and spoil the child..it doesn't not mean beat them..it means to have structure..amen.
G.d.! You think if you aren't manipulating and exploiting your children, then they are the ones controlling you? That's a false dichotomy. There's bosses... there's slaves... there's oppressors and oppressed... and then there's those who work towards the Golden Rule. The Golden Rule is to do unto others as you'd have them do unto you... did you get assaulted when you were a kid? Are you just justifying your abusive parents psychoticness... just because?
-Masters-

Louisville, KY

#15 Feb 22, 2013
lolwut wrote:
lol I don't even know what you are talking about anymore and it has hardly anything to do with spanking a child for being bad.
You are going way out on a limb here trying to connect spanking to child abuse. By you very arguements, specifically that spanking is child abuse, there would be a million more hitlers in the world and a billion more Menendez brothers out there murdering their parents.
Oh you you're attempt at the explanation of the Oedipus Complex was way off base. What you are talking about is from one of shakespear's writings. What I was referring too was your reference of the Oedipus complex from Freud's works, since you misquoted it.
The Menendez brothers were right? Are you insane, I'm beginning to believe you are. It seems from your ramblings that you were told a bunch of half truths and the propaganda machine has you hook line and sinker. Wow.
When u smash a child's will... interesting enough, it produces the most obedient children in the world, and if you don't have free will to make your own decisions, then you can't claim morality. And you don't think there's fascist psychopaths all around? Are you kidding me? That's all yall know! There's still a war... so violence is good? There's class war... there's prison industry... look at the world... it favors violence. If somebody got hit, then it was probably for their own good, right? Not. The loyalty that abused children have to their parents is sickening, since they don't actually love them. Yes, "spanking" is an assault... I was abused, I admit that, and when it's not a crime to hit a child over 5,000 times, it is a crime to defend yourself. That's Kentucky. That's how it works... but when I come to beat you up, over 5,000 times, you'll certainly says that's a crime! You hurt others and protect yourselves, b/c, that's all you've ever done.
haha

Maysville, KY

#16 Feb 23, 2013
Masters, you are just plain CRAZY! I would suggest that you seek help immediately
lolwut

Maysville, KY

#18 Feb 23, 2013
-Masters- wrote:
<quoted text>When u smash a child's will... interesting enough, it produces the most obedient children in the world, and if you don't have free will to make your own decisions, then you can't claim morality. And you don't think there's fascist psychopaths all around? Are you kidding me? That's all yall know! There's still a war... so violence is good? There's class war... there's prison industry... look at the world... it favors violence. If somebody got hit, then it was probably for their own good, right? Not. The loyalty that abused children have to their parents is sickening, since they don't actually love them. Yes, "spanking" is an assault... I was abused, I admit that, and when it's not a crime to hit a child over 5,000 times, it is a crime to defend yourself. That's Kentucky. That's how it works... but when I come to beat you up, over 5,000 times, you'll certainly says that's a crime! You hurt others and protect yourselves, b/c, that's all you've ever done.
Come beat me up? Thats classic. Go back to hating white ppl and making fun of kentucky even though you are white and you live in KY. Wonder what Freud would say about you?
humanstain

Maysville, KY

#19 Feb 23, 2013
monkeys do a better job at raising their children than most human beings.
-Masters-

Louisville, KY

#20 Feb 23, 2013
Just b/c u have a car, does that mean you know how to build a car? Nah... hav'n kids ain't the talent... mak'n them successes... now, that's the talent. Best indication of parent's success is how their children are doing.
shutup stupid

Tucker, GA

#21 Feb 24, 2013
Man you need help. Your parents should have spanked some sense into you. If you were this way as a child.

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