S*#ky mom and grandmother

S*#ky mom and grandmother

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Anonymous

United States

#1 Feb 10, 2013
My daughter is considered an out cast by her mom and her mother, because she moved in me (dad). And now she has a baby and they have called her slut , whore and everything in between. They have the time and money to help her out from time to time with diapers wet ones and stuff like that. They can't even look for a cheap car. All they're worried about is thier other daughter and granddaughters. And it pisses me off. I'm on disability trying to provide for her, the grand baby , my GF and her son. So it's damn near impossible for me to get everything she needs. I've had to sell a lot of my stuff just to get diapers. I still can't stand the fact they can help but refuse to do so.
They live in south Graves

Thier first names are :
Lana
Cheryl
Ashley J

United States

#2 Feb 10, 2013
Amen scott! You are a very good father and a good granddaddy to that babyand harley and she appreciates it sooo much. She loves you and bettie alot. I do agree its sad that they pick fav between the girls. There is no need for that. Her mother and grand mother need to treat them equal. You guys are tight and stick together and everything will come out in the wash in the end. Karma will find her way. If there is anything I can do to help let me know, Harley has my digits.
Shaking my head

United States

#3 Feb 10, 2013
I don't know her mom personally but I am the one who sits here and sees everything she goes through....I love her as one of my own and all I can say is it is sad....as a mother who has two daughters who I can't see because of a crooked judge and a fucked family of ex in laws....I would give my life for my 3 kids, I would give them my last dollar and if I didn't have one I would find one....her dad and I struggle to get though our own bills and yet we still find a away to help our kids any way we can....we love them all the same and it is pretty damn sorry that we have to watch her cry and put herself down because she feels abandoned by her own family....all I can say is I have faith in this child and I know she can make it through this...just hate that some people are gonna learn through it all that time lost can never be gotten back and I don't know about everybody else but I want every second I can get with my kids, that includes both Scott's girls, and every second with my grand daughter....and they will be cherished...too bad...😕
omg

Madisonville, KY

#4 Feb 10, 2013
I know Lana and that's one crazy bitch!!! I worked with her years ago at a daycare in south fulton, tn..... She hollered at the kids and was caught kicking one of the children during nap time. I'd be happy to know she wasn't around any children and Cheryl is a friutcake as well..... Like they say, apple don't fall far from the tree
Shay

Mayfield, KY

#5 Feb 10, 2013
Why are you providing for her child? Are you the father? I'm sure she's getting food stamps, welfare, medical card, free Obama phone. You don't have to provide for her or her child. Tell her to call the baby daddy for support!
Ashley J

United States

#6 Feb 10, 2013
Shay wrote:
Why are you providing for her child? Are you the father? I'm sure she's getting food stamps, welfare, medical card, free Obama phone. You don't have to provide for her or her child. Tell her to call the baby daddy for support!
For your info she IS looking for a job but its kinnda hard with out a car, which costs money she dont have. Its her father who posted and like any other loving dad hes doing all he can to try to lend a helping hand to his daughter and grandchild, unlike her mother. The father of her child has nothing to do with the kid, much like alot of dead beats around here. If you dont know the facts about them or thier family I suggest you stfu. Alot of people are down on bad times right now. Before you say anything yes im a full time worker and pay my taxes, I love seeing my taxes helping people like her and her baby in need, because im not greedy. She is one of the few that i know that is NOT abusing the "system". have a nice day.
mommies world

Greenville, KY

#7 Feb 11, 2013
omg wrote:
I know Lana and that's one crazy bitch!!! I worked with her years ago at a daycare in south fulton, tn..... She hollered at the kids and was caught kicking one of the children during nap time. I'd be happy to know she wasn't around any children and Cheryl is a friutcake as well..... Like they say, apple don't fall far from the tree
Look my momma has done me wrong but aint no one gonna talk about her like tht.. She has never kicked a child sh*t she could barely whoop me and my sister when we need it the most so dnt talk crazzii sh*t about her when yu dnt kno wtf yur talkin about.. Idk who yu are but yu leave my mommas name outta yur mouth
mommies world

Greenville, KY

#8 Feb 11, 2013
Shay wrote:
Why are you providing for her child? Are you the father? I'm sure she's getting food stamps, welfare, medical card, free Obama phone. You don't have to provide for her or her child. Tell her to call the baby daddy for support!
Yu kno wht I agree with my very good friend on this!! This is THE DAUGHTER!!!! Yes I have food stamps how the hell else will I have food to put in my mouth or baby cereal to put in my daughters mouth?! THERES NO JOBS!!! We struggle its a dang depression if yu haven't heard!! Oo and I'm not on welfare, and I dnt have an obama phone shoot I dnt even kno wht tht is and just because my FATHER forgot to mention I'm head high on medical bills because the guy I was with for like a year left me a week before christmas I found out in january I was pregnant with HIS child and like ashley said they are dead beats tht dnt care about their kids.. Now before yu go and judge me Shay or whoever yu are look at everyone else and judge them I try my hardest to provide for my child I'm out lookin for a job I'm tryin to get a car to get a job.. I pay taxes just like everyone else does and I have the help of MY VERY KIND AND LOVIN FATHER if yu have a dad like mine yu would understand but I'm guessin yu dnt cause apparently yu dnt kno wht fathers do to help out their kids.. Now yu have a very blessed day go to church read the bible.. I never have but guess wht I've been readin my bible take a look in it it helps troubled ppl.. I'm out I aint wasting another message on yu cause yu dnt kno me nor my family worry about yur own!!
UMMM

United States

#9 Feb 11, 2013
Food stamps IS welfare Hunny....smh....
wordofGod

Florence, KY

#10 Feb 11, 2013
mommies world wrote:
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Yu kno wht I agree with my very good friend on this!! This is THE DAUGHTER!!!! Yes I have food stamps how the hell else will I have food to put in my mouth or baby cereal to put in my daughters mouth?! THERES NO JOBS!!! We struggle its a dang depression if yu haven't heard!! Oo and I'm not on welfare, and I dnt have an obama phone shoot I dnt even kno wht tht is and just because my FATHER forgot to mention I'm head high on medical bills because the guy I was with for like a year left me a week before christmas I found out in january I was pregnant with HIS child and like ashley said they are dead beats tht dnt care about their kids.. Now before yu go and judge me Shay or whoever yu are look at everyone else and judge them I try my hardest to provide for my child I'm out lookin for a job I'm tryin to get a car to get a job.. I pay taxes just like everyone else does and I have the help of MY VERY KIND AND LOVIN FATHER if yu have a dad like mine yu would understand but I'm guessin yu dnt cause apparently yu dnt kno wht fathers do to help out their kids.. Now yu have a very blessed day go to church read the bible.. I never have but guess wht I've been readin my bible take a look in it it helps troubled ppl.. I'm out I aint wasting another message on yu cause yu dnt kno me nor my family worry about yur own!!
Harli, last time I checked, you told Keith Cheyanne was his. He stayed at that hospital with you and took care of that baby. His family bought everything that baby needed,PAID and ADMINISTERED the dna test, only to find out she is not his. Her father cant be a deadbeat when you havent even told him she COULD be his ( I use the word COULD lightly.) Why would Keith think this time would be any different? He told you if the baby is his "this time" he will take care of it. There is not a damn depression there are jobs, maybe not the one you want, but im sure you could find something. It is not your parents job to raise, feed, clothe, transport or supply shelter for you or that baby. You got pregnant and within literally months, you get pregnant again. The bed is for sleeping girl stay off your back if you cant provide for even one child you sure dont need another. Thats what sex gets you.... pregnant. I will tell you since daddy is busy calling someone else a wh0#e, he might wanna close his billfold until your legs can stay closed.
Shay

Mayfield, KY

#11 Feb 11, 2013
mommies world wrote:
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Yu kno wht I agree with my very good friend on this!! This is THE DAUGHTER!!!! Yes I have food stamps how the hell else will I have food to put in my mouth or baby cereal to put in my daughters mouth?! THERES NO JOBS!!! We struggle its a dang depression if yu haven't heard!! Oo and I'm not on welfare, and I dnt have an obama phone shoot I dnt even kno wht tht is and just because my FATHER forgot to mention I'm head high on medical bills because the guy I was with for like a year left me a week before christmas I found out in january I was pregnant with HIS child and like ashley said they are dead beats tht dnt care about their kids.. Now before yu go and judge me Shay or whoever yu are look at everyone else and judge them I try my hardest to provide for my child I'm out lookin for a job I'm tryin to get a car to get a job.. I pay taxes just like everyone else does and I have the help of MY VERY KIND AND LOVIN FATHER if yu have a dad like mine yu would understand but I'm guessin yu dnt cause apparently yu dnt kno wht fathers do to help out their kids.. Now yu have a very blessed day go to church read the bible.. I never have but guess wht I've been readin my bible take a look in it it helps troubled ppl.. I'm out I aint wasting another message on yu cause yu dnt kno me nor my family worry about yur own!!
Well Einstein, food stamps is welfare. You say you're not working, so you are not paying taxes. That means those of us who work are providing for you. Who gets pregnant and has children when you can't take of yourself? I'm pretty sure "the baby daddy", didn't get you pregnant by himself. If you can't find a job, go to school and learn a trade or get a degree. "Our" taxes will pay for you to go to school and daycare. Actually, I don't mind helping someone who wants to go to school and better themselves so they can take care of their family. I have a feeling your priorities are partying and having sex with the first guy that comes along because, he loves you. No, he doesn't. He was an easy piece of a$$. We are not in a depression. You have no idea what a depression is. By the way, dad, it's really not appropriate to put your family issues on topix. It appears you are only trying to bash your ex! Also, I have helped my daughter, while she went to school and made a career. In two years you can have an associate degree. Try it!
Shay

Mayfield, KY

#12 Feb 11, 2013
Typo, He wants, not he was!
Sunni

Hickory, KY

#13 Feb 11, 2013
So where is lana now? I knew her growing up..she always was a little odd. Did she remarry?
shaking my head

United States

#14 Feb 11, 2013
wordofGod wrote:
<quoted text>Harli, last time I checked, you told Keith Cheyanne was his. He stayed at that hospital with you and took care of that baby. His family bought everything that baby needed,PAID and ADMINISTERED the dna test, only to find out she is not his. Her father cant be a deadbeat when you havent even told him she COULD be his ( I use the word COULD lightly.) Why would Keith think this time would be any different? He told you if the baby is his "this time" he will take care of it. There is not a damn depression there are jobs, maybe not the one you want, but im sure you could find something. It is not your parents job to raise, feed, clothe, transport or supply shelter for you or that baby. You got pregnant and within literally months, you get pregnant again. The bed is for sleeping girl stay off your back if you cant provide for even one child you sure dont need another. Thats what sex gets you.... pregnant. I will tell you since daddy is busy calling someone else a wh0#e, he might wanna close his billfold until your legs can stay closed.
I'm gonna tell you one more damn time....this is none of you f**king business....you are no f**king better and your family didn't pay for s**t....and I know for a f**king fact that Keith knew it was 50 50....this didn't have f**king thing to do with your sorry a** brother or your nosey a** self....your family is just as f**ked up....and dad even got your brother a job and he was too f**king lazy to get his a** up and go so before you go throwing stones at someone else you may wanna move out of your glass house...got news for ya girl....you are far from perfect and everybody knows that...how about your sister...don't she have about 7 kids....hmmm....and I've seen how you treat kids....it's a damn good thing you don't have any....stay the f**k out of s**t when it don't concern you....and one more thing....you see when parents actually LOVE their children they help them....not run off and leave them!
shaking my head

United States

#15 Feb 11, 2013
Shay wrote:
<quoted text>Well Einstein, food stamps is welfare. You say you're not working, so you are not paying taxes. That means those of us who work are providing for you. Who gets pregnant and has children when you can't take of yourself? I'm pretty sure "the baby daddy", didn't get you pregnant by himself. If you can't find a job, go to school and learn a trade or get a degree. "Our" taxes will pay for you to go to school and daycare. Actually, I don't mind helping someone who wants to go to school and better themselves so they can take care of their family. I have a feeling your priorities are partying and having sex with the first guy that comes along because, he loves you. No, he doesn't. He was an easy piece of a$$. We are not in a depression. You have no idea what a depression is. By the way, dad, it's really not appropriate to put your family issues on topix. It appears you are only trying to bash your ex! Also, I have helped my daughter, while she went to school and made a career. In two years you can have an associate degree. Try it!
How about you stay out of it also....for your info she is young and yes she is working in getting in school but you wouldn't know that because you don't know her....and you apparently didn't read the whole thing correctly...when you treat your child like an outcast because she loves her father you are bad parent....she had her own place bit her dead beat room mates would not help pay the bills so she lost it...ya see...you don't know how long she was with her babies daddy and you don't know what a sorry excuse of a man he is....so stay out of it when ya don't know the facts....it's pretty sorry that I am just her dads girlfriend and I do more for her than her own mother...and money is not all that is included in helping your children...hell she would be happy if her mother would call her or come see her....so like I said...you don't know any of us or the facts so stay out of it!
shaking my head

United States

#16 Feb 11, 2013
Ashley J wrote:
<quoted text>For your info she IS looking for a job but its kinnda hard with out a car, which costs money she dont have. Its her father who posted and like any other loving dad hes doing all he can to try to lend a helping hand to his daughter and grandchild, unlike her mother. The father of her child has nothing to do with the kid, much like alot of dead beats around here. If you dont know the facts about them or thier family I suggest you stfu. Alot of people are down on bad times right now. Before you say anything yes im a full time worker and pay my taxes, I love seeing my taxes helping people like her and her baby in need, because im not greedy. She is one of the few that i know that is NOT abusing the "system". have a nice day.
You go Ashley....you are a true friend to Harli and everybody needs that...we love ya!
zeropercent

Florence, KY

#17 Feb 11, 2013
7 kids that she takes care of without welfare of any kind or family help. Grow up little girl. Hasnt social services already investigated you? Yeah thought so! Wont be the last.... promise!
shaking my head

Greenville, KY

#18 Feb 11, 2013
zeropercent wrote:
7 kids that she takes care of without welfare of any kind or family help. Grow up little girl. Hasnt social services already investigated you? Yeah thought so! Wont be the last.... promise!
This ain't a little girl your talking to and I got news for you...it don't matter how many times you send them...they find nothing wrong and news flash when you keep telling lies they start looking into the person who's telling them...you are not as smart as you think you are....I'm done playing games with you...stay the hell away from Harli and stay out of her business...none of this concerned you...which proves to me that you are nothing but a nosey little trouble maker....you keep running your mouth....I can promise you you will regret it....you talk about growing up...you need to take your own advice...a so called grown up would not get in something that had nothing to do with them in the first place....it just amuses me just how damn nosey you stupid people can be....you are not her mother, sister or family so stay the hell out of her life....I will take it up with the law if you want to keep harassing her...go back to your own sorry life and quit bothering others....it's not that hard to leave people alone...you should try it...you might like it! Oh yea....a kid has to be neglected for that to work ya idiot!
mommies world

Greenville, KY

#19 Feb 11, 2013
Yu kno I'm not worried about yu or no one else for tht matter I got everything I need and more on the way I have my daughter and I have my son or daughter on the way and its ok life will be ok for me.. But I'm sorry tht yu feel like yu have to make ppls lives miserable just for yu to be happy.. I feel sorry for yu but I'm not goin to say nothin hateful or disrespectful to yu or torwards yur because I believe in karma. Yu can call child services on me or the law or whtever yu want to I will look at them smile and show them around my house tell them my daily routine and ill go take a drug test willingly ask them to have a wonderful day and if they have any concerns or questions they can call me or stop back by anytime. And now I'm goin to tell yu to have a wonderful and blessed day and pray tht karma doesn't get yu to bad.. Thank yu for yur opinion whether ppl believe yu or not its up to them but I'm me and I will take care of my own.
Shay

Mayfield, KY

#20 Feb 11, 2013
shaking my head wrote:
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How about you stay out of it also....for your info she is young and yes she is working in getting in school but you wouldn't know that because you don't know her....and you apparently didn't read the whole thing correctly...when you treat your child like an outcast because she loves her father you are bad parent....she had her own place bit her dead beat room mates would not help pay the bills so she lost it...ya see...you don't know how long she was with her babies daddy and you don't know what a sorry excuse of a man he is....so stay out of it when ya don't know the facts....it's pretty sorry that I am just her dads girlfriend and I do more for her than her own mother...and money is not all that is included in helping your children...hell she would be happy if her mother would call her or come see her....so like I said...you don't know any of us or the facts so stay out of it!
Then don't put all of your dirty laundry on an open forum, for everybody to read, if you don't want anybody's opinion.

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