Whats with the mixed signals ladies? ...

Whats with the mixed signals ladies? help

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confused

United States

#1 May 26, 2012
So I've been flirty with a girl for avout three weeks. All the signs of her being interested are there. She gave me her number for some bs reason. Anyway, the discussion has turned into what I'm looking for in a woman. The context is her trying to fix me up. She says she is trying to find a match for me. Is she feeling me out, or seriously trying to find some girl for me to hang with? What complicates matters is that she is attached to someone. Maybe she's scared to pull the trigger? Perhaps she is waiting for me to spell out my feelings? Help ladies. I know you understand each other.
big heart

Murray, KY

#2 May 27, 2012
Maybe ask her how she feels about you. Keep it casual convo so your not over bearing. Maybe she feels the same way just dosnt feel she has a chance so she does the next best thing to make you happy if she cant. You will never know unless you ask, whats the worst that can happen? Maybe shes wanting you to help her dettach feelings from this othere person and focus more on you

Since: Aug 11

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#3 May 27, 2012
Many people, male or female, single or attached, love to flirt. A bit of flirting with someone they see as harmless makes people feel more attractive and they find it to be fun. Keep this in mind.
classmate

Mayfield, KY

#4 May 27, 2012
big heart wrote:
Maybe ask her how she feels about you. Keep it casual convo so your not over bearing. Maybe she feels the same way just dosnt feel she has a chance so she does the next best thing to make you happy if she cant. You will never know unless you ask, whats the worst that can happen? Maybe shes wanting you to help her dettach feelings from this othere person and focus more on you
What about her overbearing? Does she own an overbearing? What is an overbearing anyway?
Ann

Mayfield, KY

#5 May 27, 2012
classmate wrote:
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What about her overbearing? Does she own an overbearing? What is an overbearing anyway?
Overbearing describes someone who is bossy, arrogant or overwhelming in their power. If you need further explanation, there are a lot of online dictionaries! You might want to also check in to some adult learning classes. Good luck!
TOO ME
#6 May 27, 2012
SpiritoftheHawk wrote:
Many people, male or female, single or attached, love to flirt. A bit of flirting with someone they see as harmless makes people feel more attractive and they find it to be fun. Keep this in mind.
Yes i feel ya on that. But when your love one flirts it makes yourself feel like u aint good enough. I believe its DISRESPECTFUL n your loved one wouldnt like it if tha shoe was on tha other foot. They dnt realize how it hurts your heart n how it hurts your feelings.
Been There

Pontiac, IL

#7 May 27, 2012
confused wrote:
So I've been flirty with a girl for avout three weeks. All the signs of her being interested are there. She gave me her number for some bs reason. Anyway, the discussion has turned into what I'm looking for in a woman. The context is her trying to fix me up. She says she is trying to find a match for me. Is she feeling me out, or seriously trying to find some girl for me to hang with? What complicates matters is that she is attached to someone. Maybe she's scared to pull the trigger? Perhaps she is waiting for me to spell out my feelings? Help ladies. I know you understand each other.
I am a mature woman (and married), and these little girls who call themselves women like to play their little girl games with guys.
Seen it happen too many times. They like to flirt
(It's an ego thing), get you interested, then move on.
Not trying to bust your bubble, just keep your eyes open dude.
The RED FLAG is "she is attached to someone".
Now I might be wrong, having never met her myself,
just be careful and keep your eyes wide open.
confused

United States

#8 May 27, 2012
Ok. So I just put it all out there. Turns out she very much feels the same way. We are trying to figure out what to do with it. But yeah, I was in panic mode. All is well though. I'll sleep good tonight. I feel like a kid.
big heart

Murray, KY

#9 May 28, 2012
confused wrote:
Ok. So I just put it all out there. Turns out she very much feels the same way. We are trying to figure out what to do with it. But yeah, I was in panic mode. All is well though. I'll sleep good tonight. I feel like a kid.
Thats good. Glad you took the step to figure out how she feels. She might have been shy too. I know when me and my man first started hanging out he was painfully shy. Lol hope everything works out for you.
Nightingale

United States

#10 May 30, 2012
I'm glad you're happy, but the fact is still there that "she's attached to someone".......just bear in mind if she'll do it with you, she'll do it TO you as well......just something to keep in your mind....

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