benjiscousin

Matewan, WV

#22 Jul 31, 2010
urstupid wrote:
<quoted text> you are the liar druggies will do anything for drugs i had a girl work for me one time and i caught her snorting pills and fired her she lost her pills and tried to say someone else stole them i told her i found them and turned them into the police that stupid bitch called the police and ask for her pills so yes benji probably went from door to door begging for pills to bad she didnt od and kill herself before she killed someone.
Why would Benji need to go door to door looking for drugs. She's had a drug problem for years and she has never had to steal or beg to get drugs. AND....I'm sure she knows where to go to get them, she doesn't have to just go knocking on random doors.

As far as you saying she should have OD'ed and died, that makes you no better than you're saying she is. I hope you're not a mother/father or because I have children that are not even in Middle School yet and we don't know what tomorrow holds. I sure HOPE AND PRAY that my children never abuse drugs but we don't what our children will do and what life will throw at us, BUT I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT NO MATTER WHAT MISTAKES MY CHILDREN MAKE I WILL NEVER HOPE THAT THEY OR ANY ONE ELSES LOVED ONE TAKES THEIR LIFE. I have never said that Benji was not wrong, but NONE OF US ARE WITHOUT SIN. Mistakes don't make you worthless and they sure don't keep your family from loving you.
benjiscousin

Matewan, WV

#23 Jul 31, 2010
I AM FINISHED WITH THIS SILLY SITE, BUT I WILL TELL YOU PEOPLE THAT I AM A GOOD PERSON AND SO ARE A LOT OF BENJI'S FAMILY. WE DO NOT UPHOLD HER DRUG ABUSE AND WE ARE SORRY THAT THE CHAFIN FAMILY LOST THIER LOVED ONE. NO THEY DIDN'T DESERVE THAT BUT I AM NOT ASHAMED TO TELL YOU PEOPLE THAT BENJI IS NOT WORTHLESS OR HOPELESS. GOD LOVES AND WILL FORGIVE US ALL IF WE ARE SINCERE IN OUR PRAYERS. I DON'T HAVE TO AGREE WITH ALL OF BENJI'S DECISIONS TO LOVE HER, I KNOW SHE WAS WRONG AND SHE SHOULD PAY FOR THAT, BUT SHE IS NOT AN AWFUL PERSON THAT WOULD KNOWINGLY JUST KILL SOMEONE. SHE MADE AN AWFUL DECISION AND A TERRIBLE MISTAKE BUT SHE IS NOT SCUM AND YES I DO LOVE HER!!! I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR HER, HER PARENTS, THE CHAFIN FAMILY AND ALL OF YOU HEARTLESS PEOPLE!!!
Rick

Knoxville, TN

#24 Jul 31, 2010
F Benji her pic still ain't on the site that's unjust!!! I think the Judicial System should have her executed at the head of the holler and let the family watch her die then they can come up and kick her out of the way to walk around her to get to their cars!!!!!!!!!! And that's how pissed I am about it!
benjiscousin

Matewan, WV

#25 Jul 31, 2010
Rick wrote:
F Benji her pic still ain't on the site that's unjust!!! I think the Judicial System should have her executed at the head of the holler and let the family watch her die then they can come up and kick her out of the way to walk around her to get to their cars!!!!!!!!!! And that's how pissed I am about it!
Rick, you are in worse shape than Benji, because you are full of hatred and you are heartless. YOU NEED GOD BADLY!!!! I would hate to live with that much hate, you must a miserable person. GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU!!
Rick

Knoxville, TN

#26 Jul 31, 2010
Yea I am full of hate! Anger and a bunch of other emotions! But one thing is for sure what that girl did was something it would have to take a person who really needs God to do! I am so Spiteful to I come to find as I age! That's wrong what the girl did and you know it and you come on here like a super hero for her, imagine how the people feels who knew Barry personally like you do Benji. Look we don't need anymore Mingo Warriors coming on in her defense when she was the one in the wrong, we all know the people who is supposed to be the hero's there, aren't.
LMAO
benjiscousin

Matewan, WV

#27 Aug 1, 2010
Rick wrote:
Yea I am full of hate! Anger and a bunch of other emotions! But one thing is for sure what that girl did was something it would have to take a person who really needs God to do! I am so Spiteful to I come to find as I age! That's wrong what the girl did and you know it and you come on here like a super hero for her, imagine how the people feels who knew Barry personally like you do Benji. Look we don't need anymore Mingo Warriors coming on in her defense when she was the one in the wrong, we all know the people who is supposed to be the hero's there, aren't.
LMAO
If you will go back and actually read my comments I HAVE NEVER SAID BENJI WASN'T WRONG OR THAT SHE SHOULDN'T PAY FOR WHAT HAPPENED. I have only said that she is not worthless and that she is still loved by people who knew and loved her to begin with. I have repeatedly said that I am not upholding her mistakes, but you are no better than her with your hateful, spiteful words. It is not your place to judge and you and everyone else better be careful because we never know what tomorrow holds for any of us, you or anyone else could be in a terrible accident tomorrow or next week or whenever where you are at fought ( under the influence or not) and someone's life is lost. You may be breaking the speed limit or cross the center line and be involved in an accident where someone is killed, would that make your family hate you and would it make you so worthless that you deserved to be put to death while your family watches? I think not. You need help!!!
benjiscousin

Matewan, WV

#28 Aug 1, 2010
sorry *fault* not fought
Rick

Knoxville, TN

#29 Aug 1, 2010
Women would you please shut up its after 3 AM, Everyone knows I would still be up, But you???
Holy Roller
Rick

Knoxville, TN

#30 Aug 1, 2010
And talking about people needing God! Aren't you supposed to be waking up in the morning for Church!
I never get up before 12PM
urstupid

Lenore, WV

#31 Aug 1, 2010
benjiscousin wrote:
<quoted text>
Why would Benji need to go door to door looking for drugs. She's had a drug problem for years and she has never had to steal or beg to get drugs. AND....I'm sure she knows where to go to get them, she doesn't have to just go knocking on random doors.
As far as you saying she should have OD'ed and died, that makes you no better than you're saying she is. I hope you're not a mother/father or because I have children that are not even in Middle School yet and we don't know what tomorrow holds. I sure HOPE AND PRAY that my children never abuse drugs but we don't what our children will do and what life will throw at us, BUT I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT NO MATTER WHAT MISTAKES MY CHILDREN MAKE I WILL NEVER HOPE THAT THEY OR ANY ONE ELSES LOVED ONE TAKES THEIR LIFE. I have never said that Benji was not wrong, but NONE OF US ARE WITHOUT SIN. Mistakes don't make you worthless and they sure don't keep your family from loving you
eye for and eye and you would feel different if it had been barry who killed her so shut up taking up for the druggie if you love her love her but shut up already
urstupid

Lenore, WV

#32 Aug 1, 2010
benjiscousin wrote:
I AM FINISHED WITH THIS SILLY SITE, BUT I WILL TELL YOU PEOPLE THAT I AM A GOOD PERSON AND SO ARE A LOT OF BENJI'S FAMILY. WE DO NOT UPHOLD HER DRUG ABUSE AND WE ARE SORRY THAT THE CHAFIN FAMILY LOST THIER LOVED ONE. NO THEY DIDN'T DESERVE THAT BUT I AM NOT ASHAMED TO TELL YOU PEOPLE THAT BENJI IS NOT WORTHLESS OR HOPELESS. GOD LOVES AND WILL FORGIVE US ALL IF WE ARE SINCERE IN OUR PRAYERS. I DON'T HAVE TO AGREE WITH ALL OF BENJI'S DECISIONS TO LOVE HER, I KNOW SHE WAS WRONG AND SHE SHOULD PAY FOR THAT, BUT SHE IS NOT AN AWFUL PERSON THAT WOULD KNOWINGLY JUST KILL SOMEONE. SHE MADE AN AWFUL DECISION AND A TERRIBLE MISTAKE BUT SHE IS NOT SCUM AND YES I DO LOVE HER!!! I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR HER, HER PARENTS, THE CHAFIN FAMILY AND ALL OF YOU HEARTLESS PEOPLE!!!
Time will tell
so then

United States

#33 Aug 1, 2010
If you want to do something for your cousin, then shut up about this & get off the internet. You're just making trouble. You don't have enough sense to defend her. Your grammar is poor & your spelling is worse.
benjiscousin

Matewan, WV

#34 Aug 1, 2010
urstupid wrote:
<quoted text> eye for and eye and you would feel different if it had been barry who killed her so shut up taking up for the druggie if you love her love her but shut up already
You people are too ignorent to have a conversation with. Have I ever said that she was not wrong or that the Chafin family does not have every right to be angry? NO I HAVE NOT!!! But you people are continuously on here adding a bunch of rumors. AND IF YOU ARE SO CONCERNED WITH WHAT HAS HAPPENED THEN YOU GET OFF TOPIX AND WATCH THE NEWS AND READ THE PAPER TO KEEP UP WITH THE STORY. FURTHERMORE IF YOU'RE REALLY THAT CONCERNED FOR THE CHAFIN FAMILY, SPEND YOUR TIME COMFORTING THEM OR COOKING THEIR DINNER FOR TODAY AND TAKING IT TO THEM.

As far as the biggest idiot of all "Rick" calling me a Holy Roller, that's not an insult.

For the petty person that is saying I can't spell and I don't use correct grammer. LMBO....... Go read the rest of the post, I would gladly compare IQs with ANY of you people.
Rick

Knoxville, TN

#35 Aug 1, 2010
benjiscousin wrote:
<quoted text>
You people are too ignorent to have a conversation with. Have I ever said that she was not wrong or that the Chafin family does not have every right to be angry? NO I HAVE NOT!!! But you people are continuously on here adding a bunch of rumors. AND IF YOU ARE SO CONCERNED WITH WHAT HAS HAPPENED THEN YOU GET OFF TOPIX AND WATCH THE NEWS AND READ THE PAPER TO KEEP UP WITH THE STORY. FURTHERMORE IF YOU'RE REALLY THAT CONCERNED FOR THE CHAFIN FAMILY, SPEND YOUR TIME COMFORTING THEM OR COOKING THEIR DINNER FOR TODAY AND TAKING IT TO THEM.
As far as the biggest idiot of all "Rick" calling me a Holy Roller, that's not an insult.
For the petty person that is saying I can't spell and I don't use correct grammer. LMBO....... Go read the rest of the post, I would gladly compare IQs with ANY of you people.
I would oblige you in comparing IQ's but I am smart enough to know mines arleady higher than yours!
benjiscousin

Matewan, WV

#36 Aug 1, 2010
yours is ARLEADY higher than mine? LMBO
WTF

Gilbert, WV

#37 Aug 1, 2010
Hey Kelli Jo since you want to talk so much smack about ppl, lets talk some on you! You are no better than any other pill head that runs around Newtown or red Jacket. You or your sister! I seen you more than I can count so screwed up you couldn't walk or talk. You are a pill whore yourself!
urstupid

Lenore, WV

#38 Aug 1, 2010
benjiscousin wrote:
<quoted text>
You people are too ignorent to have a conversation with. Have I ever said that she was not wrong or that the Chafin family does not have every right to be angry? NO I HAVE NOT!!! But you people are continuously on here adding a bunch of rumors. AND IF YOU ARE SO CONCERNED WITH WHAT HAS HAPPENED THEN YOU GET OFF TOPIX AND WATCH THE NEWS AND READ THE PAPER TO KEEP UP WITH THE STORY. FURTHERMORE IF YOU'RE REALLY THAT CONCERNED FOR THE CHAFIN FAMILY, SPEND YOUR TIME COMFORTING THEM OR COOKING THEIR DINNER FOR TODAY AND TAKING IT TO THEM.
As far as the biggest idiot of all "Rick" calling me a Holy Roller, that's not an insult.
For the petty person that is saying I can't spell and I don't use correct grammer. LMBO....... Go read the rest of the post, I would gladly compare IQs with ANY of you people.
you are right my friend lost her mother last night noone killed her she just died who do you get angry at for that we spend to much time on anger and not enough on love theres nothing that can bring them back everyone just needs to heal and it takes god and time to do that having alot of anger just kills your soul all this wasted time on anger go hug and love the ones you may never get to see again we never know whats going to happen when we walk out the door. the bible says there is a time to speak and a time to be silent i think everyone has spoken now and told the way they feel lets just let time do what it is suppose to do now.
SORRY FOR THE LOSS

Pikeville, KY

#39 Aug 1, 2010
I DONT KNOW REALLY EITHER OF THEM, BUT PUT UR SELF IN THE POSITION OF HAVING UR LOVED ONE KILLED BY SOMEONE WHO IS INTOXICATED. WHETHER THE PERSON IS ON PILLS OR ALCOHOL ITS ALL THE SAME. AND THE COUSIN SAID THEY KNEW SHE DONE DRUGS, WHERE DID SHE WORK TO GET THE MONEY? CAUSE WHERE I WORK AT U R DRUG TESTED WHEN EVER THEY FEEL LIKE DOING SO. AND DID SHE NOT HAVE A CELL PHONE? A MAJORITY OF THE POPULATION HAVE CELL PHONES NOW. AND IF EVERYONE KNEW SHE WAS ON DRUGS OR ABUSED THEM OR WHATEVER SHE DID, THEY SHOULD OF GOT HER SOME PROFESSIONAL HELP A LONG TIME AGO. IF MY CHILD WAS ON DRUGS I WOULD DO EVERYTHING I COULD TO HELP THEM, DON'T ANYONE EVER WATCH INTERVENTION. SHE COULD OF HAD I THINK WHAT THEY CALL A MENTAL HYGENE WARRANT ISSUED TO HAVE HER PUT IN A PLACE FOR TREATMENT CAUSE SHE WAS A THREAT TO HER SELF AND OTHERS. IM NOT DOWNING ANY PARENT OR OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS ON EITHER SIDE, BUT IF U KNOW THEY HAVE A PROBLEM AND U DONT TRY TO DO SOMETHING IT IS PARTLY UR FAULT TOO. AND IF THAT WAS MY CHILD AND I SEEN HIM BE KILLED I WOULD OF RUN HER DOWN MYSELF TO KILL HER TOO, CAUSE NO PARENT WANTS TO LIVE KNOWING THAT THERE CHILD IS GONE AWAY AND NEVER WILL GET TO BE THERE FOR THEIR CHILDREN OR ANYTHING ELSE. SHE WILL HAVE TO LIVE EVERYDAY WITH KNOWING WHAT SHE DONE, THAT IS IF SHE EVEN REMEMBERS WHAT HAPPEND CAUSE DRUGS DOES AFFECT THE THINKING PROCESS AND DRIVING AND ALOT OF OTHER THINGS TOO. THEY WHOLE MORAL OF THIS IS IF U KNOW THEY R HURTING THEMSELVES AND GOING TO KILL SOMEONE ELSE HELP THEM SEEK THE HELP THEY NEED, CAUSE TOUGH LOVE IS THE HARDEST AND BEST LOVE. IM SORRY FOR THE CHAFIN'S BOY FAMILY AND IM SORRY BENJI NEVER GOT THE HELP SHE NEEDED, CAUSE ALL THIS COULD OF BEEN PREVENTED. THE ONLY THING THE CHAFIN FAMILY HAS NOW IS HIS CHILDREN, AND HE WILL LIVE ON THROUGH THEM..........SORRY 4 THE LOSS.....
anyways

Pikeville, KY

#40 Aug 1, 2010
WTF wrote:
Hey Kelli Jo since you want to talk so much smack about ppl, lets talk some on you! You are no better than any other pill head that runs around Newtown or red Jacket. You or your sister! I seen you more than I can count so screwed up you couldn't walk or talk. You are a pill whore yourself!
didnt you see where she posted "WAS" on drugs? i have seen kellie jo out, and i havent seen her screwed up in a long time. she has straitend up!
anyways

Pikeville, KY

#41 Aug 1, 2010
have you even seen her sister lately? i dont think so, she is home with her family

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