Should I Confess My Affair Or Live Wi...

Since: Aug 11

Richmond, VA

#130 Nov 25, 2012
I don't know, hope so .
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think !

Charleston, WV

#132 Nov 26, 2012
Rich Male Here Also wrote:
<quoted text>It will cost him money either way. Might as well take a chance on staying married, cheating, and not getting caught. If he does not get caught, he gets great sex and keeps his money.
Maybe man up and tell the wife how your feeling.
Women can't read minds, close but not accurately .
Life is busy and complicated. Maybe she doesn't sense your lack because she's feeling the same.
Give her the respect that you'd hope to have. You have choice, give her the same choice.
Infidelity changes everything! Forever!
Even if you get by with it.
think !

Charleston, WV

#133 Nov 26, 2012
Looking For Ms Right wrote:
<quoted text>Just wondering if theres any nice looking women that woud be interested in chatting with a good man. As you can see,I have been through a lot,And just looking for someone to chat with, And see whatever it could end up with.Age is really unimportant,but I am in my late 40s.But do have a big heart,just want to chat for now,but open for sugestions.Would be interested in chatting with a female that has been done wrong and knows what I have went through. I feel that would be a lot of help for the two of us.Kinda looking for Ms Right,Thats been done wrong.
A lot of Ms Rights out there.
Good luck to you.
I personally will never trust again.
Obvious Answer

Barboursville, WV

#134 Nov 27, 2012
The obvious choice is to tell the truth. If you truly loved your husband, you wouldn't have had the ability to cheat on him. Someone WILL tell him because I can guarantee other people will find out, or already have. You made a huge mistake, buthiding and lying about it will just make everything much harder. I would tell him and face that battle rather than facing the battle that would come with him finding out from someone else.
Idk

Huntington, WV

#135 Nov 27, 2012
Obvious Answer wrote:
The obvious choice is to tell the truth. If you truly loved your husband, you wouldn't have had the ability to cheat on him. Someone WILL tell him because I can guarantee other people will find out, or already have. You made a huge mistake, buthiding and lying about it will just make everything much harder. I would tell him and face that battle rather than facing the battle that would come with him finding out from someone else.
Absolutely. If my spouse came to me, because of her conscience and her love for me, and admitted that she'd slipped up and made a mistake, I think I would have the capacity to try to forgive and work through it. However, if I found out from someone else, while she continued to deceive me, she'd be out the door like yesterday's garbage.
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I accidentally cheated

Miami, FL

#137 Nov 28, 2012
I stated earlier that I already told him.

I did not get to spend thanksgiving with him. I was forced to go to my coworkers house (his wife does not know). This was very awkward. When his wife went to the store to pick up some groceries, he kissed me. I felt lonely and was missing my husband. It felt good to know someone still liked me. It only lasted for about 30-60 seconds before I pulled myself away.

I can't trust myself. I want to go home and be with my husband. How can I get him to love me again? Thank you all so much for your insight.
spare us please

Colorado Springs, CO

#138 Nov 28, 2012
I accidentally cheated wrote:
I stated earlier that I already told him.
I did not get to spend thanksgiving with him. I was forced to go to my coworkers house (his wife does not know). This was very awkward. When his wife went to the store to pick up some groceries, he kissed me. I felt lonely and was missing my husband. It felt good to know someone still liked me. It only lasted for about 30-60 seconds before I pulled myself away.
I can't trust myself. I want to go home and be with my husband. How can I get him to love me again? Thank you all so much for your insight.
Lady, GET REAL. You do not deserve your husband. You went to your affair partners house for thanksgiving?????????? Why not do something without the dude? Could you not go to a homeless shelter and serve food or something? Seriously, anything but be around the guy you cheated with. No kiss last 30-60 FING seconds unless YOU WANT IT TOO!!!! You are a wh0r3! Your poor husband.
spare us please

Colorado Springs, CO

#139 Nov 28, 2012
forced to go to your co-workers lol. you are something else.
Ralph

Lubbock, TX

#140 Nov 28, 2012
I accidentally cheated wrote:
I stated earlier that I already told him.

I did not get to spend thanksgiving with him. I was forced to go to my coworkers house (his wife does not know). This was very awkward. When his wife went to the store to pick up some groceries, he kissed me. I felt lonely and was missing my husband. It felt good to know someone still liked me. It only lasted for about 30-60 seconds before I pulled myself away.

I can't trust myself. I want to go home and be with my husband. How can I get him to love me again? Thank you all so much for your insight.
I gave you the benefit of the doubt by saying do not tell your husband, thus allowing you to stay with him, if you truly loved him and knew you would not cheat on him again. You have now proven that you are not capable of that. You need to let him move on so he has a chance to find someone who won't cheat on him.

Instead of me saying "if you truly love him then don't tell him and work it out", I'm now saying "if you truly love him then do what's best for HIM and let him go his own way."
need a smoke break

Huntington, WV

#141 Nov 28, 2012
I accidentally cheated wrote:
I stated earlier that I already told him.
I did not get to spend thanksgiving with him. I was forced to go to my coworkers house (his wife does not know). This was very awkward. When his wife went to the store to pick up some groceries, he kissed me. I felt lonely and was missing my husband. It felt good to know someone still liked me. It only lasted for about 30-60 seconds before I pulled myself away.
I can't trust myself. I want to go home and be with my husband. How can I get him to love me again? Thank you all so much for your insight.
Wow, just....wow.
Idk

Huntington, WV

#142 Nov 28, 2012
I accidentally cheated wrote:
I stated earlier that I already told him.
I did not get to spend thanksgiving with him. I was forced to go to my coworkers house (his wife does not know). This was very awkward. When his wife went to the store to pick up some groceries, he kissed me. I felt lonely and was missing my husband. It felt good to know someone still liked me. It only lasted for about 30-60 seconds before I pulled myself away.
I can't trust myself. I want to go home and be with my husband. How can I get him to love me again? Thank you all so much for your insight.
You blew it in a BIG way.(Just curious - your earlier post said you'd stopped talking to your lover. Are you clinically schizophrenic?).

Your husband shouldn't take you back. You should end up alone.
I accidentally cheated

Miami, FL

#143 Nov 28, 2012
I never meant for any of it to happen. All I want is a second chance to fix my family. I know it is my fault for giving in, but I was lost in a fog of emotions.
I accidentally cheated

Miami, FL

#144 Nov 28, 2012
Idk wrote:
<quoted text>
You blew it in a BIG way.(Just curious - your earlier post said you'd stopped talking to your lover. Are you clinically schizophrenic?).
Your husband shouldn't take you back. You should end up alone.
I did stop, but working together I am bound to speak to him fro time to time. He knew I was not living at home anymore and invited me to spend thanksgiving with him and his family. Another big mistake on my part.
I accidentally cheated

Miami, FL

#145 Nov 28, 2012
*from
I accidentally cheated

Miami, FL

#146 Nov 28, 2012
I want my husband to love me again. Doesn't everyone deserve a second chance. If we do not get back together, I am afraid he will find someone else. I want it all to go away and start over. I am sincere in my sorrow. I wish I would not have told him in a way.
I accidentally cheated

Miami, FL

#147 Nov 28, 2012
But he deserved to know according to some of the replies on here. My thoughts are all over the place.
Long Slow Kisses

Bluefield, WV

#148 Nov 28, 2012
I accidentally cheated wrote:
I stated earlier that I already told him.
I did not get to spend thanksgiving with him. I was forced to go to my coworkers house (his wife does not know). This was very awkward. When his wife went to the store to pick up some groceries, he kissed me. I felt lonely and was missing my husband. It felt good to know someone still liked me. It only lasted for about 30-60 seconds before I pulled myself away.
I can't trust myself. I want to go home and be with my husband. How can I get him to love me again? Thank you all so much for your insight.
You could have spent Thanksgiving with me,And you would have loved it. You would forget about your husband.If I had that 30 to 60 seconds with you,enough time for one long slow kiss.You would have never anted to pulled yourself away,You would have wanted to pull yourself to me a lot closer.You know what those long slow kisses does to you.Im on the prowl looking for Ms Right.
not an accident

Colorado Springs, CO

#149 Nov 28, 2012
Multiple times? Going to cheaters house a few days ago? This is not an accident. You are a serial cheater.
Coworker

United States

#150 Nov 28, 2012
Wife has book club tomorrow. Please come over to talk.

Since: Aug 11

Richmond, VA

#151 Nov 29, 2012
Coworker wrote:
Wife has book club tomorrow. Please come over to talk.
You are a disrespectful turd, But you know that don't you.

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