why do married men need to sext or talk about sex with other women?

[Nice but mad as hell]

Thought I was happily married, but just found out my husband is sexting with 3 other women. Its not the first time its happened and he never goes any further than talk but some of this talk is very explicit. We have a very active sex life, nice home and are always doing things together. I want to understand but I'm mad as hell about it. These women actually think he is going to leave me for them. How stupid do they have to be to see through him. Someone please tell me why men do this.

[JustAsk]

Nice but mad as hell wrote:

Thought I was happily married, but just found out my husband is sexting with 3 other women. Its not the first time its happened and he never goes any further than talk but some of this talk is very explicit. We have a very active sex life, nice home and are always doing things together. I want to understand but I'm mad as hell about it. These women actually think he is going to leave me for them. How stupid do they have to be to see through him. Someone please tell me why men do this.

Roll over and ask your husband.....

[Wake Up]

You are fooling yourself if you believe that's all he had done. Cheating is cheating. If he does anything he feels he cam not tell you THAT IS CHEATING. Been there myself more than once have to ask yourself is it worth fighting for but then again how many times am I gonna let him rip my heart out.

[cheaters are wrong]

Nice but mad as hell wrote:

Thought I was happily married, but just found out my husband is sexting with 3 other women. Its not the first time its happened and he never goes any further than talk but some of this talk is very explicit. We have a very active sex life, nice home and are always doing things together. I want to understand but I'm mad as hell about it. These women actually think he is going to leave me for them. How stupid do they have to be to see through him. Someone please tell me why men do this.

I do feel sorry for you but it's not always men, I have seen in many cases women do the same thing. Like you said they never take it futher then the phone but it's just wrong to even think about doing it. I have come to the conculsion that texting and Facebook can ruin relationships. It wont be long facebook will fade out like myspace has, but I'm sure something else will takes it's place.

[JustAsk]

"BORING"

[Food for thought]

Nice but mad as hell wrote:

Thought I was happily married, but just found out my husband is sexting with 3 other women. Its not the first time its happened and he never goes any further than talk but some of this talk is very explicit. We have a very active sex life, nice home and are always doing things together. I want to understand but I'm mad as hell about it. These women actually think he is going to leave me for them. How stupid do they have to be to see through him. Someone please tell me why men do this.

Why don't you start sexting your husband? You say you have an active sex life with your husband, so start sexting him and make your sex life adventurous. He may forget all about those other three women.

[jaded]

Food for thought wrote:

<quoted text>Why don't you start sexting your husband? You say you have an active sex life with your husband, so start sexting him and make your sex life adventurous. He may forget all about those other three women.

He probably won't stop. He likes the thrill of being and the chase. He already has his wife so there's no thrill in that. Learned that lesson from experience.

[Oh honey]

Don't be stupid. I say this from experience. If it quacks like a duck and walks like one, it's a duck. Your husband is a cheater! I guarantee you it hasn't stopped at just sexting! If you need proof to satisfy suspicion, look for it. He's given you reason not to trust him!

[JMB79]

I sext all the damn time. I dont care if its cheating, I do what I want and if she finds out and doesnt like it, feel free to leave. People have a right to be happy and if that makes them happy, more power to them.

[Oh honey]

JMB79 wrote:

I sext all the damn time. I dont care if its cheating, I do what I want and if she finds out and doesnt like it, feel free to leave. People have a right to be happy and if that makes them happy, more power to them.

Would you feel that way if she were sexting other guys? You don't deserve a good woman. Sure hope you don't have one!

[ICU]

is this kim? if so its worse than you though. there's only one girl and honey she's pregnant and its most definatly his

[JMB79]

Oh honey wrote:

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Would you feel that way if she were sexting other guys? You don't deserve a good woman. Sure hope you don't have one!

For all I know, she does. And its not your place to tell me what I deserve, so dont. If she does, I wouldnt blame her, I want her to be happy.

[MindurManners]

Ladies and gentlemen, please. Do not ever go into a marriage thinking either of you will not stumble or downright fall into the arms of someone else. Accept the fact you are human. Life gets in the way and one of you is going to need the other to give 125%. Till death do you part. In sickness and health. An affair is emotional turmoil for all concerned. Be strong and fight for what is yours. You may never forget but you can forgive.

[Oh honey]

MindurManners wrote:

Ladies and gentlemen, please. Do not ever go into a marriage thinking either of you will not stumble or downright fall into the arms of someone else. Accept the fact you are human. Life gets in the way and one of you is going to need the other to give 125%. Till death do you part. In sickness and health. An affair is emotional turmoil for all concerned. Be strong and fight for what is yours. You may never forget but you can forgive.

Yeah, well I've been there, done that. He cheated non stop, and from what I understand is doing the same with wifey #2. I can say without a doubt that I would NEVER cheat! I am human, which means I can control my actions! Now if someone cheats on me, it's an automatic deal breaker!

[One who knows]

Nice but mad as hell wrote:

Thought I was happily married, but just found out my husband is sexting with 3 other women. Its not the first time its happened and he never goes any further than talk but some of this talk is very explicit. We have a very active sex life, nice home and are always doing things together. I want to understand but I'm mad as hell about it. These women actually think he is going to leave me for them. How stupid do they have to be to see through him. Someone please tell me why men do this.

have you considered that his sexting is part of what keeps your sex life active? Also, why not try sexting him a couple times and see what happens?

[Preditor]

Nice but mad as hell wrote:

Thought I was happily married, but just found out my husband is sexting with 3 other women. Its not the first time its happened and he never goes any further than talk but some of this talk is very explicit. We have a very active sex life, nice home and are always doing things together. I want to understand but I'm mad as hell about it. These women actually think he is going to leave me for them. How stupid do they have to be to see through him. Someone please tell me why men do this.

Insecurity and fear of losing his sex appeal. No matter what you do, you cannot make him secure in his own self.

Pretty cruel of him to be sexting other women, at least without your permission. I would get ahold of those gals' naked phots and post them on the internet. Label it as your husband's joy toys and then show them to his family and neighbors.

[Preditor]

Oh honey wrote:

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Yeah, well I've been there, done that. He cheated non stop, and from what I understand is doing the same with wifey #2. I can say without a doubt that I would NEVER cheat! I am human, which means I can control my actions! Now if someone cheats on me, it's an automatic deal breaker!

For sure, if they physically or psychologically cheat on you they will cheat on every other woman. Men rarely leave a wife for a mistress, yet alone a sexter. Those gals are just asking to be hurt and too immature to realize was a nasty game they have gotten involved in.

[one who knows]

and men very seldom screw up and get their mistress pregnant and dont make her do anything about it...

[passing thru]

Not all men do this. There r some that stay true to our partner. Yes be adventurous n keep it alive, this goes for both parties. My partner was doing the txing too, did it day n nite to multiple men. Why u ask men do this u ask, cause there r women out there just as bad as some of these so called men u talk about. Here's an idea call these women n find out who there r. I bet u dig a little u find a lot. I did n now I'm single again. Remember this, man or woman once a cheat always a cheat. U can't turn players into husbands n a whore into a house wife.

[REdee]

Nice But Mad as Hell: Be strong,I can kick my own butt for not hanging through a bunch of bull.Keep it together. Til Death do you apart......God Bless.