Monte Carlo

Nicholasville, KY

#1 Nov 20, 2010
I heard a prominent Marshville citizen took his own life but have seen nothing in the Monroe or Charlotte paper's obituaries. If it is who I heard I am beyond shock. I have known him nearly all my life and he would be one of the last ones I would think would do something like that. Is it true?

“Just watching the show & LOL..”

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#2 Nov 20, 2010
Haven't heard about it but it wasn't me. I did it once over an ex-girlfriend but I will never do it again!
andy clemins

Denver, NC

#3 Nov 20, 2010
That's not funny luvnut this is about someones life.
Interesting

Waxhaw, NC

#4 Nov 21, 2010
luvnut wrote:
Haven't heard about it but it wasn't me. I did it once over an ex-girlfriend but I will never do it again!
Whatever the reason for it, death is not a joke. Some may be deeply saddened by it, some may rejoice for the soul, but it is never, NEVER a joke.

From one who was very close to it.
mr maxey

Canton, OH

#5 Nov 21, 2010
This is another reason why the good people that want to keep us informed dont want to post on here anymore. is peoples like luvnut that write crazy stuff, stop it luvnut, or shall we just call you nut.
Monte Carlo

Nicholasville, KY

#6 Nov 21, 2010
Yes it is true. The obit was in the Sunday paper. I am deeply hurt by the loss of an old friend.

I will never understand taking one's own life. I have had 3 personal friends during my 67 years on this earth end their own life. Each was successful and always appeared confident and content. Each had a loving family and many friends.

I rejoiced in knowing Ben, Jeff and now Jim. How tragic. My prayer goes for the family and God's healing. I grieve with them as a longtime friend.

Since: Jul 09

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#7 Nov 21, 2010
I was shocked to learn that Jimmy has crossed over by his own hand. How sad.

“Just watching the show & LOL..”

Since: Oct 10

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#8 Nov 21, 2010
Well now I apologize; I did not think it was real, and my condolences to the family. I do have to ask though; who was it. I may know them as well.
C Horne

Indian Trail, NC

#9 Nov 21, 2010
My world nearly came apart when Jeff Coley killed himself. I can't imagine what was going through his mind to make him do something like that. If he suffered from depression nobody would know. He was always friendly and had something nice to say to everyone. He was well respected and a community leader.

Jim Perkins was a good bit older than I am. I knew his family and I know his wife's family. I have done business with them for several years and they both are 1st class people, honest and friendly.

Like everyone else I'm still in a state of shock. It is obvious that he planned everything well in advance down to the smallest detail and no one knew what he was planning. Not even his wife who was right there with him every day.
Harold Pender

Nicholasville, KY

#10 Dec 4, 2010
C Horne wrote:
My world nearly came apart when Jeff Coley killed himself. I can't imagine what was going through his mind to make him do something like that. If he suffered from depression nobody would know. He was always friendly and had something nice to say to everyone. He was well respected and a community leader.
Jim Perkins was a good bit older than I am. I knew his family and I know his wife's family. I have done business with them for several years and they both are 1st class people, honest and friendly.
Like everyone else I'm still in a state of shock. It is obvious that he planned everything well in advance down to the smallest detail and no one knew what he was planning. Not even his wife who was right there with him every day.
I have been out of the area for about 3 months and have not kept up with the happenings around Marshville. This came as a shock to me. Jim has been my insurance man for several years. I don't know the circumstances but I understand he left everything in order and called the police right before he killed himself. It's very sad. Such a nice family. Hard to understand.

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