Since: Jul 13

Denver, CO

#1 Jul 23, 2013
I want to meet my dad and his side of family. They know I am alive and know everything about me for the past 18 years. Why wont they talk, email or even call me? My dads name is Joel Patrick Tucker and my grandparents are Jesse and Wanda Tucker all of fair grove,mo.
Donna

Leesburg, GA

#2 Aug 28, 2013
family reunion wrote:
I want to meet my dad and his side of family. They know I am alive and know everything about me for the past 18 years. Why wont they talk, email or even call me? My dads name is Joel Patrick Tucker and my grandparents are Jesse and Wanda Tucker all of fair grove,mo.


Joel Patrick Tucker is my grandson's father too.but he did not know much about him.Alex would like to meet his father too! Perhaps you and Alex share the same dad. I don't know why he won't contact you but I certainly understand.
Donna

Leesburg, GA

#3 Aug 28, 2013
family reunion wrote:
I want to meet my dad and his side of family. They know I am alive and know everything about me for the past 18 years. Why wont they talk, email or even call me? My dads name is Joel Patrick Tucker and my grandparents are Jesse and Wanda Tucker all of fair grove,mo.
Understand your pain!
urbana girl

Ava, MO

#4 Aug 30, 2013
Im so sorry. I dont know him but i have a son that asks the same questions about his father. Ill tell u what i tell him...sometimes people are so imbarassed or ashamed of the way they have treated people they cant stand to face them. So its easier to hide and ignore them. Instead of worrying about what you dont have...focus on what you do have. Spend your time and energy on the people who were there for u growing up. Those that supported you and helped to make u who u r today. They deserve the credit and the honor of getting to know you. If god vrings your dad in your life then u can decide what role you want him to play it it. Otherwize i wouldnt waste my time or energy on someone with that moral character. He isnt good enough to get to know you...u deserve better. Sometimes no father is much better than a shitty one.
mary

Aurora, CO

#5 Nov 17, 2013
Donna wrote:
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Understand your pain!
joel p. Tucker is not Alexs' dad done by paternity test. And proven in divorce court by your daughter faith. Faith cheated while married to joel.
update

Houston, TX

#6 Apr 24, 2014
family reunion wrote:
I want to meet my dad and his side of family. They know I am alive and know everything about me for the past 18 years. Why wont they talk, email or even call me? My dads name is Joel Patrick Tucker and my grandparents are Jesse and Wanda Tucker all of fair grove,mo.
April 2014, I just received a phone call from my dad, whom I have never seen or met in 20 years and I am 19 years old. He told me to drop dead and he wants nothing to do with me or any of his kids. His lost....He should of kept up and zipped. I have the best parent ever (my mom).
update

Houston, TX

#7 May 2, 2014
update wrote:
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April 2014, I just received a phone call from my dad, whom I have never seen or met in 20 years and I am 19 years old. He told me to drop dead and he wants nothing to do with me or any of his kids. His lost....He should of kept up and zipped. I have the best parent ever (my mom).
Jesse lee tucker passes away April 28, 2014 at his home in fair grove missouri.
urbana girl

Fordland, MO

#8 May 13, 2014
April 2014, I just received a phone call from my dad, whom I have never seen or met in 20 years and I am 19 years old. He told me to drop dead and he wants nothing to do with me or any of his kids. His lost....He should of kept up and zipped. I have the best parent ever (my mom).
Good foe u. Spend ur time and energy one her. Just because he donated sperm doesn't make him a father. Ignore him and assume he is dead. Then someday when he comes back and wants to see his grandkids and has realuzed his mistakes y can put him in his place. Until then don't waste time feeli g rejected. Take the power back and u make the decision for ur own mind that u r choosing to write him off. Then go be happy.:) ps...if he owes back child support greater than 5k its a felony. U can always contact a prosecutor just for laughs if u wanna get even.
So sorry

Springfield, MO

#9 May 14, 2014
I am so sorry you are missing your dad. My son does not know his dad either, but he has an awesome step-dad that has raised him for 29 years. My son does not want anything to do with his bio dad.
Unknown

Sparta, MO

#10 Jun 19, 2014
Look Update, how is it that you haven't met or seen your dad in 20 years but you are only 19?
Urbana girl

Oklahoma City, OK

#11 Jul 10, 2014
Unknown wrote:
Look Update, how is it that you haven't met or seen your dad in 20 years but you are only 19?
the last time he was with my mom is when my mom was pregnant with my twin and me at 8 months of pregnancy.
Donna

United States

#12 Nov 17, 2014
mary wrote:
<quoted text> joel p. Tucker is not Alexs' dad done by paternity test. And proven in divorce court by your daughter faith. Faith cheated while married to joel.
Joel Patrick Tucker did have a court ordered paternity test. He was proven to be Alex's father. Joel knows this. Faith actually was not married when she conceived Alex. As we all know this happens often in our world today.
answer

Oklahoma City, OK

#13 Nov 17, 2014
Donna wrote:
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Joel Patrick Tucker did have a court ordered paternity test. He was proven to be Alex's father. Joel knows this. Faith actually was not married when she conceived Alex. As we all know this happens often in our world today.
The paternity test that you spoke of is not in any court or legal documents. The divorce was started in late 1993 and done in 1994. Faith also was with Parents as Teachers.She told case worker - Alex WAS NOT her ex husbands. She said the child was a guy she was seeing behind her husband's back. If the child is Joel then why isn't he paying child support? That is not stated in any documents (legal or medical).
SuZ

Kansas City, MO

#15 Dec 5, 2014
Seriously ? On a public forum ?! Take your family business off here when it involves children , now please .
Vandelier

North Kingstown, RI

#16 Apr 13, 2015
family reunion wrote:
I want to meet my dad and his side of family. They know I am alive and know everything about me for the past 18 years. Why wont they talk, email or even call me? My dads name is Joel Patrick Tucker and my grandparents are Jesse and Wanda Tucker all of fair grove,mo.
Sorry you had to have this piece of S*it as a father. I can tell you from someone who had terrible parents in my life for many years, chances are you are much better off. Honor the individuals who raised you. They are a blessing for sure.

Your father stole from the people who were most vulnerable in society and didnt even think to care for his own children. He is in hiding now and you can be pleased he looks over his shoulder wherever he goes. Some sad comfort for you.
urbana girl

Oklahoma City, OK

#17 Apr 29, 2015
Vandelier wrote:
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Sorry you had to have this piece of S*it as a father. I can tell you from someone who had terrible parents in my life for many years, chances are you are much better off. Honor the individuals who raised you. They are a blessing for sure.
Your father stole from the people who were most vulnerable in society and didnt even think to care for his own children. He is in hiding now and you can be pleased he looks over his shoulder wherever he goes. Some sad comfort for you.
How do you know my father: Joel Patrick Tucker? Whether he done right or wrong, I would still like to see him for my closer.
urbana girl

Oklahoma City, OK

#18 Apr 29, 2015
How do you know my father: Joel Patrick Tucker? It does not matter if he did right or wrong, he is
still my father and what he did has nothing to do with me. I need answers and closer?
Daughter

Oklahoma City, OK

#19 May 15, 2016
Vandelier wrote:
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Sorry you had to have this piece of S*it as a father. I can tell you from someone who had terrible parents in my life for many years, chances are you are much better off. Honor the individuals who raised you. They are a blessing for sure.

Your father stole from the people who were most vulnerable in society and didnt even think to care for his own children. He is in hiding now and you can be pleased he looks over his shoulder wherever he goes. Some sad comfort for you.
My Father (Joel Patrick Tucker) Is Not In Hiding, He Works At The Fair Grove Mill With My Step Mom(Heather Beazley Tucker). They live in Fair Grove, Missouri.
amish abe

Saint Louis, MO

#20 Sep 3, 2016
i knew your great grandpa old dan tucker he was a real mf , his kid sounds just like hi
Daughter

Oklahoma City, OK

#21 Sep 3, 2016
amish abe wrote:
i knew your great grandpa old dan tucker he was a real mf , his kid sounds just like hi
I am doing my family geneaology on both Stark and Tucker side.

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