open letter to one Marshfield resident

open letter to one Marshfield resident

Posted in the Marshfield Forum

Kens son John

Billerica, MA

#1 Jan 13, 2010
yes you know who.

I have asked god every single day to take the burden of pain of your betrayal from my heart but I know I have to express myself first.

Years and years, decades and decades I was there for you, I was there for your mother and never asked you for a thing in return. I never had a disagreement with you until dad wad dying and you thought you should take over. He didn't want you to, I don't know why because I begged him to knowing what the other choice was. Whatever reason he took it to the grave.

That day in August of 06, the last time I saw my father, the man YOU know I was more than just close too (we were best friends) I stood by his death bed crying. He told me I see heaven, I said "dad, if you see my late sister take her hand and go with her, I love you". He did a few hours later.

He smiled and said YOU would be there for me emotionally, he said you promised him that.

I was gone carrying out his final wishes and when I came back with pictures you didn't even thank me or check on how I was after I sent them to you. But then your attitude at his funeral was puzzling to EVERYONE.

But you couldn't leave it at that, you used the courts to drag out the worst pain of my life losing dad for three years. You said that I never loved him, I was dependant on him (and I was being as you know I have emotional and mental disorders), I stole his money (I would of loved to be a fly on the wall when you got his bank records and saw how wrong you were). Yet he gave you and your mother 10s of thousands, he left very little behind.

You couldn't let his son have what he wanted me to have, you had to try and take that too. All you did was make two lawyers richer and destroy me (for what? I never wronged you ever). The last thing dad was about was money, but you put me through all that pain for nothing and what you did was cruel, worse you did it for money.

Now I can turn this back to god, he knows the truth, you know I didn't do anything wrong, I know it, dad knows it (he died proud the way I took care of him 24/7) but I stopped it because the next step would of meant hurting your mother. I had to spare her, dad would want that and she had no idea what you were doing to me, dad, her, us.

Before I do turn this over to the lord Jesus let me just say, you betrayed the greatest man ever (for both of us) and did it the name of your mother who is equally as good as dad. That is unacceptable on every level and I hope it haunts you. I lost dad and your mother, because of your greed. Let it be known that I am sure of one fact, you will always say my father was like a father to you. But I know that he would no longer agree and you have given up the right to say that by your vicious attack and hate.

You came close to killing me and destroying my family, I should hate you...but I feel sorry for you. God teaches me to forgive and I try, but you should apologize first (I know that will never happen). Good luck, you did all that damage for money and all it did was hurt and cost us all. I hope you are satisfied.
been there

Duxbury, MA

#2 May 2, 2010
John,
I know the pain that a family can inflict when it come to money and greed. People will do anything and say anything to get what they want and in the process, try to destroy you. Well, it has been five years since I lost my dad and my sister, sister-in-law and an attorney stole everything from the estate. They all had their hands dirtied but they will have to answer to a higher authority one day. I have been through alot of pain and anger but have realized what is important. I have since moved on with my life,(less sister and sister-in-law) and devote my time and energy to my wife and son. It is the betrayal that is hard to accept all for money. May God bless us and those who do the right thing each and every day. And for those who don't, what comes around goes around.
Kens son John wrote:
yes you know who.
I have asked god every single day to take the burden of pain of your betrayal from my heart but I know I have to express myself first.
Years and years, decades and decades I was there for you, I was there for your mother and never asked you for a thing in return. I never had a disagreement with you until dad wad dying and you thought you should take over. He didn't want you to, I don't know why because I begged him to knowing what the other choice was. Whatever reason he took it to the grave.
That day in August of 06, the last time I saw my father, the man YOU know I was more than just close too (we were best friends) I stood by his death bed crying. He told me I see heaven, I said "dad, if you see my late sister take her hand and go with her, I love you". He did a few hours later.
He smiled and said YOU would be there for me emotionally, he said you promised him that.
I was gone carrying out his final wishes and when I came back with pictures you didn't even thank me or check on how I was after I sent them to you. But then your attitude at his funeral was puzzling to EVERYONE.
But you couldn't leave it at that, you used the courts to drag out the worst pain of my life losing dad for three years. You said that I never loved him, I was dependant on him (and I was being as you know I have emotional and mental disorders), I stole his money (I would of loved to be a fly on the wall when you got his bank records and saw how wrong you were). Yet he gave you and your mother 10s of thousands, he left very little behind.
You couldn't let his son have what he wanted me to have, you had to try and take that too. All you did was make two lawyers richer and destroy me (for what? I never wronged you ever). The last thing dad was about was money, but you put me through all that pain for nothing and what you did was cruel, worse you did it for money.
Now I can turn this back to god, he knows the truth, you know I didn't do anything wrong, I know it, dad knows it (he died proud the way I took care of him 24/7) but I stopped it because the next step would of meant hurting your mother. I had to spare her, dad would want that and she had no idea what you were doing to me, dad, her, us.
Before I do turn this over to the lord Jesus let me just say, you betrayed the greatest man ever (for both of us) and did it the name of your mother who is equally as good as dad. That is unacceptable on every level and I hope it haunts you. I lost dad and your mother, because of your greed. Let it be known that I am sure of one fact, you will always say my father was like a father to you. But I know that he would no longer agree and you have given up the right to say that by your vicious attack and hate.
You came close to killing me and destroying my family, I should hate you...but I feel sorry for you. God teaches me to forgive and I try, but you should apologize first (I know that will never happen). Good luck, you did all that damage for money and all it did was hurt and cost us all. I hope you are satisfied.

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