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STEP MOM

Vallejo, CA

#22 Apr 10, 2012
I am a step mother of a ten year old boy who lives with me since the age of 6. My husband and I now have a 1 1/2 year old and another boy expecting in June. Now what I do not agree with is the ex or baby mama whatever you wanna call her useless ass gives me no credit what so ever for being a huge part of my step sons life. She is consently comparing her self to me and gives my husband crap like you didn't do that for me or the worst is comparing a new born to a 10 year old comparing our kids as if he was treated any different which he isn't I do everything for him drive him 20 miles out of the way so he can go to a better school taking him to and from karate late night homework to early morning asthma attacks to countless nights in the ER. This kid means everything to me just as if he was one of my own boys. This woman is 7 years older then me she doesn't have her shit together and just hates how much involved I am when she can't be there for her son she is so ungrateful its sad if I were in her situation I'd be glad to have a woman like me step up for my kids I grew up with horrible step parents from both my mother and my dad where I'd get physically beaten by my step dad and mistreated by my step mother. I know for a fact she should consider her self lucky. Instead of being a jealous person because the only herein she's hurting is her own son. He always seems so torn and is afraid to show affection to me for the sake of him hurting his mothers feelings its a tough job being a step mother doing the hard work while she gets the rewards but I will not let that stop me from being who I am to him oneday I hope he will understand and give me the respect I do deserve. Not say that its my obligation because it came with the package which he hears his mother say all the time.
sweet caramel

United States

#23 Sep 14, 2012
fed up momma wrote:
Ok...since this seems to be such a controversial issue, let's see what you have to say about this. I am the step-mom in this situation, but I am called Mommy, and in my eyes and his, he is my son. The biological mother, or egg donor as I affectionately call her has nothing to do with this kid unless it
will benefit her. She has other kids too, and she hasnt grown up not one little bit and the kids are the ones suffering. I am the one who has helped his father provide a consistant loving structured home for this child. I read him bedtime stories, we make cookies together, I kiss his boo boos and I'm who he runs to when he is sick or scared. We have been to court dozens of times for various reasons and she keeps getting chance after chance which has unfortunately reulted in more stresss and trauma for this child. There was once after court that we didn't hear from her for over a month to check on him or try to see him. I was the one who had to answer questions and deal with tears when he asked why she wasnt coming or calling. There is so much more to this story than I am allowed space...but not all step moms or "new women" in a kids life are bad....some of us are "real moms" who actually give a shit and try to do right by our kids. I mean heck I have even reached out to this worthless human and tried to encourage her to be a part of his life. I in no way shape or form have tried to be a replacement I have only tried to be what he needed.
i agree im in the same situation so i know how u feel also she gets child support 600 dollar and still want more
sweet caramel

United States

#24 Sep 14, 2012
Please give me advice
stopit

Englewood, CO

#25 Apr 26, 2013
Ridiculous wrote:
As a mother, it is my right to be concerned about who influences my child! Any decent female would understand that...my child is my business. I'm sorry you feel that way "sosick," but maybe you should take that into consideration when choosing to engage in a relationship with a man who has a child. You need to understand that a good mother is concerned about her child's well-being. So, get off of Topix and work on your grammar/spelling!!! Stop bashing mothers that care!
You know...I'm the father of a wonderful child, and did not have a relationship with his mother from the get go. Now I have a beautiful, successful girlfriend that is sincere, and kind to my child. However, his mother still insists on making life difficult for me. This is jealously at its worst.
trees dont fork

Columbia, SC

#26 Apr 26, 2013
wow....

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