Just thinking

Stuart, VA

#1 Oct 2, 2012
Do you think your spouse is cheating on you well more then likely they are. Just catching them in the act. If anyone out there is cheating with someone married , you really need to stop and think, if they are cheating on their spouse they will cheat on you also which really they are already doing just that with their spouse and God knows who else. Get a back bone and get away and let the other half know without giving your name.
Chicken Little

Max Meadows, VA

#2 Oct 2, 2012
Just thinking wrote:
Do you think your spouse is cheating on you well more then likely they are. Just catching them in the act. If anyone out there is cheating with someone married , you really need to stop and think, if they are cheating on their spouse they will cheat on you also which really they are already doing just that with their spouse and God knows who else. Get a back bone and get away and let the other half know without giving your name.
Cluck, Cluck, Cluck. I think you should go buy a porn book. You'll get your load off quicker if you have one. Let the other half know without giving your name? Cluck, Cluck.
Antoinette

Charlottesville, VA

#4 Oct 7, 2012
Im so sorry Wdae, LMAO its not your fault.
Butch Cars

Max Meadows, VA

#5 Oct 7, 2012
Just thinking wrote:
Do you think your spouse is cheating on you well more then likely they are. Just catching them in the act. If anyone out there is cheating with someone married , you really need to stop and think, if they are cheating on their spouse they will cheat on you also which really they are already doing just that with their spouse and God knows who else. Get a back bone and get away and let the other half know without giving your name.
Is it a HIM youre worrid about? You sound queer.
Just Thinking

Stuart, VA

#6 Oct 8, 2012
No I am queer , it is a man, I am a Woman. Just wonder if there is anyone cheating on their spouse and if they feel quilty and if they think that they will faithfull to them. Do not even think that once a cheater always one.
Do you every think about their spouses feelings, or their kids if they have any. I bet he or she does not treat the other half any different.
justmyopinion

Knoxville, TN

#7 Oct 8, 2012
There will always be cheaters. Both men and women. Depends on how a person was brought up to a certain degree. It can be a family affair so to speak. It can also just be that the person has no morals and no self respect. So they are always looking for that one perfect person. However, when they think they have found them and as time goes on then they start to wonder if that person is really the person they were were seeking after all and often will seek out someone else. It goes on and on. These persons do not care who they hurt. They will not admit that it was any fault of theirs as to what happened and will always blame the other person for the relationship not working. Often telling lies just to try to make excuses for their own behavior. Once a person has gotten into a relationship that is based on cheating then there can not be any trust. After all that person whom you have "won" cheated with you on their spouse. Odds are good they will do the same again only this time you will be the one who gets hurt but then again that is called Karma!!
Unfortunately, very often there are children involved and they are by no means not dumb. They see what the one parent has gone through that has took care of them and stood by them come what may. If the cheater, his friends and family have caused the one parent pain the children will remember. They hear and know more then anyone thinks. So the cheater and all involved with them has not only lost their family, they have lost something that will probably never get back. That is the respect of their children. To some they make not care, others will.
So before anyone even thinks of cheating be honest with your spouse/partner. Get it out in the open that you are unhappy and don't even start telling lies and blaming the other. The pain a person and/or their children goes through after the truth comes out about someone cheating is unbearable. The trust is gone and if the cheaters family (ie. mom, dad, siblings, etc.) uphold that person for the act of betraying their own family then the damage can be far reaching. But no one that cheats tend to think about the future or the affect their behavior has on anyone. They only want to see if the grass is really greener on the other side and often it isn't. Its just different is all. I often hear folks that have been cheated on say after a couple of years that they are much happier without that person. Of course they are!!! Why wouldn't they be? That person that betrayed them is out of their lives and left them room to grow and make a better life for themselves and their children.

Just Thinking

Stuart, VA

#8 Oct 9, 2012
Most people that cheat wants their cake and eat it to and they get that for a while ,then they get caught and start begging the other half to forgive them. I would not ever forgive the second go around. So I just hope that anyone that cheats ,will stop and think about it first.
Butch Cars

Max Meadows, VA

#9 Oct 9, 2012
Everybody with a Charlottesville ISP is queer.
WhoDunit

Gladys, VA

#10 Oct 9, 2012
I agree that cheating is wrong. There is no justification in it. However, there are reasons. None of us are so un-human that we can not understand the emotions or what drives someone to cheat. I agree that you should NOT cross that line, leave first. Do what is right and show your significant other the respect they deserve. I dont sit in judgement of those who feel as if they must cheat, as I am human and not immune to human emotions. I do have disdain for their actions in response to those feelings. None of us knows what goes on behind the closed doors of a marriage or serious relationship, or what goes on in the minds of those who do cheat. All we can control is our actions. What we do to others is what people see. What or why we feel certain things is not something others can take note of, or understand.
Loving Liar

United States

#11 Oct 9, 2012
justmyopinion wrote:
There will always be cheaters. Both men and women. Depends on how a person was brought up to a certain degree. It can be a family affair so to speak. It can also just be that the person has no morals and no self respect. So they are always looking for that one perfect person. However, when they think they have found them and as time goes on then they start to wonder if that person is really the person they were were seeking after all and often will seek out someone else. It goes on and on. These persons do not care who they hurt. They will not admit that it was any fault of theirs as to what happened and will always blame the other person for the relationship not working. Often telling lies just to try to make excuses for their own behavior. Once a person has gotten into a relationship that is based on cheating then there can not be any trust. After all that person whom you have "won" cheated with you on their spouse. Odds are good they will do the same again only this time you will be the one who gets hurt but then again that is called Karma!!
Unfortunately, very often there are children involved and they are by no means not dumb. They see what the one parent has gone through that has took care of them and stood by them come what may. If the cheater, his friends and family have caused the one parent pain the children will remember. They hear and know more then anyone thinks. So the cheater and all involved with them has not only lost their family, they have lost something that will probably never get back. That is the respect of their children. To some they make not care, others will.
So before anyone even thinks of cheating be honest with your spouse/partner. Get it out in the open that you are unhappy and don't even start telling lies and blaming the other. The pain a person and/or their children goes through after the truth comes out about someone cheating is unbearable. The trust is gone and if the cheaters family (ie. mom, dad, siblings, etc.) uphold that person for the act of betraying their own family then the damage can be far reaching. But no one that cheats tend to think about the future or the affect their behavior has on anyone. They only want to see if the grass is really greener on the other side and often it isn't. Its just different is all. I often hear folks that have been cheated on say after a couple of years that they are much happier without that person. Of course they are!!! Why wouldn't they be? That person that betrayed them is out of their lives and left them room to grow and make a better life for themselves and their children.
Sounds like you let someone do you wrong and you liked it. Maybe you like to get treated like shit. Maybe this is Leslie Austin
justmyopinion

Knoxville, TN

#12 Oct 9, 2012
Loving Liar wrote:
<quoted text>Sounds like you let someone do you wrong and you liked it. Maybe you like to get treated like shit. Maybe this is Leslie Austin
Nope on both accounts. Didn't let anyone do me wrong and no this is not the person you mentioned.
Just stating my own opinion which is what this forum is for. I do hope that you never have to experience what others have when they have been through the pain of having someone they deeply care about cheat on them. It is not an easy thing to go through. But it happens and folks move on. I don't allow anyone to treat me badly. It has happened and I moved on. I believe fully in treating folks the way I want to be treated. I treat folks good unless I am given a reason not to and then I pretty well just try to ignore them. I have no tolerance for people who use people, cheaters, thieves, liars, or the like.
Loving Liar

United States

#13 Oct 10, 2012
justmyopinion wrote:
<quoted text> Nope on both accounts. Didn't let anyone do me wrong and no this is not the person you mentioned.
Just stating my own opinion which is what this forum is for. I do hope that you never have to experience what others have when they have been through the pain of having someone they deeply care about cheat on them. It is not an easy thing to go through. But it happens and folks move on. I don't allow anyone to treat me badly. It has happened and I moved on. I believe fully in treating folks the way I want to be treated. I treat folks good unless I am given a reason not to and then I pretty well just try to ignore them. I have no tolerance for people who use people, cheaters, thieves, liars, or the like.
I agree totally. No further comment. Hope all works out for ya
Leslie

Knoxville, TN

#14 Oct 10, 2012
Loving Liar wrote:
<quoted text>Sounds like you let someone do you wrong and you liked it. Maybe you like to get treated like shit. Maybe this is Leslie Austin
I am sick of you mentioning my name on this website. You think just because you post from a mobile phone that things you post can't be traced, well you are wrong, they are very traceable and after last time the PD still has copies of everything written about me and if it continues charges will be pressed.I should have already done it. Now leave me alone and have a nice day.
Cant believe

United States

#15 Oct 12, 2012
justmyopinion wrote:
There will always be cheaters. Both men and women. Depends on how a person was brought up to a certain degree. It can be a family affair so to speak. It can also just be that the person has no morals and no self respect. So they are always looking for that one perfect person. However, when they think they have found them and as time goes on then they start to wonder if that person is really the person they were were seeking after all and often will seek out someone else. It goes on and on. These persons do not care who they hurt. They will not admit that it was any fault of theirs as to what happened and will always blame the other person for the relationship not working. Often telling lies just to try to make excuses for their own behavior. Once a person has gotten into a relationship that is based on cheating then there can not be any trust. After all that person whom you have "won" cheated with you on their spouse. Odds are good they will do the same again only this time you will be the one who gets hurt but then again that is called Karma!!
Unfortunately, very often there are children involved and they are by no means not dumb. They see what the one parent has gone through that has took care of them and stood by them come what may. If the cheater, his friends and family have caused the one parent pain the children will remember. They hear and know more then anyone thinks. So the cheater and all involved with them has not only lost their family, they have lost something that will probably never get back. That is the respect of their children. To some they make not care, others will.
So before anyone even thinks of cheating be honest with your spouse/partner. Get it out in the open that you are unhappy and don't even start telling lies and blaming the other. The pain a person and/or their children goes through after the truth comes out about someone cheating is unbearable. The trust is gone and if the cheaters family (ie. mom, dad, siblings, etc.) uphold that person for the act of betraying their own family then the damage can be far reaching. But no one that cheats tend to think about the future or the affect their behavior has on anyone. They only want to see if the grass is really greener on the other side and often it isn't. Its just different is all. I often hear folks that have been cheated on say after a couple of years that they are much happier without that person. Of course they are!!! Why wouldn't they be? That person that betrayed them is out of their lives and left them room to grow and make a better life for themselves and their children.
wow very well said!!!
Crazy

Charlottesville, VA

#16 Oct 13, 2012
justmyopinion wrote:
There will always be cheaters. Both men and women. Depends on how a person was brought up to a certain degree. It can be a family affair so to speak. It can also just be that the person has no morals and no self respect. So they are always looking for that one perfect person. However, when they think they have found them and as time goes on then they start to wonder if that person is really the person they were were seeking after all and often will seek out someone else. It goes on and on. These persons do not care who they hurt. They will not admit that it was any fault of theirs as to what happened and will always blame the other person for the relationship not working. Often telling lies just to try to make excuses for their own behavior. Once a person has gotten into a relationship that is based on cheating then there can not be any trust. After all that person whom you have "won" cheated with you on their spouse. Odds are good they will do the same again only this time you will be the one who gets hurt but then again that is called Karma!!
Unfortunately, very often there are children involved and they are by no means not dumb. They see what the one parent has gone through that has took care of them and stood by them come what may. If the cheater, his friends and family have caused the one parent pain the children will remember. They hear and know more then anyone thinks. So the cheater and all involved with them has not only lost their family, they have lost something that will probably never get back. That is the respect of their children. To some they make not care, others will.
So before anyone even thinks of cheating be honest with your spouse/partner. Get it out in the open that you are unhappy and don't even start telling lies and blaming the other. The pain a person and/or their children goes through after the truth comes out about someone cheating is unbearable. The trust is gone and if the cheaters family (ie. mom, dad, siblings, etc.) uphold that person for the act of betraying their own family then the damage can be far reaching. But no one that cheats tend to think about the future or the affect their behavior has on anyone. They only want to see if the grass is really greener on the other side and often it isn't. Its just different is all. I often hear folks that have been cheated on say after a couple of years that they are much happier without that person. Of course they are!!! Why wouldn't they be? That person that betrayed them is out of their lives and left them room to grow and make a better life for themselves and their children.
Yea I agree sounds good, but also sounds like you've really been quilty of one or the other too... To know how bad it feels and how bad it does hurt the little ones-true! but you should probably reap some of your own advice first, & then try to sew in giving someone else advice on cheating or being cheated on, and how it is definitely subjective for anyone.
justmyopinion

Knoxville, TN

#17 Oct 13, 2012
"Crazy" I have never cheated on anyone I have been with. Never will either. I take my responsibilities serious as should anyone who was raised right!! As for as reaping anything... please!! I am not perfect by far. But I do know how it feels to find out the person who you have stood by for years. Decides that they want someone else. I have watched the tears come from my kids eyes and held them when they cried.
As for giving someone advice... no one has to read what I write. They can chose to just pass on by it and move on. But if by what I write helps just one person to feel a little bit stronger knowing that there are others who have went through and survived then who are you or anyone else to judge it? If you don't like it or if it hit a nerve I am not sorry. Everyone has the right to their opinion. You have yours and I have mine.
lmao

Charlottesville, VA

#18 Oct 15, 2012
If he/she is doing their homework then they should not have a problem!! If he/she is cheating then the opposite should take the hint and get out of the relationship because it will only continue so why try to hang around and make it all well? Money is not everything , Happiness is everything you are only letting him/her get their cake and eat it too :) EVERY PERSONS DREAM !!!
Butch Cars

Max Meadows, VA

#19 Oct 15, 2012
lmao wrote:
If he/she is doing their homework then they should not have a problem!! If he/she is cheating then the opposite should take the hint and get out of the relationship because it will only continue so why try to hang around and make it all well? Money is not everything , Happiness is everything you are only letting him/her get their cake and eat it too :) EVERY PERSONS DREAM !!!
Id change my nam if I wus you LMAO. The othor persun usin that nam is a Quaer. And I mean Quaer!
Butch Cars

Max Meadows, VA

#20 Oct 15, 2012
Antoinette wrote:
Im so sorry Wdae, LMAO its not your fault.
Hears thut Quaer agin. Trash mouth Quaer.

Tell me when this thread is updated:

Subscribe Now Add to my Tracker

Add your comments below

Characters left: 4000

Please note by submitting this form you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

Marion Discussions

Title Updated Last By Comments
Drug dealers and meth heads in Smyth Co. 22 min Failure 11
Cali 1 hr Canttouchthis148 17
Akers 2 hr Smh 1
Kayla Charles (Aug '16) 8 hr lmao 11
Best boobs in Marion 14 hr ChitRodriguez 18
Bad Landlords 16 hr duh 4
My neighbor 16 hr Bert 5

Marion Jobs

More from around the web

Personal Finance

Marion Mortgages