caught in a hurricane

Hickory, NC

#1 Nov 14, 2012
So being all serious here asking for advice, So what do you do If you having been trying to prove your love to someone for years treating their kids like they are your own telling them over and and over how much you love them and how bad you want to be with them and it's like they know this but they just like to string you on about it. And every time you start to see someone they come back in your life and all your old memories come back like they never went away! You would do anything in the world for this person and will always be there for them and when you seem them out in public with complete trash and they aren't really doing anything with their life to try to make things better. It's just crazy why people want to throw away something so good all for nothing ....Think it's time to give up and move on?
Same

Marion, NC

#2 Nov 14, 2012
I'm caught in the same situation with someone. I feel your pain on this one. I don't understand why either
yep

Satellite Provider

#3 Nov 14, 2012
it sucks man sorry no advise tho

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#4 Nov 14, 2012
I don't know if you are male or female, so I'll give it to you from both angles. If you are a woman you deserve to be treated like a princess. If he's the one he would be chasing you with every ounce of life he has. You are worth total devotion and shouldn't settle for left overs. It sounds like he is too in love with himself to give you the love you deserve.

If you are male, she dosnt respect you. If this is the woman you want to marry you have to draw a line in the sand and see if she honors it. It's ok to give it another shot but if she leaves again know and understand that she's not commited to you and is only using you as a safety net to keep from being alone.
caught in a hurricane

Hickory, NC

#5 Nov 14, 2012
Im a male , but it's like she don't want to be with me but on the other hand she don't want me to be with anyone else either. It's very confusing and def a heart breaker every one that knows me tells me to move on and she should be cut from my life but It's not really want I truly want but It's not doing me any good being on the back burner.
Sweet

Asheville, NC

#6 Nov 14, 2012
You sound like a great guy. I think you should cut all ties and not be there for her. That will force her to see how lucky and how much you really mean to her. She is just going to keep taking advantage of the fact that you care so much. She knows she always had you to fall back on trust me once that's gone and she realizes it she will be missing you. You have to be strong though and really cut ties and tell her why you are doing it. Hope it gets better for you I really do good luck!

Since: Sep 10

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#7 Nov 14, 2012
caught in a hurricane wrote:
So being all serious here asking for advice, So what do you do If you having been trying to prove your love to someone for years treating their kids like they are your own telling them over and and over how much you love them and how bad you want to be with them and it's like they know this but they just like to string you on about it. And every time you start to see someone they come back in your life and all your old memories come back like they never went away! You would do anything in the world for this person and will always be there for them and when you seem them out in public with complete trash and they aren't really doing anything with their life to try to make things better. It's just crazy why people want to throw away something so good all for nothing ....Think it's time to give up and move on?
Cut all ties with her and you will see how she really feels about you,
let her go

Polkville, NC

#8 Nov 14, 2012
Coming from a female: I know a girl who has done this for many years. She runs up and down the roads, leaving her three kids with whoever UNTIL she gets in trouble then she runs back to her "safety net" so he can dig her out the hole she has gotten herself into. It hurts my heart so bad to see this man treated the way she treats him. She doesn't love him. She just uses him. I believe your in the same situation. Let her go! You can't spend your whole life being her fall back guy. You deserve to have a life and find someone who loves you the way you deserve to be loved. As much as you want her to love you the way you love her its not going to happen. It doesn't sound like she knows how to love. She sounds selfish and all about herself. Don't let this girl keep your life on hold any longer.
caught in a hurricane

Hickory, NC

#9 Nov 15, 2012
Thanks guys for all the kind words and no bashing I figured they would be atleast one.. Guess that's what I will do is cut the ties and move on with my life sucks because I'm really close to one of the kids even though the kid isn't mine.. But no matter who I'm with she is always on my mind it's not fair to the people I do see but I can't change that hopefully one day the memorys will go away and things will go back to normal

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