Mars Hill, NC

#1 Jul 27, 2014
You will never save anyone's feelings by lying , you will only show them that you don't love them and hurt them worse . We all have been hurt and played before so we all know how it feels . So don't hurt an innocent person for something someone else did to you . Not everyone is playing games with you . Some people truly love you . And they deserve truth no matter what it is . Stop being selfish and childish and just be honest . The truth always comes home anyway .

Matthews, NC

#3 Jul 27, 2014
Its not hard to figure out who loves you . If the things that are important to you are important to them and they are loyal and honest . If they stick by you even when times are hard , not just running off to someone else . They wont put on an act to get you lured in and then become someone . They will remember bdays anniversaries and wish you happiness without being reminded . If they have none of this then they aint in love with you .

Nebo, NC

#4 Jul 28, 2014
If you do what did in the beginning there wont be an end . Can't act one way for awhile then start taking it for granted . People need to know they mean something to you so if they do show them or let them go...

Little Switzerland, NC

#5 Jul 31, 2014
Don't ever let someone use your love for them . I know when you love someone you will do anything to help them and they know that . But don't let urself get used . If you are having troubles and find out they are with another person the next night . Or if they had been textin or talkin to other people they never was yours and would not been around long anyway and if they were they would cheated the first chance they got . But don't let someones words fool you their actions will prove if they love you or not . And if they really do its not hard for them to show you . Take from me I have been a fool way to long now ....

Asheville, NC

#6 Aug 1, 2014
The wrong person will retain you, for as long as you are able to provide for them everything, except true love - then they are unable to reciprocate for it was not legitimate in the first place.

Being used under the guise of love is one of the worst kind of maltreatments one can undergo. It epitomizes emotional abuse and charlatanism.

Once the situation becomes drawn out, it becomes a morass. The imbroglio (sans any embarrassment on the user's part) will eventually be too much for the user to keep up with it, ultimately escalating to the point that the situation erupts; leaving the used party permanently scarred and the user ready for their next victim, without any true compunction on their part.

Being a user is being generally being devoid of all the things that the user requests of the person being used. It is simply bad juju and karma will deal them a bad hand sooner or later.

One of the most important things to do after being used, at least the way I have dealt with it, is not to stay angry or jaundiced, as this just gives the user a "win" in their book and will hopefully lead the user to a bit of self-introspection. Of course this will only be the case if the user has any true notion of being at least fractionally principled.

Best wishes to all of us that have been used. As I have always told my daughter, the most expensive education we will ever receive are the lessons of life. And last, but not least, best wishes to the users; may you see and correct the err of your (hopefully past) ways. We all need to use our finite time on this blue round rock called Earth to love our fellow man and make this world a better place for everyone and future generations.\m/ Rock on my fellow used people, rock on \m/

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