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Ahhhhhhhhh

Marion, NC

#1 Jan 25, 2013
Okay, so i am a young female and work full time... My husband just got laid off &promised to keep the house clean while im at work.. we usually did it together, but now that he is home all day and im gone at work all day i thought it would only be fair for him to keep up with our house chores... But he doesnt .. I work from 12:30pm till 10pm almost everyday, clean the house, wash clothes, take care of the puppies, then i finally get to shower around 1am and eventully make it to bed about 3am after eating a bite &gettin everything ready for work the next day.... Do ya'll think he should step up, or do you think it shud still be the womens job to clean the house even though shes the one workin all day and hes at home??????? All comments appreciated!!!
Honey chile

Marion, NC

#2 Jan 25, 2013
ARE YOU SERIOUS ? Sweetie I think you & I both already know the answer to that?!!! Girl you had better get ahold of that man. God made the man to be the head of the faminly. But He made the woman the neck so we can turn them which ever way we want em! You better shake that sugar tree sweetie. Remind him where he gets his bread buttered. If you work & hes home all day he should have the house clean & DINNER cooked. I am assuming you would do the same were the roles reversed. You 2 should definitely talk about this before it gets any worse. Just remember you catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar;) Good Luck!!
Ahhhhhhhhhhh

Marion, NC

#3 Jan 25, 2013
Thanks i feel the same excat way.. b4 i worked, and he was working 24/7, i kept the house cleaned and ceooked dinner every night.. Even b4 we was married and living together i would go to his house after school, clean it up, do laundry and cook him something!!! It gets on my nerves!! Like really all i ask him to do is keep dishes washed and do laundry.. I'll fold them and put them up, cause ill admit im VERY picky when it comes to the clothes.. but everything else idc.. and he trie to use tht as an excuse, that im too picky and nothing is ever right when he does it!!!!!!!!!! I DONT CARE HOW ITS DONE AS LONG AS ITS DONE!!!!!(except my clothes lol)
Sounds like a demcrat

Candler, NC

#5 Jan 25, 2013
Run his ass off he sounds like a democrat to me!
Ahhhhhhhhhhh

Marion, NC

#6 Jan 25, 2013
Im not going to run him off!! lol he done a great job after i tlked to him about it just 30min ago even brought me some soup.!! we'll see how long it last though lol
Sounds like a democrat

Candler, NC

#7 Jan 25, 2013
Good luck with that! keep us posted.
Ahhhhhhhhhhh

Marion, NC

#8 Jan 25, 2013
yeahh, sure will.. Just hope he understands, i dnt mind a bit helping him... I dont, and will never use work as an excuse just to be lazy!! I just cant b a lazy person, i wasnt brought up that way.. But i do think with him being at home most the day that most of the house work shud be done.. Now our yard work, is ALWAYS done.. He loves doing things ouside, just inside.... not so good at keepin up lol
Honey chile

Marion, NC

#9 Jan 25, 2013
Good luck honey;)
Ahhhhhhhhhhh

Marion, NC

#10 Jan 25, 2013
thanks sweetheart(:
a real man

Marion, NC

#11 Jan 26, 2013
Ahhhhhhhhh wrote:
Okay, so i am a young female and work full time... My husband just got laid off &promised to keep the house clean while im at work.. we usually did it together, but now that he is home all day and im gone at work all day i thought it would only be fair for him to keep up with our house chores... But he doesnt .. I work from 12:30pm till 10pm almost everyday, clean the house, wash clothes, take care of the puppies, then i finally get to shower around 1am and eventully make it to bed about 3am after eating a bite &gettin everything ready for work the next day.... Do ya'll think he should step up, or do you think it shud still be the womens job to clean the house even though shes the one workin all day and hes at home??????? All comments appreciated!!!
let me take you out and show you what its like to be with a REAL man"one that works everyday"not a stay at home man/woman.
Clean

United States

#12 Jan 26, 2013
Listen! You are the woman of the house! It is you're responsibility to do the house work and take care of the kids! If u choose to work outside of the home then u still have ur home responsibilities! U are choosing to work! If your husband is out of work you need to support him 100 percent and do the housework! He probably feels bad being put of work! If u weren't working u would probably qualify for public assistance! Your husband needs u to back him up! Doing the house work will make him depressed and less likely to find a job! Do the godly thing and support ur man!
so sad

United States

#13 Jan 26, 2013
Clean your and idiotic pompous a**. This is 2013 not 1913. My husband lost his job. I went to work supported him n my kids and he cooked cleaned and took care of the kids. Plus he took care of the yard. But on my days off I cooked cleaned and took care of the kids. Its all based on if you want your marriage to work. Marriage is give and take. You both should do house work. If you did all this when you wasn't working then he should do more than you but heck sit down talk about it make a chart decide what you want to do and decide what he wants to do. But don't let him off with just a few things. If your picky about laundry then he should learn how u do it and try to do it like you do. As far as cooking he should had supper cooked cause you are the one that does buy the food
mr perfect

Marion, NC

#14 Jan 26, 2013
so sad wrote:
Clean your and idiotic pompous a**. This is 2013 not 1913. My husband lost his job. I went to work supported him n my kids and he cooked cleaned and took care of the kids. Plus he took care of the yard. But on my days off I cooked cleaned and took care of the kids. Its all based on if you want your marriage to work. Marriage is give and take. You both should do house work. If you did all this when you wasn't working then he should do more than you but heck sit down talk about it make a chart decide what you want to do and decide what he wants to do. But don't let him off with just a few things. If your picky about laundry then he should learn how u do it and try to do it like you do. As far as cooking he should had supper cooked cause you are the one that does buy the food
Well while i do agree that its a womans job to take care of house work "cooking and cleaning" its a mans place to provide for his family.
Ahhhhhhhhhhh

Marion, NC

#15 Jan 26, 2013
Clean wrote:
Listen! You are the woman of the house! It is you're responsibility to do the house work and take care of the kids! If u choose to work outside of the home then u still have ur home responsibilities! U are choosing to work! If your husband is out of work you need to support him 100 percent and do the housework! He probably feels bad being put of work! If u weren't working u would probably qualify for public assistance! Your husband needs u to back him up! Doing the house work will make him depressed and less likely to find a job! Do the godly thing and support ur man!
your a fuck!ng idiot!! i already had my beliefs on this i just was wondering if ppl had the same as me or if they was like your dumba$s!! i bet your not even married and are one of the ppl that come on this web site just to tlk sh!t behinde a fake name!! but once again i will state what i believe.. If i am the ONLY one working then he shud do most the house work!! On my days off, even when i do work i still love to help him.. But when i go to work everyday and is the only one paying bills and providing the things we need &&i come home to dishes packed iin the sink and clothes piled up everywhere when hes done nothing but sit at home all day?? h3ll yeah ima be pissed.. but its teamwork either way and if he was the one working and i was at home all day, you better believe he will expect the house clean and dinner ready when he walks in that door &thats excatly how it wud be.. i did it for three yrs and wouldnt mind to keep doing it!!

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