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#1 Jan 25, 2013
Figured this may be a good place to get an opinion on a situation I'm in. I am a single parent of a 4 year old child. The father and I have not been together in years. We try to get along for the child sakes. Our child goes to his house on Saturdays while I'm at work and is returned sometime Sunday. He recently started dating someone new about a month ago, and moved in with her within days. The first time our child went there, it was confusing and upsetting because it was unfamiliar environment. My only request was that they winged her into the new living situation. As long as the child could remember going to see daddy was at mamas house. But they did not respect me at all. The first time meeting the girlfriend they had the child spend the night there, and after me telling him not to have some new random chick sleeping in bed next to our child, he did it anyways. Then here comes along the girlfriends daughter who is like 22ish. She is around more than the gf. Pictures of the daddy & gfs daughter all over Facebook. I found this odd. Well the gf has been out out town for a week or more. So my child goes back with their daddy last Saturday. Pictures if our child with the gfs daughter now all over Facebook. I'm like Wtf?!?! The next day I go pick up my child and the gfs daughter is with, wearing his sweatshirt. So once I'm in the car with my child I causally ask where they all slept and I was told in the bed. My child responded yes. That my child slept on the outside of the bed and the daughter in the middle of my child and daddy. My mouth dropped! I finally said something to him about f'ed up this is and so mentally wrong to do to my child. That I don't care who and what he does on his own time but is it possible to one day a week act normal?!?! This is completely unapropriate. My child told me daddy said nit to tell me. I'm assuming the Girlfriend doesn't know about this going on under her roof. He told me when I confronted him about it that nothing's going on and that he can care for our child when he has them. I told him if this happens again that our child will not be allowed to spend the night and I will contact his gf. What would you do??
Poor Girl

Marion, IL

#2 Jan 25, 2013
Sounds like to me he is long and strong and down to get the friction on. How many times you hooked up with him since you split?

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#3 Jan 25, 2013
Help wrote:
Figured this may be a good place to get an opinion on a situation I'm in. I am a single parent of a 4 year old child. The father and I have not been together in years. We try to get along for the child sakes. Our child goes to his house on Saturdays while I'm at work and is returned sometime Sunday. He recently started dating someone new about a month ago, and moved in with her within days. The first time our child went there, it was confusing and upsetting because it was unfamiliar environment. My only request was that they winged her into the new living situation. As long as the child could remember going to see daddy was at mamas house. But they did not respect me at all. The first time meeting the girlfriend they had the child spend the night there, and after me telling him not to have some new random chick sleeping in bed next to our child, he did it anyways. Then here comes along the girlfriends daughter who is like 22ish. She is around more than the gf. Pictures of the daddy & gfs daughter all over Facebook. I found this odd. Well the gf has been out out town for a week or more. So my child goes back with their daddy last Saturday. Pictures if our child with the gfs daughter now all over Facebook. I'm like Wtf?!?! The next day I go pick up my child and the gfs daughter is with, wearing his sweatshirt. So once I'm in the car with my child I causally ask where they all slept and I was told in the bed. My child responded yes. That my child slept on the outside of the bed and the daughter in the middle of my child and daddy. My mouth dropped! I finally said something to him about f'ed up this is and so mentally wrong to do to my child. That I don't care who and what he does on his own time but is it possible to one day a week act normal?!?! This is completely unapropriate. My child told me daddy said nit to tell me. I'm assuming the Girlfriend doesn't know about this going on under her roof. He told me when I confronted him about it that nothing's going on and that he can care for our child when he has them. I told him if this happens again that our child will not be allowed to spend the night and I will contact his gf. What would you do??
I wouldn't let the child stay there either. If you tell the girlfriend you are risking putting your child in a big mess with all that & you too. But that's up to you but I would put a stop to the baby going there.
Help

Des Moines, IA

#5 Jan 26, 2013
We haven't hooked up since we split up years ago. Nothing at all, not even a kiss. And that's completely irrelevant to the situation at hand.

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