Glen Payne, your son say's hello.

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California in 1969

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Nov 14, 2008
 

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Hello,
I am Glen Thurman Payne's son.....
If anyone knows Glen tell him his son, who he has hidden from his family and friends for almost 39 years, says "hello"....
Someday this will reach who it needs to, just the way I found out he didnt die in Vietnam, and now resides in Freindwoods with his unknowning wife Nancy..
Glen should man up and face his past, he now has grandchildren....
You were young and dumb in 1969, but you are now a man, act like it.
Your son, Jeff
Self Entitlement Epidemic

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Dec 2, 2008
 
WOW!Good luck. Someone will see this, awesome!
DJJ

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Dec 5, 2008
 
California in 1969 wrote:
Hello,
I am Glen Thurman Payne's son.....
If anyone knows Glen tell him his son, who he has hidden from his family and friends for almost 39 years, says "hello"....
Someday this will reach who it needs to, just the way I found out he didnt die in Vietnam, and now resides in Freindwoods with his unknowning wife Nancy..
Glen should man up and face his past, he now has grandchildren....
You were young and dumb in 1969, but you are now a man, act like it.
Your son, Jeff
Get over it and move on Jeff. Your not listed in the will.
bamagrlntx1971

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#4
Dec 14, 2008
 
I think what u are doing is a great thing. i wish you luck in finding him. or, do u want to find him or are u just looking to humiliate him? i'm ok with either i was just wondering. i agree he should man up. it's time.
California in 1969

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Dec 17, 2008
 
Very funny DJJ-

I dont need the money, actually quit working (retired) when I was 32 thanks to Silicon Valley. Im more worried about him knowing my net by the looks of his tax returns....

Second, not so much humiliate as to help him grow and live life... its not fair to those around him, the lie.

Getting ready to send the Bi-Yearly Christmas card out tomorrow....

Thanks bamagrlntx1971 for your support.
California in 1969

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Dec 17, 2008
 
Anyine live near Nina Dr Friendswood, Just curious...
Friendswood in 2009

Friendswood, TX

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Jan 7, 2009
 
Hi Jeff. I live fairly close to that address in Friendswood. Take the direct approach and rid yourself of this burden you carry -
California in 1969

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Jan 12, 2009
 
Thanx Friendswood in 2009, about five years ago when I found out he didnt die I did-- registered letter, photos, etc...he responded "it wasent a good time in his life" and "he would need some room", well its been 5 years Glen. Everyone has contacted me since then thanks to the web, his ex-girlfriends, his Marine buddies, and some school mates..We just sent our bi-annual Christmas card as well. The next step will take place on his porch, Im sorry but he ownes me that as a MAN.
wondering

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Jan 19, 2009
 
If he's THAT clear about not wanting you in his life.......Why would you give him the benefit of knowing you and your children? Why would you want a man in your life who has never been there for you and who doesn't care if he sees you or not. You're a better man then that, You should pat yourself on the back for YOUR accomplishments that you've made WITHOUT Him! I wish you all the luck though.
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#10
Jan 27, 2009
 
Because as his son he deserves to meet him at least once. At the very minimum his father should give him a good health history. And maybe some family history. My daughters biological father has nothing to do with her. But you can bet that as soon as she is old enough I will give her all the information she needs to find him.
Friendswood in 2009

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Jan 28, 2009
 
California in 1969 wrote:
Thanx Friendswood in 2009, about five years ago when I found out he didnt die I did-- registered letter, photos, etc...he responded "it wasent a good time in his life" and "he would need some room", well its been 5 years Glen. Everyone has contacted me since then thanks to the web, his ex-girlfriends, his Marine buddies, and some school mates..We just sent our bi-annual Christmas card as well. The next step will take place on his porch, Im sorry but he ownes me that as a MAN.
My three kids all have the same absentee father and took his inattention very hard. As adults, they understand it better but wish it could have been another way. They know that every time he didn't pick up the phone, send a birthday card or acknowledge a milestone in their lives, he was running away from the guilty feelings even thinking of them brought to the surface. It's unfortunate he was and is such a weak person but he is who he is. Some people just aren't capable of facing up to things and your dad sounds like such a person. You should show up on his porch one day, but for your own sake, make your presence known with a compassionate, forgiving spirit. Don't burden yourself with more pain and bitterness. You've been hurt enough.
California in 1969

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Feb 4, 2009
 
Thanks everbody!!...it feels great to throw something like this out there and really helps to read what others have to say...my wife has been my only "ears" for 10 years....man, I love her.

Compassion and foregiveness are already in my mind set, Glenn was a whoping 19 years old when he "decided" to make a baby....there is/are no hard feelings towards any of his decisions....well, up until how he has chosen to handle this as a adult.

Alot of issues in life find their paths in odd and unforeseen directions and ways.....this will be one.

It will end up where it needs too.

Thanks to all--
A deticated man, husband, father, Jeff.

p.s. Friendswood in 2009 is awesome!
California in 1969

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Feb 4, 2009
 
Hmm is great as well, thanks.
California in 1969

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Feb 26, 2009
 
WOW!!...Thanks(anonymous per request) for the current picture of my "dad". Didnt think I would get all the support I have when I began this topic.

Sincerly - Jeff
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#15
Mar 26, 2009
 
I find this interesting and yet sort of twisted.

Someone should write a screenplay on the topic with "Cape Fear" influences.
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Apr 3, 2009
 
I think a screenplay would be great, but with more of a "Platoon influenece" oh wait his cowardess father never went to Vietnam, maybe try
"Leave it to Beaver" influence but that would mean his father would have to quite lying to his current family, lets just use "The Jerk".
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Nov 11, 2009
 
any thing come about form this?
SEL

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Nov 18, 2009
 
Jeff, Have you tried calling? His phone number is listed with his address. He really might want to hear from you. I hope so for you and the children. He sure doesn't know what he's missing, I can tell that.

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#19
Mar 9, 2010
 
We might be getting closer to a meeting date...maybe this summer. His neighbor stumbled upon this and got the wheels turning. He is nervous of his "current" situation, what ever that may be?
Blesses

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#20
Mar 12, 2010
 
I believe you are on the right track, God is showing you the way persistance is the only way... I know sometimes it may get old, but it took me until i was 19 to find my grandma, but dont give up. I live in Alvin a few miles from there, I will go talk to him for you. I am not scared but coming from someone who had missed out on alot of stuff with my grandma, because my dad and her lost contact, i (grandchild) suffered knowing a piece of me was missing. It is not fair to you children, that he not only did this to you but also your children. I think you are on the right track... Keep it up you will come through... Believe.... U area strong man and your children will thank you later in life when they see how much of a leader you are. and piss off on DJJ or who ever that is..... lol.... God Bless you.....

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