Nmhs cheer coach arrested
Billy Bob Bubba

Fairmont, WV

#491 Nov 12, 2012
I believe what they are trying to say... Since they are close friends for so long they were having them babysit their 15 or 16 yrs old. I still would not leave them unattended. What if this boy got someone pregnant at this age... He would be consider a man to take care of his responsibility. Kids should not go to their coaches/teachers homes. That's what gyms, cafeteria and community building are for close friends or not..
Abuse

Pine Grove, WV

#492 Nov 12, 2012
sickos wrote:
So the family was close? Why didnt the boy report this the first time it happend...if they were family friends..then he should have known this was irregular behavior...especially knowing the family before he was born and all....poor victim.. goes back to morals and respect..they are taught at gome people
This happens all the time. Children dont always tell someone things like this for many reasons. Scared, embarrassed, afaid they wont be believed.

I did find this on the National Child Traumatic Stress Network.

You cannot blame the child for not telling "the first time it happened."

From NCTSN: Many children keep sexual abuse a secret, sometimes until they become adults. Some children never tell. There are many reasons children do not tell about sexual abuse, or do not tell right away. Children may be afraid they will be blamed for the abuse, or that they will not be believed. Some children care about or have loving feelings for the abuser and do not want him or her to be punished even though they want the sexual abuse to stop. Other children have been threatened that something terrible will happen if they tell. It takes much courage to disclose sexual abuse.

In case you are intersted, a lot of info here on this subject: http://www.nctsn.org/trauma-types/sexual-abus...

It was said that he told a friend, and the friend reported it. He may have told his friend for that very reason, he may have wanted something done, but didnt have the courage to tell about it himself.
sickos

Roanoke, VA

#493 Nov 12, 2012
Guess he had the courage to go back..? Hes 16..babysitter at 16..really?
Abuse wrote:
<quoted text>
This happens all the time. Children dont always tell someone things like this for many reasons. Scared, embarrassed, afaid they wont be believed.
I did find this on the National Child Traumatic Stress Network.
You cannot blame the child for not telling "the first time it happened."
From NCTSN: Many children keep sexual abuse a secret, sometimes until they become adults. Some children never tell. There are many reasons children do not tell about sexual abuse, or do not tell right away. Children may be afraid they will be blamed for the abuse, or that they will not be believed. Some children care about or have loving feelings for the abuser and do not want him or her to be punished even though they want the sexual abuse to stop. Other children have been threatened that something terrible will happen if they tell. It takes much courage to disclose sexual abuse.
In case you are intersted, a lot of info here on this subject: http://www.nctsn.org/trauma-types/sexual-abus...
It was said that he told a friend, and the friend reported it. He may have told his friend for that very reason, he may have wanted something done, but didnt have the courage to tell about it himself.
huskyfan

Roanoke, VA

#494 Nov 12, 2012
I agree. I think the boy was just being a boy..hes an adult in two years. And mandi, well shes just being a typical smith. Parents needed to be more proactive. My parents were up my ass. I never got to have a high school sex life. Im jealous
No old chicks

Fairmont, WV

#495 Nov 12, 2012
huskyfan wrote:
I agree. I think the boy was just being a boy..hes an adult in two years. And mandi, well shes just being a typical smith. Parents needed to be more proactive. My parents were up my ass. I never got to have a high school sex life. Im jealous
Well I have a high school sex life just with chicks my own age
Wvu1234

United States

#496 Nov 12, 2012
Please he wasnt embarrass...he knew she would get in trouble thats why it was hush. Im with husky fan..my parents were up my ass i couldnt do this or that. I understand with now with my kids.
Joker

Clarksburg, WV

#497 Nov 12, 2012
When is her trial date?? so this embarrassment can end.
Duh

Fairmont, WV

#498 Nov 12, 2012
sickos wrote:
So the family was close? Why didnt the boy report this the first time it happend...if they were family friends..then he should have known this was irregular behavior...especially knowing the family before he was born and all....poor victim.. goes back to morals and respect..they are taught at gome people
Quit blaming the kid. So even if he was a horny little fellow and was begging for it. She was the adult and should never have done that. Put her butt in jail and teach her, it's not right and don't do it again. She should be a registered child molester.
uh huh

Roanoke, VA

#499 Nov 12, 2012
actually, she will be a registered sex offender.
Duh wrote:
<quoted text>
Quit blaming the kid. So even if he was a horny little fellow and was begging for it. She was the adult and should never have done that. Put her butt in jail and teach her, it's not right and don't do it again. She should be a registered child molester.
geeeez

Clarksburg, WV

#500 Nov 12, 2012
First of all,not me or one person on this forum was there. Second, to say the blame is 100% Mandi's is just stupid! Facts are facts, what she did was wrong....why in the world would a 16 yr old young adult want to be with them all the time...b/c I know for a fact he did...and to say he told his friend only hoping it would come out is even more stupid, he was bragging, "trying to make his g/f jealous" just like the paper said....he didnt want it to come out...what normal teenage boy nowadays after willingly going back time after time would all a sudden feel wrong and tell his friend to somehow get it to stop. Think about it!!!!!! You were 16 once, esp if you're a guy!!! Honestly if you were to talk to him his only regret would probably be telling his "friend" about it.....say whatever you want but it takes a "willing" participant to do what they did...an Im sure she didnt have to tie him down!! And by saying this, doesnt mean im defending a child molester...so come up with something new! I dont believe its called "abuse" when the victim is a 16 yr old horny boy who repeatedly went back for more. Im not condoning it in any way...but to call her a predator just lacks common sense and shows how stupid you really are!!
R U Serious

West Milford, WV

#501 Nov 12, 2012
How about sick skank? would that describe her better or nasty swamp donkey?
Duh

Fairmont, WV

#502 Nov 13, 2012
geeeez wrote:
First of all,not me or one person on this forum was there. Second, to say the blame is 100% Mandi's is just stupid! Facts are facts, what she did was wrong....why in the world would a 16 yr old young adult want to be with them all the time...b/c I know for a fact he did...and to say he told his friend only hoping it would come out is even more stupid, he was bragging, "trying to make his g/f jealous" just like the paper said....he didnt want it to come out...what normal teenage boy nowadays after willingly going back time after time would all a sudden feel wrong and tell his friend to somehow get it to stop. Think about it!!!!!! You were 16 once, esp if you're a guy!!! Honestly if you were to talk to him his only regret would probably be telling his "friend" about it.....say whatever you want but it takes a "willing" participant to do what they did...an Im sure she didnt have to tie him down!! And by saying this, doesnt mean im defending a child molester...so come up with something new! I dont believe its called "abuse" when the victim is a 16 yr old horny boy who repeatedly went back for more. Im not condoning it in any way...but to call her a predator just lacks common sense and shows how stupid you really are!!
That's nuts. You had it right by saying any normal teenage boy. He was a teenager/she was an adult. Think before you right. Sure he wanted it, and she was willing. What made the difference, was she was the ADULT, she should have said NO. Don't be stupid. If my 16 yr. old would have had sex with a woman that age, I probably would have beat the shit out of her and then called the law. I probably would have been the one in jail for that and she would have gotten away. That's how the law is now. Where's the justice.
geeeeez

Clarksburg, WV

#503 Nov 13, 2012
Duh wrote:
<quoted text>
That's nuts. You had it right by saying any normal teenage boy. He was a teenager/she was an adult. Think before you right. Sure he wanted it, and she was willing. What made the difference, was she was the ADULT, she should have said NO. Don't be stupid. If my 16 yr. old would have had sex with a woman that age, I probably would have beat the shit out of her and then called the law. I probably would have been the one in jail for that and she would have gotten away. That's how
the law is now. Where's the justice.
"Think before you right" LOL!! LEARN GRAMMAR!! I never said anything about her being the adult, yea she shouldve...but the fact remains...he was not being abused, he loved it!! My point being....its not 100% her fault...that can be shared by him and his parents! Like it or not the law will look at that!
disgusted

Fairmont, WV

#504 Nov 13, 2012
get a job
stop judging
mind your own business
clean your house
take a bath
take care of your own kids
grow up
get a life
find something better to do with your time then CONSUME IT WITH SITTING AROUND DISCUSSING SOMEBODY ELSES BUISNESS AND LIFE.
geeeeez

Clarksburg, WV

#505 Nov 13, 2012
disgusted wrote:
get a job
stop judging
mind your own business
clean your house
take a bath
take care of your own kids
grow up
get a life
find something better to do with your time then CONSUME IT WITH SITTING AROUND DISCUSSING SOMEBODY ELSES BUISNESS AND LIFE.
AGREED!! Thats Mannington at its finest!!
umm yeah

Roanoke, VA

#506 Nov 13, 2012
is this your to-do list as well?
disgusted wrote:
get a job
stop judging
mind your own business
clean your house
take a bath
take care of your own kids
grow up
get a life
find something better to do with your time then CONSUME IT WITH SITTING AROUND DISCUSSING SOMEBODY ELSES BUISNESS AND LIFE.
girl

Bridgeport, WV

#507 Nov 13, 2012
why do you spend time reading the article then?
one bad apple

Fairmont, WV

#508 Nov 13, 2012
girl wrote:
why do you spend time reading the article then?
it's my day off, i needed another quick laugh, and to show low life scum like you how bad you look.
yeahright

Roanoke, VA

#509 Nov 13, 2012
This is a forum..its purpose is to gossip and be nosey. Dont come to topix.com if you dont want to read the drama going on in your town. Duh. Oh wait..or are you a victim because you keep coming back and reading and commenting? Stay off the site if you dont want to read the shit.

“what are you talking about you”

Since: Mar 11

schlappington, by god

#510 Nov 13, 2012
omfg wrote:
It's beyond me as to why people would defend a nasty slut like Amanda Smith.
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frig my lifes!

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