betrayed by a family member

betrayed by a family member

Posted in the Manchester Forum

First Prev
of 2
Next Last
biker chick

Manchester, KY

#1 Oct 8, 2008
Should I forgive her?
what

London, KY

#2 Oct 8, 2008
depends on what she did?
amy lynn

London, KY

#3 Oct 8, 2008
yea it depends on what she did, like someone you did like or someone u are with. I forgave mine and the other person too I am friends with her now well I think I am I want to be but its whatever that person did maybe not what i think could be something totally different.
little bit

Somerset, KY

#4 Oct 9, 2008
its so hard to forgive and forget but sometimes its for the best so u can move on an ease your mind, i have been betrayed by close friends, men, family memmbers all the same it hurts the same damm way.
Here too

Hopkinsville, KY

#5 Oct 9, 2008
One of our Canidates helped put an 80 something year old man in the road after his wife died. He was paid by a son-step son to do it. Gave him less than two weeks to get out. The family member took this old man's things and wouldn't let him have them. He was very mean to the family. He was a son to the one that died but not the old man's son. The well known attorney helped him get what he wanted. I for one will not vote for that attorneysince he seems to take cases that are not true and finds a way to go to conive to give people something that does not belong to them The wishes of the deceased were not carried out even though there was a will. Better be careful who you vote for. There are some wicked people in the world. THere are lots of people angry about what happened with this situation and will hold it against that attorney. I have heard several friends and neighbors that they would not vote for him. Maybe he was doing his job with the information that was given? Maybe not given all of the information. Probably should give him the benefit of the doubt, but is hard to with all that happened. One good thing, God knows about all of this and he will take care of this, as there is a payday someday and wouldn't wnat to be in some people's shoes. You cannot do wrong and get by.
Out of work

Manchester, KY

#6 Oct 9, 2008
that atty that you are talking about has been into shady dealings in every county we are hurtin if he gets in - honesty and truth means nothing to him - his ads about being honest make me sick
betrayed by family

Brodhead, KY

#7 Oct 9, 2008
I have been very much betrayed by family members they used me an abused me.. make me pay for something that i don"t even use or live in hopin they see me in their sleep..hopin the oldest member can't pass until she gets thing's rite hope she punsihes for lettin ppls tell her what an how to cheat ppls that try to help her...for as me forget & forgive not until i get what i payed out then i might start thinkin about forgive but not forget i been done so dirty by family i can't even think of the meaning forget stand for
you ar right

Hopkinsville, KY

#8 Oct 9, 2008
Out of work wrote:
that atty that you are talking about has been into shady dealings in every county we are hurtin if he gets in - honesty and truth means nothing to him - his ads about being honest make me sick
You are absolutely right. It makes me sick when I see his little signs all over the county and the add in the paper. Hope people read this and know that all of this is true.
cattle saddle

Corbin, KY

#10 Oct 9, 2008
just who might this attorney be.
michelle nobama

Vandalia, OH

#11 Oct 9, 2008
barack husein obama, jr.
betrayed by family

Brodhead, KY

#12 Oct 10, 2008
been betrayed by family member's can hurt especially when u pay out of pocket for something an it end's up in hands that didn't pay out nuthin,just a hand out this way an that ,, guess that's what he's was used to so mama keeps it comin one way or another,,lol an don't care who she takes from.but i have learn my lesson the hard way but i should have known been done this way before..but foolish me i have waken up..i used to would give the blouse off my back if i though someone needed it more than myself.. but i have come to believe CHARITY BEGAN"S @ HOME.. when u can't do no more u gonna take a step back an do for yourself..an as far votin for someone or anyone i ain't votin for noone... in no race.. wanna know why.. here's why THERE AIN"T NOBODY RUNNING.. in neither race president nor judges race... NOOOOOOOOOO BODYYYYYYYYY RUNNING that i would vote in
biker chick

Manchester, KY

#13 Oct 10, 2008
Here is how it goes my sis moved in with my baby daddy, I know some of my family will read this & get mad but the truth is the truth, I kind of have let it go but I will never forgive him..He is a low life peice of sh*T and He dont pay child support or give no support for our daughter, he is on drugs...Should I knock his teeth out?
My sister has been good to me and Blood is thicker than water rite? But in this town family will do you wrong before anyone/
betrayed by family

Brodhead, KY

#14 Oct 10, 2008
to the h*ll with my family, i haven't had a family in over 4 yr's an that's the way i like it at least i am not gonna be used.. all or whenever they call me or should i say called me it was have u got this or have u got that.. soorry about their luck.. so i am a stay to my self kinda person an that's like i love it....an to you biker chick i think if it was me i would knock both their teeth out people can get sooooooo low i would open a can of whoop azz on the both.. lol guess i have been treated so bad my so called family that i don't trust noone.. but u say blood is thicker than water..couldn't be in my case they all must have water veins...
amy

London, KY

#15 Oct 11, 2008
omg biker chick I had no idea it was that im soo sorry I knocked his tooth out and blackedk his eye not just for one thing more things he said to me
been betrayed

Manchester, KY

#16 Oct 11, 2008
Biker chick, one thing I have learned is that attention is more important than family to a lot of people. I have been betrayed by a woman whom I dearly loved and stood up for against my family because they thought she was a whore. I thought she was just misunderstood. They would say all these horrible bad things about her, and I would correct them, and tell them that she's not the back stabbing piece of crap they made her out to be. I had gotten close to her, and tried to be her friend, and we actually got along very well until recently I actually HEARD her run her mouth on me when she didn't know I was listening. I don't go around her anymore, and she wonders why. But even though I don't have anything to do with her, I've still prayed for her, and asked God to help her. It's hard to do, but it is possible. You may feel like breaking your sister's face and your baby's daddy should be castrated, but it's actually better to just pray for them, and even if it hurts, don't let it show. When people know they are hurting you, they're satisfied. It's a control thing, and they go to pieces when they think they don't have the upper hand. That hurts them more than they've hurt you. I hope you can hold your head high and not sink to a level that is beneath you the way your family has.
I know the feeling

AOL

#17 Oct 11, 2008
betrayed by family wrote:
I have been very much betrayed by family members they used me an abused me.. make me pay for something that i don"t even use or live in hopin they see me in their sleep..hopin the oldest member can't pass until she gets thing's rite hope she punsihes for lettin ppls tell her what an how to cheat ppls that try to help her...for as me forget & forgive not until i get what i payed out then i might start thinkin about forgive but not forget i been done so dirty by family i can't even think of the meaning forget stand for
Amazing isn't it? You think your blood would be fair and honest with you, but no, their spouse sometimes have a great influence on them. Their spouse was a real user, taking advantage of the elderly mother, taking her money, using her, even making money on the sale of one of her vehicles, tell others that they were 'taking care' of the mother while in fact they were taking care of her money, her home, her life insurance, her everything, ultimately, to many in the family, even being responsible for the ending of her life. Sad, but true, it happens everywhere to everyone. The only satisfaction on our end is that the remaining of the family, without even been told of the details of the deceit, saw that person as they were and that person not only lost their last surving immediate member of their family, but their extended family also. No winners when it comes to greed.
biker chick

Manchester, KY

#18 Oct 11, 2008
thanx everyone for your kind words and the support, It helps me move forward...how do I make my baby girl understand her daddy is a low life...she loves him so much.

“It's alright to be a Redneck”

Since: Oct 08

Manchester, Ky.

#19 Oct 11, 2008
Children are so impressionable that it's totally easy to screw them up from the start. If I were you, I would teach my baby girl the importance of prayer for her daddy, and I wouldn't say anything bad about him in front of her. That's called parent bashing, and it isn't healthy for the child at all. I would let her learn on her own, and let herself come to terms with it when (I am assuming she's a very young child) she's old enough to deal with it in her own way. If you put him down in front of her, she may actually end up resenting you for it. Even if you don't take my advice, I really hope everything turns out ok and you and your child have a wonderful life together.
info

London, KY

#20 Oct 11, 2008
biker chick wrote:
thanx everyone for your kind words and the support, It helps me move forward...how do I make my baby girl understand her daddy is a low life...she loves him so much.
you can get child support even if he wont pay it. They will make him pay it or he will go to jail
been there

Lexington, KY

#21 Oct 11, 2008
Nobody will hurt you like family. I have been there. The more you do to help them the more they twist the knife they already put in your back. But, being as I still love mine, I still do help them, knowing that I will get my punishment. Still love them and pray that they will do better. Hurts like heck though.

Tell me when this thread is updated:

Subscribe Now Add to my Tracker
First Prev
of 2
Next Last

Add your comments below

Characters left: 4000

Please note by submitting this form you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

Manchester Discussions

Title Updated Last By Comments
News Bible study rules for public schools proposed (Feb '10) 10 min Albuha 167,931
Craziest women in Manchester 20 min Pay for View 128
Stanley and Brenda Burns from oneida 21 min Someone 1
George axl rose to sing at london chicken festi... 1 hr Hot Grammy 9
Kendra renee jackson what about her 1 hr Friend 17
News Jobs in prison a " (Jan '09) 7 hr excon with decon 43
Lookin for old friend 8 hr dod 2

Manchester Jobs

More from around the web

Personal Finance

Manchester Mortgages