I'm tired of being ignored by my husband

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Neglected

Corbin, KY

#1 May 28, 2011
I just don't get it. I try and try and still no intimacy. I've talked to him about it and he says he is too tired. Really??? I am ready to get a side boyfriend, I know it's wrong but I really need some physical skin on skin contact. We've been together forever and I'd have never thought it would come to me feeling this way. I feel horrible but I need to address my own needs and feelings. I am a 39 yr old woman and I want to live my life, not just exist.
Neglected

Corbin, KY

#2 May 28, 2011
I am talking about my husband.
Neglected

Corbin, KY

#3 May 28, 2011
Help!!
heard dat

London, KY

#4 May 28, 2011
hmm i dont blame ye
whaa

Sheridan, AR

#5 May 28, 2011
Never heard of a man too tired for sex. Sounds like you have a real problem. Maybe he has another?
heard dat

London, KY

#6 May 28, 2011
he could be queer hell u never know these days about people
Neglected

Corbin, KY

#7 May 28, 2011
Nope not queer, he is a bit older than me. Says its just not that important anymore to him. That stinks. I have someone in mind that I want to get together with. We have been flirting with each other and honestly it feels great to have positive attention from a man. I think he has a bit of a reputation around town. I get that fluttery feel good feeling whenever he is around at work or I think about him, hell I even wake up with him on my mind. I feel like I am an attractive woman and I don't like this ignoring crap. Maybe I should ask my husband if he even cares. I know I am tired of talking.
This is just so wrong, but I need to talk about it. I am anonymous on here. You know, if he does have someone, which I highly doubt, I would even be willing to join them :)
Been There

Murray, KY

#8 May 28, 2011
Be carefull, watch what you do and you can have fun without hurting anyone. Don't fall for the first person that says Oh I love you. Make sure it is a true friend. I know a guy who went through the same problem for years. Just don't go crazy when you find a little attention and you will be ok. You may want to find some one who is going through the same problem. Most people do at some stage in their marriage. Good luck
Neglected

Corbin, KY

#9 May 28, 2011
Thanks been there, This guy I have been eyeing has a bit of a bad boy reputation, which I think is what's attracting me to him. I have always gone for that. The thing is he is a high profile person in town so i have to watch myself.

Maybe I should just forget the whole thing. It just bites being a married woman and feel like you live by yourself.
Been There

Murray, KY

#10 May 28, 2011
Been there, but seems like only one ingredient is lacking.I went through the same thing for years. I beleive God will give you what you need when he knows you can't stand no more. People can call it what they want but it kept me from going insane. I learned a lot of the do's and don'ts. If I knew you I could tell you a few things to save everyone a lot of heartaches.
Neglected

Corbin, KY

#11 May 28, 2011
I do believe in God, with all my heart. I think thats why I feel so guilty.
well

Ravenna, KY

#12 May 28, 2011
whats ur email??? ill get up with ya
Neglected

Corbin, KY

#13 May 28, 2011
well wrote:
whats ur email??? ill get up with ya
Thanks but I have only one man in mind :)
Taken

Murray, KY

#15 May 28, 2011
Have you ever tried it with a woman? I am young, Hot and very much interested. I can take you for a sweet ride. No men though, but we will let him watch. If i am attracted to you.? So, you hang in there sweetie.mmmmm I taste great!
Real News

London, KY

#16 May 28, 2011
whaa wrote:
Never heard of a man too tired for sex. Sounds like you have a real problem. Maybe he has another?
My man is 52..and he wants it everyday
concerned

Corbin, KY

#18 May 28, 2011
Sounds like he has one on the side somewhere and just isnt interested in you ...go find you a younger one they will rock your world lol
Neglected

Corbin, KY

#19 May 28, 2011
I'm 99.9999999% there is no one on the side for him. He is too boring anymore.

Yeah, I have to think about what I'm gonna do. I can't live like this much longer.
Travis

Russell Springs, KY

#20 May 28, 2011
Neglected wrote:
I'm 99.9999999% there is no one on the side for him. He is too boring anymore.
Yeah, I have to think about what I'm gonna do. I can't live like this much longer.
It could be time to either buy a dildo or get a divorce. Don't cheat on your husband though...no matter how boring he is. What happens if you catch something from the bad boy you have your eye on and bring it back to your husband? No matter how terrible he is at being a husband, he doesn't deserve that. Try to spice your love life up a little at home. Wear a couple of sexy outfits and incorporate lots of intimate touching / play. Both work wonders for me.
Neglected

Corbin, KY

#21 May 28, 2011
I agree with you Travis, I've tried the touching, different sexy nighties and he just kind of rolls his eyes at me. It's agravating.
I do agree that he doesn't deserve a disease and neither do I. I am smart enough to protect myself too. Plus the cheating thing, I am better than that. I'm just needing some male attention. Plus I've only ever been with one other man in my whole life besides my husband.
Been There

Murray, KY

#22 May 29, 2011
Neglect your hubby may think different, just saying,, that could be whats turning him off,, or maybe he has a medical problem,,try to get to the bottom of this though. You seem like a really good person,,something hard to come by these days. Good luck, keep me posted

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