the one and only

Charleston, WV

#1 Mar 14, 2009
<it really makes me mad that
when divores happens the
kids gets done bad
there father dont care for them anymore
and then clams other mens kids over there own
there the scum of the earth>
YOU ARE RIGHT

United States

#2 Mar 16, 2009
I know what you are talking about and I agree with you. A divorce should not stop the relationship between a parent and a child. But it does to some. I know a father who let his new wife talk about his son like he was trash. Let her destroy everything and expects him and his family to treat her son like he was one of us. Its not going to happen. We love all kids, and this child is not mistreated by any of us but our real nephew comes first. He always has and always will. He isn't much of a man to let this happen to his real son. Now that the son is grown and referrs to another man as dad, the real dad gets upset. What does he expect? This other man did raise him, supported him and the whole nine yards. The real dad maybe paid 50 a month in child support, never bought any clothes for him, never paid any lunch bills for him, no medical bills. Just what is going on with these men letting this happen to their children????
raising my grandchildern

Humble, TX

#3 Mar 16, 2009
I love my grandkids very,very,much and i wont give them up for nothing but it really kills me that kids who have them wont take care of them just throw them to who ever will take care of them so they can do their drugs or what ever they want to do, and that means mine too. It needs to me made law that when one kid gets taken or they just dont want to care for them they need to be made to get fixed. The kids suffer and are split up, broken families because of all this mess. something needs to be done.....people dont even care for their own blood any more.
sad

Marietta, OH

#4 Mar 16, 2009
this is so sad
Another Parent

Gilbert, WV

#5 Mar 16, 2009
I have experienced this first hand. I also told my ex husband that he isn't going to do that to our boys or we will strictly stick to the divorce agreement. We have argued over it several times, but I will not sit back and watch him treat our kids awful and someone else's kids great. If that becomes the case, I will not say anything to my kids. I will let them make their own decision of their dad. Also it isn't just dads. I have a step son who I am raising. His mom walked out on him at the age of 2. He can't tell you what she looks like or anything about her. He doesn't get cards or phone calls for birthdays or christmas or any holiday for that matter. So please don't pinpoint dads. Moms will do it just as fast. Although we, as good parents, don't understand this, one day, everything will make sense. Love your children and never say anything negative, although it may be hard, about the parent that isn't having anything to do with them. The kids will make decisions as they grow up about that parent.
cristy q

Gilbert, WV

#6 Mar 18, 2009
i am one of those kids that went through the devorce and i can onestly say that i knoe my mom loves me more than my dad. ive watched some bad shit go on in my family and ive lived with my mom and my dad both and i can say this summer whenever i go back and live with my mom im never gonna live with my dad AGAIN. he is a mean ass basterd and i cant wait to get away.i'll come and visit but tahts all. i cant wait to go back to... luguna beach...lol
Talk Show

Rupert, WV

#7 Mar 18, 2009
There is one floating around on YouTube!
He is from Dingess........



He was supost to go on the Steve Wilkos Show today, For not taking care of his children.. but he chickened out after making a video saying he was going to kicks Steves Ass..LMAO!
i think

Marietta, OH

#8 Mar 18, 2009
i think it is pitiful to turn your back on your own kids mom or a dad i just don't see how they can do that, i know my kids are my life and couldn't imagine doing them that way!
Fruity Pebbles

Prestonsburg, KY

#9 Mar 23, 2009
From what I'm reading and what I already know, John Collins sure don't! My friend had his 2nd child....big mistake! You'd thought she'd looked at the 1st one and seen how that was and ran from him!!! Once a loser, always a loser.
maggie1

Cumberland, MD

#10 Mar 31, 2009
while the mother is away the farther dont even care enough to stay home with thier son (GJ) he reither run up and down the road with (KM) GJ is always with her that is a sorry dad and the mother cares awhole lot about her son she needs to take her son and leave
timmy

Hurricane, WV

#11 Mar 31, 2009
i am 41 years old and i just recently got divorced and my ex wife got custody rights to my 3 daughter.because she told lies on me in court.she keeping the kids away from me because i divorced her.she was cheating on me with other men.i'm married again and i love my new wife very much.

Since: Mar 09

Man, WV

#12 Mar 31, 2009
There are dead beat dads, and just as many dead beat moms. I have had my run-ins with a dead beat dad. We were young, and he wanted our son so much. He used to show him off and love to keep him and play and stuff. Now, he is six years old, and his dad lives out of state. He never calls, sends cards, pays his child support, which I might add is only $50, I know, it's pathetic! He has his own little family in another state, and what bothers me the most is that when he does break down and call our son, all he talks about is his others kids. Talk about crappy! I really feel for him. I just think that it is best for him not to be in his life. When he was all he did was lie and make excuses about everything. So, he is better off without him. He has a father-figure in his life, and he does the father-son stuff with him.**How does it feel to bring a child who you supposedly love into this world and sit back and let another man raise him and do all of the things that you promised you would do? Does it bother you any at all that this father-figure knows more about your son than you have ever tried to know? He used to want to see you, but after all of your lies, he has pretty much given up! You are a sorry loser, and you need a vasectomy, so you can't bring any more kids into this world and ABANDON them. Scum like you should have never had sex to begin with. You really had all of us fooled, especially your son. Like I have always said, you are just in his life when it is convenient to you not him. All of those times when he needed you, you weren't there. You were just out chasing a pill or stealing someone blind. After all of the crap, he still has a little place for you in his heart. He still talks about you, but I hate you, and your son will someday.**YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE, AND I HOPE YOU READ THIS!!!!!!!!
Piecemaker

United States

#13 Apr 1, 2009
timmy wrote:
i am 41 years old and i just recently got divorced and my ex wife got custody rights to my 3 daughter.because she told lies on me in court.she keeping the kids away from me because i divorced her.she was cheating on me with other men.i'm married again and i love my new wife very much.
Why did she cheat did she ever say? You can get a second hand woman but the old one with a few stranger bumps in the maiden head is going to be with you when your old and worn out. I would rather work things out and stay there if any kids are at home. the reason you have kids is to raise them better than you were raised. every generation gets better that way don't chicken out in the middle even if the road gets bumpy try to smooth it out it's about the kids not you. If all you want to do is Boink get a Vasectomy. Marriage is for men not little kids, losers and wimps.
wtf ever

Logan, WV

#14 Apr 2, 2009
Redneck Girl 3 wrote:
There are dead beat dads, and just as many dead beat moms. I have had my run-ins with a dead beat dad. We were young, and he wanted our son so much. He used to show him off and love to keep him and play and stuff. Now, he is six years old, and his dad lives out of state. He never calls, sends cards, pays his child support, which I might add is only $50, I know, it's pathetic! He has his own little family in another state, and what bothers me the most is that when he does break down and call our son, all he talks about is his others kids. Talk about crappy! I really feel for him. I just think that it is best for him not to be in his life. When he was all he did was lie and make excuses about everything. So, he is better off without him. He has a father-figure in his life, and he does the father-son stuff with him.**How does it feel to bring a child who you supposedly love into this world and sit back and let another man raise him and do all of the things that you promised you would do? Does it bother you any at all that this father-figure knows more about your son than you have ever tried to know? He used to want to see you, but after all of your lies, he has pretty much given up! You are a sorry loser, and you need a vasectomy, so you can't bring any more kids into this world and ABANDON them. Scum like you should have never had sex to begin with. You really had all of us fooled, especially your son. Like I have always said, you are just in his life when it is convenient to you not him. All of those times when he needed you, you weren't there. You were just out chasing a pill or stealing someone blind. After all of the crap, he still has a little place for you in his heart. He still talks about you, but I hate you, and your son will someday.**YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE, AND I HOPE YOU READ THIS!!!!!!!!
aint that the truth the more i read your post the more it sounds like we have the same life,i like your style i guess great minds think alike you go girl!

Since: Mar 09

Man, WV

#15 Apr 2, 2009
The bad part about this so called father my son has, is that he even stole his piggy bank and then tried to play it off like it was my sister. I know better! Women are better off without this piece of trash, and the one he is with, who is blinded by the so called love, will realize that one day. He has never been able to, well, doesn't want to, keep a job. Every single time child advocate catches up with him, he quits his job. The last job he had paid him cash, because he told them he owed me his soul pretty much. He will owe me til the day he dies, well, he will owe his son. He will get it one day, when he least expects it. He can't run forever! I just don't see how someone can't afford to pay fifty measely dollars to the child that they helped bring into this world. You know what, the best thing that he has ever done for MY son, is deciding not to be in his life! He is better off! Crap like this low life should never reproduce, and I just found that out the hard way. I love my son too death, but I just wish that I wouldn't have had him with such a loser.
lovemy2

Prestonsburg, KY

#16 Apr 3, 2009
Redneck Girl 3 wrote:
The bad part about this so called father my son has, is that he even stole his piggy bank and then tried to play it off like it was my sister. I know better! Women are better off without this piece of trash, and the one he is with, who is blinded by the so called love, will realize that one day. He has never been able to, well, doesn't want to, keep a job. Every single time child advocate catches up with him, he quits his job. The last job he had paid him cash, because he told them he owed me his soul pretty much. He will owe me til the day he dies, well, he will owe his son. He will get it one day, when he least expects it. He can't run forever! I just don't see how someone can't afford to pay fifty measely dollars to the child that they helped bring into this world. You know what, the best thing that he has ever done for MY son, is deciding not to be in his life! He is better off! Crap like this low life should never reproduce, and I just found that out the hard way. I love my son too death, but I just wish that I wouldn't have had him with such a loser.
You had a piggy bank thief, too!
Heres my story

United States

#17 Apr 3, 2009
I was 20 when I got pregnant with our first child, I found out he went out on me we separated in a few weeks we got back together and we got along better than ever got pregnant again, then he started accusing me of going out on him I never went out of the house unless some of his family was with me he even got his family to stay at night with me (now I know to watch me) I couldn't bath put make up on or even visit my family without him accusing me, then I figure it out he is so insecure because he was going out on me again then his sister finally came and told me I left him when our baby was 3 month old, he told me I could never get anybody else, we went to court I also was awarded $50 a month for 2 kids, a few years later he took me back to court trying to get the kids, that he never visited (the only time he seen them was when I took them to his house that's because my oldest wanted to see him I never said a bad word about him in front of them I wanted them to find out their self about him when it was time) he drank a lot used some drugs I'd never did either one, The judge laugh in is face told him if he was me he would take him for everything he could get,and up the child support to $300 a month,(didn't get it) I meet a wonderful man when my baby was a little over 10months old he gave them everything he stay at the hospital when they was sick, My Ex never called or visited or anything but go around telling everyone I was taking everything he had, and like some ex he quit every job to keep from paying child support, but my kids didn't need his $50, they had everything they needed or wanted, my kids is grown now and he wants them to come visit him now and they neither one wants anything to do with him and its not because I told them when they was small not to, but they learned it takes more to be a daddy than having sex with their mother, they know who their daddy is and they love him more than life and so do I, the old saying is anyone can be a Father but it takes a hell of a Man to be a DADDY, especially to another mans children...hopes this open some loser eyes

Since: Mar 09

Man, WV

#18 Apr 3, 2009
I feel for you, because we both have dead beats. I guess that we just didn't look hard enough first. But now we have good men who don't care that our kids are not theirs. I am thankful that I only had one kid with him though. I was still in high school when I had my son, but my parents and his were good enough to let me graduate. I am very thankful for them. I had alot of options, but I just couldn't come to terms with not having him. I can't do a thing like that. I love my son more than ever now, and I am glad that I had him, but not with his dead beat "Father." He promised me the world, but I finally learned to not listen to his crap. I figured that living at home til I could move out would be better than living with someone who couldn't or just wouldn't provide for us. Leaving him was the best thing I have ever done, and I don't even see what I saw in that loser. All things happen for a reason, and I have learned my lesson about these "fairy tales." Note to all men, KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS IF YOU CAN'T TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS! BY THAT, I DO NOT MEAN PAYING $50 A MONTH.
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wtf ever

Logan, WV

#20 Apr 3, 2009
Redneck Girl 3 wrote:
The bad part about this so called father my son has, is that he even stole his piggy bank and then tried to play it off like it was my sister. I know better! Women are better off without this piece of trash, and the one he is with, who is blinded by the so called love, will realize that one day. He has never been able to, well, doesn't want to, keep a job. Every single time child advocate catches up with him, he quits his job. The last job he had paid him cash, because he told them he owed me his soul pretty much. He will owe me til the day he dies, well, he will owe his son. He will get it one day, when he least expects it. He can't run forever! I just don't see how someone can't afford to pay fifty measely dollars to the child that they helped bring into this world. You know what, the best thing that he has ever done for MY son, is deciding not to be in his life! He is better off! Crap like this low life should never reproduce, and I just found that out the hard way. I love my son too death, but I just wish that I wouldn't have had him with such a loser.
yes i know what you mean i agree totally with you, i think they are more loser's out there than good one's they are far and few between. and it seems like most of us women are attracted to guys who r losers/cowards/over grown boys/well you all get the picture lol... but i am like you i finally found the nerve to move on for my kids sake and i found a great guy who is a great dad to them,, and i thank God everday for him..i am glad you got a great guy too..and i wish all the other women that are in our lil boat to get out before it is too late. its hard for some of us to do but it can be done.. i wish all of you lots of luck..
A girl in the valley

Marietta, OH

#21 Apr 9, 2009
Talk Show wrote:
There is one floating around on YouTube!
He is from Dingess........
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =HZzCe58-wCAXX
He was supost to go on the Steve Wilkos Show today, For not taking care of his children.. but he chickened out after making a video saying he was going to kicks Steves Ass..LMAO!
LMFAO this is too funny.

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