girls that flirt with their boyfriends dad

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concerned

Logan, WV

#1 May 30, 2010
what do you all think about a girl that isn't getting along with her boyfriend and she flirts with his dad? and his dad is married but he is to dumb to see that she is flirting with him or he is just playing dumb.. i think he kinda flirts back and he says he don't to his wife, but she can see that something is going on, or it is leading to something, and her boyfriend don't pay attention because he don't really love her anyway. they just had a baby and i think that is why he sticking around what do you think the wife should do? i don't think that she is happy with bf, because he won't work and she knows that his dad will take care of her n their baby.
no way

Williamson, WV

#2 May 30, 2010
the fathe just doesn't want to accept her flirting so he is acting like he dont get it, this would be awful,. and you are reading way to much into it.
concerned

Logan, WV

#3 May 30, 2010
yeah that is the way he is acting, n yeah i am very concerned because it is my bestfriend and she is really upset about it, and i am trying to help her. i am thinking that she is trying to get him because she wants what his wife has got not only her husband but her life. she has got everything in the world that could be possible and i think the girlfriend wants it.she has made the remark that if he were about 15 yrs younger that my friend would have a run for her money.. so it sounds to me like she is trying to cause trouble for them, but her husband keeps telling his wife that she is crazy for thinking that,, i really want to help her but i don't really want to hurt her feelings, but that is my thoughts exactly too.. i am afraid that it will lead to something more than just flirting just like his wife does. if you were me n she turned to you for help like she has done me what would you do to try to help her get to the bottom of this before it is to late..
concerned

Logan, WV

#4 May 30, 2010
also, i think that she can sense that her boyfriend don't really care and doesn't pay attention to what is going on because the only reason he is sticking around is for the baby's sake.so he really wouldn't care who she flirted with just so he can do what he wants and don't have to worry about her just to get his gf off of his back,,,
no way

Williamson, WV

#5 May 30, 2010
Then since the wife feels this way, then she needs to put a stop to either one of them being a lone together. this is so messed up, but things happen, I just pray that it doesn't happen to your friend, sounds like she is a smart lady. maybe she should have a talk to the girlfriend.
concerned

Logan, WV

#6 May 31, 2010
i really apreciate you trying to help me on this one. and not bashing this, but i was thinking that maybe if she just stopped telling her husband about what she thinks is going on and just start watching more and more, that maybe the girlfriend or her husband just might slip up a little bit to obvious about something then she can get both of them at the same time.. or maybe that may not be a good idea but my mom always told me to just sit back watch and listen then go in for the kill when the time is right. lol (a figure of speech). but she has been kinda doing that but sometimes she just can't help but say something to her husband at times, then he tells her she is crazy that she is to young and that's their son's gf etc.. he acts like he really don't like her but just nice to her for the baby's and their son's sake, but she and i think different! i mean she will cook for him and not say its for her bf or him and his wife or for all of them she will say i cooked this for you..(talking about the husband) it is just getting more and more obvious on the gf part and my friends husband sure don't help matters none. i am not trying to stick my nose in it i know it seems that way but i am the only one my friend has to turn to and we have been friends for yrs and have been thru hell n hi water together and i need some advice from you all to help her out on this one, we have been thru some really complicated things in the past but this is a new one for both of us... should she sit back and watch for just a lil while or should she speak up now! and how would she kinda go about saying something to her (gf) w/out causeing a big ol feud, we are both confused?
what I think

Oceana, WV

#7 May 31, 2010
concerned wrote:
what do you all think about a girl that isn't getting along with her boyfriend and she flirts with his dad? and his dad is married but he is to dumb to see that she is flirting with him or he is just playing dumb.. i think he kinda flirts back and he says he don't to his wife, but she can see that something is going on, or it is leading to something, and her boyfriend don't pay attention because he don't really love her anyway. they just had a baby and i think that is why he sticking around what do you think the wife should do? i don't think that she is happy with bf, because he won't work and she knows that his dad will take care of her n their baby.
He's a lucky DAD
concerned

Logan, WV

#8 May 31, 2010
and why would he be a lucky dad? this is causing a lot of trouble between him and his wife idk if he is just to dumb to know that she is flirting with him or likes being wanted by a younger b*tch/troublemaker. i know for a fact that she is not going to suceed in what she is doing because his wife is my bestfriend and she will end up kicking her a$$ before it is over with.. and their son wouldn't care if the president would take her as long as he don't have to put up with her. he has gave his wife everything in the world and this young b*tch wants it. well even if she would break up their marriage i know for a fact that she would not get it because his wife would take it all and leave him with nothing.she is just to young and dumb to know that, she has in her big head that she would get it all but all i want to know is how she should go about helping her because this is really got her pi$$ed off and the more she gets pi$$ed off the more she would hurt her
i say go for it

Logan, WV

#9 May 31, 2010
i say let them go for it! let the wife take it all and let the other's be happy!
no way

Williamson, WV

#10 May 31, 2010
I don't think the wife needs tp sit ands watch, things could happen, if they haven't already, I wouldn't let them get the chance, like I said maybe she should tell the GF that she doesn't feel comfortable with the way she is acting with her husband. since husband doesn't think there is anything, Husbands are the last to figure this type things out, or they say and act dumb and the wife ends up the last to know, she should fight for her marriage, the kid is still her sons, the GF doesn't have to be there during every visit.
concerned

Logan, WV

#11 May 31, 2010
thank you for the advice, i think i will talk to his wife tomorrow, and tell her that she needs to be upfront with their son's gf, and tell her that she needs to have a serious talk with her when they can get time alone.before something really bad happens because it will cause one major family feud and i hate for his gf to get her feelings hurt or her body lol... who knows what might happen?? i hope it all works out for the best, but i know his wife is not to happy with him or her right now, she has let this build up for a while now just sitting looking and listening and she is just about had enough everytime i talk to her she is more mad than she was the last time and i talk to her almost everyday..
no way

Williamson, WV

#12 Jun 1, 2010
the girl friend should know better. maybe she needs a reality slap or two. lol
concerned

Logan, WV

#13 Jun 2, 2010
yes i agree she does need a reality check and i think it will be sooner than she thinks with no warning, because his wife is really pissed off now, it has gotten worse in the past two days.. and its not going to be long till she gets her bubble burst! family feud or no family feud, i was talking to her last night and she said she has had enough that it is getting worse not any better!!i think she has sit back and watched and listen more than enough because she says it aint gettin no better... thank you for all of your alls help!

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