Are there any good, single, attractive women left?

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Ready to start over

Inez, KY

#1 Jul 15, 2012
I just went through a very nasty divorce and never thought that I would want to ever get serious or try to trust another woman again. It's time to try and find that special someone once again if possible. Seems that every woman that I meet has more problems than the one I had. Yes, I know everyone has problems, but give me a break. It's hard to find one that is not on drugs or been around the block more than just a few times. A woman that has left there kid or kids for another man is not worth trying for. Kids should come first before and beyond anything else. If there is someone out there that would like to start something special, leave me a message. I know alot of people out there will think that I am full of myself, but the truth is that for several months I have been full of nothing but devil inside and I don't like that feeling. I am not or never was like that until going through the divorce. Just let me know if there is someone out there that feels the same as I do and leave a message.
lady

Brenton, WV

#2 Jul 15, 2012
Ready to start over wrote:
I just went through a very nasty divorce and never thought that I would want to ever get serious or try to trust another woman again. It's time to try and find that special someone once again if possible. Seems that every woman that I meet has more problems than the one I had. Yes, I know everyone has problems, but give me a break. It's hard to find one that is not on drugs or been around the block more than just a few times. A woman that has left there kid or kids for another man is not worth trying for. Kids should come first before and beyond anything else. If there is someone out there that would like to start something special, leave me a message. I know alot of people out there will think that I am full of myself, but the truth is that for several months I have been full of nothing but devil inside and I don't like that feeling. I am not or never was like that until going through the divorce. Just let me know if there is someone out there that feels the same as I do and leave a message.
I feel the same way about guys & have asked the same question is there any good ones left. Me & my husband had many problems and it ened in divorce. I put up with so much because I did not want to hurt my kids neither would I leave them. They are my life. I get alone with my ex-husband better now than ever, it works for us that way. I want him to be a part of our kids lives. I try so hard to be a good person. I sometimes probably over think about hurting others feelings. I do not do drugs. I love going out. I love going for dinner, a movie or dancing. I'm also a pretty simple country girl who loves the river & lakes, 4-wheeling, horses and just running around in the hills. But as far as meeting a nice guy I find drugs or I find a man that is just trying to see how fast he can't get in my pants. What happened to all the good guys who wants to fall in love first. Go out & have a good time with each other without being blowed away. A guy who wants only you & no other woman matters. Someone a woman can trust to always be there, that will take care of her. That actually wants to be her hero, her Romeo.
Ready to start over

Inez, KY

#3 Jul 15, 2012
Lady. I do believe you and I went through the samething, only I cannot be friends with my ex leaving her children for another Man and then felt she made a mistake and wanted to come home. As you can tell she never made it back home. I do no drugs, but only live for my children and keeping up with the bills. The women that I have gone out with seems to only care about getting a buzz and parting is the only way they can be happy. You said that the men only want in your pants is all they want, then you really have been seeing the wrong ones. If a woman is worth working for then that is what I want. The easy ones are the ones that has been with everyone and their brothers and you can never trust them. I am just a home grown hillbilly from Man who loves sports. Loves to take a beautiful woman dine out and then to a movie. Go 4 wheeling and see the world as it is. Just sit and talk about everything to finally see the true person inside. If that is what your looking for than I believe you and I should possibly go out to eat and movies and see how each is. We can keep our pants on, lol. It has been so long that I have been able to try and sweep another woman off their feet since I was married and didn't think I had to do it again, but I do still remember how to treat a LADY the way they should be treated.
dont thank so

Gilbert, WV

#4 Jul 15, 2012
nope
Ready to start over

Inez, KY

#5 Jul 15, 2012
Ms. Dont think so.
Just made an offer that's all. Your loss. Must still be attached to your ex and won't let go. You won't let someone show you there is someone out there much better than what you think, but will not give it a chance. I dont know you and you dont know me, but how else is someone to find the other than try. If you would like to meet and talk that would be great. Just to show you that I am not a stalker or something else you may think. I do believe you will like the respect that I can show and be someone you can trust. But no hard feelings if you dont. I hope the best for you.
lady

Brenton, WV

#6 Jul 16, 2012
Ready to start over that's me too. I want a man that will actually act like a real man. Tell me more about you do you live in the Man area? do you work in the Man area? I want to know more.
connie

Charleston, WV

#7 Jul 16, 2012
To: ready to start over:
My best advise for you is get a facebook acct. so you know who you are talking to and not some crazy person. They also have a dating site called zoosk. I understand fully about having a devil inside of you because of another person who you think loves you. I'm just now at the point were I dont feel that way towards men. I was in a very abusive marriage and he was the one on drugs . I will NEVER have that around my children again. My children come first and NO man or drugs will come before them. And no this is not my real name because of the crazy people that do get on this site. I dont trust nobody on this site and you should not either, but thats me been burnt to many times by people who say they are my friend. I wish you luck but not on this site, just becareful.
lady

Brenton, WV

#8 Jul 16, 2012
connie wrote:
To: ready to start over:
My best advise for you is get a facebook acct. so you know who you are talking to and not some crazy person. They also have a dating site called zoosk. I understand fully about having a devil inside of you because of another person who you think loves you. I'm just now at the point were I dont feel that way towards men. I was in a very abusive marriage and he was the one on drugs . I will NEVER have that around my children again. My children come first and NO man or drugs will come before them. And no this is not my real name because of the crazy people that do get on this site. I dont trust nobody on this site and you should not either, but thats me been burnt to many times by people who say they are my friend. I wish you luck but not on this site, just becareful.
I agree with you also. That's why it is so hard to talk on this because it is crazy. Very good advice.
Ready to start over

Inez, KY

#9 Jul 16, 2012
Lady,
I do live in the Man area and have a child living at home with me. I have been divorced almost 1yr. I work in Charleston WV, but have Southern WV as part of my area I work. I do NO drugs and will not be with someone that is on drugs. I do not abuse the woman that I am with. I treat her with the utmost respect. Some say that is the reason the one I was married to left, because I was way to good to her and she wanted a bad boy image to be with. She found out later he was more of a whimp than bad. I have and never nor will I lay a hand on a woman. I most of the time give in to the woman for what she wants to do or have. I try to bend over backwards for the woman that I am in love with. Like I said earlier, I tried going to bars or meeting women on facebook. They all seem to like to party way to much and never seemed to be what I was looking for in a woman. My daughter made me get off facebook because some of the woman that I would talk too was a little over board and just after my divorce I sort of made a fool of myself fighting with my ex on it. I am 5'9'', 180 lbs with dark brown hair and blue eyes. I don't know what else to say about me. What about you? or is there anything else you would like to know about me.
Ready to start over

Inez, KY

#10 Jul 16, 2012
Well Lady,

I guess that I'm not what your looking for in a Man. That's OK. I promise that when I do find that right one she will be treated like a queen. Admired from near and afar. Show love and respect as much and often as I can. I may have lost the first one doing all this, but I do believe a woman deserves to romanced the way a beautiful woman should be. Wake up in the morning and tell them how beautiful they are. Always ask why something as beautiful as you would be with someone like me. Treat her children as I would treat mine. 1st. Rose pedal baths for the beauty queen. Romantic vacations with the one as well as out children. Spend as much time with the one true love, because it can be gone in a blink of an eye. A heart hardens so much, but has to let go and try one more time or you will grow old not remembering or having felt true love.
lady

Brenton, WV

#11 Jul 17, 2012
Wow!!! I had not had a chance to get back on here until now. Wow!!! Are you really for real? I do not do drugs and choose not to have it around my children. I am a mother first and most of all. I have also used facebook. I love being with a guy who makes me feel special. What you described should be every woman's dream man. I am honest, faithful in a relationship. I would always be true. I have had enough of the bad boy image. I don't need that or want that. Just want someone to love me. You sound so Good. Some guys when you say that you are a woman with children they think baggage. I love my children. They are my life. I am faithful in relationships. I love with all my heart.
Ready to start over

Inez, KY

#12 Jul 17, 2012
Lady,

Yes I am for real. You would not believe how much I can give to that special woman. Children are not baggage, but the true love of every parent. I wish others could feel that kind of love. Before I was married I kind of had a bad boy image, but my children showed me a whole different me. There is a whole big world out there and I really would like to share and explore this world with someone special. I know and see that you have been hurt very bad by your ex. If you are what you say you are I don't understand why he would ever leave for another woman. Sexual relationships are not love, but childish actions that some men think that makes them look big in front of their friends. I need that special woman that I can be friends first before lover. Without frinedship and honesty you have no relationship, but that one night stand feeling.
My invitation is still open, but like I said only to meet if you that is what you would like. I really would like to take you to dinner and a movie just to show you that I can be trusted.
Curious

Williamson, WV

#13 Jul 17, 2012
Ready to start over wrote:
I just went through a very nasty divorce and never thought that I would want to ever get serious or try to trust another woman again. It's time to try and find that special someone once again if possible. Seems that every woman that I meet has more problems than the one I had. Yes, I know everyone has problems, but give me a break. It's hard to find one that is not on drugs or been around the block more than just a few times. A woman that has left there kid or kids for another man is not worth trying for. Kids should come first before and beyond anything else. If there is someone out there that would like to start something special, leave me a message. I know alot of people out there will think that I am full of myself, but the truth is that for several months I have been full of nothing but devil inside and I don't like that feeling. I am not or never was like that until going through the divorce. Just let me know if there is someone out there that feels the same as I do and leave a message.
How old are you "Ready to Start Over"? How many children do you have?
Ready to start over

Inez, KY

#14 Jul 17, 2012
Curious,

If my age and especially how many children I have stops someone from talking or meeting me than I don't believe that person is worth the trouble.
gee

Charleston, WV

#15 Jul 17, 2012
Ready to start over wrote:
Curious,
If my age and especially how many children I have stops someone from talking or meeting me than I don't believe that person is worth the trouble.
Well you could be 17 or 90 I think age would be a factor.
ImFree

Stollings, WV

#16 Jul 17, 2012
Ready to start over wrote:
I just went through a very nasty divorce and never thought that I would want to ever get serious or try to trust another woman again. It's time to try and find that special someone once again if possible. Seems that every woman that I meet has more problems than the one I had. Yes, I know everyone has problems, but give me a break. It's hard to find one that is not on drugs or been around the block more than just a few times. A woman that has left there kid or kids for another man is not worth trying for. Kids should come first before and beyond anything else. If there is someone out there that would like to start something special, leave me a message. I know alot of people out there will think that I am full of myself, but the truth is that for several months I have been full of nothing but devil inside and I don't like that feeling. I am not or never was like that until going through the divorce. Just let me know if there is someone out there that feels the same as I do and leave a message.
Yes. So get of your computer and go out and find one.
Lorado

Inez, KY

#17 Jul 17, 2012
You should probably give your name, age, and info about yourself before you expect a woman to come meet you. In this day and time, you can't trust people, especially people with no identify to themselves just a few paragraphs on topix.
Ready to start over

Inez, KY

#18 Jul 17, 2012
WOW!!! How did all this get started from someone talking to a woman with the name Lady. She has been the only one to give info and request info. She sounds great and a perfect lady. I hope she agrees to meet because I don't think I will regret it and I'm sure she won't regret it. One way to find out about trust. I don't want to be hurt like was before and that is why I was very cautious before now. I feel that I have alot to give to that special someone, someday and it begins with that first chance. Someone can't say well he probably was this or that without a chance. Someone stated get off the computer and go out and find one. I found many, but not the one I am looking for. Someone that I can trust and give all my LOVE to. Believe me, I still have alot of Love left to give that has been built up before and since my divorce. Finding that special someone is what I am looking for. Hopefully, Lady will give it a chance.
Lady down on love

Prestonsburg, KY

#19 Jul 17, 2012
Ready to start over wrote:
WOW!!! How did all this get started from someone talking to a woman with the name Lady. She has been the only one to give info and request info. She sounds great and a perfect lady. I hope she agrees to meet because I don't think I will regret it and I'm sure she won't regret it. One way to find out about trust. I don't want to be hurt like was before and that is why I was very cautious before now. I feel that I have alot to give to that special someone, someday and it begins with that first chance. Someone can't say well he probably was this or that without a chance. Someone stated get off the computer and go out and find one. I found many, but not the one I am looking for. Someone that I can trust and give all my LOVE to. Believe me, I still have alot of Love left to give that has been built up before and since my divorce. Finding that special someone is what I am looking for. Hopefully, Lady will give it a chance.
If Lady doesn't want to meet you I am interested!
Ready to start over

Inez, KY

#20 Jul 17, 2012
Hey Lady down on love,

Tell me a little about yourself. I believe I have spilled my life out on this topic so far. Hope to find that right someone.

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