Youth Advocate Scandal

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HAA wrote:
That company is going to go to shit!!! Darren was by far THE BEST AdVOCATE and DIRECTOR Of Franklin County. The last Direcor Miss LISA SCHARF was THE WORST director and Kasey Lane was STUPID to not see that! Lisa is nothing but a dirty SMUT who I heard through the grape vine that she slept with an 18 YEAR OLD!!! So now you tell me if that's what you want in a person trying to ADVOCATE young adults here in Franklin County! And now I rest my case and thank you for reading.
And here I though it was illegal to advocate young adults in this state. Thanks for clarifying that.
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xdrunk wrote:
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Just guessing that you don't make a habit of correcting some cowork, or a boss, or out in a bar would you?
Its people like you that drive people away for trying to get out what they think is right or going on around them.
xd
Or stop you from getting all the salacious gossip you need to live on. Remember, you were the one who immediately demanded details, like you just lusted and drooled for more dirt.

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Well,I wonder what MOM and Daddy will do.

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When a person has a job as director of an agency that deals with children. Especially being role models to at risk youth they should always conduct themselves properly on or off the job. It is a great responsibility that requires someone who has a stronger will than a 26 year old party animal.His sexual preferance doesnt matter only that he uses good judgment in everything he does. He lost his job, ruined his career and will have a criminal record. Hopfefully a lesson has been learned. Plus Tim Cooley is a criminal that has been in and out of jail, rehab and halfway houses for years. Darren probably should have kept better company.
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When a person has a job as director of an agency that deals with children. Especially being role models to at risk youth they should always conduct themselves properly on or off the job. It is a great responsibility that requires someone who has a stronger will than a 26 year old party animal.His sexual preferance doesnt matter only that he uses good judgment in everything he does. He lost his job, ruined his career and will have a criminal record. Hopfefully a lesson has been learned. Plus Tim Cooley is a criminal that has been in and out of jail, rehab and halfway houses for years. Darren probably should have kept better company.
It is to bad for both of these men. They were subject to bate and discrimination for all of their lives. These men chose to stay in Malone or Northern NY which was a mistake. Gay youth need to be in a area of the State that accepts and provides opportunities for young people to become responsible and proud of who they are. I grew upnin Northern N Y just like these young men. ONLY until I was well educated and able to represent myself did I move back here for a well paying professional job. Best to both Tim and Darren for your acceptance and just being who you are.
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MrGayfromMalone wrote:
<quoted text>It is to bad for both of these men. They were subject to bate and discrimination for all of their lives. These men chose to stay in Malone or Northern NY which was a mistake. Gay youth need to be in a area of the State that accepts and provides opportunities for young people to become responsible and proud of who they are. I grew upnin Northern N Y just like these young men. ONLY until I was well educated and able to represent myself did I move back here for a well paying professional job. Best to both Tim and Darren for your acceptance and just being who you are.
Stop grandstanding Harry. They messed up and need to own up to their mistakes. Being Gay has nothing to do with it. Its 2012. What if some children walked up and observed their antics on cherry st? Not good. then they would be sex offenders
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Aug 15, 2012
 
Malone is such a christian based community we wouldnt allow a topless "juice" bar on the Bare Hill Rd. a few years back. But we should accept Man on Man lovin in a car right smack in the middle of the village where children and the elderly reside? Especially during fair week when people from all over including Canada visit our community and boost our economy. Nope they should fry.http://pressrepublican.com /new_today/x2103323603/Directo r-fired-over-lewdness-arrest
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My heart goes out two these two young men and am disgusted with The Malone Evening Telegram and there extensive coverage of whatever went on. This newspaper has ruined their lives and their families lives over something that could have been handled in a much more compassionate & discrete way! Yes, what they did was obviously wrong and yes one of the mentioned has a good job in the community but things could have been done differently! If you have to remove him from his position than do so, if they are homosexuals big deal, if they were caught in a compromising situation who the hell wants to read about it, Malone thrives on this trivial trash! I personally know Darren and yes I am a women and I think he is a fun, intelligent and caring individual that made a stupid mistake that isn't worthy of being the "breaking news" in our very very lame example of a newspaper!
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Aug 15, 2012
 
poor pathetic pup wrote:
Ok so let me get this right, so because of his title he is not allowed to leave his house? For the record, got it he broke the law, he chose the wrong location is all and wasn't as sneaky as he should of been. If in fact the allegations are true, he was not on duty and was with another adult.
So that all being said because he deals with children and families, that's why he's being attacked? So teachers, or other school facilitators, police officers, DSS, CPS, PO, or medical personnel should be handled similarly if put in the same legal situation?
Right you are. Also, by law aren't we innocent until proven guilty? The local police (and troopers) are a bunch of gossips. They go home and tell all of the details of things to their wives, who go to work and tell everyone they come in contact with. The information may or may not become exaggerated with each telling, but it isn't fair. This guy may have lost his job over this...and I believe if it was a male and female there wouldn't have been such an uproar.
Does anyone know the policy for that agency? Hopefully he wont' lose his job unless convicted. I heard he is a good guy, hard worker, and works well with the kids in the program.
Good luck to him.
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notproudtobeaMalonian wrote:
My heart goes out two these two young men and am disgusted with The Malone Evening Telegram and there extensive coverage of whatever went on. This newspaper has ruined their lives and their families lives over something that could have been handled in a much more compassionate & discrete way! Yes, what they did was obviously wrong and yes one of the mentioned has a good job in the community but things could have been done differently! If you have to remove him from his position than do so, if they are homosexuals big deal, if they were caught in a compromising situation who the hell wants to read about it, Malone thrives on this trivial trash! I personally know Darren and yes I am a women and I think he is a fun, intelligent and caring individual that made a stupid mistake that isn't worthy of being the "breaking news" in our very very lame example of a newspaper!
It's disgusting how these types of stories are on the front page...breaking news I suppose. I understand the need to report news, but this seems to go overboard with a personal attack/edge to it. Come on, did the Police Chief really have to be interviewed over this? Geez, he was out parking and got caught. How many of us have made out in cars? Or in a semi-public place? He didn't kill someone. I think the "reporters" at the Telegram need to calm down and quit being overzealous in sensationalizing anything that comes their way. You can tell they are bored and ready to pounce on anything, Look at one of the paper's this week (Monday I think)...they have a picture of the empty fair grounds with the rides all packed up. Wow! that's worthy of a prime location on the FRONT page? No matter how this turns out, I think the Telegram owes him an apology for how this was handled.
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Iknowit wrote:
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It's disgusting how these types of stories are on the front page...breaking news I suppose. I understand the need to report news, but this seems to go overboard with a personal attack/edge to it. Come on, did the Police Chief really have to be interviewed over this? Geez, he was out parking and got caught. How many of us have made out in cars? Or in a semi-public place? He didn't kill someone. I think the "reporters" at the Telegram need to calm down and quit being overzealous in sensationalizing anything that comes their way. You can tell they are bored and ready to pounce on anything, Look at one of the paper's this week (Monday I think)...they have a picture of the empty fair grounds with the rides all packed up. Wow! that's worthy of a prime location on the FRONT page? No matter how this turns out, I think the Telegram owes him an apology for how this was handled.
I agree. Both parties arrests were published in Mondays edition of the telegram. Why did they feel the need to publish another story the following day?
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If this were a male and female we wouldn't have even known this event occurred. The police officers would have told them to get a room and be done with it.

I remember when I was a teenager I would see other people having sex behind the barrier inside skateland, in the bathrooms, in the parking lot. Kids park all the time on lovers lane road - hell I've even done it when I was younger.

And whatever happened to innocent until proven guilty? These peoples lives are ruined now because of this incident, even before they faced a formal verdict! They will always be known as ''those gay dudes that were screwing in a car''. This type of thing happens all of the time all over this country but I assure you it doesn't make front page news and people aren't clutching their pearls like a bunch of shocked virginal maidens in utter disbelief.

Get some class, Malone Telegram. Truly a disgrace.

I've said it before and I'll say it again, if you're young, and gay, move away. You will thrive.
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This is the beginning of the article that was printed in the Press Republican, and it's pretty straight forward with EXACTLY what happened;)
""""MALONE The director of a program that mentors at-risk youths was fired Tuesday following his arrest on charges of public lewdness.
Darren M. Dumas, 26, was arrested at 2:45 a.m. Sunday, along with Timothy Cooley, 21, of Malone, said Malone Village Police.
Both were found wearing no pants with their genitals exposed while parked in a vehicle on Cherry Street, police said."""
The website for this article is:
http://pressrepublican.com/0100_news/x2103323...
So people can stop making BS up. The facts are here. People who do stupid things shouldn't be surprised when they get caught! Who cares if it was 2 males or 2 females or 1 male and 1 female!! It is wrong to be exposed like that in public, and doing whatever they were doing is most likely also illegal to do in public!
Your Welcome for clearing that up:)
Straight from Plattsburgh,
T.M.
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Oh and I would just like to add:

You guys ever hear of a police log? The press republican has one! When people get arrested their names appear in the paper along with their charges!! If people do not wanna be in the paper STOP BREAKING THE LAW!!!!
And personally, I agree that someone who works with children who are in need of help SHOULD SET NOTHING BUT A GOOD EXAMPLE!

The agency he works for should also be looked at. They should have to do extensive background checks for people who have that much authority and influence on children, especially ones who have problems like the children this man worked with...

ok... I am done lol

Again,
Straight from Plattsburgh;)

T.M
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Caring on about Gay rights, etc does not help at all. These were two adults, one with a respectable position in the community doing something that was poor judgement and illegal. If you behave that way, your going to lose respect and maybe more and they did. Let the system play out and end where it will. Stop beating this to dead in the media and on the forum.
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this whole issue is really stupid. it could "have" (not "of") been solved simply by going to one of their residences or GETTING A ROOM.

they deserve whatever they get.

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I have a question????

Do people who do sex acts in the public like this and get convictied need to reg as a sex offered?

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xdrunk wrote:
Well,I wonder what MOM and Daddy will do.
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I SAW MR.DUMAS AT STORE LOOKS TERRIBLE TO BAD PARENTS ARE REAL NICE PEOPLE

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You can sugar coat it anyway you want, this individual is not mature or responsible enough to hold the position he was in at YAP. There certainly has to be more qualified people out there. Facts are facts people, he was caught with his pants down-again-no doubt this wasn't the first time..just the first time it made the paper in this area. He should not be mentoring vulnerable children that are troubled..he sounds a little troubled himself. You can't be out getting loaded all the time, partying, and acting with such immaturity and be a director of a program such as this. What kind of example is he setting for these kids? What kind of role model is he setting? Certainly not a positive one. They need a responsible, mature individual who can at least keep their pants on in public. Just hoping he wasn't acting or doing inapprpriate things to the children in the program. It will be interesting to see what excuses mommy and daddy will make to try to get him out of this mess. I guess he likes to live by his words; "better to have an awkward morning, than a boring night"..ha ha you got that right!!!

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Aug 16, 2012
 
Parents do remember wrote:
So who was it who was offering $50 for a BJ back in senior year of high school in 05.......and who was it that got his truck upgraded.......... and who at the county selected the Director? Life is not the only thing that sucks!
Ewwwww.... he sounds pretty perverted to me..seriously ..did they do a back ground check on this dude ??

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