its raining

Madisonville, KY

#1 Feb 1, 2013
it seems to me that being married is no easier then being single or a single parent. people cheat on each other , leave each other and are generally not dependable of just fair weather spouses. in short i don't see much love , advantage, or happiness in married people these days.

And what is the diffence in living together or getting married and divirced several times. no difference to me...

married people...do you treat your spouse with respect or do you talk bad about them behind their back? or do you even disrespect them in front of people by pouting or making faces or getting sulled up or mouthing off?

do your grandkids think you treat the other grandpatent nice or that you even like your spouse...nevermind love!
gettingusedtosin gle

Murray, KY

#2 Feb 1, 2013
its raining wrote:
it seems to me that being married is no easier then being single or a single parent. people cheat on each other , leave each other and are generally not dependable of just fair weather spouses. in short i don't see much love , advantage, or happiness in married people these days.
And what is the diffence in living together or getting married and divirced several times. no difference to me...
married people...do you treat your spouse with respect or do you talk bad about them behind their back? or do you even disrespect them in front of people by pouting or making faces or getting sulled up or mouthing off?
do your grandkids think you treat the other grandpatent nice or that you even like your spouse...nevermind love!
Very interesting way of looking at this whole thing. It makes one wonder.
its raining

Madisonville, KY

#3 Feb 2, 2013
my sisters husband forced her to stay home with the kids until finally in her 3o s she convinced him how much money she could make and he let her finish college. of course that was about the time he started drinking again as an alcolholic and also hurt his back and he doesnt want to work as much himself. she is way smarter then him so its impossible to be a submissive wife as she is the one who makes the best decisions.
sunshine

Sikeston, MO

#4 Feb 2, 2013
I love my husband with all my heart and soul. We have our differences and at times we may have loud disagreements. Have we made mistakes? I would say the answer to that question is answered by the question, "are we human?" So, that being said, our marriage has been a learning and growth experience for the both of us. Our love has grown stronger over the years, and I can only pray that it will always prevail. You get what you put into your marriage. LOVE IS A CHOICE! Should you chose to love, you have to work constantly to keep it. Not all marriages are a joke. That being said, I would also like to add, that having a relationship with God will also make your relationship with your spouse stronger.
lolo

Madisonville, KY

#5 Feb 2, 2013
sunshine wrote:
I love my husband with all my heart and soul. We have our differences and at times we may have loud disagreements. Have we made mistakes? I would say the answer to that question is answered by the question, "are we human?" So, that being said, our marriage has been a learning and growth experience for the both of us. Our love has grown stronger over the years, and I can only pray that it will always prevail. You get what you put into your marriage. LOVE IS A CHOICE! Should you chose to love, you have to work constantly to keep it. Not all marriages are a joke. That being said, I would also like to add, that having a relationship with God will also make your relationship with your spouse stronger.
Amen

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#6 Feb 2, 2013
its raining wrote:
my sisters husband forced her to stay home with the kids until finally in her 3o s she convinced him how much money she could make and he let her finish college. of course that was about the time he started drinking again as an alcolholic and also hurt his back and he doesnt want to work as much himself. she is way smarter then him so its impossible to be a submissive wife as she is the one who makes the best decisions.
maybe she thinks she's smarter than him because she finished college, who knows maybe he's border line genius but because of her bloodline she is destined to be crazy...have you ever thought of that..lol
guess who

Owensboro, KY

#7 Feb 2, 2013
15 years of marriage and 4 kids later. my husband and i get along well. we do not speak ill of one another. if my husband has a problem with me he tells me no one else. I do the same. problem gets solved.
Pain

Tucker, GA

#8 Feb 2, 2013
LI0NSDEN wrote:
<quoted text>maybe she thinks she's smarter than him because she finished college, who knows maybe he's border line genius but because of her bloodline she is destined to be crazy...have you ever thought of that..lol
Have you considered a job where you don't
need hands?
Ridofher

Kuttawa, KY

#9 Feb 2, 2013
I've said "I do" the the preacher once and "Yes, your honor" to the divorce court judge once. Never plan to do either again.
AL

Madisonville, KY

#10 Feb 2, 2013
Marriage is the # 1 cause of Divorce !
its raining

Madisonville, KY

#11 Feb 2, 2013
sunshine wrote:
I love my husband with all my heart and soul. We have our differences and at times we may have loud disagreements. Have we made mistakes? I would say the answer to that question is answered by the question, "are we human?" So, that being said, our marriage has been a learning and growth experience for the both of us. Our love has grown stronger over the years, and I can only pray that it will always prevail. You get what you put into your marriage. LOVE IS A CHOICE! Should you chose to love, you have to work constantly to keep it. Not all marriages are a joke. That being said, I would also like to add, that having a relationship with God will also make your relationship with your spouse stronger.
a relationship with God doesnt necessarily make a marruage stringer. it may make people stay together tho and outwardly they appear happy to people but inside and in privite belittle and do not like their spouse
its raining

Madisonville, KY

#12 Feb 2, 2013
LI0NSDEN wrote:
<quoted text>maybe she thinks she's smarter than him because she finished college, who knows maybe he's border line genius but because of her bloodline she is destined to be crazy...have you ever thought of that..lol
yeah thats what men do...first thing they try to do is tell a woman she is crazy....or try to make her think she is crazt! dont accept it ladies. and my sister is smarter then her husband with or without college....she is truly exceptionally book smart and has her masters now. of couse he is now trying to get his 4 year degree and masters now...not because he wabts to but because she did. she was so smart she could work full time and get her masters on the weekend. where she was dumb was not realizing he wasnt smart when she was only 2o years old and married him.
Sunshine

Sikeston, MO

#13 Feb 2, 2013
its raining wrote:
<quoted text>a relationship with God doesnt necessarily make a marruage stringer. it may make people stay together tho and outwardly they appear happy to people but inside and in privite belittle and do not like their spouse
Are you married? Do you and your spouse have a relationship with God? Just curios as to what grounds you have to base these accusations.
Abc

Akron, OH

#14 Feb 2, 2013
Yep

Since: Jun 12

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#15 Feb 2, 2013
its raining wrote:
<quoted text>yeah thats what men do...first thing they try to do is tell a woman she is crazy....or try to make her think she is crazt! dont accept it ladies. and my sister is smarter then her husband with or without college....she is truly exceptionally book smart and has her masters now. of couse he is now trying to get his 4 year degree and masters now...not because he wabts to but because she did. she was so smart she could work full time and get her masters on the weekend. where she was dumb was not realizing he wasnt smart when she was only 2o years old and married him.
Smarts doesn't have a dang thing to do with raising kids, i'll take a gander that she is not the housewife type, well guess what unless you have a great job and can hire a maid then buck up and take care of your kids.

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#16 Feb 2, 2013
AL wrote:
Marriage is the # 1 cause of Divorce !
you are correct..1st smart thing I've heard today

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#17 Feb 2, 2013
Pain wrote:
<quoted text>
Have you considered a job where you don't
need hands?
maybe you need to come teach me..lol

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