hey

Florence, KY

#1 Jan 10, 2012
My boyfriend wants to grow his hair out. But we are 24 and have been together for three years so I hope by the time we are 27 maybe 28 we will be planning a wedding and getting married but the problem is I don't want to marry a man with long hair and it will take that long to get it as long as he wants it to be. I don't even want to date a guy with long hair it's not attractive to me. I don't want to look at my wedding picture for the rest of my life and see his skanky long hair. I have told him all this and how I feel but he doesn't care and says he is growing it out. Am I being unreasonable and selfish? He hates short hair on girls. I told him he wouldn't want me to cut my hair super short but he still isn't reasoning with me. I told him he has had three years to grow it out and to start growing it out after we get married. Sorry if I offend any guys with long hair but I don't think it's attractive or very professional looking.
John

Nashville, TN

#2 Jan 11, 2012
Take it from a gay guy. This is probably just a faze and it will end soon more than likely, so you have nothing to worry about in this aspect. I have my hair cut military style and love it. However; it is a two way street as well, it's not right for you to tell him not to have long hair and for him to tell you that he hates short hair. One solution, and this may sound a little odd, but take him somewhere to where he can try on extensions and see himself in the mirror. This way he can see the results in just a few minutes, rather than over a period of a few years. Remember, your not getting married for a few years so you are really worrying about this prematurely at envisioning your wedding photos at this moment in time. I really hope this helps you out a lot.
decent woman

Florence, KY

#3 Jan 13, 2012
hey wrote:
My boyfriend wants to grow his hair out. But we are 24 and have been together for three years so I hope by the time we are 27 maybe 28 we will be planning a wedding and getting married but the problem is I don't want to marry a man with long hair and it will take that long to get it as long as he wants it to be. I don't even want to date a guy with long hair it's not attractive to me. I don't want to look at my wedding picture for the rest of my life and see his skanky long hair. I have told him all this and how I feel but he doesn't care and says he is growing it out. Am I being unreasonable and selfish? He hates short hair on girls. I told him he wouldn't want me to cut my hair super short but he still isn't reasoning with me. I told him he has had three years to grow it out and to start growing it out after we get married. Sorry if I offend any guys with long hair but I don't think it's attractive or very professional looking.
if he was my man I would march him down to a barber shop and make him get a flattop.I don't approve of men wearing their hair like women.
hey

Florence, KY

#4 Jan 13, 2012
decent woman wrote:
<quoted text>if he was my man I would march him down to a barber shop and make him get a flattop.I don't approve of men wearing their hair like women.
I know right. That's what i said to him.
Really

United States

#5 Feb 20, 2012
decent woman wrote:
<quoted text>if he was my man I would march him down to a barber shop and make him get a flattop.I don't approve of men wearing their hair like women.
Are you his girlfriend or his mother?
shave the sissy

Cincinnati, OH

#6 Jun 25, 2012
shave him bald!
LonghairDontcare

South Sioux City, NE

#7 Aug 29, 2014
Nothing wrong with a man growing his hair out. As long as he keeps it maintained it's all good. Don't even try to lie.. You women like to pull it anyways haha!
Nitwit

Erin, TN

#8 Aug 29, 2014
hey wrote:
My boyfriend wants to grow his hair out. But we are 24 and have been together for three years so I hope by the time we are 27 maybe 28 we will be planning a wedding and getting married but the problem is I don't want to marry a man with long hair and it will take that long to get it as long as he wants it to be. I don't even want to date a guy with long hair it's not attractive to me. I don't want to look at my wedding picture for the rest of my life and see his skanky long hair. I have told him all this and how I feel but he doesn't care and says he is growing it out. Am I being unreasonable and selfish? He hates short hair on girls. I told him he wouldn't want me to cut my hair super short but he still isn't reasoning with me. I told him he has had three years to grow it out and to start growing it out after we get married. Sorry if I offend any guys with long hair but I don't think it's attractive or very professional looking.
Sounds like you do not love the guy, only love his looks.
Mia

Evansville, IN

#10 Sep 4, 2014
LonghairDontcare wrote:
Nothing wrong with a man growing his hair out. As long as he keeps it maintained it's all good. Don't even try to lie.. You women like to pull it anyways haha!
Not Jesus style
herpAderp

United States

#11 Oct 23, 2014
Who the f**k cares?!
All Right

Hermitage, TN

#12 Oct 26, 2014
herpAderp wrote:
Who the f**k cares?!
Y'all bout the dumbest bunch of I've ever heard of ! First of all ... U marry him , does he work ?or .. Does he sit on his ass and play video games all day ?....can he Provide a home and food and keep gas in a car keep the car running the tires inflated and change a tire if flat ?... Can he even buy a car ? O damn ? Can he add 2+2 =? Huh ? What ? I damn ? Can he count back change for gas ? Can he pump gas ? Can he go to the grocery store buy tampons ? Change shitty diapers ? Shoot a gun ? Kill a deer ? Skin a deer ? Dress it out ? See a real man may not have time for a freaking hair cut u idiot ! Have u seen duck dynasty !? I don't see their rich Christian family complaining ! And u getting married and all u worried bout is sum hair he may not have any in a few years he may be bald dead or have cancer ! If I was ur parent I'd slap u into next year ! Grow up ! Learn to wipe ur own ass ! And shut up ur crying little spoiled ass b4 he dumps u !

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