Dead beat dads & wicked stepmoms

Dead beat dads & wicked stepmoms

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Shame Shame

Tucker, GA

#1 Feb 23, 2013
I know a little boy who hasn't seen his father in years, yet his father only lives 30 minutes away. It's not because the mother prevents any visitation. The father won't have anything to do with the boy since he married a bitter, vicious old cow. Does it make any sense that you should stop being a father to your child because of a female? This little boy never receives anything from his father for birthdays, Christmases, etc. Not a card, not a phone call, NOTHING!!! The father acts like his son does not exist. The boy is never welcomed to the home. However, his wife's family is always welcome there. They come over and use the boy's belongings as they please. The father hasn't even offered to give his son his things. Instead, they are kept for his in-laws to enjoy! Is any of this right? Does this make sense to anyone? It is heartbreaking and appalling the way this little boy has been cast away from his father and family....can't stop shaking my head.
Nikki

Milton, WI

#2 Feb 23, 2013
Omg, what a total waste of our oxygen supply. U know B4 we had a government, people like that were dealt with harshly, as they would deserve to be!.

Since: Feb 12

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#3 Feb 23, 2013
Shame Shame wrote:
I know a little boy who hasn't seen his father in years, yet his father only lives 30 minutes away. It's not because the mother prevents any visitation. The father won't have anything to do with the boy since he married a bitter, vicious old cow. Does it make any sense that you should stop being a father to your child because of a female? This little boy never receives anything from his father for birthdays, Christmases, etc. Not a card, not a phone call, NOTHING!!! The father acts like his son does not exist. The boy is never welcomed to the home. However, his wife's family is always welcome there. They come over and use the boy's belongings as they please. The father hasn't even offered to give his son his things. Instead, they are kept for his in-laws to enjoy! Is any of this right? Does this make sense to anyone? It is heartbreaking and appalling the way this little boy has been cast away from his father and family....can't stop shaking my head.
It's the fathers loss. I'd be scared to have my son over there if the step mom is that vindictive. Man has no balls, no morals either apparently.
grow a pus_y

United States

#4 Feb 23, 2013
Shame Shame wrote:
I know a little boy who hasn't seen his father in years, yet his father only lives 30 minutes away. It's not because the mother prevents any visitation. The father won't have anything to do with the boy since he married a bitter, vicious old cow. Does it make any sense that you should stop being a father to your child because of a female? This little boy never receives anything from his father for birthdays, Christmases, etc. Not a card, not a phone call, NOTHING!!! The father acts like his son does not exist. The boy is never welcomed to the home. However, his wife's family is always welcome there. They come over and use the boy's belongings as they please. The father hasn't even offered to give his son his things. Instead, they are kept for his in-laws to enjoy! Is any of this right? Does this make sense to anyone? It is heartbreaking and appalling the way this little boy has been cast away from his father and family....can't stop shaking my head.
and his mother is sitting in front of a computer posting trash on a website... makes youa worthless mother!
Shame Shame

Tucker, GA

#5 Feb 23, 2013
I've got news for you. I am not his mother. And his mother is amazing. He is very well provided for and she does a damn good job of teaching him right from wrong. It's just a shame his pathetic excuse for a father couldn't and wouldn't do his part! He's busy drinking beer and catering to his cow!
Shame Shame

Tucker, GA

#6 Feb 23, 2013
grow a pus_y wrote:
<quoted text> and his mother is sitting in front of a computer posting trash on a website... makes youa worthless mother!
Oh, and by the way....it's not trash being posted. It's the TRUTH!!! Big difference!
grow a pus_y

United States

#7 Feb 23, 2013
Shame Shame wrote:
I've got news for you. I am not his mother. And his mother is amazing. He is very well provided for and she does a damn good job of teaching him right from wrong. It's just a shame his pathetic excuse for a father couldn't and wouldn't do his part! He's busy drinking beer and catering to his cow!
jealousy issues? Someone that needs to mind their own business... whatever it may be.. get a life! People who start trashy threads about a person and not putting your real name need psyciological help.
curious

Tucker, GA

#8 Feb 23, 2013
grow a pus_y wrote:
<quoted text> and his mother is sitting in front of a computer posting trash on a website... makes youa worthless mother!
why so hostile? sounds like this hits a little close to home maybe? are you the evil stepmom? Hmmm???
Nailed It

Lake Geneva, WI

#9 Feb 23, 2013
Oh curious, sounds like u hit the head of the nail
Sad

Tucker, GA

#10 Feb 23, 2013
How could any self respecting human being abandon their child like that? That's just awful! And that stepmom were any kind of real woman, she would let that boy be welcome in his father's home. A real woman would not allow that!
2 sides

Nashville, TN

#11 Feb 23, 2013
There are always two sides to a story. I have a feeling there is here too.
Question

Tucker, GA

#12 Feb 23, 2013
How are there 2 sides if the mom isn't preventing anything and the dad is just neglecting his kid???
Doesn't sound like it to me.

Since: Sep 11

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#13 Feb 23, 2013
Hmmm this thread gives me pause since I have been in the "wicked stepmom" position. From experience I can say most, not all, moms will consider the stepmom wicked whether she really is or not. Nothing you do will be good enough OR everything you do will be wrong because the kids aren't yours biologically. The kids will play mom & stepmom against one another just like they do their biological mom & dad. I say there is probably more to the story than is being told here. Sometimes you just have to let the kids grow up & realize some things on their own as they mature & can figure out who has really done what & to whom. Sometimes the real mom is just a jealous vindictive you know what who wants to visit her misery on her ex husband because he has found happiness with someone other than herself. Sometimes the kids are stirring the pot to cause conflict. Every pancake has 2 sides. Don't be in such a hurry to throw stepmom in front of the bus. Being a stepmom is a VERY hard job. Believe it. Been there & done it for many years & nobody was ever any happier than when those kids reached 18 & we (hubby & I) never have to hear from the psycho real mom again. The drama ended when the kids came of age because they have figured out where the real problem originated! Hang in there stepmoms. There is light at the end of the tunnel.
Shame Shame

Tucker, GA

#14 Feb 23, 2013
RO9U3 wrote:
Hmmm this thread gives me pause since I have been in the "wicked stepmom" position. From experience I can say most, not all, moms will consider the stepmom wicked whether she really is or not. Nothing you do will be good enough OR everything you do will be wrong because the kids aren't yours biologically. The kids will play mom & stepmom against one another just like they do their biological mom & dad. I say there is probably more to the story than is being told here. Sometimes you just have to let the kids grow up & realize some things on their own as they mature & can figure out who has really done what & to whom. Sometimes the real mom is just a jealous vindictive you know what who wants to visit her misery on her ex husband because he has found happiness with someone other than herself. Sometimes the kids are stirring the pot to cause conflict. Every pancake has 2 sides. Don't be in such a hurry to throw stepmom in front of the bus. Being a stepmom is a VERY hard job. Believe it. Been there & done it for many years & nobody was ever any happier than when those kids reached 18 & we (hubby & I) never have to hear from the psycho real mom again. The drama ended when the kids came of age because they have figured out where the real problem originated! Hang in there stepmoms. There is light at the end of the tunnel.
There is a difference. There isn't 2 sides. How can there be when the father won't and hasn't had anything to do with his kid in years?! I understand your point, but that is certainly not the situation. He got the new wife and now the boy is no longer welcome into what should be his home. Whenever he was supposed to go over to visit, the dad would come up with some flaky bullcrap excuses as to why he couldn't take him. This continued until he just stopped seeing him at all and cut off all contact. He doesn't even acknowledge his son's birthday. I don't care how much you want to please your new wife....there is no excuse for that. But she doesn't mind showing everyone pictures of the children on her side of the family hanging out at the house and playing all over his belongings. They can't bother with getting this child a Christmas present, but they can go on vacations and drink every weekend? I promise this is the situation. There is nothing left out. No exaggeration about it. And there is a boy wondering why his father will not contact him or have anything to do with him. It's damaging and it makes me angry. How selfish and self-absorbed can you be to turn your back on your only baby?
Just sayin'

Benton, KY

#15 Feb 23, 2013
How sad! Prayers for all of them...we never know when that one day will come when it's all to late..as we never know what fate has in store us! I hope the father realizes how much he's missing out on. The joy of a child is endless.
grow a pus_y

United States

#16 Feb 23, 2013
Shame Shame wrote:
<quoted text>
There is a difference. There isn't 2 sides. How can there be when the father won't and hasn't had anything to do with his kid in years?! I understand your point, but that is certainly not the situation. He got the new wife and now the boy is no longer welcome into what should be his home. Whenever he was supposed to go over to visit, the dad would come up with some flaky bullcrap excuses as to why he couldn't take him. This continued until he just stopped seeing him at all and cut off all contact. He doesn't even acknowledge his son's birthday. I don't care how much you want to please your new wife....there is no excuse for that. But she doesn't mind showing everyone pictures of the children on her side of the family hanging out at the house and playing all over his belongings. They can't bother with getting this child a Christmas present, but they can go on vacations and drink every weekend? I promise this is the situation. There is nothing left out. No exaggeration about it. And there is a boy wondering why his father will not contact him or have anything to do with him. It's damaging and it makes me angry. How selfish and self-absorbed can you be to turn your back on your only baby?
GIVE IT A REST AND HOPEFULLY YOU WILL BE MORE CAREFUL WHO YOU OPEN YOUR LEGS UP TO. SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP.
The flying scotsman

Paducah, KY

#17 Feb 24, 2013
Buuuuuuuuuurp. I think I need me another pint.
Tara

Milton, WI

#18 Feb 24, 2013
She def must b the stepmom,what trash they are.
Tara

Milton, WI

#19 Feb 24, 2013
grow a pus_y wrote:
<quoted text> GIVE IT A REST AND HOPEFULLY YOU WILL BE MORE CAREFUL WHO YOU OPEN YOUR LEGS UP TO. SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP.
Sounds like you are guilty of the truth.
tim

Milton, WI

#20 Feb 24, 2013
It must feel awful to know the town of murray cant people like you.

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