Timmy White-A Lost Life

Timmy White-A Lost Life

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end the hate

Brooklyn, NY

#1 Nov 5, 2008
This is dedicated to you baby boy, i hope that wherever you are, you are safe from harm--
The last words you ever said to me was your adress, because you told me to come over whenever i wanted, right after i told you i was depressed. Something told me to write it down, but i didnt. It's a desicion that i now regret. I regret never visiting you all the times you told me to since you lived right by me. It hurts even more when i remeber all the times we would chill by your house and all the times youd come over my house and act a fool, lol! We all said you were going to die young, because of the life you chose to live, but we didnt think it would be this abrupt. No one knows what was going through your head when you were taking those pills, and i wish there was something we couldve done, or something we couldve known to help you out. I know you were living alone with no phones or computer, and it mustve been tough, and i know that when youre all alone like that, you think about all the bad things and it can torment you, and thats what i think drove you to insanity, to take a lethal amount of what you were taking. If you were in pain or upset, i am sorry. Im so sorry you were alone, left there to die for a few days till someone found you. thats what kills me the most--that you were left there to die like some kind of piece of meat and that when you were found, you were beyond recognition. NO ONE deserves a death like that and i wouldn't have wanted this for you, but God chose your destiny and this is how it ended sweetheart, and no matter what we say, all the WHAT IFS we can think of can NEVER bring you back to us. I want you to know that i miss you, and i feel terrible about what happened to you at such a young age, and i hope that you are in a beautiful place, where no one can ever hurt you. Someday we'll meet again baby boy..someday. Life was hard, now its time to rest easy baby. I love you.

Since: Jan 08

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#2 Nov 12, 2008
I am so, so sorry. We have lost too many of our boys here in Lynbrook in such a short time. I hope that you are with Charlie, Matt V, & Matt B. and they are showing you the ropes.

Rest In Peace Timmy

May Angels Lead You In.
end the hate

Brooklyn, NY

#3 Nov 12, 2008
Charlies Mom wrote:
I am so, so sorry. We have lost too many of our boys here in Lynbrook in such a short time. I hope that you are with Charlie, Matt V, & Matt B. and they are showing you the ropes.
Rest In Peace Timmy
May Angels Lead You In.
You are chucks mom? the boy who got hit by a car i think? i read here in the newspaper and some of my friends knew him-- so tragic, i am so sorry. I know God is taking good care of them all, and one day we will meet with them again.
Charlies Mom

Oceanside, NY

#4 Nov 13, 2008
Yes I am Charlie's mom. The kids told me about Timmy and I was compelled to write something here. I know what his family is going through and it never ends. I cry everyday for my son and I don't expect I will ever stop crying.He was the happiest person I have ever known and was the joy of our family. I miss him every minute of everyday.
I am so sorry about your friend Timmy. Charlie's friends have remained close to me and they think that Charlie probably knew him but didn't hang out with him.
I hope that they are hanging out now.
I wish you peace, know that you have a new guardian angel looking after you.
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You are chucks mom? the boy who got hit by a car i think? i read here in the newspaper and some of my friends knew him-- so tragic, i am so sorry. I know God is taking good care of them all, and one day we will meet with them again.
end the hate

Brooklyn, NY

#5 Nov 13, 2008
Charlies Mom wrote:
Yes I am Charlie's mom. The kids told me about Timmy and I was compelled to write something here. I know what his family is going through and it never ends. I cry everyday for my son and I don't expect I will ever stop crying.He was the happiest person I have ever known and was the joy of our family. I miss him every minute of everyday.
I am so sorry about your friend Timmy. Charlie's friends have remained close to me and they think that Charlie probably knew him but didn't hang out with him.
I hope that they are hanging out now.
I wish you peace, know that you have a new guardian angel looking after you.
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I am so sorry, i know words can never really heal the pain you are going through but just remeber that he is safe. Me and timmy use to be closer back in highschool, but before he died we would talk online, hed always tell me to go visit him since he moved to lynbrook, like 5 minutes away from me. I wanted to visit him but i never did, and i never realized how much i cared for him till i found out he was gone. Ive never had a friend die before so when i heard about it, i was incredibly shocked, and i still am. Timmy wasnt living a good life, he was all alone, his mom had just deserted him, no dad, no anyone, and as much as it hurts, i think he is better off where he is, because timmy may have abused drugs but was a good hearted kid, but i now know the saying is true: only the good die young. May be it is all for a reason.

Since: Jan 08

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#6 Nov 13, 2008
I am sorry his life was so hard, how old was he? Is it any wonder why he sought drugs to ease his pain, to be so all alone so young. How sad that he was so alone that no one found him for days! He didn't even have a chance to get help without a phone or computer
I guess you really don't have any control, Charlie was loved beyond all imagination. We are so devastated by this. He has a loving family, good friends and is missed by so many. He had never spent more than two nights at a time away from me and I never let any time go by without speaking with him, checking in on him and he leaves the house at 7pm and is run down on the sidewalk by a DUI driver.
There is never an explaination for these things.

I didn't see anything in the paper, are there arrangements?
end the hate

Brooklyn, NY

#7 Nov 14, 2008
Charlies Mom wrote:
I am sorry his life was so hard, how old was he? Is it any wonder why he sought drugs to ease his pain, to be so all alone so young. How sad that he was so alone that no one found him for days! He didn't even have a chance to get help without a phone or computer
I guess you really don't have any control, Charlie was loved beyond all imagination. We are so devastated by this. He has a loving family, good friends and is missed by so many. He had never spent more than two nights at a time away from me and I never let any time go by without speaking with him, checking in on him and he leaves the house at 7pm and is run down on the sidewalk by a DUI driver.
There is never an explaination for these things.
I didn't see anything in the paper, are there arrangements?
im pretty sure he was 19. Timmy has been abusing different types of drugs since he was a young kid. i would always ask him if he stopped using drugs, and one of the last times we spoke, he told he did, i believed him. I heard things were going good in his life, he was working, making money. Then his mom left and i think thats when it all just fell apart.
Atleast we knew that this was timmys fate in a way, we just didnt expect him to die THIS YOUNG, but we eventually knew something tragic would happen. What happened to your son is absolutely devastating. THe person was really driving under the influence? Do you have any other children?

Since: Jan 08

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#8 Nov 15, 2008
Yes he was DUI, vicadin, pot and beer.
This later came out and he was arrested in May but his family bonded him out and we are now in litigation.
I do have an older son, 25. He has been destroyed by the loss of his little brother. They were extremely close and spent alot of time together. Most times Charlie was away from us he was with his brother. We are a very close family.
I still have not seen anything about any funeral arrangements, there hasn't been any articles anywhere about this.

Timmy....I hope that you see that you are loved, remembered and missed by your friend who has written here, with love, in your memory. I wish you peace.
end the hate

Brooklyn, NY

#9 Nov 17, 2008
Charlies Mom wrote:
Yes he was DUI, vicadin, pot and beer.
This later came out and he was arrested in May but his family bonded him out and we are now in litigation.
I do have an older son, 25. He has been destroyed by the loss of his little brother. They were extremely close and spent alot of time together. Most times Charlie was away from us he was with his brother. We are a very close family.
I still have not seen anything about any funeral arrangements, there hasn't been any articles anywhere about this.
Timmy....I hope that you see that you are loved, remembered and missed by your friend who has written here, with love, in your memory. I wish you peace.
WOW what a jerk. Why do people have to operate a vehicle if they know they are under the influence?? gets me so angry! Yea i tried looking it up on the computer too but nothing was ever mentioned. His wake was on election day, closed casket ofcourse. Im sure his body was already on its way to decompisition. No matter what they wouldve done, he wouldnt of looked right. They buried him the next day, dont know where. It is believed he died around the 28th of Oct. he wasnt found till halloween. Some girl went inside, smelled something bad and found timmy in his bed, under the covers. I still dont know whether he died from a lethal dose of oxycontin or if he mixed it with something else. If you know, please let me know because i think the autopsy reports came back but no one i talk to knows.
angry broad

Mahwah, NJ

#10 Nov 17, 2008
THE things i never got to say to you timmy : you were the only one i trusted i loved you so much and i feel empty with out you ...tuesday when i saw you i thought i would have see you the next day like everyother day......not having you to help me though everything is hard and to not have you is even harder....my life feels empty and my mind is running circles....how why when???when i found you that friday i thought you were going to be messing with my head....its impossible to believe this i feel like a lost dog and i know you didnt deserve what ever it was that happened to you .... i love you ... and for all thoughs people out there that think timmy did drugs he didnt he was to scared please stop linking that with his death untill his family lets everyone no ....dont assume the worst he was a great person.....timmy i will love you forever untill you open the gates for me now all i ask is you be the wings to guide me in the long jonery through life
angry broad

Mahwah, NJ

#11 Nov 17, 2008
ok i dont no if any of you no but timmy did not use drugs like you all are saying please the pore kid has pass and yes he had alot of things going on in his life...and he wasnt completly alone i was with him everyday for god knows how long....he had told me he couldnt do drugs cause he had seizures please know would could understand to read about how he was lonely and hurting and ect....timmy was well rounded and was not alone he has and had alot of loving people in his life and if you went to the wake and stuff you would have see that please understand this is coming from the girl that found him and i loved him with all my heart i saw him the 28th and he was fine please stop assuming thing untill you hear it from his family ... god rest your soul timmy white you were my hero and best friend i feel like there is no me with out you ..and yes only the best die young....i miss you more then you will ever no
end the hate

Brooklyn, NY

#12 Nov 18, 2008
angry broad wrote:
THE things i never got to say to you timmy : you were the only one i trusted i loved you so much and i feel empty with out you ...tuesday when i saw you i thought i would have see you the next day like everyother day......not having you to help me though everything is hard and to not have you is even harder....my life feels empty and my mind is running circles....how why when???when i found you that friday i thought you were going to be messing with my head....its impossible to believe this i feel like a lost dog and i know you didnt deserve what ever it was that happened to you .... i love you ... and for all thoughs people out there that think timmy did drugs he didnt he was to scared please stop linking that with his death untill his family lets everyone no ....dont assume the worst he was a great person.....timmy i will love you forever untill you open the gates for me now all i ask is you be the wings to guide me in the long jonery through life
Did you read my first post? I was one of timmys friends and yes i was there at his wake, ofcourse. Timmy was a great guy, i never in my life felt any ill feelings for him and i didnt know how much i cared for him till i found out he was gone. The only reason i am saying it was an overdose is because that is what everyone told me. Timmy always told me he wasnt using drugs, and i believed him so it was a shocker to hear that he died from an overdose, which is what EVERYONE I ASK is telling me. I say he was alone because his mother had left him, grandmother passed like a year ago, and he never met his father. He may have had friends and cousins, but as far as parent figures--he has none, and that can hurt someone. Were you the girl that found his body on halloween?
end the hate

Brooklyn, NY

#13 Nov 18, 2008
angry broad wrote:
ok i dont no if any of you no but timmy did not use drugs like you all are saying please the pore kid has pass and yes he had alot of things going on in his life...and he wasnt completly alone i was with him everyday for god knows how long....he had told me he couldnt do drugs cause he had seizures please know would could understand to read about how he was lonely and hurting and ect....timmy was well rounded and was not alone he has and had alot of loving people in his life and if you went to the wake and stuff you would have see that please understand this is coming from the girl that found him and i loved him with all my heart i saw him the 28th and he was fine please stop assuming thing untill you hear it from his family ... god rest your soul timmy white you were my hero and best friend i feel like there is no me with out you ..and yes only the best die young....i miss you more then you will ever no
Yea, me, timmy and my best friend (shes the one in the picture with him on his myspace, hes holding a red cup, shes tan) use to be really close back in highschool. When he lived in erock we use to visit him everyday after school, sometimes he'd walk with us to my house. After highschool me and him would talk from time to time online, he use to tell me to come over, and the last time we spoke, which was 2 weeks before he died, i told him i was depressed and stuff and he told me to go over, to just knock on his door because he had no phone or computer. I was thinking of going but i never did---a desicion i obviously regret because i dont usually like people, but timmy was definately a person i liked VERY MUCH. He was unlike any other guy friend i ever had and i still dont want to believe he is gone, but i always hope that one day i can meet with him again. If you were the girl that found him, i am so sorry. Ive wanted to talk to you and tell you that i am so sorry you had to witness that and i know that you probably wont forget but just stay strong--stay strong for timmy, and remeber that he is up there watching you and hes in a safer place where he can no longer hurt. If he didnt die from an overdose than what do you think killed him?
angry broad

Mahwah, NJ

#14 Nov 18, 2008
Yes unfortunitly i witness this tragic ending to a beautiful life that was shorty taken unfairly ....and every single day i will live in hunor of one of the greatest people i have every meet. The reason i say please dont say these thing is becaause when i first meet timmy he didnt do drug and told me that then every day since that day we meet, we chilled and never did anything like that... i pray to everything i love that this sad sad event was not because of drugs or self inflicted ...the way you came off with left there to die was alittle harsh i went looking for him every day never did i expect that if i climbed in through the window would find one of my best friends gone that way ..i am sorry for everyones lose timmy white was an amzing person and would have done anything for anyone he knew he was funny and smart i love him very very much as i am sure that you all do.my prayers are with all thoughs who loved such a great guy and now all he can do is guide us with his wings through the joerny of life.we can only hold on to the merories and wait till its time to kick it back with our loved and lost ones...Please rmember timmy for the great person he was what happened to him will be a mistory and no matter what it was it doesnt really matter we cant have him back ...he is gods right hand man now watching over all his loved ones!!!!I LOVE YOU TIMMY WHITE
end the hate

Brooklyn, NY

#15 Nov 19, 2008
angry broad wrote:
Yes unfortunitly i witness this tragic ending to a beautiful life that was shorty taken unfairly ....and every single day i will live in hunor of one of the greatest people i have every meet. The reason i say please dont say these thing is becaause when i first meet timmy he didnt do drug and told me that then every day since that day we meet, we chilled and never did anything like that... i pray to everything i love that this sad sad event was not because of drugs or self inflicted ...the way you came off with left there to die was alittle harsh i went looking for him every day never did i expect that if i climbed in through the window would find one of my best friends gone that way ..i am sorry for everyones lose timmy white was an amzing person and would have done anything for anyone he knew he was funny and smart i love him very very much as i am sure that you all do.my prayers are with all thoughs who loved such a great guy and now all he can do is guide us with his wings through the joerny of life.we can only hold on to the merories and wait till its time to kick it back with our loved and lost ones...Please rmember timmy for the great person he was what happened to him will be a mistory and no matter what it was it doesnt really matter we cant have him back ...he is gods right hand man now watching over all his loved ones!!!!I LOVE YOU TIMMY WHITE
Ok but EVERYONE is saying he did use drugs, even one of his best friends, who sold him the oxycontin. Youre the only human being ive spoken to who is telling me he didnt. There is NO reason to deny he was taking drugs, its not like it makes him a bad person. Ive known timmy since he was in grade school, and he was just a rebellious kid--a very good hearted kid, but he started screwin with drugs at a very EARLY age, and im sure he wanted to stop, but its not that easy, especially the way he was living. And yes, he was left there to die, this isnt a diss to you, its a diss to his mother, who shouldve been living with him, instead she left her son all alone in a house that probably didnt even have heat and YES, was left there to die. It breaks my heart to say it, but its true. Thankfully for you though, we didnt find him like a month later, although it was still too late. What happened to him doesnt really have to be a mystery-- i mean WHY he did, well i guess only he knows, but the autopsy reports usually give a good indication as to what he ingested and what really killed him--if it was accidental or not. It wont bring him back, but its always good to have some closure, to know. No one wants to live their life wondering what went wrong, especially to a good kid like timmy.
Question--When you found him, was he starting to decompose?
Tiimmy White

Adelaide, Australia

#16 Dec 13, 2009
This is a scary world we live in that someone with the same name as myself and similiar age has died from similair problems i now face, under similiar circumstances may he rest in piece because honestly this does scare me that i although on the other side of the planet may read the exact same story in my local newspapers
Timmy White

Adelaide, Australia

#17 Dec 13, 2009
i wonder how many Timmy Whites need to die like this like us before people realise this world has a major epidemic

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