What kind of jobs do sexual offenders...
alien

Lower Hutt, New Zealand

#542 Aug 11, 2013
i have convicted for saying inapropriate things to a ten year old boy. i went to jail. and have now been out for over 2 years now. i had to be registerd on the sex offender list and i didnt even have sex with any1. i do understand what i did wasnt a desicion that any1 should make. i am not attracted to children. i dont want sex with children but i am treated and controled like that is what i did or want. and that isnt ok. since i was released i havnt been able to get a job. finding somewhere for me to live is just about impossible and whenever a job oppertunity does come up its like the government is obligated to find a way of saying no and not allowing it. so i have been on a benifit since release basically living off the same government that doesnt want me to ever get back on my own 2 feet. get a job, and became apart of society again. this way of peoples thinking is wrong as was my actions.. but its been proven time and time again that 2 wrongs dont make a right. im being forced to sponge off the taxpayer and i dont want to. i love to work. how can this ever change tho?? proberly wont!!
Keisha

Chicago, IL

#543 Aug 15, 2013
hi y'all im 21 years old now but i got convicted of lewd n lasicious n sex battery when i was 15years old i was having sex in a abandoned house wit a boy infront of my Cousin i performed oral sex on him n he did the same to me i didn't kno that bullshit would get me in a world of trouble i was adam walshed :( ughhh my life is over im african american at that im so pissed im no sex offender were im from we hate them mfs what to do
mase

Schenectady, NY

#544 Aug 16, 2013
Does anyone proofread anymore? Moving on, hate all the offenders you want, but it's not right to take their rights away. We're allowed to have families and raise kids. But we're not allowed to properly provide for them. Now on the other hand I do believe that actual "predators" should be locked up forever. But some of our situations aren't like that. I'm a convicted child molester. From when I was 15 years old and literally knew no better. Now I'm 31, have not done a thing since. I've got a 2 year old son and a wife. And I'm trying like hell to provide for them. But I can't get a good job because I screwed up once.
Dele

Plano, TX

#545 Aug 20, 2013
tracy wrote:
<quoted text>i too was convicted of a sexual assault. i was 21 and the girl was 15. problem was, she had a fake ID stating she was 19. this was not admitted into evidence, and i took a plea offer. this was before the internet. i had no idea on what scale i would be judged. Since then i have been married, widowed, and re-engaged to a woman who had 4 girls. That relationship ran its course without a hint of an incident. But now, i am finding it impossible to find work to support myself. i endured 3 years of sexual assault classes and was deemed by the couselor to be non-threatening. However, that piece of information is not made available to the public. All they see is that i offended years ago. No mention of it being an isolated incident. No mention of the years of volunteer work that i have done in an attempt to pay my penance. Mention is made of other types of criminals here. Has anyone considered that murderers, arsonists, and burglars often go out of thier way to committ thier crimes? Committing a sexual offense is often as simple of a case as being in the wrong place at the wrong time. i fully expect to get alot of heat for this post, but society has already passed thier judgement. What else you got?
As for Kevin... if you are looking for a good worker who has put up with all that people have to give, i am willing to relocate and have experience in a number of fields. Of course i will not put my e-mail on here as it will be blown up with hate mail. re-post and i will be glad to reply.
I am in the exact same situation as you. Girl lied about age and I took a plea deal. Not knowing my life changed for the worse at that moment. This really really sucks being labeled as an offender. All you can do is roll with the punches. Only the strong survive.
Kris

Bronx, NY

#546 Aug 26, 2013
kevin wrote:
I am a sex offender an i own my own business and very well blooming. People look at sex offenders as monsters but in all truth aint nothing diffrent then the local murder or drug dealer that just got done supplying your kids with drugs or just got done murdering your child. I guess it is not so bad if you just kill the kid and not rape it .... lets wake up here there is more in the world then a sex offender that kills
. What kind if business do you own?
Kris

Bronx, NY

#547 Aug 26, 2013
Scoop wrote:
Tracy, maybe you shoud re-read that post.
"I am a sex offender an i own my own business and very well blooming. People look at sex offenders as monsters but in all truth aint nothing diffrent then the local murder or drug dealer that just got done supplying your kids with drugs or just got done murdering your child. I guess it is not so bad if you just kill the kid and not rape it .... lets wake up here there is more in the world then a sex offender that kills"
He did not say 'former' but suggesting he still offends. Hopefully an oversight. There are different classes of sex offenders, sure, the worst being child molestors and predators. But he keeps going on and on about killing and raping, not showing any remorse about his immoral choice, merely offering an excuse. Abstination prevents many problems
I'm pretty sure when he said that he's a sex offender it's because as long as your REGISTERED as a sex offender your still considered one but I'm pretty sure he's not out there taping people like all you ignorant people may be thinkin... in my opinion IGNORANCE should be a crime!!!
Kris

Bronx, NY

#548 Aug 26, 2013
85% of people being charged with raoe charges at usually bull shit charges
just me

Fareham, UK

#549 Aug 27, 2013
Is it preferable to kill a child after you have raped them? This seems to be the general consensus amongst people, meaning I have raped your child so I am the worst and your child is never able to live any type of life. However, I go on to kill said child & that makes it not such a bad crime & the child doesn't suffer a life of... what?
I have been to prison & those that murder all think they are better than the sex offender! Uh! at least a living child is alive & you still can care for them, not so if they are murdered, so tell me how can any sex offence that leaves a child alive be worse than if the child is killed?

Since: Aug 13

Plano, TX

#550 Aug 28, 2013
So, im 30 years of age today. When i was 19 I had relations with a girl. Consensual relations! We were cool for a little less than 2 months. She told me she was 18. Honestly i never thought twice that she could be lying about her age. I never asked for ID to verify her age either. Anyway, we got into a argument one evening. I left her house and told her i didn't want to talk to her anymore. We spoke on the phone and she was mad i didn't want to talk to her anymore. A friend of hers called me and informed me the girl i was with (her friend) was only 15 years old and had lied to me and a bunch other people. After i received that news i never picked up the Phone for the girl ever again. Months later i received a phone call from a detective asking if i can come in to speak to him about a case involving the girl. The first thing to pop in my head was "Tell them the truth.... its the police!!", I mean i growing up being taught to tell the truth all the time. So i went in, spoke to the detective. He asked me about my relationship with the girl. I told him everything that happen. From start to finish. The detective informs me that the girl is saying that i robbed and raped her.(of course this was not true) fast forward to court...... I was being charged with first degree sexual assault of a child.(Ive never been more scared for my life in my life). After both sides of the story come out the court realizes the girl lied to me about her age, lied about me robbing her and lied about a bunch of other things. She lied in order to not get trouble with her parents (Its funny how the mind of a young girl works). So when it was all said and done, because I told the detective i had relations with the girl on recording they charged me with misdemeanor 4th degree sexual assault of a child. I did not have to register or jail time or anything. It was their way of making sure i leave with something. I was very sad and depressed and so much more over the issue. 3 months after it all, i decided to move back to my home state. I lived in Texas for about 2-3 years until one day i was pulled over on my way to a friends house. I was told that i had a warrant for not complying with sex offender registry. i was extradited via plane back to the state. I sat in jail for 4 months and was given a felony for not registering. With that felony i had to do 3 years probation. The original misdemeanor happen 10-11 years ago. I just finished my 3 year probation for moving in February 2013.
Before all of this happen I was a student working on my Business degree. I had a good job and things were on its way up. I am now unemployed and can not get a job from ANYONE!!!!! Because my felony was so recent, when employers look it the think i raped a little girl recently and im automatically rejected. Or jobs will not answer the phones anymore. Friends disappear. People act like you are a infection. Everyone googles everyone now i days....****, i googles everyone! Ive pretty much turned in to a loner. I stay to myself because i cant really deal with rejection on a constant basis. Im ok with being rejected, but as often as it happens really gets to you. Im stuck and dont know what to do right now. I mean if i go and finish my degree how would i get a job in any field! Even with my degree?
People are people and honestly if i didn't go threw this whole thing i would be quick to put all sex offenders in the same category. And im sure alot of you people would say "eh... no pitty for you, you are sex offender, anyone can tell a 15 yr old from a 18yr old, etc, etc". To those people all i can say is that i know what i did was wrong. When your young you make dumb decisions. I dont see myself as a sex offender with a problem but as a person who has to live with his background for life.
LiteEmUp

Hattiesburg, MS

#551 Aug 29, 2013
It goes back to 'wait until marriage before sexual relations'. Plus get the parents blessings. Sneaking around will only get you in trouble.
no name

Chicago, IL

#552 Aug 30, 2013
Stop wrote:
Some of you all are sick. Listen in today's society we are so quick to judge someone. My story is this, when I was in my teens I dated a older man. No my parents did not know about it, and no they did not neglect me or not pay attention to me. We lived in a great neighborhood and had a beautiful relationship. However, as a teen I still venture off to test the waters as you can say. Around this time you did not here the word sex offender much. Now I know someone he is a good man, and his story is this. He met a young lady when he was 25 and she was fifteen, they had sex. When her mother found out about it, he went to jail and paid for his crime. Now this is the thing, when I was in eight grade, I was small and looked liked a child, but by the time I was fifteen I looked like a grown woman because my body did what it was suppose to do. And if you think I did not know this you are sadly mistaken. And in this case this girl knew the same thing. You might be saying what is the point. Well I will tell you, because this young lady did not tell him her age, he know has to fight to keep a job. He struggles everyday wondering what could he have done differently. You might say he could have asked her age. HA HA HA. Listen go outside, go to your local store, libary, heck school and see how many people ask how old someone is. And look at some of these girls walking around these days. Wearing short skirts, high heels, strapless shirts and half of them are under the age of 18. Some of them like dating older men. And oh by the way, don't think all establishments require ID cards to get in. All you have to do is wear the right outfit and your in, thats girs and boys. So before you judge find out the circumstance. And if you want to know I looked at the court records before I judge.
I been falsle asscussed didn't matter what I said when a jury sees you you are already guilty in there eyes. The girl even said she lied and went back on her story I already spent 30 grand to prove my innocience even told them I would take a lie dector test procescutor wasn't hearing it
Observer

London, UK

#553 Sep 4, 2013
Bad Company wrote:
<quoted text> You sick stupid bastard no they should just kill child molesters like you.I hope you business fells.You don't deserve a life.What do sick people like you see in a child,you should have received death penalty.Because you may not have killed that child,but you took its life.I bet your getting off on this too your nothing.I hope. You die a slow painful death.You should be behind bars for just posting that.But you would be a nice treat for the Gators over here in these Swamps.
That just there, you represent a mob like mentality that cripples us all.
You want this person to suffer a horrible death I wonder if you'd be brave enough to inflict it on them... In a room alone, I doubt it. You feel safe behind a screen screaming bloody murder!- so long as they get taken care of right.
You yourself evidently have monster like qualities praising murderers for abusing others and possibly killing others in prison. You glorify killing and put sex offenders beneath-
First of still a crime!!!
Secondly yes 'Kevin' acts are repulsive but in the same token you chose not to ask the severity of the crime... They very. Technically an 18 year old who engages in a sexual relationship with a 15 year old is to a TYPE of an offender regardless of whether it is condoned by those around. Fact is that seems to be the norm.

Now you may just be reacting to the cold manner in which he put is point across but to be a honest as possible, you sound just as disgusting as he.
Do you honestly believe you represent a voice of reason??
Nikki

San Jose, CA

#554 Sep 6, 2013
What if someone got set up and ended up being label as a sex offender. Messed up his life for something he did not commit. The woman wanted to get rid of him so she could continuously do crack with a dealer she met. To me you gotta hear their story before judging them. There's a huge different with a innocent and guilty sicko.

“John 3:16”

Since: Sep 09

George County, MS. USA

#555 Sep 6, 2013
So, if you could change or eliminate the sex offender lists, how would it be?
CompasionateOne

New Smyrna Beach, FL

#556 Sep 11, 2013
I help RSOs(registered sex offenders) work. People should not be pigeon holed for past mistakes. Single moments in one's life should not define who he/she is, and it doesn't. Shame on anyone that thinks a Scarlet Letter law is seen as a status... it is not... it is a life sentence. Shame on us all!
Zeus of TidesTides

Los Angeles, CA

#557 Sep 12, 2013
I wrote here a pretty lengthy
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Can the administrators of thus site please check and find my comments and publish them for everybody to read?
It was written two days ago by: Zeus of TidesTides. Thanks.
Zeus of TidesTides

Los Angeles, CA

#558 Sep 12, 2013
arnold wrote:
<quoted text>
why are you so judgmental? Is that the only thing you do just judge people that made a terrible mistake? Are you that perfect and never commit any type of sin? Look in the eyes of god a sin is a sin weather big or small no difference. you repent and you've been forgiven. instead of you hating why don't you use your brain to help out and make a difference. People only live once and god gave us that opportunity to make the best of it and love one another. If you are so perfect I would suggest to take that gods gift and passed it on to people that wants to straighten their lives. some of these people has families with children and trying to get back in their normal life and be part of the community once more..so please if you don't have better words to say then might as well don't say anything at all..thanks god bless you all..
I feel so much compassion coming from you. Thank you, I appreciate your deep concern for the liberty of all men. I just wanted to say "thank you" to you Arnold.
Zeus of TidesTides

Beverly Hills, CA

#559 Sep 12, 2013
Keisha wrote:
hi y'all im 21 years old now but i got convicted of lewd n lasicious n sex battery when i was 15years old i was having sex in a abandoned house wit a boy infront of my Cousin i performed oral sex on him n he did the same to me i didn't kno that bullshit would get me in a world of trouble i was adam walshed :( ughhh my life is over im african american at that im so pissed im no sex offender were im from we hate them mfs what to do
Hi Keisha, I feel so bad for you. The legal system is unfair in general to African Americans and always has been. For you to have been given a life sentence without the possibility for forgiveness, to quite a friend, at your then age of only 15 years old is outrageous government misconduct, and shocking to the mind of any rational human being! It is just another form of racial GENOCIDE!! Keisha, hold on. We so called sex offenders, including myself, have all been over zealously grouped unjustifiable into one sex offender category along with al the rapist, child molesters, predators, and all those more penitent, creepy types of offenders. Wee all, as group must come together and cause some changes or else we will be doomed!! I have some ideas, so keep watching for my post.
Peace and God's blessings Always.
Zeus of Tides.
Zeus of TidesTides

Beverly Hills, CA

#560 Sep 12, 2013
Bad Company wrote:
<quoted text> You sick stupid bastard no they should just kill child molesters like you.I hope you business fells.You don't deserve a life.What do sick people like you see in a child,you should have received death penalty.Because you may not have killed that child,but you took its life.I bet your getting off on this too your nothing.I hope. You die a slow painful death.You should be behind bars for just posting that.But you would be a nice treat for the Gators over here in these Swamps.
Dear Bad Company, you have such bad manners. God did not leave out compassion when it comes to you, but you seem to elect not to have any. Or, any good sense as well. I have never felt so much hate as you have demonstrated. You are so full of hate. What are some off you little private secrets Bad Company? Everybody has them. What makes you do self righteous and judgemental. Your whole body is infested with vile hatred so you are not normal. Anybody with this much hate is an offender and should seek help. You come off as such a mental case! Why use your precious life energy to such vile means? Please turn your hate around and become more Christ like! Are you without sin so much that you should cast the first stone? I believe not! Why don't you man up and confess some of your secrets that build up all that hate in you that in not normal and be Saved! I forgive you Bad Company as one person to another, but I have seen and felt more compassion from victims than from you. Stop hating! Wake up! We are all One. Start studying nature and just maybe you will discover your real self and let go of your false self. You are not fooling those of us that already see you Real Self.
Zeus of TidesTides

Carson, CA

#561 Sep 12, 2013
Dear All,

I agree with those of us who are guilty of or crime, but we have also been placed or grouped into one big general category, to wit, "sex offender", without there being any demarcation or separation from the more penitent, more offensive sex offender. My friend during his college days "mooned" a passing passenger train and he has to register for life as a sex offender! This its the same situation for many of us. And, wee need to come together and fight this outrageous government misconduct. There are people out there just like "bad company" who wish we were all dead just for being classified a sex offender without ever knowing that our crime might be victimless or even harnesses like in Kiasha's case. My personal case involved two adult prostitutes that I have money to, but I still got a Bill Clinton rap (penetration foreign object) charge. The prostitute was made because I would not continue to hang out with her, but I did hadn't out with different adults so she told the authorities the penetration was fine by force and she saved her own self from getting charged. The authorities really just wanted me. They got her to lie in court. Now my life is wrecked forever. We are all grouped together as sex offenders along with rapist, child molesters and predators and no one knows the difference between us! We must come together to changed things. I have a plan. Please keep I'm touch with me. Let me hear back from you.
Sincerely, Zeus of Tides.

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