why do girls lie about being pregnant?

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elizabeth

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Apr 16, 2009
 
Why do so many girls lie about being pregnant?

I have seen this so many times it makes me sick I wonder what they get out of it. and if is not that they lie about miscarrying.
It's really very sad..I think they try to keep the man they have...but really if they do that ...the men will more than likely always resent them or cheat on them...so why make things more difficult...If they don't want to be with them...they should just let them go and find someone that will love them they way they should be loved.
They want to fit in with everybody else?
The ones that lie well I think some do it to keep that guy you know the saying 'I want, I want, I want, I will get, No matter what'. guarantee the guy goes back to the girl because she is 'pregnant' lo and behold she miscarries! but by then she might had work her way into making the relationship work or it would break because there no baby and the guy can take a deep breath and move on. Or it's the attention the girl is trying to seek, gee it high school stuff mostly. It's amazing how far a girl will go to try and get that guy back, it can get so nasty
They are needy and desperate and are attention seeking. Don't hate them just feel sorry for them, it's pathetic really.
to keep a guy in their life? or they need some serious attention?
it makes me sick and pisses me off too! i think they do it for attention... and its sad
I think it is a mental issue
they either do if for attention or to keep a guy.
it's a pity party most of the time. i think these people have major mental issues i read a long time ago about a woman that was put in jail for this. her co workers gave her a huge baby shower and every thing and when they found out she was lying they pressed charges and
Some people are just compulsive liars.
Some girls lie about pregnancy to either hold on to a boy or to look big.(Which is stupid either way
I would be scared to sit and lie about having a miscarriage if i were them because i would be thinking that might would happen one day after sitting and telling lies about that.
When are they all going to learn that even if they are for real pregnant that will not hold a man to you
It's so classy to be pregnant when you aren't married. I'm sure everyone is very impressed --- NOT.
Most girls think that it will give them attention when really they are making their selves look dumb expesically the ones who family already have finanical problems are there are trying to keep a boy in their lifes who probably don't want nothing to do with them at all and they are thinking thats the only way to keep them
i had this friend in highschool who got "pregnant" so much that ended in "miscarriage" it was just pathetic and she still believes to this day that i believed her now she really does have 2 kids and dont know what to do with them.
the young and some older girls think that will hold the guy,attention getter
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May 17, 2010
 

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y da heck people gotta lie for dat just pissed me off and dis sound lik everything ma friend iz telln me!!!!!!!!!!wow..........
damika

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May 17, 2010
 
y da heck people gotta lie for lik fo wat!!!!!!!!!!wow dats sad..........
jackie

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May 25, 2010
 
i know a fat girl in my class that said she has twins & shes once Again prego... how sad , everyone knows she's lying .

lol is entertaining
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Mar 9, 2011
 
I gues ts ryt ws in de same situ. Bt i gues she jst want me 2kip ha coz i m the one dat broke ha virgnty
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Aug 21, 2012
 
My brother was in a long distance relationship with a girl. They are both in late 30s. She had 3 children from a previous marriage. She told my brother she was pregnant. She had said that she had a tubal a few years earlier. He asked when the baby was due and she would never give him info about seeing a dr. Then she comes to a family function and announced to everyone that she was almost 5 months pregnant and had emailed my brother a sonogram that showed a baby boy with due date 12/15/12. This was the end of July. While my brother was on a planned 2 week motorcycle riding vacation thru several states. His girlfriend text my sister that she had been spotting and had to go to the Dr. was dilated 1.5 cen. but the baby was Ok said they gave her a shot and she was sent home. Then at 8:45 that night she text my sister again saying that she was feeling bad and was on the way to the hospital. She was very evasive to my sister a bout what hospital she was going to. She mentioned several hospitals some were several hours away.
Then about 6 the next morning she text us that she had the baby and got to hold it and tell it goodbye. She was 22 weeks pregnant. So I found her work number to call and find out if anyone at work could give us info about hospital etc. I called her work got a message that they did not open til 9 am When I called back a few after 9 the girlfriend answered the phone. I was floored I hung up then called back and asked her how she could be at work after just having a baby she said that she had lost a baby in her 7th month and went home the same day then too. I asked her where the baby was- that it had to be buried. She never would say where or what hospital. She said that she did not want to tell us because we would go take the baby. She told me that if I saw how skinny she was I would believe that she had a baby. Well the worst thing of all is that my brother believes her- she had a picture on her phone of bracelets from the hospital. She said that the hospital kept the baby. My sister and I called most of the hospitals in 100 mile radius none had records of her. Let me just say the one and only time I saw her she was almost 5 months pregnant- she did not look pregnant considering it was her 5th pregnancy. Just sad that my brother believes her. I say no dead body- no baby. If you think that this is the most bizarre thing that you have ever read- I'm living it.
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Sep 17, 2012
 
this gyrl told mhe tha same thing that i just read .. its sad but hay ig she has nothing better to do with her life
Shi-Landrace

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Apr 5, 2013
 
Yo fo realzzzzz I thought about lying bout twinzzzzz then iz like nawww
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Apr 7, 2013
 
I've always wondered the same thing. I'm a 22 year old women and have never had the desire to do this. Personally I think 9 out of 10 times its the heat of the moment "what can I do to make him stay or to trap him" but usually if its not a true committed relationship where if it was you wouldn't have to lie to keep him anyway the guy is going to leave...and once he finds out it wasn't true or you "loose the baby" he's going to leave because you'll make him realize wow I don't want this to happen again I don't want to be stuck in this girls life forever because we have a child together. It's just not a good idea at all. If you have to lie about being pregnant to keep a guy around then you shouldn't be with this guy and you should venture out to find someone who really loves you and someone you don't have to tell lies to to keep around.
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May 9, 2013
 
elizabeth wrote:
Why do so many girls lie about being pregnant?
I have seen this so many times it makes me sick I wonder what they get out of it. and if is not that they lie about miscarrying.
It's really very sad..I think they try to keep the man they have...but really if they do that ...the men will more than likely always resent them or cheat on them...so why make things more difficult...If they don't want to be with them...they should just let them go and find someone that will love them they way they should be loved.
They want to fit in with everybody else?
The ones that lie well I think some do it to keep that guy you know the saying 'I want, I want, I want, I will get, No matter what'. guarantee the guy goes back to the girl because she is 'pregnant' lo and behold she miscarries! but by then she might had work her way into making the relationship work or it would break because there no baby and the guy can take a deep breath and move on. Or it's the attention the girl is trying to seek, gee it high school stuff mostly. It's amazing how far a girl will go to try and get that guy back, it can get so nasty
They are needy and desperate and are attention seeking. Don't hate them just feel sorry for them, it's pathetic really.
to keep a guy in their life? or they need some serious attention?
it makes me sick and pisses me off too! i think they do it for attention... and its sad
I think it is a mental issue
they either do if for attention or to keep a guy.
it's a pity party most of the time. i think these people have major mental issues i read a long time ago about a woman that was put in jail for this. her co workers gave her a huge baby shower and every thing and when they found out she was lying they pressed charges and
Some people are just compulsive liars.
Some girls lie about pregnancy to either hold on to a boy or to look big.(Which is stupid either way
I would be scared to sit and lie about having a miscarriage if i were them because i would be thinking that might would happen one day after sitting and telling lies about that.
When are they all going to learn that even if they are for real pregnant that will not hold a man to you
It's so classy to be pregnant when you aren't married. I'm sure everyone is very impressed --- NOT.
Most girls think that it will give them attention when really they are making their selves look dumb expesically the ones who family already have finanical problems are there are trying to keep a boy in their lifes who probably don't want nothing to do with them at all and they are thinking thats the only way to keep them
i had this friend in highschool who got "pregnant" so much that ended in "miscarriage" it was just pathetic and she still believes to this day that i believed her now she really does have 2 kids and dont know what to do with them.
the young and some older girls think that will hold the guy,attention getter
Its weird that I am the total opposite and I have an unbelievable story. a lot of women have miscarriages in high numbers, so if there is no baby it likely was not a lie. I would never lie about being pregnant but when I became more than likely pregnant my long distance boyfriend did not believe me at all and he turned very cold. I was sick for three months, weight gain, bloating, no period, large growing stomach, allergies, body aches, the whole nine yard. I went to several doctors to get tested they could not figure out what was going on. I never wanted to tell my long distance boyfriend but I had gotten to the point of fright and anxiety with my growing body. I am usually very thin.
Its very sad that a lot of men do not believe women and think they are lying about being pregnant. It destroyed my growing relationship and I am still angry at him . Most women do not lie about pregnancy.
He thinks said it to manipulate him into staying since he left the country . It was all true and had several positive home pregnancy tests to .

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May 9, 2013
 
That really sounds pathetic. Why stick your self onto that guy if he's not into you anymore?
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Jun 23, 2013
 
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Oct 21, 2013
 
maybe im one of the girls thats hated but my boyfriend and I have been together 7 months he could possibly be a father to another womans baby, yes I wanted him back when we split up and I wanted to have what she had so the lie come out, he still thinks I am but how can I possibly tell him im not, we are back together but im scared hel end it an leave.. the hardist thing is that I sometimes belive I am but I no deep down im not.
Lovely lady

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Jan 27, 2014
 
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Its weird that I am the total opposite and I have an unbelievable story. a lot of women have miscarriages in high numbers, so if there is no baby it likely was not a lie. I would never lie about being pregnant but when I became more than likely pregnant my long distance boyfriend did not believe me at all and he turned very cold. I was sick for three months, weight gain, bloating, no period, large growing stomach, allergies, body aches, the whole nine yard. I went to several doctors to get tested they could not figure out what was going on. I never wanted to tell my long distance boyfriend but I had gotten to the point of fright and anxiety with my growing body. I am usually very thin.
Its very sad that a lot of men do not believe women and think they are lying about being pregnant. It destroyed my growing relationship and I am still angry at him . Most women do not lie about pregnancy.
He thinks said it to manipulate him into staying since he left the country . It was all true and had several positive home pregnancy tests to .
Lady, you dodged Freddie crugar. Let him ruin someone else's life. He did not become cold because he thought you were lying. He was hoping you were lying. He did not want a kid, he has no integrity, that was his way to force you into a miscarriage or abortion. Men are smarter than you think. Keep your legs closed and demand a ring. Don't get pregnant for any man that you're not married to.

A man that really wants you wont care about silly things like that. They expect it, they know woman can be crazy. I drove all three of my past boyfriends up the wall and back but they went no where. I was the worst girlfriend you can have and still came up with two rings out of 3 guys. Now married and I still drive my husband nuts. He literally thinks I'm crazy, no one can even understand why he married me including my own parents. Just know when a guy really wants you, nothing will make him go away, unless you do something unforgivable like cheat I guess. Other than that you're good to go. He just did not want a child for whatever reason.
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Jan 27, 2014
 
elizabeth wrote:
Why do so many girls lie about being pregnant?
I have seen this so many times it makes me sick I wonder what they get out of it. and if is not that they lie about miscarrying.
It's really very sad..I think they try to keep the man they have...but really if they do that ...the men will more than likely always resent them or cheat on them...so why make things more difficult...If they don't want to be with them...they should just let them go and find someone that will love them they way they should be loved.
They want to fit in with everybody else?
The ones that lie well I think some do it to keep that guy you know the saying 'I want, I want, I want, I will get, No matter what'. guarantee the guy goes back to the girl because she is 'pregnant' lo and behold she miscarries! but by then she might had work her way into making the relationship work or it would break because there no baby and the guy can take a deep breath and move on. Or it's the attention the girl is trying to seek, gee it high school stuff mostly. It's amazing how far a girl will go to try and get that guy back, it can get so nasty
They are needy and desperate and are attention seeking. Don't hate them just feel sorry for them, it's pathetic really.
to keep a guy in their life? or they need some serious attention?
it makes me sick and pisses me off too! i think they do it for attention... and its sad
I think it is a mental issue
they either do if for attention or to keep a guy.
it's a pity party most of the time. i think these people have major mental issues i read a long time ago about a woman that was put in jail for this. her co workers gave her a huge baby shower and every thing and when they found out she was lying they pressed charges and
Some people are just compulsive liars.
Some girls lie about pregnancy to either hold on to a boy or to look big.(Which is stupid either way
I would be scared to sit and lie about having a miscarriage if i were them because i would be thinking that might would happen one day after sitting and telling lies about that.
When are they all going to learn that even if they are for real pregnant that will not hold a man to you
It's so classy to be pregnant when you aren't married. I'm sure everyone is very impressed --- NOT.
Most girls think that it will give them attention when really they are making their selves look dumb expesically the ones who family already have finanical problems are there are trying to keep a boy in their lifes who probably don't want nothing to do with them at all and they are thinking thats the only way to keep them
i had this friend in highschool who got "pregnant" so much that ended in "miscarriage" it was just pathetic and she still believes to this day that i believed her now she really does have 2 kids and dont know what to do with them.
the young and some older girls think that will hold the guy,attention getter
Nope not why I did it at all. Having a kid is a big decision and getting pregnant is the easiest thing to do. There's no reason to have to lie about it if you really want to get pregnant. Think a little harder there are other reasons why some woman do that and it's not for attention. You many want to check the statistics on how many kids actually have active fathers and rethink your perfectly written answer.
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Jan 28, 2014
 
gemma wrote:
maybe im one of the girls thats hated but my boyfriend and I have been together 7 months he could possibly be a father to another womans baby, yes I wanted him back when we split up and I wanted to have what she had so the lie come out, he still thinks I am but how can I possibly tell him im not, we are back together but im scared hel end it an leave.. the hardist thing is that I sometimes belive I am but I no deep down im not.
I can't believe for one minute that the right man is not out there somewhere for you. A man that loves you for who you are. Not someone that stays with you out of obligation. The truth will eventually come out. This relationship will crumble. Ask yourself... What kind of relationship is it when the foundation is cemented with lies? He needs to go and be a father to the real baby. Let this guy go.
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Apr 9, 2014
 
I have a similar problem so I've been trying to get to know this girl we hung out for 4-5 months had a great time made some really good memories we are very alike in many ways. I felt like I knew her very well and she knew me pretty well too she knew I wanted to be in a relationship but I knew I was going about it the wrong way but I was doing things my own way. Well come to find out she's been pregnant this entire time she finally tells me now that baby bump is starting to show and that she made up all these things to make sure I didn't find out. I was shocked for first time in my life I've never been so deceived but I couldn't get mad because it was supposedly before me but still I found myself having a hard time to believe that so I did some research and found stuff she had been hiding on her phone, part of me didn't really want to find out but another part of me wanted to get to the dirt cause I wanted to know what else she had been hiding from me. I told her about it of course because I'm honest I do not like looking like a fool. So now we are fighting she is pissed at me and I'm pissed at her but question is what happens next I still want her around but I should just keep moving on shouldn't I?
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Apr 10, 2014
 
Weaponofvanity wrote:
I have a similar problem so I've been trying to get to know this girl we hung out for 4-5 months had a great time made some really good memories we are very alike in many ways. I felt like I knew her very well and she knew me pretty well too she knew I wanted to be in a relationship but I knew I was going about it the wrong way but I was doing things my own way. Well come to find out she's been pregnant this entire time she finally tells me now that baby bump is starting to show and that she made up all these things to make sure I didn't find out. I was shocked for first time in my life I've never been so deceived but I couldn't get mad because it was supposedly before me but still I found myself having a hard time to believe that so I did some research and found stuff she had been hiding on her phone, part of me didn't really want to find out but another part of me wanted to get to the dirt cause I wanted to know what else she had been hiding from me. I told her about it of course because I'm honest I do not like looking like a fool. So now we are fighting she is pissed at me and I'm pissed at her but question is what happens next I still want her around but I should just keep moving on shouldn't I?
The foundation of this relationship's constuction is built with a huge lie. Therefore weak...it will emplode and crumble. Get outta there man!
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Apr 13, 2014
 
MissKen wrote:
My brother was in a long distance relationship with a girl. They are both in late 30s. She had 3 children from a previous marriage. She told my brother she was pregnant. She had said that she had a tubal a few years earlier. He asked when the baby was due and she would never give him info about seeing a dr. Then she comes to a family function and announced to everyone that she was almost 5 months pregnant and had emailed my brother a sonogram that showed a baby boy with due date 12/15/12. This was the end of July. While my brother was on a planned 2 week motorcycle riding vacation thru several states. His girlfriend text my sister that she had been spotting and had to go to the Dr. was dilated 1.5 cen. but the baby was Ok said they gave her a shot and she was sent home. Then at 8:45 that night she text my sister again saying that she was feeling bad and was on the way to the hospital. She was very evasive to my sister a bout what hospital she was going to. She mentioned several hospitals some were several hours away.
Then about 6 the next morning she text us that she had the baby and got to hold it and tell it goodbye. She was 22 weeks pregnant. So I found her work number to call and find out if anyone at work could give us info about hospital etc. I called her work got a message that they did not open til 9 am When I called back a few after 9 the girlfriend answered the phone. I was floored I hung up then called back and asked her how she could be at work after just having a baby she said that she had lost a baby in her 7th month and went home the same day then too. I asked her where the baby was- that it had to be buried. She never would say where or what hospital. She said that she did not want to tell us because we would go take the baby. She told me that if I saw how skinny she was I would believe that she had a baby. Well the worst thing of all is that my brother believes her- she had a picture on her phone of bracelets from the hospital. She said that the hospital kept the baby. My sister and I called most of the hospitals in 100 mile radius none had records of her. Let me just say the one and only time I saw her she was almost 5 months pregnant- she did not look pregnant considering it was her 5th pregnancy. Just sad that my brother believes her. I say no dead body- no baby. If you think that this is the most bizarre thing that you have ever read- I'm living it.
Your brother sounds desperate. Get him help

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I had a girl that I had been seeing for 3 years say she was pregnant but I didnt believe her bc earlier that year she lied about her mom dying,it always happened when I was away on a buisness trip.I came back and saw her Mom at walmart lol then she said that wasnt her mom and that it was her twin sister..i stayed with her cause she was pretty and good in bed but hey all the pretty ones are phyco but i left after the fake pregnancy and preemeie lie i was told.

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