This is an actual family member comment and maybe instead of just pointing fingers and judging, more of us should get in there and help in these situations. These two are young and need family guidance as well. Yes they made the situation but it is what it is and they need help now!! I will do what I can when I get there in a couple weeks. Yes the baby suffers but this young married couple is also suffering. Praying for you 3!!!! Much love from your cousin.