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3somecurious

London, KY

#1 Nov 19, 2012
Have any couples on here ever tried a threesome? It's something me and my SO have talked about but not sure how the fantasy will play out in real life.

I know plenty of you are religious and will only condemn the idea. That's fine. I respect your right to hold an opinion, but please don't blast this post. I'd like real answers.
in london

Tucker, GA

#2 Nov 19, 2012
3somecurious wrote:
Have any couples on here ever tried a threesome? It's something me and my SO have talked about but not sure how the fantasy will play out in real life.

I know plenty of you are religious and will only condemn the idea. That's fine. I respect your right to hold an opinion, but please don't blast this post. I'd like real answers.
Haven't tried it, but have been curious. I always thought it might bring some weirdness in. But who knows? Let us know how it goes?
Silly Rabbit

Whitewater, WI

#3 Nov 19, 2012
Silly stooges. Larry, Curly, Moe.
been there

United States

#4 Nov 19, 2012
3somecurious wrote:
Have any couples on here ever tried a threesome? It's something me and my SO have talked about but not sure how the fantasy will play out in real life.

I know plenty of you are religious and will only condemn the idea. That's fine. I respect your right to hold an opinion, but please don't blast this post. I'd like real answers.
I'm a woman & did that with my husband & after that regular sex wasn't good enough for him. I felt I was so inadequate after that. We didn't make it. Bad idea & I'm seriously not the jealous type
dont

Winchester, KY

#5 Nov 19, 2012
Don't do it. I did, and the trust was gone forever, and so was my marriage....
3somecurious

London, KY

#6 Nov 20, 2012
The taboo aspect makes it somewhat alluring. My SO and I have both talked about what it would be like afterward though. Has anyone ever had it turn out well?
GF n I

Manchester, KY

#7 Nov 20, 2012
My GF & I have been into this for a good while now. We both enjoy it tremendously but only engage in this occasionally - that way it is always something special for us both. Someone above mentioned that it can be sort of addicting in that the 'regular' things do not excite you any more. I would have to disagree with that from my own experiences but everyone is different and this is something you both should consider. One thing that can NEVER enter into the equation is jealousy of any type or form. That just will not work at all. If you both want to try this, go ahead - you are of age (i suppose) and are both consenting adults (again, i suppose). There are lots of pitfalls that can make things go wrong but if you both sit down and agree to a set of rules and you convey these rules to any potential partner you will alleviate some of the things that trip up a lot of people in your all's position. You also need a 'safe word'. It can be anything but you tell this safe word to your potentials as well and if ANYone feels like a boundary has been reached or if ANYone feels uncomfortable with what is happening, they can use this 'safe word' and anything and everything stops immediately. At this point you may need to talk things out or you may very well just need to stop completely. This is not something to be taken lightly and all three need to feel completely comfortable with what is going on. Having said that, I will wish you all the very best of luck no matter how you decide to proceed.
nope

London, KY

#8 Nov 20, 2012
Didn't work for us. Both had a great time leading up to it. The kissing, fondling etc but when the actual insertion happened all hell broke loose. Yea we should have set some boundries. lol
ook

United States

#9 Nov 20, 2012
Try the 2 girl and guy thing first. If that works out try the 2 guy and girl thing. If all that works out u should be good.
3somecurious

London, KY

#10 Nov 20, 2012
I'll be honest with you. I'm not really keen to bringing another guy in, just a girl. Maybe that's selfish but it doesn't do anything for me. My SO says she's alright with either a guy or girl. I'd kind of like to find a woman who has done it before so that maybe she can put by GF at ease a bit.
wonderful

London, KY

#11 Nov 20, 2012
My wife has loved women the 16 years we have been married. We have had 3 women we have shared this with over the years. One rule she has is no intercourse. Everything else is fine. Not been a problem for us
Sick People

Williamsburg, KY

#12 Nov 20, 2012
Some sick folks around... morals have gone by the wayside. Darn shame.
14u2nv

Mount Vernon, KY

#13 Nov 20, 2012
My Boyfriend and I had a 3some with one of my best friends.. It was awesome!! The only rule was that he couldn't get off with her.. Only me.. But we both had fun making her feel special.. That was a year ago and we are still going strong.. We would Love to do it again.. just hard finding someone.. is any girl on here interested?
dee

London, KY

#14 Nov 21, 2012
it would crush me and break my heart to see my man with anyone else but me. just the thought of it makes me sad.
Joe

London, KY

#15 Nov 21, 2012
That's the problem around here. You can't find any ladies that are interested. My wife and I have looking for over a year, and can't find anybody to fulfill our fantasy. :-(
Awesome

Somerset, KY

#16 Nov 21, 2012
I am not married now but was for 8 years. Never did do anything then. I love doing it now it is great. You do need to set guidelines though.
Awesome

Somerset, KY

#17 Nov 21, 2012
Joe wrote:
That's the problem around here. You can't find any ladies that are interested. My wife and I have looking for over a year, and can't find anybody to fulfill our fantasy.:-(
Do u live in London?
london dude

Corbin, KY

#18 Nov 21, 2012
Lets have some fun.
Awesome

Somerset, KY

#19 Nov 21, 2012
I am up for it!
well

Naperville, IL

#20 Nov 21, 2012
I've been swinging for years and yeah both people have to be honest and completely ready for it and if she brings a girl in and asks for a guy you bring a guy in what's fair is fair set rules and guidelines find out what's ok and what's not and don't push it, there is alot of people into it but scared of losing their relationship and people would be surprised of how many people are into it around here anymore but just not open about it, I say try it buy lots of toys and go for it but remember once its done and over with no matter what you and your spouse should make love before going to bed be the last person to touch your other and things should be ok if your strong enough with each other

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