why don't wife's want sex after mariage

why don't wife's want sex after mariage

Created by curious on Oct 28, 2008

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tired of same old same old

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Food for thought

London, KY

#1 Oct 28, 2008
Because men don't seem to know how to romance you once you get married. After marriage, it's like they want to hop in the bed, take care of business, and hop out to watch Andy Griffith or something!!
Dippie

Clarksville, TN

#2 Oct 28, 2008
You must have a cute way of getting on and of.And that my friend takes years to master
ha ha

Corbin, KY

#3 Oct 28, 2008
Food for thought wrote:
Because men don't seem to know how to romance you once you get married. After marriage, it's like they want to hop in the bed, take care of business, and hop out to watch Andy Griffith or something!!
i agree
I think

London, KY

#4 Oct 28, 2008
it's because we know we can do "it" any time we want. I don't think it's that we don't want it after marriage, it's just more of a challenge before you get married.
curious

Murray, KY

#5 Oct 28, 2008
Horse S@#$t women are a bunch of cop outs!
Tammy Napier

London, KY

#6 Oct 28, 2008
curious wrote:
Horse S@#$t women are a bunch of cop outs!
Because alot of women
don't want it everyday thats all you men think
about is a piece while women have to worry about
working, cleaning house, washing clothes, cooking
supper, taking care of the kids, in my case wrapping water lines under house, chopping wood,feeding dog, taking out the garbage after all
of that who wants to have sex
Dippie

Clarksville, TN

#7 Oct 28, 2008
Tammy Napier wrote:
<quoted text>Because alot of women
don't want it everyday thats all you men think
about is a piece while women have to worry about
working, cleaning house, washing clothes, cooking
supper, taking care of the kids, in my case wrapping water lines under house, chopping wood,feeding dog, taking out the garbage after all
of that who wants to have sex
What about on your free time.
Tammy Napier

London, KY

#8 Oct 28, 2008
what's free time we have 3 kids through the week
and 3-5 kids on weekend,
Lots of reasons

United States

#9 Oct 28, 2008
there's a lot of reasons this happens. It's a two way street - both the men and the women are tired and busy, especially if they have kids. A lot (not all) men expect their wives to do every damn thing around the house, even when they work full time too. Then, when she has went nonstop from 6 am till 10 pm, he can't understand why she is too tired. He thinks she should be totally ready to hop in bed with him - even though he's sat on the couch and farted and scratched his balls all night watchin' tv. He gets mad, she gets mad at him for being mad and not helping out, she feels no desire to look sexy for him anymore, especially since he looks rougher all the time too.

It's a vicious cycle and both men and women are to blame. Just my theory. I'm not married and I have no kids.
Tammy Napier

London, KY

#10 Oct 28, 2008
Lots of reasons wrote:
there's a lot of reasons this happens. It's a two way street - both the men and the women are tired and busy, especially if they have kids. A lot (not all) men expect their wives to do every damn thing around the house, even when they work full time too. Then, when she has went nonstop from 6 am till 10 pm, he can't understand why she is too tired. He thinks she should be totally ready to hop in bed with him - even though he's sat on the couch and farted and scratched his balls all night watchin' tv. He gets mad, she gets mad at him for being mad and not helping out, she feels no desire to look sexy for him anymore, especially since he looks rougher all the time too.
It's a vicious cycle and both men and women are to blame. Just my theory. I'm not married and I have no kids.
I agree with almost everything until you get to the looking sexy for
each other I make sure I look especially good for
him if we go somewhere even when we are fighting.
everything else I totally agree
Drunkified

London, KY

#11 Oct 28, 2008
They all want to have sex, just not with their husbands.
The way it is

Murray, KY

#12 Oct 28, 2008
Hop in bed with him sorry that just don't make it I love my wife but she is not the same no kid's no hop in bed all women are the same after you marrige you change that s@##s sorry it is same old song and dance from every woman that responds to this post and you know what your reason are all the same but it is just your way to justify a lie that most of you use sorry but it just don't hold water just low self esteem i guess but after all you are just female you can't help but lie it is in your nature.
Tammy Napier

London, KY

#13 Oct 28, 2008
Hey guys why don't you try to do some of the load around the house, if that ain't her problem romance her go buy her some nice undergarmets sweep her off her feet,be spontaniace do it in places you haven't done it before give her some
excitement take her to fantasy world buy a foreplay game have some fun with it.
Drunkified

London, KY

#14 Oct 28, 2008
Oh hell Tammy, that's what we do with our girlfriends.haha
Tammy Napier

London, KY

#15 Oct 28, 2008
Drunkified wrote:
Oh hell Tammy, that's what we do with our girlfriends.haha
Well do it with your wife then we aren't talking about
your girlfriends haha
why

Paris, KY

#17 Oct 28, 2008
because men quit making her feel attractive and when shes tired from working taking care of the house, kids, and cooking him dinner shes too tired and men arent sensitive to her needs all he can think about is getting his and rolling over to go to sleep and he doesnt stop nagging her until she gives in and this is when it feels like another chore before she can finally rest. Instead of him saying i know youre tired and its okay we can do it when youre not so tired or maybe of taking some of the burden off her so she wont be so tired might help!
ByTheWay

London, KY

#18 Oct 28, 2008
I can guarantee one thing.

Your husband hates that he is married to you. If he says otherwise, he is lying.
ByTheWay

London, KY

#19 Oct 28, 2008
I'm glad I'm hearing more and more reason for why I will never be married.

Really, what are the benefits of it over just a regular monogamous relationship?

Seems like none to me.
been there

London, KY

#20 Oct 29, 2008
it's very simple,your husband is not no.1 in your life anymore.it's work,kids,this or that.if your husband is first and everything else is second,the marriage is stronger and both work together.i believe there would be 75% less divorce if the man was wore out at least once in a week(without him having to beg)because after a year or so of begging,he looks elsewhere.and ladies,after a divorce the sex you do with your new boyfriend was the sex your husband was looking for all a long.and with the boyfriend you still have kids,cleaning work,etc so that does not hold water if you think about it.what it does show is you put the boyfriend first,exactly where your husband wanted to be.
marie

United States

#22 Oct 29, 2008
been there wrote:
it's very simple,your husband is not no.1 in your life anymore.it's work,kids,this or that.if your husband is first and everything else is second,the marriage is stronger and both work together.i believe there would be 75% less divorce if the man was wore out at least once in a week(without him having to beg)because after a year or so of begging,he looks elsewhere.and ladies,after a divorce the sex you do with your new boyfriend was the sex your husband was looking for all a long.and with the boyfriend you still have kids,cleaning work,etc so that does not hold water if you think about it.what it does show is you put the boyfriend first,exactly where your husband wanted to be.
I guess you don't have kids, do you? They come first.

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