why is men so jealous of their women ...

why is men so jealous of their women if they talk to another man

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just wondering

Mount Vernon, KY

#1 Feb 17, 2009
lets talk
Dr Phil

London, KY

#2 Feb 17, 2009
Because your man is insecure. Drop him like a load of bad asphalt. It will only get worse. Out.
matchbox

Los Angeles, CA

#3 Feb 17, 2009
My man doesn't care who I talk to.
He tries to be their friend too.
And I don't harp on him for talking to the ladies.

Since: Oct 08

Mayfield, KY

#4 Feb 17, 2009
If you're not married to this man, get rid of him. When you marry, it'll only get way worse. I've seen it too many times
wires crossed

Brownsville, TN

#5 Feb 17, 2009
SURE fire way to cure them if you want,start laughing and say oh honey you are jealous,i feel so loved,they may get jealous again but you'll never know it.
torpedo

Harrison, AR

#6 Feb 18, 2009
Better yet why do women get so torn up when their man talks to another woman?
mee

London, KY

#8 Feb 18, 2009
If i have to worry about my woman and watch who she talks to the i don't need her..1 job is plenty as i don't need a 2nd job as a guard watching my woman.
jay to the cee

East Bernstadt, KY

#9 Feb 18, 2009
If it is insecurity or infidelity, why have a male or female companion? Why not just remain friends and nothing more? No worries of jealousy, or insceurity there.

Since: Dec 08

Staffordsville, KY

#11 Feb 18, 2009
I never understood the jealousy thing, if I have to worry about the man I am with and another woman, I don't need them. I never have been jealous of a guy I was with talking to another woman, I agree both sexes are insecure alot for no reason. If someone can take them, you don't have them to start with.
just wondering

Somerset, KY

#13 Feb 19, 2009
does the jealousy got to be on just everything not only talking to a guy if i go to walmart and there longer than what he thinks i should be i have been talking to a guy. i can be talking to my mom on the phone before i hang up i say i love you and he tells me you don't tell me you loved me, not only my mom it can be my sister my aunt my uncle just anyone in my family. he calls me to many times through the day while he is at work wanting to know what i'm doing. he calls me at work for no reason to find out what i'm doing. he gets mad if i get on topix its anything i'm just about ready to leave him enough is enough.
browneyes

Oak Grove, KY

#14 Feb 19, 2009
im married to a man that is very jealous even of my kids it is a big mistake to marry some one with jealousy problems your life is miserable

Since: Dec 08

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#15 Feb 19, 2009
To both posts above this one, you both are in a bad situation. Those are both extreme cases of jealousy. For just wondering, that is obsession. He does not trust you at all. I never meant it like I was saying it was ok to be that way towards your woman. It is not. I was only meaning to say that, with the way most people are, I can understand why some people are insecure or jealous sometimes. I do not condone being that way though. For browneyes, I assume you had the kids before you got with him. He knew this, and got into a situation he must have thought would change, that perhaps the kids would go away or something. If they are his, then that's insane to act that way. Children and husbands should not come before one or another, you can love your husband more than anything in the world, and still love your kids more than anything in the world too. The way I see it, you should not say one is more important or that you love one more, you should look at it as you love them both more than anything, in different ways. For example, I'm sure you love your mother, but not the same way you love your husband. Being jealous of someone's kids (or especially your own) is ridiculous and unfair. I do not mean to offend either of you, but your men need to grow up, especially yours browneyes. He is your husband. It is time he acts like it, and treats you like you deserve. I say this assuming neither of you have ever cheated on your men, as that would change EVERYTHING. A lack of trust should be expected then, but even still, the men either need to give you a chance and get over it, or move on and leave if they can't get past it.
just wondering

London, KY

#16 Feb 20, 2009
matchbox wrote:
My man doesn't care who I talk to.
He tries to be their friend too.
And I don't harp on him for talking to the ladies.


thats nice this way you know what each other is doing and won't have to worry what the other is doing i wish my husmand would be like that but he's not.
Henry

Pikeville, KY

#20 Feb 22, 2009
A wise old saying---If you don't tend the garden someone else will.
just wondering

Somerset, KY

#21 Feb 24, 2009
Henry wrote:
A wise old saying---If you don't tend the garden someone else will.
i wish someone else would tend the garden.i'm ready to stop working in the garden. maybe mom would tend the garden and this time get the dam weeds out.
not jealous at all

Clay City, KY

#23 Feb 24, 2009
My man's best friend is a woman and I am not at all jealous of their friendship. jealousy is just really being insecure.
just wondering

London, KY

#24 Feb 25, 2009
not jealous at all wrote:
My man's best friend is a woman and I am not at all jealous of their friendship. jealousy is just really being insecure.
i agree.
Kelly

AOL

#26 Mar 4, 2009
Is a little jealousy OK? When does it cross that line?
josie

Bowling Green, KY

#27 Mar 5, 2009
Just Wondering, I know how you feel right now. I`m going thru what you are. Mine is so bad that I`m not even aloud to look men in the face in public without him "going off" in the car on me. Asking me why I was checking that man out or was I wanting him now. If I don`t answer the phone fast enough then he wonders what I`m doing. I have to carry the house phone around with me at home all the time and make sure I don`t forget the cell phone ( damn tracking device) My nerves stay on edge all the time and when we do get in a fight its always my fault. I`ve tried to explained to him that this is not a true marrage. But he tells me he loves me and that he don`t want to lose me and he`s afraid of someone else getting my attention. I`ve never cheated on him never wanted too. He even calls me in the middle of the night to see if I`m in bed at home . He`s a truckdriver, by the way. Tell me ,,,, How do you get away from the abuse or get them to realize they`re hurting you really bad? I know the pain is real.
browneyes

Tellico Plains, TN

#28 Mar 8, 2009
josie wrote:
Just Wondering, I know how you feel right now. I`m going thru what you are. Mine is so bad that I`m not even aloud to look men in the face in public without him "going off" in the car on me. Asking me why I was checking that man out or was I wanting him now. If I don`t answer the phone fast enough then he wonders what I`m doing. I have to carry the house phone around with me at home all the time and make sure I don`t forget the cell phone ( damn tracking device) My nerves stay on edge all the time and when we do get in a fight its always my fault. I`ve tried to explained to him that this is not a true marrage. But he tells me he loves me and that he don`t want to lose me and he`s afraid of someone else getting my attention. I`ve never cheated on him never wanted too. He even calls me in the middle of the night to see if I`m in bed at home . He`s a truckdriver, by the way. Tell me ,,,, How do you get away from the abuse or get them to realize they`re hurting you really bad? I know the pain is real.
YOU WILL NEVER GET AWAY FROM THIS ABUSE AS LONG AS YOUR MARRIED TO HIM. I MYSELF HAS WENT THROUGH THIS FOR THE 6 YEARS IT NEVER GETS BETTER, LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO LIVE LIKE THIS, THIS IS NOT LIVING; I FINALLY REALIZED THAT IF I AND MY KIDS ARE GOING TO HAVE A LIFE, WE NEED TO MOVE FORWARD. AS OF RIGHT NOW WE ARE SEPARATED AND HE STILL CALLS AND THREATENS ME THAT HE WILL KILL ME. HIS FAVORITE PHRASE IS " I WILL GO TO PRISON BUT IT WILL ONLY BE A SHORT TIME,BUT WHEN i get OUT U WONT BE HERE. AND ITS THE TRUTH. HOPEFULLY I WILL SAVE ENOUGH MONEY TO FILE FOR DIVORCE. YOUR LIFE WILL NEVER GET BETTER IF U DONT TAKE THE FIRST STEP.

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