Mothers who drop kids at granny's & r...

Mothers who drop kids at granny's & run...

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meatloaf

Elizabethtown, KY

#1 Oct 8, 2009
What's the deal my friend jan has been taking care of her three grandkids for 3 yrs now How can a mom just drop and run her daughter has only visit seven times in the three yrs.
The Joker

London, KY

#2 Oct 8, 2009
Because granny will take care of them, and mom knows it. It is called being "spoiled". Most of parents today 40 and younger were given anything and everything. Why should they grow up, they have never had responsibility before, why start now??
probably 1

Mayfield, KY

#3 Oct 8, 2009
The Joker wrote:
Because granny will take care of them, and mom knows it. It is called being "spoiled". Most of parents today 40 and younger were given anything and everything. Why should they grow up, they have never had responsibility before, why start now??
THERE is some truth to what you say,but even if given the option to drop and run some still chose to raise their own kids.some take advantage of their parents,neighbors,drug dealers or any one else they can drop them off on.a lot of parents know they will leave themwith anyone if they don't keep them so they keep them themselves to make sure they are ok[the grandbabies]in the end,don't keep them if you don't want to.a girl will never grow up if you tend to her kids yourself,you are doing them no favors.
jeff

Mount Vernon, KY

#4 Oct 8, 2009
mostley parents who do that are one dope and they would rather lay high with another guy than take care of there children its called keavy ky
Blue

Newport, KY

#5 Oct 8, 2009
They're doing a drive-by on "granny."
one who knows

London, KY

#6 Oct 8, 2009
jeff wrote:
mostley parents who do that are one dope and they would rather lay high with another guy than take care of there children its called keavy ky
Or sometimes theve been married to big fat freak-ass daddys boys who work for their daddy and lick lard off of spoons and can only get crank whores named Carrie to f##k them because they suck in bed and are abusive to their wifes. and have NO clue what anyone is doing thank you Mr J>D>B
one who knows

London, KY

#7 Oct 8, 2009
By the way its not called Keavy its called the truth onMaplesville BI@@CH
probably 1

Mayfield, KY

#8 Oct 9, 2009
one who knows wrote:
By the way its not called Keavy its called the truth onMaplesville BI@@CH
DO YOU AND jEFF KNOW EACH OTHER?sounds like you do,if so who has your and his kids?or do you even have any to fight over?
questioned

London, KY

#9 Oct 9, 2009
one who knows wrote:
<quoted text>Or sometimes theve been married to big fat freak-ass daddys boys who work for their daddy and lick lard off of spoons and can only get crank whores named Carrie to f##k them because they suck in bed and are abusive to their wifes. and have NO clue what anyone is doing thank you Mr J>D>B
Carrie who? you may want to specify before someone thinks you are talking about a different one, don't want some good person's life damaged because of confusion with dummies

Since: Sep 09

Clarkson, KY

#10 Oct 9, 2009
the kids are lucky to hae granny to love and takecare of them when mommy and daddy won't but it's not fair to granny to be tied down with three kids after she raised her family already.

“White Devil”

Since: Sep 09

Little Valley, NY

#11 Oct 9, 2009
Aint nobodys fault but GRANNY!Granny ALWAYS gets fcked on the deal!NO!NO!NO! Stick by it!!!!
inked chic

Mayfield, KY

#12 Oct 9, 2009
Unfortunatly Kentucky has the highest rate in the nation for family members raising children! Not just Grandmothers....

And I would much rather take care of the kid(s) than for them to stay with dope head parents or go into foster care!!!
fed up

Gray, KY

#13 Oct 9, 2009
probably 1 wrote:
<quoted text>THERE is some truth to what you say,but even if given the option to drop and run some still chose to raise their own kids.some take advantage of their parents,neighbors,drug dealers or any one else they can drop them off on.a lot of parents know they will leave themwith anyone if they don't keep them so they keep them themselves to make sure they are ok[the grandbabies]in the end,don't keep them if you don't want to.a girl will never grow up if you tend to her kids yourself,you are doing them no favors.
you are right. and as one of those {sucker} grannies, i will keep my grandkids alot of times because i,m not always sure what kind of situation their in. although it doesn,t allow my daughter to learn to take her child rearing seriously, it helps me sleep at night. but i also call her on things i don,t agree with and remind her she,s not a child anymore, she HAS children!
probably 1

Mayfield, KY

#14 Oct 9, 2009
fed up wrote:
<quoted text>you are right. and as one of those {sucker} grannies, i will keep my grandkids alot of times because i,m not always sure what kind of situation their in. although it doesn,t allow my daughter to learn to take her child rearing seriously, it helps me sleep at night. but i also call her on things i don,t agree with and remind her she,s not a child anymore, she HAS children!
I Know,it isn't an easy situation.but i have seen enough do it that i know why they do it.but it is not your grandbabies fault .i know you know that.
fed up

Gray, KY

#15 Oct 10, 2009
probably 1 wrote:
<quoted text>I Know,it isn't an easy situation.but i have seen enough do it that i know why they do it.but it is not your grandbabies fault .i know you know that.
yes, it,s not my grandson,s fault and they cherish me as much as i cherish them. i just keep hoping their mother will value their well being someday as much as i did her and her brother.{and i still do}
Probably 1

Mayfield, KY

#16 Oct 10, 2009
fed up wrote:
<quoted text>yes, it,s not my grandson,s fault and they cherish me as much as i cherish them. i just keep hoping their mother will value their well being someday as much as i did her and her brother.{and i still do}
I KNOW.I FEEL FOR YOU,BUT AS LONG AS YOU ARE ABLE,it is better for you to do it if she won't.look at little kallie from florida,if the grandparents had forced her to let them have that child she'd be alive today,but that was a different case because even tho she didn't want to tend to the baby herself,she was so selfish she'd rathr kill it than let her mom and dad have it.at least your daughter isn't that sorry.
what

Manchester, KY

#17 Oct 11, 2009
fed up wrote:
<quoted text>you are right. and as one of those {sucker} grannies, i will keep my grandkids alot of times because i,m not always sure what kind of situation their in. although it doesn,t allow my daughter to learn to take her child rearing seriously, it helps me sleep at night. but i also call her on things i don,t agree with and remind her she,s not a child anymore, she HAS children!
This is really sad, Grandparents make everything worse! When they take all of the problems on and don't let the parents deal with it, The kids are going to make it when you are dead and gone, Let the parents take care of them, If they fail let them dig their self out, That was the way it use to be, and look at the 50 year old and up how much better the people are, Yes you can sleep at night you are doing this for your benefit not for the kids, They need to learn and you are interfering in that, Let them get off their a___ and work and support and take care of the life they have created, Grand kids are to visit you and be a joy not to worry and be tied down to everyday, We have raised our kids ,They need to raise theirs
Grandparent

Manchester, KY

#18 Oct 11, 2009
what wrote:
<quoted text>This is really sad, Grandparents make everything worse! When they take all of the problems on and don't let the parents deal with it, The kids are going to make it when you are dead and gone, Let the parents take care of them, If they fail let them dig their self out, That was the way it use to be, and look at the 50 year old and up how much better the people are, Yes you can sleep at night you are doing this for your benefit not for the kids, They need to learn and you are interfering in that, Let them get off their a___ and work and support and take care of the life they have created, Grand kids are to visit you and be a joy not to worry and be tied down to everyday, We have raised our kids ,They need to raise theirs
I have said this over and over( well said ) To many dead beat parents, They are depending on your stupidity and it is working wake up.
fed up

Gray, KY

#19 Oct 11, 2009
Grandparent wrote:
<quoted text>I have said this over and over( well said ) To many dead beat parents, They are depending on your stupidity and it is working wake up.
would you still feel that way if your grandchild told you they had been raped or molested after being in a bad situation? sorry, but letting the parents fail at child care is not an option. because the child pays for it. this is only my opinion as a loving grandmother. no one has to agree.
Probably 1

Mayfield, KY

#20 Oct 11, 2009
fed up wrote:
<quoted text>would you still feel that way if your grandchild told you they had been raped or molested after being in a bad situation? sorry, but letting the parents fail at child care is not an option. because the child pays for it. this is only my opinion as a loving grandmother. no one has to agree.
I UNDERSTAND, you love them too much to take that chanch,your children will have to grow up after you are gone,but maybe the grandbabies will be grown,or at least big enough to have a fighting chanch by then.

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