Ex Wife will not stop harassing new wife
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Hate the crazy ex wife

Loganville, GA

#22 Oct 31, 2011
Jacqueline112 wrote:
I am married now to a wonderfull man that has 4 children, however the x-wife will justnot stop.. she is a vet so she makes a boat load of cash, so she does any an everything to make our life misserable. she has pulled the kids from him over 6 times an told him that if I dont go he will not see them anymore, so we broke up everytime an not to mention she has bugged our office, truck, and house an is completely violatingour home? Now we r married an she has taken kids because he always paid her cash for childsupport an she turne around an said he hasnt been paying? So now we are married an she is at her worst an wont stop, i swear what she does should be agaisnt the law? He is a wonderfull father an love those kids like my own... Y cant she just STOP, she is even remarried an wont give up???
I am in the same situation my husnand has 1 biolgical child with his ex wife and they were divorced 4 years before we got together.. she is remarried to the man that she had an affair with and got pregnant by and she stll thinks that because my husband was a good enough man to take care of not only their child but also the one that is not his which by the way has my husbands last name not his father with whome he lives with... anyway he has always tried to take care of the children going as far as paying a mortgage for a house he never lived in and now that there is not as much money and he can not pay for his and her house anylonger and he is remarried to me she just can not stop she calls me and him constantly we finally had to block her numbers yes numbers she stalks my husbands daughter which is not her daughter tells the kids all kinds of nasty things about me and just goes on and on and on... it is to the point that i have considered just walking away from the marriage even though i love my husband.. We had a baby together almost 3 years ago and she actually went to the hospital even though no one invited her she tells my husbands son that our son is not his and that well pretty much she tells the kids that i am everything she is not me.. I am so tired of it and there is nothing leagally i can do in the state of georgia to stop her because acording to the courts she has not attempted to hurt anyone phisically nor has she made any threats to do harm...
holloweener

Tyler, TX

#23 Oct 31, 2011
What is his ex wife's name? So that we can all avoid this young lady.
Think About It

La Grange, KY

#24 Feb 28, 2012
Hate the crazy ex wife wrote:
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I am in the same situation my husnand has 1 biolgical child with his ex wife and they were divorced 4 years before we got together.. she is remarried to the man that she had an affair with and got pregnant by and she stll thinks that because my husband was a good enough man to take care of not only their child but also the one that is not his which by the way has my husbands last name not his father with whome he lives with... anyway he has always tried to take care of the children going as far as paying a mortgage for a house he never lived in and now that there is not as much money and he can not pay for his and her house anylonger and he is remarried to me she just can not stop she calls me and him constantly we finally had to block her numbers yes numbers she stalks my husbands daughter which is not her daughter tells the kids all kinds of nasty things about me and just goes on and on and on... it is to the point that i have considered just walking away from the marriage even though i love my husband.. We had a baby together almost 3 years ago and she actually went to the hospital even though no one invited her she tells my husbands son that our son is not his and that well pretty much she tells the kids that i am everything she is not me.. I am so tired of it and there is nothing leagally i can do in the state of georgia to stop her because acording to the courts she has not attempted to hurt anyone phisically nor has she made any threats to do harm...
Omg that sounds just like my husbands ex-wife! Karma has got her in the end though! I dealt with her for 12 and half years and now she is single with 6 kids from 3 different men and no one will have her and women who are married stay away from her due to her reputation. My husbands children are now grown and we don't have to deal with her drama any longer. Rest assured karma will come .
amy

United States

#25 Apr 11, 2012
Holy hell. Punctuation. Please use it.
sally wrote:
well it looks like i know someone just like her and the bad part of it she just got out of jail and she move in with her ex-husband in wills point and the ex girlfriend is very upset that this ex jail bird is livin with him now and she dont like this woman livin with her man i dont know what this ex jail bird did to have him get her back but im sure as a ex jail bird she found a way to mess with his head to take her back in what i know this woman have been trying hard to go back to her ex-husband for some months that's intill he gave up and toll his girlfriend she out of her
this ex jail bird is from gatesville jail and her name is deborah prater and now she back with her ex and ex-girlfriend stills gets calls from this woman and wont stop she did file charges but the cops have not dont notting about it
as i see it this ex-jail bird deborah prater needs to go back to jail and stay there and the woman can go back to her man i told her to dig up her past and find out what you can and use it on her im sure this deborah prater would not want nobody to find out about her past and what kind of con person she is i hope in time the ex-girlfriend will find something on her and get payback
what come's arouond goes around
good luck to the ex-girlfriend
Alex

Unanderra, Australia

#27 Jul 17, 2012
dummy wrote:
u cant just sue someone and claim MENTAL ANGUISH.
your post caused me mental anguish can i sue you?
ill bet youre one of those people that tries to sue mcdonalds for their coffee burning your mouth.
Mental anguish is something you can have due cause for legal action. So shut your mouth you c***t... I sued my partners ex for intentional infliction of mental anguish and won so
Lick my sack.
Alex

Unanderra, Australia

#28 Jul 17, 2012
Just someone wrote:
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First, "cops" don't prosecute. They file charge and the D.A. or County Attorney does the prosecution.
Secondly, police officers can't enforce a restraining order because it's a civil matter. Police can enforce a Protective Order because it's a criminal matter.
Third, you can't sue for harrassment. You can press charges for harrassment but it would be considered telephone harrassment and most of those cases will be put in File 13. Don't know what that means? Google it.
Lastly, mental anguish is hard to prove and you can't put a value on it. When you can't put a value on something you can't sue for it.
Learn the law before you start giving advice. Your advice sucks, at best, and no one should take anything you say seriously.
So your saying police can't arrest the woman if there was a restraining order in place and she was in violation of the conditions??? Hmmm well in Australia I can walk into a local court house state my case for a restraining order and off I go. And if that person breaks the conditions of the restraining order they get arrested by the police and then taken to court by the police where they will be prosecuted and charged. F**ck people are dumb
Just Someone

Sulphur Springs, TX

#29 Jul 18, 2012
Alex wrote:
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So your saying police can't arrest the woman if there was a restraining order in place and she was in violation of the conditions??? Hmmm well in Australia I can walk into a local court house state my case for a restraining order and off I go. And if that person breaks the conditions of the restraining order they get arrested by the police and then taken to court by the police where they will be prosecuted and charged. F**ck people are dumb
That's in AUSTRALIA. In TEXAS a restraining order is a civil matter and law enforcement officers don't enforce them. They tell you to go to your attorney or to the issuing judge and take it up with them. When the matter is taken before the judge then the judge can find them in contempt and choose to have them arrested or fined.

In TEXAS a protective order is issued because of domestic violence, sexual assault or stalking. There are other instances but these are the most common reasons. Officers do not have a choice but to arrest if a protective order has been violated. That is the law in TEXAS!



Andy

Greencastle, PA

#30 Dec 6, 2012
I have an x wife who will not let me alone. She sends me texts 11 in a row when I am at work,all of them dirty, putting me down. My nerves are shot!! Is there any legal way to make her stop? I can't take much more of this.
Jocelyn

Chino Hills, CA

#31 Apr 2, 2013
I think it is very sad that my husbands Ex-wife has such low self esteem that after 10 years of divorce she is still chasing him still claims to be married to him. She still does not have a man in her life yet and gone on with her life. She works so hard on trying to make my life miserable that she is only hurting herself and her children by making the choice of keeping her kids from seeing my husband. My quote has always been you can't hurt the people that think nothing of you. She is so out of control with her harrassment and step on a boundarie no one should ever do. She went to my daughters school and is getting my 8 year old
daughter involved. Working on Restraining order and PD called her and advise her she would go to jail if she goes to the school again. If she is that focus on my life really makes me wonder how focus is she with her own kids. Civil Harrasement can be stopped by filing restraining order.
Chanty

Somerset West, South Africa

#33 Sep 20, 2013
HI the all x's are psycho. Myself and hubby will be 15 years together and nxt week 4 years married. They have 2 sons which are adults already. She had an affair in marriage and when i met him he was seperated from her for about 4/5 years but still was living in the same house but who always gets the blame is the "new person in his life". We had a long fight the 2 of us with the x, hubby totally ignores but she jumps to me all the time, i tried to ignore cos she is no match for me LOL. Anyways she is constantly calling me and i never answer her calls but then she comes to my work. I had a peace order taken out against her couple of years ago but still no change. I can handle her its just not at the work place and to top it off she has a boyfriend in her life that lives in my hubbies house that he left in divorce agreement but for kids sake. O this is boyfriend number 2 after 1st affair but she is still so psycho as to say that i am the 1 who broke up her marriage that was not even in existence. She constantly harrass because of kids that is 23 and 18 both boys that is so messed up with crime and drugs. They blame their father but i blame her cause i am also a single mom of a 16 year old boy, his not my hubbies but my sons father is nowhere near active in his life but my son is an straigh A grade student in grade 10, excellent soccer player and athletic Western Province. So u tell me who do i give the credit to for my son's achivements...I just wish that the number 1's can get a life or get over yourself or deal with your guilt on your own. I believe always there is 2 sides to a story. Sally i say laugh it off and just be happy, that's what i am doing and oh she cannot handle it at all LOL!!Blessed day guys
Mrs A

Dallas, TX

#34 Oct 20, 2013
I have a good one! My husband, upon our agreement, designated me and his ex-wives sisters to pick up his daughter in leu of him picking up the child, because his ex-wife was always making accusations about him to me, and also we were afraid she would become so desperate that bc he hasnt given in to her and we are still together, she might even lie to the police and have criminal charges placed on him for who knows what. Now, my husbands babys mom is denying visitation and telling me in front of the police when they are called bc of interferance w child visitation that shes going to file a restraining order against me if i step on her porch again. lol. the officers told her both times that im only obeying to court order for me to pick up the child for her fathers visitation. we are in the process of getting an attorney for motion to enforce child visitation. but can she REALLY file a restraining order/harrasment charges bc im trying to pick up the child with the police there, as told to do by the attorney?
SEP

United States

#35 Oct 28, 2013
You can either continue being weak or stand up for yourself. Take proper steps get emotionally grounded and take control back. I have been in some awful situations due to emotional disaster choices of partners. The only thing that gets me through any hardship is the LORD. When you don't know him feels like walls are coming down. People are cruel and will always fail you be the bigger person and love thy enemy when ready. Know that you are doing all you can with the situation you have been dealt and if you are not then decide too. Take the first step try resolve the issues even if it takes 10 years. We all have faults but we can choose to make tomorrow better. Praying for anyone and everyone who has been in these painful situations.
Sep

United States

#36 Oct 28, 2013
You educate yourself with the laws and if it doesn't stop you proceed with the legal system. After all that's why its there. I had a similar situation a ex working in a correctional facility. Very emotionally grounded sneaky,unfaithful in marriage,abusive 3 different ways and more but he wore his polo well during the day. I ended the marriage completely after 4 years but the issues began in the first year of marriage. I was not grounded and made very poor choices in my 20s. However people do change and he is outstanding man now for our son. As for me it took me 9 years to get grounded emotionally because I did not want to divorce him and split up my family. Some of us can learn the first time or sometimes we choose hard road in life. Here's to the future and forgiveness of the past.

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