A letter to my ex husband

Posted in the Liberty Forum

Danielle

Lexington, KY

#1 Sep 19, 2010
Brian Monday,

I loved you and you betrayed me. You put your hands on me after you swore you never would, but I stuck around for a few months just hoping things would work out. They never did, because every time you said you would never do it again was a lie.

The sad thing is, I would probably have stayed around to get beat on if you hadn't done the ultimate betrayal. You ripped my heart out and handed it to the Kentucky State Police. It was supposed to be me and you against the world, no matter what. You were supposed to have my back and I yours, fighting or not. But as soon as things got rough, you threw me in the ditch.

I wanted to help you. I tried to help you. I gave you every opportunity you never had living at home: a ride to work, independence, and a chance to make your own money and actually get to save it to buy things you wanted. You never wanted to save because you never seemed to understand just how hard money is to come by.

You accused me of not supporting you because I wouldn't agree to opening a body shop with you, even though you had no idea the first thing about body work and we had no money. You said I thought no job you had was ever good enough, but I just wanted you to have SOME kind of job.

I'm not lying and you know it. I'm sick of the bickering and this nonsense that's going on. IT IS OVER. Now get over it. I don't care what you do, where you do it, how you do it, when you do it, or who you do it with. I don't care who your friends are or what anyone thinks about me for leaving a man that beat me and sold me out.

Leave me alone! I don't love you anymore, and I realize now that I was stupid for loving you in the first place. And even more stupid for trying to help you when you were perfectly content living in squalor.

I am sorry things didn't work out. Sh*t happens. It's time to move on with your life. I definitely have.

Best Wishes,

Your EX-Wife

P.S. I won't respond to any posts. I am not trying to make more trouble. This is strictly a letter I would like Brian to read, but due to the DVO, this is my only method of delivery.
need to know

United States

#2 Sep 20, 2010
yes you are trying to make trouble leve him a lone its over he dos want you you sick
family friend

Lexington, KY

#3 Sep 20, 2010
you dont know me but i got something to say anyway you did the right thing by divorcing him you are to young to have to start getting beat on by your husband infact they should never hit a woman at any age i hope you find you a good working decent man next time life is to short to have to live with someone who beats you and treats you wrong
good Luck

Lexington, KY

#4 Sep 20, 2010
need to know wrote:
yes you are trying to make trouble leve him a lone its over he dos want you you sick
I dont think shes trying to make trouble.I just read her letter.She is trying to tell her husband.In a decent calm way.Its over,and sorry it didnt work out.Let it be.They are both young,and can start over.No kids..Is a plus in this situation.My advise.Is like u said..Donot respond to anything on this site..Good Luck,and god bless.
well

Campbellsville, KY

#5 Sep 20, 2010
It only gives one side of the story so its spam to me.
cat

United States

#6 Sep 20, 2010
good Luck wrote:
<quoted text>I dont think shes trying to make trouble.I just read her letter.She is trying to tell her husband.In a decent calm way.Its over,and sorry it didnt work out.Let it be.They are both young,and can start over.No kids..Is a plus in this situation.My advise.Is like u said..Donot respond to anything on this site..Good Luck,and god bless.
she all ways on here about him dont know here or him
H_S_S

Lexington, KY

#7 Sep 20, 2010
you know I know the things she put him through too she treated him like sh*t too it was both of them not just one and she needs to realize its not all his fault it is just as much hers and she did not need to put this on here because he knows they are getting a divorce he told me last time I seen him and he was really happy about it he don't want her cant say I only blame him when it was both of them and he has moved on with his life and I am sure it does not involve her in it anymore it is best they go their separate ways and stay that way
what happens happens

Lexington, KY

#8 Sep 21, 2010
i no brian and danielle and i dont blame her i wouldnt put up wit it ethier so danielle stay strong girl it will be alright
Have a little HOPE

United States

#9 Sep 21, 2010
You probably wouldn't got your ass hit if you weren't screwing karl hoffman the whole damn time. You probably need to get checked to. Snap snap
tlc

Jefferson, GA

#10 Sep 22, 2010
lmao. now thats really funny. dani is one of my best friends. she HAS NEVER and WOULD NEVER screw carl hoffman. and they didn't talk at all until like a month after brian was gone and even then they were just friends cause brian went around sayin they was doin meth together. yeah...cause she's such a meth head...right. thats just more for brian to talk about. he is allways sayin bullsh*t about her, and only an idiot like you would believe it. w/e. that one never happend and never will. he needs to move on and leave her alone. she is very happy without him. she is back in school and working three diffrent places. what is he doing with hise life except trying to make hers harder?
Have a little HOPE wrote:
You probably wouldn't got your ass hit if you weren't screwing karl hoffman the whole damn time. You probably need to get checked to. Snap snap
bla

Corbin, KY

#11 Sep 22, 2010
drama, drama, drama
another

Lexington, KY

#12 Sep 22, 2010
I know about this whole thing and danielle you are so much better off!!! you couldnt even have friends or family while you were with him, you just hang in there it may be hard for a while but it will get way better!!!!!!! good luck hunny

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